₦airaland Forum

Admin401:
lol whywhyogun was right, black girls literally try to look white by using makeup.

dammit, and i wished she was wrong

martyns303:
This is going to be long, I hope you endure to the end.

I know what I am about to say will be controversial and not "politically correct", mostly for the feminist and others. I expect a lot of backlash, abuse and calling of names, it is a burden I am willing to take on.

I expect everybody to come here and call this man names, he's an animal, a coward (I agree on this), woman beater and all sort just to be accepted. But I have decided to share a different opinion.

First, people don't just go about attacking other people, not a woman you are married to, not the mother of your children, even mad people don't frequently attack people at random.

The thing is everybody have a breaking point, no matter how much you try to endure and try to be the better person, there comes that point you just can't take it.

Have I hit a woman b4? Yes, twice. It is not something I am proud of, I feel ashamed of myself afterwards. Now I have had my fair share of relationships but one stands out and I pray no man finds himself with a woman like that. This girl's words are venom, she rain abuses at the slightest provocation. If anyone knows me outside NL will know that I am extremely quite, an introvert and avoids confrontation at all cost.

If we agree to meet somewhere and she gets there before, am dead. No matter the reason, she will call me and start abusing me, in fact if you are to hear her, you will call me a fool for staying with that kind of person. But she is not always like that, when she's not angry, she's one of the nicest person ever. Well educated and from a decent home so there's no indication that she will be like that.

The first time I hit her, we went to buy something together at the market. We ended up having a different opinion about an item and that was when she got angry, she started abusing me right there in public. It was as if the ground should open and swallow me, I was so embarrassed I decided to leave and go home. When she got back, she started yelling at me for leaving her behind at the market and the abuses begin. At that point I lost it, already am fuming from the market incident and now this, she has said worst things to me before and I simply walk away but this time I don't know what happened and I slapped her. Of course I apologized and begged and we got back to being normal, I noticed the abuses even stopped for sometime.

Now I don't want to mention what happened the second time, because not even a pope would have been able to handle the situation. At that point I ended the relationship.

Am i going to mention the times she gets angry and begin to damage my properties? Anything she gets her hands on she will destroy it. We all heard about Tonto Dikeh damaging properties worth millions of Churchill's.

The ultimate question is, why didn't I just leave the relationship, answer is, beside her bad moments she's a nice person. Plus I had to endure to keep up the relationship. Now it would be even more difficult for married people.

I am no way encouraging physical abuses by men, but before you crucify the man, have you considered what the man has been through?

No man should raise his hands on a woman, however we shouldn't be quick to throw the men under the bus either. This man is languishing in prison, some of us wouldn't have been able to walk half a mile in his shoes.

May God give us all compatible partners.

pocohantas:
Not again.



They have arrived...
The justification crew... tactical withdrawal hah?
You seem good with words, I hope you will be able to type this kind of story when a woman stabs her husband to death. After all, she has been through a lot.

If at that point you hit her, she slumped and died...it happens. Will you be on Nairaland typing this beautiful nonsense?
Continue justifying,till you kill someone.
You'll tell this story to a judge.

PapiSmith:
https://www.nairaland.com/3789049/lanre-gentry-remanded-prison-battering

Yes he is

bumi10:
http://www.exlinklodge.com/2017/05/mercy-aigbe-narrates-why-she-despite.html?m=1

martyns303:
This is going to be long, I hope you endure to the end.

I know what I am about to say will be controversial and not "politically correct", mostly for the feminist and others. I expect a lot of backlash, abuse and calling of names, it is a burden I am willing to take on.

I expect everybody to come here and call this man names, he's an animal, a coward (I agree on this), woman beater and all sort just to be accepted. But I have decided to share a different opinion.

First, people don't just go about attacking other people, not a woman you are married to, not the mother of your children, even mad people don't frequently attack people at random.

The thing is everybody have a breaking point, no matter how much you try to endure and try to be the better person, there comes that point you just can't take it.

Have I hit a woman b4? Yes, twice. It is not something I am proud of, I feel ashamed of myself afterwards. Now I have had my fair share of relationships but one stands out and I pray no man finds himself with a woman like that. This girl's words are venom, she rain abuses at the slightest provocation. If anyone knows me outside NL will know that I am extremely quite, an introvert and avoids confrontation at all cost.

If we agree to meet somewhere and she gets there before, am dead. No matter the reason, she will call me and start abusing me, in fact if you are to hear her, you will call me a fool for staying with that kind of person. But she is not always like that, when she's not angry, she's one of the nicest person ever. Well educated and from a decent home so there's no indication that she will be like that.

The first time I hit her, we went to buy something together at the market. We ended up having a different opinion about an item and that was when she got angry, she started abusing me right there in public. It was as if the ground should open and swallow me, I was so embarrassed I decided to leave and go home. When she got back, she started yelling at me for leaving her behind at the market and the abuses begin. At that point I lost it, already am fuming from the market incident and now this, she has said worst things to me before and I simply walk away but this time I don't know what happened and I slapped her. Of course I apologized and begged and we got back to being normal, I noticed the abuses even stopped for sometime.

Now I don't want to mention what happened the second time, because not even a pope would have been able to handle the situation. At that point I ended the relationship.

Am i going to mention the times she gets angry and begin to damage my properties? Anything she gets her hands on she will destroy it. We all heard about Tonto Dikeh damaging properties worth millions of Churchill's.

The ultimate question is, why didn't I just leave the relationship, answer is, beside her bad moments she's a nice person. Plus I had to endure to keep up the relationship. Now it would be even more difficult for married people.

I am no way encouraging physical abuses by men, but before you crucify the man, have you considered what the man has been through?

No man should raise his hands on a woman, however we shouldn't be quick to throw the men under the bus either. This man is languishing in prison, some of us wouldn't have been able to walk half a mile in his shoes.

May God give us all compatible partners.

pocohantas:
Not again.



They have arrived...
The justification crew... tactical withdrawal hah?
You seem good with words, I hope you will be able to type this kind of story when a woman stabs her husband to death. After all, she has been through a lot.

If at that point you hit her, she slumped and died...it happens. Will you be on Nairaland typing this beautiful nonsense?
Continue justifying,till you kill someone.
You'll tell this story to a judge.

perfectcrown:
Whst is dis one saying? Cant u just walk away?
What wld u do if it was yr sis or daughter?!
Biko,park well jare

martyns303:
This is going to be long, I hope you endure to the end.

I know what I am about to say will be controversial and not "politically correct", mostly for the feminist and others. I expect a lot of backlash, abuse and calling of names, it is a burden I am willing to take on.

I expect everybody to come here and call this man names, he's an animal, a coward (I agree on this), woman beater and all sort just to be accepted. But I have decided to share a different opinion.

First, people don't just go about attacking other people, not a woman you are married to, not the mother of your children, even mad people don't frequently attack people at random.

The thing is everybody have a breaking point, no matter how much you try to endure and try to be the better person, there comes that point you just can't take it.

Have I hit a woman b4? Yes, twice. It is not something I am proud of, I feel ashamed of myself afterwards. Now I have had my fair share of relationships but one stands out and I pray no man finds himself with a woman like that. This girl's words are venom, she rain abuses at the slightest provocation. If anyone knows me outside NL will know that I am extremely quite, an introvert and avoids confrontation at all cost.

If we agree to meet somewhere and she gets there before, am dead. No matter the reason, she will call me and start abusing me, in fact if you are to hear her, you will call me a fool for staying with that kind of person. But she is not always like that, when she's not angry, she's one of the nicest person ever. Well educated and from a decent home so there's no indication that she will be like that.

The first time I hit her, we went to buy something together at the market. We ended up having a different opinion about an item and that was when she got angry, she started abusing me right there in public. It was as if the ground should open and swallow me, I was so embarrassed I decided to leave and go home. When she got back, she started yelling at me for leaving her behind at the market and the abuses begin. At that point I lost it, already am fuming from the market incident and now this, she has said worst things to me before and I simply walk away but this time I don't know what happened and I slapped her. Of course I apologized and begged and we got back to being normal, I noticed the abuses even stopped for sometime.

Now I don't want to mention what happened the second time, because not even a pope would have been able to handle the situation. At that point I ended the relationship.

Am i going to mention the times she gets angry and begin to damage my properties? Anything she gets her hands on she will destroy it. We all heard about Tonto Dikeh damaging properties worth millions of Churchill's.

The ultimate question is, why didn't I just leave the relationship, answer is, beside her bad moments she's a nice person. Plus I had to endure to keep up the relationship. Now it would be even more difficult for married people.

I am no way encouraging physical abuses by men, but before you crucify the man, have you considered what the man has been through?

No man should raise his hands on a woman, however we shouldn't be quick to throw the men under the bus either. This man is languishing in prison, some of us wouldn't have been able to walk half a mile in his shoes.

May God give us all compatible partners.

PapiSmith:
Please give me one reason why this attention seeking Hoe keep trying to gather a pity party...

Why is she dressed up as a village slut who was caught stealing some tubers of yam?

Why is she with that scattered hairstyle?

I see no reason why she is trying to pull a tiwa savage on her husband after he has been imprisoned. I don't buy the idea of domestic violence but this bìtches are becoming annoying

First it was Tiwa then Tonto now this dirty attention seeking Hoe?



What the fück are these women turning into?

ekems2017:
Mercy pls can you allow us hear from your man? Even though he doesn't have the right to lay a finger on you no matter what. He deserves a fair hearing.

I know the genesis of all this is that he slept with another lady.

ekems2017:
Mercy pls can you allow us hear from your man? Even though he doesn't have the right to lay a finger on you no matter what. He deserves a fair hearing.

I know the genesis of all this is that he slept with another lady.

Franzinni:
Everything is fine as long as they get a nut.

jieta:
that is why is better to have two wives becos you won't have time beating one you just ignore her and go to the other woman # team polygamy #

jieta:
that is why is better to have two wives becos you won't have time beating one you just ignore her and go to the other woman # team polygamy #

martyns303:
This is going to be long, I hope you endure to the end.

I know what I am about to say will be controversial and not "politically correct", mostly for the feminist and others. I expect a lot of backlash, abuse and calling of names, it is a burden I am willing to take on.

I expect everybody to come here and call this man names, he's an animal, a coward (I agree on this), woman beater and all sort just to be accepted. But I have decided to share a different opinion.

First, people don't just go about attacking other people, not a woman you are married to, not the mother of your children, even mad people don't frequently attack people at random.

The thing is everybody have a breaking point, no matter how much you try to endure and try to be the better person, there comes that point you just can't take it.

Have I hit a woman b4? Yes, twice. It is not something I am proud of, I feel ashamed of myself afterwards. Now I have had my fair share of relationships but one stands out and I pray no man finds himself with a woman like that. This girl's words are venom, she rain abuses at the slightest provocation. If anyone knows me outside NL will know that I am extremely quite, an introvert and avoids confrontation at all cost.

If we agree to meet somewhere and she gets there before, am dead. No matter the reason, she will call me and start abusing me, in fact if you are to hear her, you will call me a fool for staying with that kind of person. But she is not always like that, when she's not angry, she's one of the nicest person ever. Well educated and from a decent home so there's no indication that she will be like that.

The first time I hit her, we went to buy something together at the market. We ended up having a different opinion about an item and that was when she got angry, she started abusing me right there in public. It was as if the ground should open and swallow me, I was so embarrassed I decided to leave and go home. When she got back, she started yelling at me for leaving her behind at the market and the abuses begin. At that point I lost it, already am fuming from the market incident and now this, she has said worst things to me before and I simply walk away but this time I don't know what happened and I slapped her. Of course I apologized and begged and we got back to being normal, I noticed the abuses even stopped for sometime.

Now I don't want to mention what happened the second time, because not even a pope would have been able to handle the situation. At that point I ended the relationship.

Am i going to mention the times she gets angry and begin to damage my properties? Anything she gets her hands on she will destroy it. We all heard about Tonto Dikeh damaging properties worth millions of Churchill's.

The ultimate question is, why didn't I just leave the relationship, answer is, beside her bad moments she's a nice person. Plus I had to endure to keep up the relationship. Now it would be even more difficult for married people.

I am no way encouraging physical abuses by men, but before you crucify the man, have you considered what the man has been through?

No man should raise his hands on a woman, however we shouldn't be quick to throw the men under the bus either. This man is languishing in prison, some of us wouldn't have been able to walk half a mile in his shoes.

May God give us all compatible partners.

Crixina:
I believe you bro, I'm a woman, I quite agree that some words we spew especially when angry are venomous...but some men can beat at the slightest provocation, what happened to just leaving the scene at that point or even breaking off the relationship.

martyns303:
The ultimate question is, why didn't I just leave the relationship, answer is, beside her bad moments she's a nice person. Plus I had to endure to keep up the relationship. Now it would be even more difficult for married people.

ademide0710:
Sorry dear,am not one of your fan but I felt for you. Men will always cheat,its there DNA, you can't stop them for doing that. You should not have endured this violence for so long. I understand, our Yoruba mother will say "aforiti" which means you Should be patient. Ladies,Stay out of abusive marriage even relationship.

myking95:
Reminds me of one of your kind. Was faithful to this dam throughout the whole relationship only to be repaid by being infected with an std. And because she knew I loved her deeply... She tried to dismiss it like she doesn't know....two slaps and she adjusted. Wasnt proud about it tho, didnt go to church for a whole month..guilt no gree me, but then. That was the first day I hit a woman....and the day I learnt to never let them into my life. Some of u females have nothing to do in life other than to mess up yourselves and anyone whonis not smart to keep his distance. Some of you are quite amazing too. I didn't know whether to gt hurt at being cheated on, lied to or just realizing that this dam doesn't even care if she destroy's me.
I'm against domestic violence or even hurting another human, but somethings people (both male and female, especially females) do to bring out the devil in a good person..

omooba969:
@bolded,

You lot are experts @cheating & that's why you're rarely caught.

Cheating is in your cells!

beautiful232:
everybody will say things that makes them look good before others.

for me I won't judge from one side,but then
no matter what,no man has the right to beat a woman...

pocohantas:
Not again.



They have arrived...
The justification crew... tactical withdrawal hah?
You seem good with words, I hope you will be able to type this kind of story when a woman stabs her husband to death. After all, she has been through a lot.

If at that point you hit her, she slumped and died...it happens. Will you be on Nairaland typing this beautiful nonsense?
Continue justifying,till you kill someone.
You'll tell this story to a judge.

PapiSmith:
Please give me one reason why this attention seeking Hoe keep trying to gather a pity party...

Why is she dressed up as a village slut who was caught stealing some tubers of yam?

Why is she with that scattered hairstyle?

I see no reason why she is trying to pull a tiwa savage on her husband after he has been imprisoned. I don't buy the idea of domestic violence but this bìtches are becoming annoying

First it was Tiwa then Tonto now this dirty attention seeking Hoe?

What the fück are these women turning into?