After all what are neighbours for?

Op one thing I've come to understand about abuse is there is no remorse from the guy tho he may show it on the outside....my advice is she should not go back to him but get a divorce ASAP because if it gets worse she'll be dead.....[b][/b]MY OPINION THO.

MrEgbegbe:

Your Aunt had sex with the neighbor and probably had a son for the neighbor

You think a husband would wake up one day and start accusing his wife ?? The husband has seen something that made his suspect that the child is not his

Maybe the husband didn't sleep with your Aunt for 2 months and your Aunt suddenly jumped out of nowhere to say she's pregnant

And you think a woman would stand to take that kind of accusation without leaving the husband the following day ??

She's even volunteering to pay for the DNA

The husband should get a DNA and divorce that lying ass good for nothing Aunt

Bros, it seems you know more than you are letting or the story has hit a spot.

Dem use the matter send you message?

The biggest problem in this matter is the fact that you are considering remarriage at this stage. Ur aunt is a perfect target for a bad husband. Unemployed and afraid to stand alone. If her husband is so aggressive, why is she even talking to d tenant? DNA my foot. If d child is for her husband It doesn't mean she wasn't sleeping with tentant. The husband has a disorder and he wld never change.

newcreatio:


Please how old are you? Are you a graduate? Who train you? Your thoughts are not syncing well with your story. Its like saying I escaped ritual killers, but they have been arrested, I am pitying them, should I drop the case and go back to their den? Shey Òdé ni é ni?

you don't need to insult me before you make a point.

I think it is high time people lean to handle their issues​ in house.

Nope you aunt should quit the marriage.. we were just told a story by a very good divorce lawyer.. of this beat and beg story.. it was even the mother that was saying she should go back..
Let me tell you how it ended. Due to the incessant beating, they never knewthe lady had internal bleeding and the husband beat her again this time she went blind. And into coma. She never came back.. if your folks want a good divorce lawyer. Jus pm me.. good luck

rosalieene:
Your Opinion Is Needed Please Help


My aunt(mum's last sibling) has been having issues with her husband since she got married. She has two kids, a girl(2 yrs old) and a boy(1 yr old). The girl looks like her husband, the boy looks like her husband's brother.

Apart from the other issues they have been having, there is a particular issue that tore them apart. When the boy was born, the husband has been accusing her of sleeping with a man who stays in the same house with them (a room was leased to him), he said the man is the real father of the son.

My aunt asked for a DNA test to be ran but then he shouted and was saying will she provide the money for the test. Least I forget, my aunt isn't doing anything since she got married to him. He didn't want her to work but to depend on him. Most times he doesn't give her money for feeding and upkeep..she usually run to my uncles(her brothers) they give her money. It was also because of him my granny died( she developed high bp when she came for omugwo because of the way she was treated, everyday she comes to my house and my mum gives her food).

Due to the accusations and other issues, last month instead of a DNA test, the hubby ran a genotype and blood group test and his matched with the little baby's own. later on, the man kept on insisting that the little boy is not his son as he calls him "Dada" instead of "daddy".

This time around he started accusing my aunt of sleeping with his brother and an Uncle of his. He even beats the children at any slight provocation.

On wednesday around midnight, 2:30am to be precise according to her, he came to her room and started dragging her, beating her up, strangling her, threatening to kill her even said he doesn't mind going to jail if he kills her. He was beating her and asking who was the father of the boy. He seized her phone too. Her eyes were swollen plus other injuries on her body.The next day when my uncles got to know what happened, they sent my sis to go help her pack up her stuffs and since then my aunt and her kids had been in my house. My uncles were looking for good divorce lawyers as my aunt has made up her mind not to go back to the hubby because she might die in his hands.

Last night the husband came to my house pleading, kneeling down, begging and crying. he refused to go home even till 10pm. he said he wanted his wife and kids back. he kept pleading for a second chance and kept saying he doesn't want to marry another wife... but my dad insisted he leaves the house. he was even denied access to his kids.I felt pity for the man.

Now, do you think he deserves a second chance? do you think he was really remorseful? or do you think she should go on with the divorce case? she is really at cross roads now and confused. Me for one, I don't support divorce but I don't expect someone to keep tolerating domestic violence and loose her life. Do you think she would remarry after the divorce? she had operation during the birth of her kids so she is not really in good shape so do you think any man will look at her? I am also confused on her behalf.

Your Aunt husband has ran mad. He needs urgently a psychiatrist attention.

So, how should we help?

Tell your aunty to beware of that man. His irrational, get a psychiatric doctor for him

MrEgbegbe:

Your Aunt had sex with the neighbor and probably had a son for the neighbor

You think a husband would wake up one day and start accusing his wife ?? The husband has seen something that made his suspect that the child is not his

Maybe the husband didn't sleep with your Aunt for 2 months and your Aunt suddenly jumped out of nowhere to say she's pregnant

And you think a woman would stand to take that kind of accusation without leaving the husband the following day ??

She's even volunteering to pay for the DNA

The husband should get a DNA and divorce that lying ass good for nothing Aunt

excuse me!
Daretodiffer, where art thou?

She should run for her life while she can. Such men don't change. The next he does this she will end up in a body bag ready for the morgue.

This happened to a friend of mine, she paid with her life.

The guy is a serious case of a sociopath

MrEgbegbe:

Your Aunt had sex with the neighbor and probably had a son for the neighbor

You think a husband would wake up one day and start accusing his wife ?? The husband has seen something that made his suspect that the child is not his

Maybe the husband didn't sleep with your Aunt for 2 months and your Aunt suddenly jumped out of nowhere to say she's pregnant

And you think a woman would stand to take that kind of accusation without leaving the husband the following day ??

She's even volunteering to pay for the DNA

The husband should get a DNA and divorce that lying ass good for nothing Aunt

You are as confused as your namesake, that iphone klepto rotting in prison called Egbegbe.

The man is a psycho.
Let him go and marry another woman that would have kids for him since he claims these ones are not his. Maaaaaddd man!

As for you, so the fact that he killed your grandma is not enough? Stay there and be pitying him. In fact, you can replace your aunty in his house out of "pity". Mtcheew!!

The man is mentally ill; delusional disorder, and infidelity is a common theme in them. Going back to him without treatment can have grave consequence as sufferers often harm their spouses/partners based on the delusion. Please take him to a psychiatric hospital for evaluation and treatment.

Op, since you think it is right to forgive an abusive husband, next, don't come here to post her obituary.

If she goes back to that house, the man would end up killing her. I witnessed a case like this whereby the man came back pleading that they should forgive and allow his wife to come back. Some people now agreed to allow the lady go back to the house as they said that it was a husband and wife issue and they should settle it. The next call was her death and there was nothing to bring back the dead.

You can allow her go back and prepare for her obituary.

If he kills your aunt would you still feel pity for him? People like that never change. Please let her move on with her life.

rosalieene:
Your Opinion Is Needed Please Help


My aunt(mum's last sibling) has been having issues with her husband since she got married. She has two kids, a girl(2 yrs old) and a boy(1 yr old). The girl looks like her husband, the boy looks like her husband's brother.

Apart from the other issues they have been having, there is a particular issue that tore them apart. When the boy was born, the husband has been accusing her of sleeping with a man who stays in the same house with them (a room was leased to him), he said the man is the real father of the son.

My aunt asked for a DNA test to be ran but then he shouted and was saying will she provide the money for the test. Least I forget, my aunt isn't doing anything since she got married to him. He didn't want her to work but to depend on him. Most times he doesn't give her money for feeding and upkeep..she usually run to my uncles(her brothers) they give her money. It was also because of him my granny died( she developed high bp when she came for omugwo because of the way she was treated, everyday she comes to my house and my mum gives her food).

Due to the accusations and other issues, last month instead of a DNA test, the hubby ran a genotype and blood group test and his matched with the little baby's own. later on, the man kept on insisting that the little boy is not his son as he calls him "Dada" instead of "daddy".

This time around he started accusing my aunt of sleeping with his brother and an Uncle of his. He even beats the children at any slight provocation.

On wednesday around midnight, 2:30am to be precise according to her, he came to her room and started dragging her, beating her up, strangling her, threatening to kill her even said he doesn't mind going to jail if he kills her. He was beating her and asking who was the father of the boy. He seized her phone too. Her eyes were swollen plus other injuries on her body.The next day when my uncles got to know what happened, they sent my sis to go help her pack up her stuffs and since then my aunt and her kids had been in my house. My uncles were looking for good divorce lawyers as my aunt has made up her mind not to go back to the hubby because she might die in his hands.

Last night the husband came to my house pleading, kneeling down, begging and crying. he refused to go home even till 10pm. he said he wanted his wife and kids back. he kept pleading for a second chance and kept saying he doesn't want to marry another wife... but my dad insisted he leaves the house. he was even denied access to his kids.I felt pity for the man.

Now, do you think he deserves a second chance? do you think he was really remorseful? or do you think she should go on with the divorce case? she is really at cross roads now and confused. Me for one, I don't support divorce but I don't expect someone to keep tolerating domestic violence and loose her life. Do you think she would remarry after the divorce? she had operation during the birth of her kids so she is not really in good shape so do you think any man will look at her? I am also confused on her behalf.

One of the reasons why I will never be a house wife
Most men don't value their wives when she depends fully on him
All women should get themselves busy with one thing or the other even though the money they we get may not be that much

rosalieene:
Your Opinion Is Needed Please Help


My aunt(mum's last sibling) has been having issues with her husband since she got married. She has two kids, a girl(2 yrs old) and a boy(1 yr old). The girl looks like her husband, the boy looks like her husband's brother.

Apart from the other issues they have been having, there is a particular issue that tore them apart. When the boy was born, the husband has been accusing her of sleeping with a man who stays in the same house with them (a room was leased to him), he said the man is the real father of the son.

My aunt asked for a DNA test to be ran but then he shouted and was saying will she provide the money for the test. Least I forget, my aunt isn't doing anything since she got married to him. He didn't want her to work but to depend on him. Most times he doesn't give her money for feeding and upkeep..she usually run to my uncles(her brothers) they give her money. It was also because of him my granny died( she developed high bp when she came for omugwo because of the way she was treated, everyday she comes to my house and my mum gives her food).

Due to the accusations and other issues, last month instead of a DNA test, the hubby ran a genotype and blood group test and his matched with the little baby's own. later on, the man kept on insisting that the little boy is not his son as he calls him "Dada" instead of "daddy".

This time around he started accusing my aunt of sleeping with his brother and an Uncle of his. He even beats the children at any slight provocation.

On wednesday around midnight, 2:30am to be precise according to her, he came to her room and started dragging her, beating her up, strangling her, threatening to kill her even said he doesn't mind going to jail if he kills her. He was beating her and asking who was the father of the boy. He seized her phone too. Her eyes were swollen plus other injuries on her body.The next day when my uncles got to know what happened, they sent my sis to go help her pack up her stuffs and since then my aunt and her kids had been in my house. My uncles were looking for good divorce lawyers as my aunt has made up her mind not to go back to the hubby because she might die in his hands.

Last night the husband came to my house pleading, kneeling down, begging and crying. he refused to go home even till 10pm. he said he wanted his wife and kids back. he kept pleading for a second chance and kept saying he doesn't want to marry another wife... but my dad insisted he leaves the house. he was even denied access to his kids.I felt pity for the man.

Now, do you think he deserves a second chance? do you think he was really remorseful? or do you think she should go on with the divorce case? she is really at cross roads now and confused. Me for one, I don't support divorce but I don't expect someone to keep tolerating domestic violence and loose her life. Do you think she would remarry after the divorce? she had operation during the birth of her kids so she is not really in good shape so do you think any man will look at her? I am also confused on her behalf.

Na so e take dey start, one day e go carry knife butcher the poor woman.

No second chance for a wife beater. If you love your Aunt assist her to get a divorce or be ready to bury her.

A second chance wud b to kill her and her kids . u can quote me later.

the man wants d Anty back so DAT he will kill her.I heard of such similar case.d man begged go two year after beating and sending d wife packing.They reconciled only for d woman to go back and after one week d man beat her to d point of strangling her .The kids begged d father not to kill d er mum but he told dem he only brought her back to put an end to her.miraculously d woman got hold of a plank nearby and hit d man and he fainted.he latter wake up at police station and told dem DAT rather die Dan see d woman roaming d face of this world. DAT was d end of der marriage.




















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I would never advise your sister to go back. The husband is a ticking time bomb!!Your sister knows what really went down and the husband is sure but also very jealous and wicked. I fear for your sister. Im not calling her a saint . How could he sublet a room in his apartment to a guy he dont 100% trust and your wife is 24 hours at home. Her husband shaaa simply put kolo mental. I wonder how some people will marry a man who will say dont work , dont go , dont eat that , dont and dont trust your ..
His begging na drama.. I fear for your sister.

You just presented a case of a mentally sick patient that you guys ought to take to a Psychiatric hospital, you are waiting until removes his trousers and enter the market square for a dance of the unseen visitors.
Make your sister no go back there o, until una seek medical help for that man.

So because d lil baby calls him Dada instead of daddy dats y he thinks he is not his son......I swear bomb dey his head and u sef nah missle dey ur own head.So u want to carry d body of ur aunty down 6feet n render her kids motherless b4 u know its time 4 her to quite d marriage.My dear sister ur uncles should get a good lawyer not just 4 d divorce alone but other damages should be included.

rosalieene:
Your Opinion Is Needed Please Help


My aunt(mum's last sibling) has been having issues with her husband since she got married. She has two kids, a girl(2 yrs old) and a boy(1 yr old). The girl looks like her husband, the boy looks like her husband's brother.

Apart from the other issues they have been having, there is a particular issue that tore them apart. When the boy was born, the husband has been accusing her of sleeping with a man who stays in the same house with them (a room was leased to him), he said the man is the real father of the son.

My aunt asked for a DNA test to be ran but then he shouted and was saying will she provide the money for the test. Least I forget, my aunt isn't doing anything since she got married to him. He didn't want her to work but to depend on him. Most times he doesn't give her money for feeding and upkeep..she usually run to my uncles(her brothers) they give her money. It was also because of him my granny died( she developed high bp when she came for omugwo because of the way she was treated, everyday she comes to my house and my mum gives her food).

Due to the accusations and other issues, last month instead of a DNA test, the hubby ran a genotype and blood group test and his matched with the little baby's own. later on, the man kept on insisting that the little boy is not his son as he calls him "Dada" instead of "daddy".

This time around he started accusing my aunt of sleeping with his brother and an Uncle of his. He even beats the children at any slight provocation.

On wednesday around midnight, 2:30am to be precise according to her, he came to her room and started dragging her, beating her up, strangling her, threatening to kill her even said he doesn't mind going to jail if he kills her. He was beating her and asking who was the father of the boy. He seized her phone too. Her eyes were swollen plus other injuries on her body.The next day when my uncles got to know what happened, they sent my sis to go help her pack up her stuffs and since then my aunt and her kids had been in my house. My uncles were looking for good divorce lawyers as my aunt has made up her mind not to go back to the hubby because she might die in his hands.

Last night the husband came to my house pleading, kneeling down, begging and crying. he refused to go home even till 10pm. he said he wanted his wife and kids back. he kept pleading for a second chance and kept saying he doesn't want to marry another wife... but my dad insisted he leaves the house. he was even denied access to his kids.I felt pity for the man.

Now, do you think he deserves a second chance? do you think he was really remorseful? or do you think she should go on with the divorce case? she is really at cross roads now and confused. Me for one, I don't support divorce but I don't expect someone to keep tolerating domestic violence and loose her life. Do you think she would remarry after the divorce? she had operation during the birth of her kids so she is not really in good shape so do you think any man will look at her? I am also confused on her behalf.

Op it's obvious this story is about you and your husband. I hope you did not go back to your husband. He will become your murderer one day.

FortuneTeller:


Op it's obvious this story is about you and your husband. I hope you did not go back to your husband. He will become your murderer one day.

Lol you are very funny

I am not married and I won't lie and assume am someone else

MrEgbegbe:

Your Aunt had sex with the neighbor and probably had a son for the neighbor

You think a husband would wake up one day and start accusing his wife ?? The husband has seen something that made his suspect that the child is not his

Maybe the husband didn't sleep with your Aunt for 2 months and your Aunt suddenly jumped out of nowhere to say she's pregnant

And you think a woman would stand to take that kind of accusation without leaving the husband the following day ??

She's even volunteering to pay for the DNA

The husband should get a DNA and divorce that lying ass good for nothing Aunt

some men are very good at that even without evidence
Remember many are mad but few are roaming (that's where this man belong) he is mentally deranged

Your Aunty as skeleton in her cupboard. The DNA should be done. Atleast before the divorce.

mctowel01:
One thing I ve learnt with relationship stories online is that, the reporting party often plays the victim, while totally painting the other spouse bad. The reporting spouse is always innocent or with a very "minor" offence while the other is always a demon, a heartless demon. For all I care, OP doesn't have enough facts to make judgement. I bet we will call the woman wicked if we also hear the husband's side of the story Everyone feels sanctimonious when reporting an issue. Be wise.

You re so on point. Some women derive joy in demonising their husbands.