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Re: Why Fathers Are Neglected In Old Age. ( A Must Read For Guys) by Nobody: 11:41am On May 23, 2017 |
SmartyPants: Fuccckk off my mentions ! Delusional Yaba left. Ode! Don't go and look for work to do. Idiot! Derailing thread indeed . 1 Like |
Re: Why Fathers Are Neglected In Old Age. ( A Must Read For Guys) by Nobody: 11:44am On May 23, 2017 |
greenmonk: On point |
Re: Why Fathers Are Neglected In Old Age. ( A Must Read For Guys) by sleuthhound: 11:49am On May 23, 2017 |
Donjazzy12:and part of ur p-mans blessings which u failed to exhibit "is hw to pass a message across without use of foul language abi".. If u want pple to respect u, learn to respect others & ur kids would be proud of u! Dont 4get the "same treatment" statement, u emphasised above 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Fathers Are Neglected In Old Age. ( A Must Read For Guys) by CHERIPH: 11:50am On May 23, 2017 |
I love both my pop and mum, though, both of them are disciplinarian . i am the firstborn and i suffer most. My dad is very strict but i started loving him so much some years back when he called me and gave me money after my graduation year to travel abroad when he saw the frustration in me when i had no job. He made the smart move when he realized that my siblings and i never had a single love for him. so he risked his gratuity fee to finance my siblings and i abroad. Now he earns monthly salary from all of us and we all love both of them equally, but i still remind him how he used to compare me with our neighbor son...........SEE LAWYER SON, ALWAYS INDOOR READING, WHILE YOU WORK AROUND DOING NOTHING...... ...so i always ask him,,,,,WHERE IS LAWYERS SON. 15 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Fathers Are Neglected In Old Age. ( A Must Read For Guys) by neahyo(m): 11:56am On May 23, 2017 |
Please take time to pray for your family, there is nothing better than when Jesus is in your family. The joy is indescribable, the love is unquantifiable, despite the storms of life you will feel this satisfaction. Why won't we talk about family when family is all we've got? ---- See you again by Wiz Khalifa 12 Likes |
Re: Why Fathers Are Neglected In Old Age. ( A Must Read For Guys) by Nobody: 12:06pm On May 23, 2017 |
Bcx some are not there emotionally... Financially... All they do is flog... Nd curse... Although there are some ungrateful children 4 Likes |
Re: Why Fathers Are Neglected In Old Age. ( A Must Read For Guys) by Ayocom123(m): 12:11pm On May 23, 2017 |
MARKETfund: No,No,No.what's wrong with us in africa? We believe in beating and beating up a child is the only way we can train him,after the beating you hear things like I want you to be great in the future,I want to point it out straight to you here and now that if truly beating up a child is the way then Africa should have been in the lime light by now, but nope the people making great names are still the white,we gat bill gate(I never heard about him being beaten by his dad),Barack Obama and the list goes on.These guys don't beat their kid and they still become great,so what's up,see the truth is that a child that will be good will be good and a child that will go wayward would no matter the amount of beating he gets,as for me I am only playing maturity,that hatered he planted is still there. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Fathers Are Neglected In Old Age. ( A Must Read For Guys) by lenghtinny(m): 12:13pm On May 23, 2017 |
Reminds me of my late uncle... He was a civil servant working in another state different from where his family resided. His wife was an housewife with 4 kids (2 boys, 2 girls)... He was not always around, so he didn't know his wife was poisoning the mind of the children against him... After funding all 4 through higher institutions and they graduated, they now realized that he has been maltreating their mom due to his absence from home. When He was about to retire from service, trying to finalize his paperwork; this kids took off with their mum without informing him.. For 10 good years he didn't set his eyes on them before he died meanwhile his wife family knew where they were but didn't disclose it.. When their mom died, they buried her without informing him. He died of liver related problem because he turned to alcohol as consolation and the kids still didn't didn't show up at his burial... It's been 10 years now 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Fathers Are Neglected In Old Age. ( A Must Read For Guys) by Kebreal92(m): 12:14pm On May 23, 2017 |
MAY GOD FORGIVE US ALL.
AT ONE POINT OR THE OTHER WE R UNFAIR TO OUR FATHERS AS WE PREFER MOMS TO THEM.
RIP MOM AND DAD!!
LOVE THEM,BUT MY LOVE FOR MOM IS BOUNDLESS. 1 Like |
Re: Why Fathers Are Neglected In Old Age. ( A Must Read For Guys) by Nobody: 12:17pm On May 23, 2017 |
KevinDein:so insightful 1 Like |
Re: Why Fathers Are Neglected In Old Age. ( A Must Read For Guys) by Nobody: 12:21pm On May 23, 2017 |
lenghtinny: This is painful. I have learnt too much already for one day. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Fathers Are Neglected In Old Age. ( A Must Read For Guys) by Nobody: 12:26pm On May 23, 2017 |
dangotesmummy:u can imagine how bad it can be.. People that did the whole ish has left. Innocent people will now face it. This is guys date there cousin or so wirh out even knowing your related.. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Fathers Are Neglected In Old Age. ( A Must Read For Guys) by Nobody: 12:28pm On May 23, 2017 |
RealSleek:Lolz No. 1 Like |
Re: Why Fathers Are Neglected In Old Age. ( A Must Read For Guys) by chukzyfcbb: 12:28pm On May 23, 2017 |
How many of us have had our fathers look us in the eye and say - I love you or - You have done well - You make me proud I can guess the answer, few. In fact it could be 1 person in 50. That you have a Dad in the house doesn't mean he is fathering you. 11 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Why Fathers Are Neglected In Old Age. ( A Must Read For Guys) by Nobody: 12:29pm On May 23, 2017 |
babaireti: Please do Sir 5 Likes |
Re: Why Fathers Are Neglected In Old Age. ( A Must Read For Guys) by Seanjay(m): 12:30pm On May 23, 2017 |
obikirinoni: OP YOU WANT TO MAKE ME CRY AGAIN TODAY, WHAT YOU POST IS GOOD BUT MAY BE IT YOUR FAMILY OR OTHER PEOPLES FAMILIES.... BUT LET ME TELL YOU I LOST MY DAD SINCE 2015(2YRS AGO) BUT EVERYONE OF MY FAMILY STILL CRIES TILL TODAY, THE MAN DIED AT THE AGE OF 74 AND HE HAD 7KIDS(4GIRLS AND 3BOYS, WHICH AM THE LAST BORN) BUT TO BE SINCERE I THINK MY FATHER IS THE MOST CARING MAN IN THE WORLD TO THE EXTENT THAT EVEN MY SISTERS AND US LOVE HIM MORE THAN OUR MOM, WHAT WE CAN TRY WITH MY DAD, DEM NO BORN US WELL MAKE WE TRY AM WITH MY MOM I REPEAT DEM NO BORN YOU WELL IF YOU TRY AM IT MEANS YOU DON DIE BE THAT FOR THAT DAY, MAY BE IT SOME MEN SHA BUT MY DAD IS AWESOME AND TOO GENEROUS AND NICE, HIS GENEROSITY LED HIM TO WHERE HE IS TODAY... R.I.P MY MAIN MAN, MY BACKBONE WE ALL MISSED YOU SO MUCH.... REST ON DAD PA OLUKAYODE SIMON ODUKOYA.... 8 Likes |
Re: Why Fathers Are Neglected In Old Age. ( A Must Read For Guys) by Nobody: 12:34pm On May 23, 2017 |
Guys Please It will be nice if you copy and repost this piece on Facebook. I have learnt a lot already from different views and experiences. Others can learn too. Especially those not on this platform or you can share the link. Jeeeeez 1 Like
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Re: Why Fathers Are Neglected In Old Age. ( A Must Read For Guys) by Nobody: 12:36pm On May 23, 2017 |
Viking007:my papa can worry for Nigeria ooo..but we dey gist wella 1 Like |
Re: Why Fathers Are Neglected In Old Age. ( A Must Read For Guys) by lenghtinny(m): 12:36pm On May 23, 2017 |
obikirinoni:My brother many things dey happen for this life... The story made me cancel out marriage in my future plans... I'm going to have kids only out of wedlock. 1 Like |
Re: Why Fathers Are Neglected In Old Age. ( A Must Read For Guys) by Nobody: 12:37pm On May 23, 2017 |
Men and women are not wired the same way. in Africa, fathers behave like generals, this could be the reason why the children relate more with their mothers . some African fathers often exhibit this "i don't send u" attitude sometimes . mother- offspring affection is also predominant among animals , it is just nature. 4 Likes |
Re: Why Fathers Are Neglected In Old Age. ( A Must Read For Guys) by Nobody: 12:38pm On May 23, 2017 |
lenghtinny: This is painful. I have learnt too much already for one day. |
Re: Why Fathers Are Neglected In Old Age. ( A Must Read For Guys) by Nobody: 12:40pm On May 23, 2017 |
lenghtinny: Isn't that worse? You won't be there at all. No try DAT lane ooooo. 1 Like |
Re: Why Fathers Are Neglected In Old Age. ( A Must Read For Guys) by Nobody: 12:41pm On May 23, 2017 |
chukzyfcbb: Chai!!!! Another bullet 1 Like |
Re: Why Fathers Are Neglected In Old Age. ( A Must Read For Guys) by lenghtinny(m): 12:41pm On May 23, 2017 |
obikirinoni:LOL... I hear you 1 Like |
Re: Why Fathers Are Neglected In Old Age. ( A Must Read For Guys) by Nobody: 12:45pm On May 23, 2017 |
tensazangetsu20:. Oshey.. I can feel your pain bro u don't need to say it.. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Fathers Are Neglected In Old Age. ( A Must Read For Guys) by Nobody: 12:48pm On May 23, 2017 |
missyadorable: Forgive dear! Forgive |
Re: Why Fathers Are Neglected In Old Age. ( A Must Read For Guys) by VanBommel(m): 12:48pm On May 23, 2017 |
Afonjanightmare:don't be stuupid, so many fathers take things overboard. Some beat their wives in front of their kids, come home drunk and be disturbing the peace of the home. Don't you know kids learn by what they see or experience?? Naturally kids are bonded to their moms, it's the attitude of their father that will determine their closeness. Nuff said 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Fathers Are Neglected In Old Age. ( A Must Read For Guys) by Nobody: 12:50pm On May 23, 2017 |
fastgyal: 1 Like
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Re: Why Fathers Are Neglected In Old Age. ( A Must Read For Guys) by aumeehn: 12:51pm On May 23, 2017 |
obikirinoni:Wow exact opposite of me! To call mumsi na wahala i was with my father since when i'm 4years now i'm 21 1 Like |
Re: Why Fathers Are Neglected In Old Age. ( A Must Read For Guys) by Nobody: 12:53pm On May 23, 2017 |
AstuteJay:lol...with just this small write up you changed the way the game could be played... 3 Likes |
Re: Why Fathers Are Neglected In Old Age. ( A Must Read For Guys) by Nobody: 12:55pm On May 23, 2017 |
obikirinoni:them go see you dey smile for main road just near gate u go know nah zoo u dey.... Easy bro..I see life as I wake everyday.. I learn from peoples mistake everyday.. Am learning from this thread ryt now.. See post of how people are complaining.. 6 Likes |
Re: Why Fathers Are Neglected In Old Age. ( A Must Read For Guys) by Nobody: 1:00pm On May 23, 2017 |
YelloweWest:am just following u up.. U dey burst my head.. I was telling one gal after one comment she made last nyt at my grannies.. I take each day I wake and know that am alive. Mistakes people has made around I try to reason them and know how to make things ryt wen its my turn.. We live we die.. 2 Likes |
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