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For you to go into a relationship with someone, do you fall in love with the person first or seeing that the person is lovable is enough? For me, seeing you are lovable is enough for me to go into a relationship. How about you?

Love is incapable of being identified: It is known or unknown through personal experience.

A picture can only offer interpretation.

Smellymouth:
Love is incapable of being identified: It is known or unknown through personal experience.

A picture can only offer interpretation.

This is a bit vague in relation to my question. I wish you could clarify.

To me , love is a process.... My advise to ladies out there interested in me is that they shouldn't expect me to love them overnight.. My love happens through daily physical bonding.

talk2alabama:
To me , love is a process.... My advise to ladies out there interested in me is that they shouldn't expect me to love them overnight.. My love happens through daily physical bonding.

This is exactly my outlook. You have said it perfectly.

solasolasola:
This is a bit vague in relation to my question. I wish you could clarify.

In relation to your question, how do you know the person is lovable? By her words, feelings, beauty or personality?

solasolasola:
This is exactly my outlook. You have said it perfectly.

I don't think it is exactly your outlook based on what you posted up there.. You mentioned that "seeing" that someone is loveable is enough...


So you tell me that love to you germinates by seeing ?

Smellymouth:
In relation to your question, how do you know the person is lovable? By her words, feelings, beauty or personality?

How I know is a function of one or more of those criteria and/or an inclusion of one or more of some other things you didn't mention.

my brother Love is a word that gets thrown around more than it should be these days, and the reason
for this seems to be a lack of other options



Think about this: you can either dislike a
woman, like her, or love her. Keep in mind
that there is a HUGE difference between
each of these choices. The difference
between liking and loving could be measured
in light years!


I think that most brothers will say that they
"love" a woman after [however long]
because they think that it's the only place to
go from liking her, and they don't understand
the meaning of the word "love" to begin
with. Naturally, any woman that knew what
love really means would freak out that this
guy is clinging to her like superglue after
only a few dates.


solasolasola, I like the message your post sends
out: "Since love is a great thing to feel,
many solasolasola men try to 'convince' themselves
into feeling it."

talk2alabama:
I don't think it is exactly your outlook based on what you posted up there.. You mentioned that "seeing" that someone is loveable is enough...


So you tell me that love to you germinates by seeing ?

Okay. I said seeing that the person is lovable is enough for me to commit to a relationship. This then means that given the chance of a relationship, my love is bound to increase gradually. This is because "seeing that someone is lovable" means only one thing: the love develops gradually cos falling in love first before going into a relationship means I see the love as an asset which will mean I'll be head over heels in love, a thing that is risky, very risky I must say.

Cholls:
my brother Love is a word that gets thrown around more than it should be these days, and the reason
for this seems to be a lack of other options



Think about this: you can either dislike a
woman, like her, or love her. Keep in mind
that there is a HUGE difference between
each of these choices. The difference
between liking and loving could be measured
in light years!


I think that most brothers will say that they
"love" a woman after [however long]
because they think that it's the only place to
go from liking her, and they don't understand
the meaning of the word "love" to begin
with. Naturally, any woman that knew what
love really means would freak out that this
guy is clinging to her like superglue after
only a few dates.


solasolasola, I like the message your post sends
out: "Since love is a great thing to feel,
many solasolasola men try to 'convince' themselves
into feeling it."

Intelligent.