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After a painful break up cos of cheating by the one you truly loved. Is it advicable to give her a second chance when she comes back with remorse, regrets and pleas for forgiveness, or you just forgive and move on?

Up to you, really. There's too much at stake should you decide to take them back imo. Trust will always be an issue because you'll never know if they'll do the same thing again. That's too much paranoia for me, I wouldn't be able to take it. Hence I just cut them off & move on.

It's best to move on if you cldnt forgive her at the time it happened.... But if u can forgive and move on, better.

Op, lemme ask you one simple question?


Do you repeat your mistakes?



For this Warri where i dey, "we nor dey live life go back"

ZarZar:
Up to you, really. There's too much at stake should you decide to take them back imo. Trust will always be an issue because you'll never know if they'll do the same thing again. That's too much paranoia for me, I wouldn't be able to take it. Hence I just cut them off & move on.

same fears over here, the spark of that first love had far been put off..

CplusJason:
Op, lemme ask you one simple question?



Do you repeat your mistakes?




For this Warri where i dey, "we nor dey live life go back"

lol..I should adopt una warri slogan be that na, i guess i shud just move on my thing

pTomz:
same fears over here, the spark of that first love had far been put off..

Time for a brand new start then.

saydfact:
It's best to move on if you cldnt forgive her at the time it happened.... But if u can forgive and move on, better.

was forgiven, even tho she's trying her best to get closer again, its a road block fr her

pTomz:
lol..I should adopt una warri slogan be that na, i guess i shud just move on my thing

Bros, na the best thing to do.




No basket for "rotten" mango.

pTomz:
same fears over here, the spark of that first love had far been put off..

If that's the case, save you both unnecessary stress and move on.

Aderola15:
If that's the case, save you both unnecessary stress and move on.

moving on is in progress already, the ish is her pestering me with tryin to knw where i am, asking my frnds where i am n sometimes coming around without my consent n social media stalkings....

pTomz:
moving on is in progress already, the ish is her pestering me with tryin to knw where i am, asking my frnds where i am n sometimes coming around without my consent n social media stalkings....

Ignore her.

...........Let me use dis opportunity to advise guys who foolishily follow/live their lives to please girls. U are on ur way to your early grave.
See the way nairalanders adores some stupid girls here makes me go gaga. I dont really undastand whats so special about their toto or nyash or breast.
It takes only a woman to bring a very strong man to his knees.
For Gods sake why do men follow women about like sheep with direction.
A gal dat mensturates evry 28days, wets her dirty smelling pants, yet u behave like an idiot before her. Wetin they hungry u for her stupid body?
ThankGod for my kind of friends.

Do you still love her?

That's the question you should be asking yourself.

kuchikau:
...........Let me use dis opportunity to advise guys who foolishily follow/live their lives to please girls. U are on ur way to your early grave.
See the way nairalanders adores some stupid girls here makes me go gaga. I dont really undastand whats so special about their toto or nyash or breast.
It takes only a woman to bring a very strong man to his knees.
For Gods sake why do men follow women about like sheep with direction.
A gal dat mensturates evry 28days, wets her dirty smelling pants, yet u behave like an idiot before her. Wetin they hungry u for her stupid body?
ThankGod for my kind of friends.

For the love of God, who's this clown?

ZarZar:
Up to you, really. There's too much at stake should you decide to take them back imo. Trust will always be an issue because you'll never know if they'll do the same thing again. That's too much paranoia for me, I wouldn't be able to take it. Hence I just cut them off & move on.

This Zulu xenophobic thing!

NgoziOkoli:
This Zulu xenophobic thing!

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CplusJason:
For the love of God, who's this clown?

d clown slept with ur mother, 9months later u emerge.

Caringguy:
Do you still love her?
That's the question you should be asking yourself.

not as before

No matter how hard you try,you can never fix back a broken mirror....
Call her and talk to her.let her know,no matter what your love for her can never be like before,you just can't love or trust her 100% again.....
It will hurt, but it's for the better.