2dugged:
the society and religious bodies have not been helpful either, but I believe this generation of women have more access to information, and things will not be "as usual" for wife beaters

helphelp:


Oh well. The fact that there's social media alone, has brought lots of abuse to limelight.

But some men though, heaven wonders what guts they built to ever touch their wives.

soberdrunk:


How do you live? How do you survive? Am always shocked when a Man says "i dont drink"! You stopped or you never started?

jaybee3:


The fear of getting drunk and not being in control of my actions was enough to stop me from getting started

bootylady101:
she said she "labored " with him

abeg how is that possible?

soberdrunk:


Dont take this the wrong way, are you a 'Straight" guy?

jaybee3:


Have you got beautiful sisters with obvious assets?

I'm actually very capable ya know

NnamdiiKanu:

Believe all this shiit at your own risk

Just like how Tonto Dike claimed that she was abused by her husband, meanwhile she was the one beating the shiit out of her husband in Ghana

Just like how Tiwa Savage was shedding crocodile tears on TV, she's now with her husband she claimed beat her

I repeat, stop fuccking other men if you're married, it will bring a lot of problems in your marriage

jaybee3:


Can you see your life now ehn?

Logic and common sense clearly shows a borrowed brain from a lesser animal is way better than having a non functional brain as it's basically stuck in your anus
Did they not teach you in primary school not to generalize especially on a topic with wide variance.
Bloody monkey!!!!

jaybee3:


They were together for a certain period right?

Being together and working towards a common goal = Laboring together or whatever you want to call it

Marriage is a partnership regardless of the weighted contribution by either party

soberdrunk:


Hehehe! If i give you my sister, you will start drinking

accountbalance:
These people are just discouraging person from marriage. This mercy na one person wey I dey take reason how my wife go be. Na so i dey reason tiwa and tee blizz that time until the matter open for outside.

Abeg, who be the people wey dey enjoy marriage cuz everyone just dey front, dey pretend.

PenisCaP:


Common shut ur mouth u cow. Hehehehe.
So u hav accepted dat u are goat dats why i asked u to borrow from a goat hehehehee.
Olodo.
Nomatta how a human is..he is still more useful than a goat.
EDUCATED OAF !!hehehhe.
U are talking abt generalisg when its what u and ur brothers do here everyday... now its paining u becox i have served u d same dish. Hehehehe.
MISETABLE HYPOCRITE. kill urself if u dnt like my comment.heheheh

bootylady101:


correct me if am wrong, the said lady, didn't add anything to the man but made him spend more and she met everything in place already, so please tell me where she labored? or to born pikin na labor?


for celebs, it's always the man buying, I haven't seen any high earning celebrity female buying anything from their purse for their spouse, yet they want gender equality, we women are our own problem

2dugged:
it's the society and traditions laid down by our misogynistic forefathers that gave them the guts, some cultures forbid women from returning to their fathers house after she has been given out in marriage, and then society sees a woman who leaves her husband for what so ever reason as impatient, intolerant and even a bad role model for her kids even if her leaving is to stay alive for her kids.

Afonjashapmouth:
Some ladies been managing domestic violence backing it.up with silly excuses meanwhile they know what they are doing, its all based on logistics..... What if she had died way back

helphelp:


Sad we have to deal with this kind of tradition.

But then, it's becoming rampant and people are beginning to put life first before any awkward tradition. At least people of our generation.

bootylady101:


for celebs, it's always the man buying, I haven't seen any high earning celebrity female buying anything from their purse for their spouse, yet they want gender equality, we women are our own problem

bootylady101:
she said she "labored " with him

abeg how is that possible?

Vicolan:




Hunmmmm can't just imagine a man beating her wife!!!!! So absurd .........Though some wives can be so silly too but I rather walk away with their palava things and come into the Hus later.....

helphelp:
When u sef collect another person husband.

You for go ask why the woman no drag the beast with you.

Meanwhile, kindly tell your husband to keep his reply to this simply by typing "ok" or with a yes or no. I can't be reading and having headache.

Or he should just hire an interpreter, he can voice in his local dialect and interpreter will help in typing.

Dude dey farabale shell for AFRICA

Afonjashapmouth:


The problem is ladies knows he has that traits but still proceed with d.marriage without dealing with it.

jaybee3:


Tiwa Savage, Toke or whatever her name is were the primary provider, No?

Gender equality isn't only about pay parity and everything isn't about money

Here is a scenario for you to ponder on, A family of 5 (husband + wife and 3 kids) where husband is the primary earner and the wife is a sit at home mum. He earns 500K a month and their childcare expense (after adjusting for the expense they would have otherwise incurred if the wife wasn't a full time mum) is roughly about 200K a month.

The net savings is the wife's contribution financially though hidden but will be laid bare during divorce proceedings

Vicolan:




Hunmmmm can't just imagine a man beating her wife!!!!! So absurd .........Though some wives can be so silly too but I rather walk away with their palava things and come into the Hus later.....

Vicolan:



Then should we call it love at first sight or greedy?