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Re: Mercy Aigbe Issues Public Statement on her domestic. by helphelp: 10:16am On May 05, 2017
2dugged:
the society and religious bodies have not been helpful either, but I believe this generation of women have more access to information, and things will not be "as usual" for wife beaters

Oh well. The fact that there's social media alone, has brought lots of abuse to limelight.

But some men though, heaven wonders what guts they built to ever touch their wives.
Re: Mercy Aigbe Issues Public Statement on her domestic. by happinesslove(m): 10:18am On May 05, 2017
This so called lady flaunting pictures in social media here and there looking for rich dudes is here complaining. Thunder fire you. Olosho
Re: Mercy Aigbe Issues Public Statement on her domestic. by Nobody: 10:21am On May 05, 2017
helphelp:


Oh well. The fact that there's social media alone, has brought lots of abuse to limelight.

But some men though, heaven wonders what guts they built to ever touch their wives.
it's the society and traditions laid down by our misogynistic forefathers that gave them the guts, some cultures forbid women from returning to their fathers house after she has been given out in marriage, and then society sees a woman who leaves her husband for what so ever reason as impatient, intolerant and even a bad role model for her kids even if her leaving is to stay alive for her kids.

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Re: Mercy Aigbe Issues Public Statement on her domestic. by jaybee3(m): 10:21am On May 05, 2017
soberdrunk:


How do you live? How do you survive? Am always shocked when a Man says "i dont drink"! You stopped or you never started?

The fear of getting drunk and not being in control of my actions was enough to stop me from getting started

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Re: Mercy Aigbe Issues Public Statement on her domestic. by soberdrunk(m): 10:23am On May 05, 2017
jaybee3:


The fear of getting drunk and not being in control of my actions was enough to stop me from getting started


Dont take this the wrong way, are you a 'Straight" guy?
Re: Mercy Aigbe Issues Public Statement on her domestic. by jaybee3(m): 10:24am On May 05, 2017
bootylady101:
she said she "labored " with him

abeg how is that possible?

They were together for a certain period right?

Being together and working towards a common goal = Laboring together or whatever you want to call it

Marriage is a partnership regardless of the weighted contribution by either party

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Re: Mercy Aigbe Issues Public Statement on her domestic. by jaybee3(m): 10:25am On May 05, 2017
soberdrunk:


Dont take this the wrong way, are you a 'Straight" guy?

Have you got beautiful sisters with obvious assets?

I'm actually very capable ya know tongue tongue tongue tongue tongue
Re: Mercy Aigbe Issues Public Statement on her domestic. by jconsulting(f): 10:27am On May 05, 2017
is like one lawyer is deceiving this woman, so she wan hit Master shi fu Jentry below the belt by using legal means to collobi his properties and making him pay fines , this will send a good signal to those men that thought dating celebrity is getting additional fame.

Master Shi fu Jentry pele ti e

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Re: Mercy Aigbe Issues Public Statement on her domestic. by soberdrunk(m): 10:27am On May 05, 2017
jaybee3:


Have you got beautiful sisters with obvious assets?

I'm actually very capable ya know tongue tongue tongue tongue tongue

Hehehe! If i give you my sister, you will start drinking cheesy
Re: Mercy Aigbe Issues Public Statement on her domestic. by DanseMacabre(m): 10:32am On May 05, 2017
Okay so now do we blame Buhari for this mess?
Re: Mercy Aigbe Issues Public Statement on her domestic. by CeeKay17: 10:33am On May 05, 2017
NnamdiiKanu:

Believe all this shiit at your own risk

Just like how Tonto Dike claimed that she was abused by her husband, meanwhile she was the one beating the shiit out of her husband in Ghana

Just like how Tiwa Savage was shedding crocodile tears on TV, she's now with her husband she claimed beat her

I repeat, stop fuccking other men if you're married, it will bring a lot of problems in your marriage
Tiwa categorically stated that her husband never touched her. Although there were verbal abuses. Next time get your facts right. Cheers.

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Re: Mercy Aigbe Issues Public Statement on her domestic. by PenisCaP: 10:35am On May 05, 2017
jaybee3:


Can you see your life now ehn?

Logic and common sense clearly shows a borrowed brain from a lesser animal is way better than having a non functional brain as it's basically stuck in your anus
Did they not teach you in primary school not to generalize especially on a topic with wide variance.
Bloody monkey!!!!

Common shut ur mouth u cow. Hehehehe.
So u hav accepted dat u are goat dats why i asked u to borrow from a goat hehehehee.
Olodo.
Nomatta how a human is..he is still more useful than a goat.
EDUCATED OAF !!hehehhe.
U are talking abt generalisg when its what u and ur brothers do here everyday... now its paining u becox i have served u d same dish. Hehehehe.
MISETABLE HYPOCRITE. kill urself if u dnt like my comment.heheheh
Re: Mercy Aigbe Issues Public Statement on her domestic. by bootylady101(f): 10:36am On May 05, 2017
jaybee3:


They were together for a certain period right?

Being together and working towards a common goal = Laboring together or whatever you want to call it

Marriage is a partnership regardless of the weighted contribution by either party

correct me if am wrong, the said lady, didn't add anything to the man but made him spend more and she met everything in place already, so please tell me where she labored? or to born pikin na labor?


for celebs, it's always the man buying, I haven't seen any high earning celebrity female buying anything from their purse for their spouse, yet they want gender equality, we women are our own problem

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Re: Mercy Aigbe Issues Public Statement on her domestic. by jaybee3(m): 10:37am On May 05, 2017
soberdrunk:


Hehehe! If i give you my sister, you will start drinking cheesy

That's a very fair incentive bro....

although, i don't need a stimulant to achieve desired result but nothing wrong with journeying into fakafuku land with henny + forbidden apples
Re: Mercy Aigbe Issues Public Statement on her domestic. by Missensie: 10:39am On May 05, 2017
accountbalance:
These people are just discouraging person from marriage. This mercy na one person wey I dey take reason how my wife go be. Na so i dey reason tiwa and tee blizz that time until the matter open for outside.

Abeg, who be the people wey dey enjoy marriage cuz everyone just dey front, dey pretend.

Ah! Na so I been dey look Toke and Maje, Tonto and Churchill, dey smile like mumu. I no know sey na front. I just tire abeg.

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Re: Mercy Aigbe Issues Public Statement on her domestic. by jaybee3(m): 10:40am On May 05, 2017
PenisCaP:


Common shut ur mouth u cow. Hehehehe.
So u hav accepted dat u are goat dats why i asked u to borrow from a goat hehehehee.
Olodo.
Nomatta how a human is..he is still more useful than a goat.
EDUCATED OAF !!hehehhe.
U are talking abt generalisg when its what u and ur brothers do here everyday... now its paining u becox i have served u d same dish. Hehehehe.
MISETABLE HYPOCRITE. kill urself if u dnt like my comment.heheheh

Thanks for wasting my time

Phew!!!!

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Re: Mercy Aigbe Issues Public Statement on her domestic. by jaybee3(m): 10:43am On May 05, 2017
bootylady101:


correct me if am wrong, the said lady, didn't add anything to the man but made him spend more and she met everything in place already, so please tell me where she labored? or to born pikin na labor?


for celebs, it's always the man buying, I haven't seen any high earning celebrity female buying anything from their purse for their spouse, yet they want gender equality, we women are our own problem

Finance isn't the only contribution to a marriage now

Would you marry someone that offers you nothing but money?

Moral support nko?

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Re: Mercy Aigbe Issues Public Statement on her domestic. by helphelp: 10:44am On May 05, 2017
2dugged:
it's the society and traditions laid down by our misogynistic forefathers that gave them the guts, some cultures forbid women from returning to their fathers house after she has been given out in marriage, and then society sees a woman who leaves her husband for what so ever reason as impatient, intolerant and even a bad role model for her kids even if her leaving is to stay alive for her kids.

Sad we have to deal with this kind of tradition.

But then, it's becoming rampant and people are beginning to put life first before any awkward tradition. At least people of our generation.

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Re: Mercy Aigbe Issues Public Statement on her domestic. by Vicolan: 10:45am On May 05, 2017
Afonjashapmouth:
Some ladies been managing domestic violence backing it.up with silly excuses meanwhile they know what they are doing, its all based on logistics..... What if she had died way back



Hunmmmm can't just imagine a man beating his wife!!!!! So absurd .........Though some wives can be so silly too but I rather walk away with their palava things and come into the Hus later.....

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Re: Mercy Aigbe Issues Public Statement on her domestic. by taiwolovers: 10:45am On May 05, 2017
I WONDER Y MOST CELEBRITIES DON`T HAVE HAPPY HOME.
Re: Mercy Aigbe Issues Public Statement on her domestic. by danabdu(m): 10:48am On May 05, 2017
no one knows thr truth and i will not support one side and leave the other..dere re always two side of the coin
Re: Mercy Aigbe Issues Public Statement on her domestic. by Nobody: 10:54am On May 05, 2017
helphelp:


Sad we have to deal with this kind of tradition.

But then, it's becoming rampant and people are beginning to put life first before any awkward tradition. At least people of our generation.
that's why it erks me to my bones when some guys want to start comparing this generation of women to our mothers. Forgetting they were actually tamed under the guise of traditions. Anyway, like you said, this generation has learned from past generation, life first
Re: Mercy Aigbe Issues Public Statement on her domestic. by jaybee3(m): 10:57am On May 05, 2017
bootylady101:


for celebs, it's always the man buying, I haven't seen any high earning celebrity female buying anything from their purse for their spouse, yet they want gender equality, we women are our own problem

Tiwa Savage, Toke or whatever her name is were the primary provider, No?

Gender equality isn't only about pay parity and everything isn't about money

Here is a scenario for you to ponder on, A family of 5 (husband + wife and 3 kids) where husband is the primary earner and the wife is a sit at home mum. He earns 500K a month and their childcare expense (after adjusting for the expense they would have otherwise incurred if the wife wasn't a full time mum) is roughly about 200K a month.

The net savings is the wife's contribution financially though hidden but will be laid bare during divorce proceedings
Re: Mercy Aigbe Issues Public Statement on her domestic. by Excuzeme: 10:58am On May 05, 2017
bootylady101:
she said she "labored " with him

abeg how is that possible?

He was trying to give birth and she "pushed" with him, till the baby came out! grin grin grin

Its only when relationship break down, you hear such statements from women...always women.
Re: Mercy Aigbe Issues Public Statement on her domestic. by Afonjashapmouth: 11:01am On May 05, 2017
Vicolan:




Hunmmmm can't just imagine a man beating her wife!!!!! So absurd .........Though some wives can be so silly too but I rather walk away with their palava things and come into the Hus later.....

The problem is ladies knows he has that traits but still proceed with d.marriage without dealing with it.
Re: Mercy Aigbe Issues Public Statement on her domestic. by thunderbabs: 11:03am On May 05, 2017
What's even wrong with everybody sef?

First, Na Pastor Suleiman and Stephanie
Then, Tonto dikeh n husband
Now, Mercy aigbe n husband
Later, ....... And ..........

Nonsense

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Re: Mercy Aigbe Issues Public Statement on her domestic. by teebarbie(f): 11:13am On May 05, 2017
helphelp:
When u sef collect another person husband.

You for go ask why the woman no drag the beast with you.

Meanwhile, kindly tell your husband to keep his reply to this simply by typing "ok" or with a yes or no. I can't be reading and having headache.

Or he should just hire an interpreter, he can voice in his local dialect and interpreter will help in typing.

Dude dey farabale shell for AFRICA
You're wicked. kuku kee me cos I'm almost dieing of laughter here
Re: Mercy Aigbe Issues Public Statement on her domestic. by Vicolan: 11:13am On May 05, 2017
Afonjashapmouth:


The problem is ladies knows he has that traits but still proceed with d.marriage without dealing with it.


Then should we call it love at first sight or greedy?
Re: Mercy Aigbe Issues Public Statement on her domestic. by Excuzeme: 11:19am On May 05, 2017
jaybee3:


Tiwa Savage, Toke or whatever her name is were the primary provider, No?

Gender equality isn't only about pay parity and everything isn't about money

Here is a scenario for you to ponder on, A family of 5 (husband + wife and 3 kids) where husband is the primary earner and the wife is a sit at home mum. He earns 500K a month and their childcare expense (after adjusting for the expense they would have otherwise incurred if the wife wasn't a full time mum) is roughly about 200K a month.

The net savings is the wife's contribution financially though hidden but will be laid bare during divorce proceedings




Chineke God! You will never pass Mathematics, if you go on this way! grin grin

See it here:

Let us assume both of them are working, earn equal amounts (250K each), contribute equal amount to 'expenses' and their 'expenses', including paying for childcare, is 200K.

So, each person, after deducting "expenses" (100K each), is still left with 150K each.

This means that, AT BEST, even if she does not spend a penny on herself (individual expense), the saving she can contribute (maximum) cannot be higher than what she earns, which is 150K a month.

Now, imagine when she was not working (only the man was working).....and you said the remainder of the man's salary of 300K is her contribution to the family?

Again, in coming to such "financial contribution", the court looks at the "earning power" of the other spouse (wife).
If the Husband is a CEO banker who earns 5M annually before marriage and the wife is a "School Cert" holder before marriage, the court is aware that NO Miracle will make her earn as much as the husband, if they are both working fully.

So, sharing the assets equally is just a form of injustice meted out to Men in European countries/American...... to keep them on the "leash" and make them enslaved to an abusive relationship.

And it is not surprising that when such "enslaved men" cant take it anymore, they resort to Violence.

The proper thing is to make DIVORCE (EQUITABLE DIVORCE) easy for any of the parties such that if you think you dont want your husband or wife anymore, you simply walk-away by getting a divorce.


But a situation where women see "Marriage and Divorce" as a financial ticket or Pension, causes them to make "mistakes" in choosing a marriage partner
(they all prefer the rich one even if it is obvious he has anger issues; they say 'I do' to the one they are not even in-love with, as long as he is loaded!, e.t.c) ...and this 'mistake; is further enhanced by Divorce Laws which guarantees them a large chunk, if not everything the man has worked for, including access to his children (Most women already have divorce on their mind, even before they get married to a guy since they know that they can just feign some 'violence' and all his wealth will become theirs).

In "equitable divorce", women will either chose their husbands wisely or behave properly in marriage, to make the marriage work...... because their wont be any "golden handshake" at the end of the day. We all know who benefits financially, most of the times, in a divorce.

Is "pre-marriage agreement" a panacea? Not really but it helps.

I know your partner will ensure you dont even think along that line when you are planning to marry (she would sit on your laps and say: Darling, is it that you dont trust me at all" ...... and you would say "I trust you love"! And that is you, losing your life-line when she decides she needs to change you for someone else! grin grin

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Re: Mercy Aigbe Issues Public Statement on her domestic. by Excuzeme: 11:29am On May 05, 2017
Vicolan:




Hunmmmm can't just imagine a man beating her wife!!!!! So absurd .........Though some wives can be so silly too but I rather walk away with their palava things and come into the Hus later.....

Are you saying you have never heard (even lets assume you have not witnessed) where a Husband is trying to "walk-away" to go and have fresh air (to try and subside the anger!) and the woman blocks the exit, seize the door key and lock his shirt all around his throat?

What are you gonna do in such scenario, Mr. Walk-away?

If you are a man, just pray never to encounter a "cantankerous woman:, as a wife

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Re: Mercy Aigbe Issues Public Statement on her domestic. by Afonjashapmouth: 11:33am On May 05, 2017
Vicolan:



Then should we call it love at first sight or greedy?

Its greediness, enduring the pain for.money because they are biopic about their own future and trust me an abuser increases rate if u can stand the current.

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