There are always underlying factors before a woman that has married for 14years will now be complaining of excess sex. For instance, any woman that is not happy in her marriage will always be giving excuses when approached by husband for sex.

Driving your husband into the cold hands of Hot ladies.There is gap in communication in this relationship which is needed to be bridged.Sex is not just an act of intimate actions it is also needed to be discussed for better mutual consent.

Shebi, una say na One man One wife

I will watch how you will do it

Wait o! Wats today's date?

Na u go still complain wen d man seeks an alternative outside

oludebby90:
When will men realise that we women have our limit....dz sex thing can get boring and very painful for us. She is getting old..sex of 14 years ago might not be that interesting and fun for her again after kids.

Keneking:
Ms Ojo sef
Black Blue Beating sef
N5,000 feeding monthly allowance sef...

Is that amount for taking care of children in South West?

y u get problem lyk this

subtlemee:
That's a very lame excuse,she's not being truthful about the real reason she needs the divorce

The beatings nd lack of care but always wanting to gbensh...doz re d hubby's offences

livinbygrace:


Keep quiet,you spew trash all because you have access to computer.

I'm very sure you are a single inexperienced fellow so I forgive you

oludebby90:
When will men realise that we women have our limit....dz sex thing can get boring and very painful for us. She is getting old..sex of 14 years ago might not be that interesting and fun for her again after kids.

All things being equal, what do you advise the husband to do?

[quote author=qualityovenbake post=56360972]Women complain too much nowadays. Why should wives refuse/deny their husband regular sex? Many women think men’s nature are similar to theirs. Don't get me wrong, before a man proposed to a woman, he definitely love's her but our testosterone (konji) needs affection also.

A man whose wife frequently denies him sex will first be hurt, then sad, then angry, then quiet. And most men will never tell their wives why they have become quiet and distant.

Men need to do the needful in marriage. Prepare her mind for sex. Compliment her, help with the housework and show some love. I bet 98% of men don't know what pre-intimacy is
They just go straight to the koko and you think the woman won't get tired. After all the work of taking care of the kids, home, her own bizness, then you too wan come over do
Abeg sex dey tire person

Sex can be so tiring and boring sometimes most especially with the same person so I understand

If the man is nt doing well nw,she will accuse him of cheating,now d man is active,she is complaining of overdose.women always confused nd hard to understand

How will you go and Marry a person named Busuyi...
Bunsuru

These are very unserious people! After these much years (14) they still don't understand their seexual rel! Biko separate them before somebody kills somebody o. Whew!

oludebby90:
When will men realise that we women have our limit....dz sex thing can get boring and very painful for us. She is getting old..sex of 14 years ago might not be that interesting and fun for her again after kids.

So what is your advise to the man?

Horlufemi:
While some would want to quit a marriage because of little or no sex.

Horlufemi:
While some would want to quit a marriage because of little or no sex.

coolestchris:
seriously before I marry a girl, she must know how to suffocate me with sex

watch out for my new song titled "cucumber"

another rubbish song loading based on logistic

Wow, when some other people are getting divorce because of LACK of sex!!!

On this note, I think our judicial system has to be improved upon. why? because while some pple seek dissolution for not enough sex some go for too much of sex, why can't we have a pairing program for couples seeking divorce. if u have little sex and u want to quit then we pair u with the husby of this woman who can offer u more then vice versa. hehehehe. just thinking!

TinaAnita:
Sex can be so tiring and boring sometimes most especially with the same person so I understand

I thought as much. I like you because you spoke your mind without any form of pretense.

Nigeriadondie:
What? She enjoyed 14 years of sexual bliss now she is complaining when there are some women out there who wud not hesitate to ve such a man who desire to exprience orgasm repeatedly.

That's the problem, most of these women do not experience orgasm.

Most of this men, will just thrust, orgasm and roll off. Whether the woman like am, whether she no like am, e don finish be dat.

Sex the becomes a chore instead of a pleasure.

Jesu! and an Akure man is busy wanting to marry me!!! Chai!

oludebby90:
When will men realise that we women have our limit....dz sex thing can get boring and very painful for us. She is getting old..sex of 14 years ago might not be that interesting and fun for her again after kids.

Its left for couples to spice up the love live that even when old and weak the intimacy go still dey there. Its not about sex, but how we approach it

qualityovenbake:
Women complain too much nowadays. Why should wives refuse/deny their husband regular sex? Many women think men’s nature are similar to theirs. Don't get me wrong, before a man proposed to a woman, he definitely love's her but our testosterone (konji) needs affection also.

A man whose wife frequently denies him sex will first be hurt, then sad, then angry, then quiet. And most men will never tell their wives why they have become quiet and distant.

your analysis is 100 percent right.

bukatyne:


All things being equal, what do you advise the husband to do?

husband should learn to understand their wives. Notice their mood n spice up things in the bedroom to the ability of the wife

fortunejum:

So what is your advise to the man?

Everything for all women is not sex alone....understand the wife,study her needs by been open

thornapple:
Housewife complains of too much sexual demands from husband yet dresses indecently, to woo who?, outsiders?.

Why do I feel she is hiding her real motives?.

lefulefu get on the floor.
What do you think she is up to?.

its obvious na.she"s no longer feeling the husband hence she"s marketing her wares to prospective customers by dressing indecently .this is wat u call an endtime wife .

lefulefu:

its obvious na.she"s no longer feeling the husband hence she"s marketing her wares to prospective customers by dressing indecently .this is wat u call an endtime wife .

She seems a LovePeddler, i pray she regrets this.