With painful and sorrowful heart and a trembling fingers do i type this...

My dad sister died by 8pm lastnight...and guess her murderers?...her CHILDREN...yea u saw it right,they killed their mother with hatred,quarreling,fighting,heart break,matreatment and disunity...

I will make this brief...This lovely woman has got 7 children that are all grown up, but since they grew up to know what's right and wrong,they have been living like cats and mouse...d first daughter(second child) turned all her siblings against the first son,she manipulated them into hatred for their own blood brother and since then there have been fighting and quarreling among themselves.

The mother(a widow) tried everything within her power to unite them but it was like a rolling stone that gathereth nothing...she cried,she cursed,she did everything just for her family to be united again but the eldest daughter was adamant and strong headed!

That lovely woman started having one series of illness to another,she barely eat,she barely sleep but she always think...and that was wha led to her painful death...my dad woke up around 3 am,this morning shivering and gasping for breathe,he saw her in his dream,she was in pain,she was crying uncontrollable but she wasnt able to speak a word...

Now tell me,will her children ever have peace in this life?

parents are either a curse or a blessing to their children,it depends solely on the children on whatever option they choose...pls let's stop causing pain and agony to those that brought us to this world,cause the burden will be too heavy for us to carry after their demise...

My dear your conclusion was very WRONG.... the whole concept of PARENT-CHILD relationships is Train UP a child in the way he should go and when he is older he won't depart from it
The story is a sad and pathetic one and am sorry for the death of the dear woman BUT Everything rises and falls on TRAINING.

In many home it is the father that is the disciplinarian but the MUM soft and can bend discipline to soothe her childrens' comfort
If they were TRAINED... I MEAN THE REAL AFRICAN TOUGH TRAINING...even if they were thugs outside... THEY WOULD DO EVERYTHING TO MAKE THEIR MUM HAPPY.

SOW GOOD DISCIPLINED TRAINING IN TO A CHILD TODAY AND YOU WILL REAP A MATURE WISE ADULT TOMORROW.
Maybe now she is dead, they will see how harsh their attitudes were and put it all away.

America is a clear example of pampered childhood... INDISCIPLINE is just as high as CREATIVITY... hence gay, lezbian and even all sorts of vices are learned from there.

THIS IS A LESSON FOR ALL.

refiner:
With painful and sorrowful heart and a trembling fingers do i type this...

My dad sister died by 8pm lastnight...and guess her murderers?...her CHILDREN...yea u saw it right,they killed their mother with hatred,quarreling,fighting,heart break,matreatment and disunity...

I will make this brief...This lovely woman has got 7 children that are all grown up, but since they grew up to know what's right and wrong,they have been living like cats and mouse...d first daughter(second child) turned all her siblings against the first son,she manipulated them into hatred for their own blood brother and since then there have been fighting and quarreling among themselves.

The mother(a widow) tried everything within her power to unite them but it was like a rolling stone that gathereth nothing...she cried,she cursed,she did everything just for her family to be united again but the eldest daughter was adamant and strong headed!

That lovely woman started having one series of illness to another,she barely eat,she barely sleep but she always think...and that was wha led to her painful death...my dad woke up around 3 am,this morning shivering and gasping for breathe,he saw her in his dream,she was in pain,she was crying uncontrollable but she wasnt able to speak a word...

Now tell me,will her children ever have peace in this life?

parents are either a curse or a blessing to their children,it depends solely on the children on whatever option they choose...pls let's stop causing pain and agony to those that brought us to this world,cause the burden will be too heavy for us to carry after their demise...
Cc lalasticlala...

Refiner!!. Refiner !! Refiner!!..
How may times i called u.

RIP TO D DEAD SHAA!

greatnaija01:
My dear your conclusion was very WRONG.... the whole concept of PARENT-CHILD relationships is Train UP a child in the way he should go and when he is older he won't depart from it
The story is a sad and pathetic one and am sorry for the death of the dear woman BUT Everything rises and falls on TRAINING.

In many home it is the father that is the disciplinarian but the MUM soft and can bend discipline to soothe her childrens' comfort
If they were TRAINED... I MEAN THE REAL AFRICAN TOUGH TRAINING...even if they were thugs outside... THEY WOULD DO EVERYTHING TO MAKE THEIR MUM HAPPY.

SOW GOOD DISCIPLINED TRAINING IN TO A CHILD TODAY AND YOU WILL REAP A MATURE WISE ADULT TOMORROW.
Maybe now she is dead, they will see how harsh their attitudes were and put it all away.

America is a clear example of pampered childhood... INDISCIPLINE is just as high as CREATIVITY... hence gay, lezbian and even all sorts of vices are learned from there.

THIS IS A LESSON FOR ALL.

Her husband died very early...she trained them all single handedly...she was very strict and a beautiful christian but her eldest daughter had a fight with the first son and she manipulated the younger siblings against him...

This girl so because say ur aunty die u call lala to carry am go fp

RIP to her
her children will know say half wrapper is beta dan none

Death is death...
No matter the cause or reason behind the death.
Death is an inevitable end which every living being must taste.
Dust we are, and dust we shall all return.

RIP to the death.

Tht is life

If your story is true..She has her own children too..Law of Karma will definitely take it course..

rip to her

God rest her soul

ehyaaa, sorry about that. may God her loved ones the fortitude to bear the loss

end time children

Rip. I have to say she didn't do a good job training them. I speak from experience. Paying school fees and training up children in love are totally different. I know a family like this, all grown up but no love amongst them.
As a parent the most important thing is to train your kids to love themselves. Even if they quarrel they will make up in no time. This is the tiny stuff a lot of people miss. Once you notice them drifting apart start by dishing their food on a big tray. Teach them to eat together and do chores together.

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Rip to the dead!


...and sorry for your loss...

But whenever i see people having riotous children...i ask what have they done to deserve it? ..payback? Affliction? Abi why would they love to make their mother's life a hell hole?!

greatnaija01:
My dear your conclusion was very WRONG.... the whole concept of PARENT-CHILD relationships is Train UP a child in the way he should go and when he is older he won't depart from it
The story is a sad and pathetic one and am sorry for the death of the dear woman BUT Everything rises and falls on TRAINING.

In many home it is the father that is the disciplinarian but the MUM soft and can bend discipline to soothe her childrens' comfort
If they were TRAINED... I MEAN THE REAL AFRICAN TOUGH TRAINING...even if they were thugs outside... THEY WOULD DO EVERYTHING TO MAKE THEIR MUM HAPPY.

SOW GOOD DISCIPLINED TRAINING IN TO A CHILD TODAY AND YOU WILL REAP A MATURE WISE ADULT TOMORROW.
Maybe now she is dead, they will see how harsh their attitudes were and put it all away.

America is a clear example of pampered childhood... INDISCIPLINE is just as high as CREATIVITY... hence gay, lezbian and even all sorts of vices are learned from there.

THIS IS A LESSON FOR ALL.

Some children will never go the way you have trained atimes. It takes God grace. The children that do drugs or pastor's kids that act porn... what would you say about them??

I blamed your aunt!

let assumed she has raised them the way they should go.. it won't be like this

Another reason maybe she had preferred the first child to everyone else which may also cause hatred

Parents it's OK to prefer a child to the other but please don't let it show. Handle all with equal hands then the equation will be balanced.

Your opinion though,

Go bury ur aunt and leave us out of this issue please!!!

bbeautylik:
I blamed your aunt!

let assumed she has raised them the way they should go.. it won't be like this

Another reason maybe she had preferred the first child to everyone else which may also cause hatred

Parents it's OK to prefer a child to the other but please don't let it show. Handle all with equal hands than the equation will be balance.

lets stop this the way they should go. I have seen pastor's kids turn drug addict. I have seen the children of tough fathers getting pregnant. if a child wants to be bad, he will be bad. I am not saying training is not important. A rebel will be a rebel no matter the training.

greatnaija01:
My dear your conclusion was very WRONG.... the whole concept of PARENT-CHILD relationships is "Train UP a child in the way he should go"

u stil dy believ dz tin?

If na true say e dey work u neva see as teachers/pastors children dy spoil pass spoil eguzi??

Frm 2-12yrs, u'd see dem doing bible quiz in d church

frm 15 - 20yrs, them don dey join bad gangs,
dem don dey wrap weed,
keep late night, impregnate choir gals...
Are u tellin me the father didnt train dem well?

Its really sad

Make una leave all this raising children in the way they should grow o. Someone will still grow and get influenced by other factors and become devil.


But how this made fp still amazes me

Something which happened in the past probably sowed the seed of disunity among the siblings

refiner:
With painful and sorrowful heart and a trembling fingers do i type this...

My dad sister died by 8pm lastnight...and guess her murderers?...her CHILDREN...yea u saw it right,they killed their mother with hatred,quarreling,fighting,heart break,matreatment and disunity...

I will make this brief...This lovely woman has got 7 children that are all grown up, but since they grew up to know what's right and wrong,they have been living like cats and mouse...d first daughter(second child) turned all her siblings against the first son,she manipulated them into hatred for their own blood brother and since then there have been fighting and quarreling among themselves.

The mother(a widow) tried everything within her power to unite them but it was like a rolling stone that gathereth nothing...she cried,she cursed,she did everything just for her family to be united again but the eldest daughter was adamant and strong headed!

That lovely woman started having one series of illness to another,she barely eat,she barely sleep but she always think...and that was wha led to her painful death...my dad woke up around 3 am,this morning shivering and gasping for breathe,he saw her in his dream,she was in pain,she was crying uncontrollable but she wasnt able to speak a word...

Now tell me,will her children ever have peace in this life?

parents are either a curse or a blessing to their children,it depends solely on the children on whatever option they choose...pls let's stop causing pain and agony to those that brought us to this world,cause the burden will be too heavy for us to carry after their demise...

Take heart.

Bros am sorry to talk ill of the dead but your aunt failed as a mother ,does kids didn't have any love for one another ,so many things happen when kids are little and young of age and parents ignore ,all these now turns to something else when they are old and matured .My mom is from a family of 8 ,she is the 5th child the level of respect everyone gives themselves is really amazing and they all got there backs ,train your kids to love one another from young age ,if not it will be hard when.they are adults .I come from a big family myself ,I dear not challenge my elder bro of 5yrs when he speaks ,I calm and give him that respect but when tempers are down .I will quietly go and meet him and say bros u got me wrong ohh ,its like this or like that and at times we just laugh about it and we still strong .I hope the elder bro of your family can accept and reconcile all parties as the elder one .family is really important

flourishing247:
Rip. I have to say she didn't do a good job training them. I speak from experience. Paying school fees and training up children in love are totally different. I know a family like this, all grown up but no love amongst them.
As a parent the most important thing is to train your kids to love themselves. Even if they quarrel they will make up in no time. This is the tiny stuff a lot of people miss. Once you notice them drifting apart start by dishing their food on a big tray. Teach them to eat together and do chores together.

see there is always a child that will show that bastard attitude especially when the kids are more than 4. it happens in most families. Its about knowing the attitude of every child and one that may exhibit this attitude

Your aunt was not ready to have children I guess

Hope this wouldn't lead to generation curse, because their unborn children will also do the same and they will go through the trauma which their late mum went through. During the burial now, she (first daughter) will put on one useless sunshade like welder apprentice, with black cloth, come dey cry....