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Re: My Daddy Abandoned Responsibility All Because He Is 50year Waiting To Die.. by Legalbeing(m): 9:54pm On May 25, 2017 |
OludolamiWasen:Even when i scored jamb cut off mark, wrote post utme scored below wit the option to change course but i was told the money left is for me and my wife.. |
Re: My Daddy Abandoned Responsibility All Because He Is 50year Waiting To Die.. by Nobody: 9:55pm On May 25, 2017 |
So, he can procreate, but he cannot take care of his responsibility? This is the ultimate show of selfishness. He should be ashamed of himself. . 2 Likes |
Re: My Daddy Abandoned Responsibility All Because He Is 50year Waiting To Die.. by Speedo17(m): 9:56pm On May 25, 2017 |
Going by your Dad's position. I say its time to chart your course. I never saw a Dad to even tell me what to do and so at 21 I was already a man for myself. Continue to honour him for this ( You will live long to understand this one day) |
Re: My Daddy Abandoned Responsibility All Because He Is 50year Waiting To Die.. by Nobody: 9:58pm On May 25, 2017 |
Legalbeing: So why did he give birth to you? why can't you ask him some thought provoking questions? or Did you do something abominable to annoy him? or is your family poor? 1 Like |
Re: My Daddy Abandoned Responsibility All Because He Is 50year Waiting To Die.. by mechanics(m): 9:59pm On May 25, 2017 |
Well is a pity you have found yourself in this situation, if your dad is a retiree, it means what he has now is his pension money, so you should not blame him since before now he has been fending for you and your siblings, my advice is for you to look for any hand work and start from there, don't loose hope my brother, it also happened to me once you are matured enough, they will simply say you should cater for yourself, but in my own case i was sponsored up to university level, it was when i finished that he retired and everything stopped, thank God am buoyant enough to fend for myself and i won't forget him because he contributed more to where i am now. |
Re: My Daddy Abandoned Responsibility All Because He Is 50year Waiting To Die.. by Engineermbugame(m): 9:59pm On May 25, 2017 |
my dad is same like urs ,wen i graduated from sec school @ age 19,i learn a skills.our agreement is dat wen my younger brother graduate from university before i will enter school.my dad became angry wen my younger brother didnt graduated exactly year he expected.he usually make diz comment were dey vex me (he has settled all of us )he is 63years.i started huztling hard @age 21before 22 am nah become my owned boss,owned a plumbing materials shop. a time i usually provide money for food in a family .i wrote jamb diz year nd i decided to sponsor my self in school. 2 Likes |
Re: My Daddy Abandoned Responsibility All Because He Is 50year Waiting To Die.. by Nobody: 10:02pm On May 25, 2017 |
NevetsIbot:you missed the part where i since I was born, the man even wanted me aborted self, well, I don't appreciate my dad for nothing, he was and is still as useless as the p in psychology to me, I have reserved all my appreciation for my God sent mother |
Re: My Daddy Abandoned Responsibility All Because He Is 50year Waiting To Die.. by bencarson007(m): 10:03pm On May 25, 2017 |
Legalbeing:. Your parents are delusional... As parents, it is their responsibility to nurture you guys to success... Afterall, you did not beg to be born... Which kain mofos we have as parents these days eh ? I can't abandon my kids until they stand firm... That makes me a TRUE FATHER 1 Like |
Re: My Daddy Abandoned Responsibility All Because He Is 50year Waiting To Die.. by Snow5(m): 10:05pm On May 25, 2017 |
delpee: The plan is already in MOTION. trust me. |
Re: My Daddy Abandoned Responsibility All Because He Is 50year Waiting To Die.. by NevetsIbot(m): 10:09pm On May 25, 2017 |
frenzyduchess:i saw that part. I always try to omit any part I believe is very sensitive about others but seeing tat you brought it up, i'll pass my view. Your ultimate revenge on him will be making it big time. He can have the bride price like your culture demans but that's all he's getting. No more! He might feel sorry for all he's done sooner or later, be ready to forgive him... No! Forgive him now and melt that grudge in you. Simply enjoy life to the fullest. The fact that someone is your father doesn't mean your fate is tied to him. 1 Like |
Re: My Daddy Abandoned Responsibility All Because He Is 50year Waiting To Die.. by bencarson007(m): 10:14pm On May 25, 2017 |
kimbra:. How I wish I can just marry you right now... Your vocality is appreciated... The parents are really stupid...I have no apologies... How can I have kids and abandon then when they need me most...I can't leave any of my kids unattended until they have stood firm in their choosen paths... That makes you a dad... @Kimbra, I no dey joke o... I wan marry you... I no fit marry dull wife o |
Re: My Daddy Abandoned Responsibility All Because He Is 50year Waiting To Die.. by Nobody: 10:20pm On May 25, 2017 |
NevetsIbot:I hold no grudge against him o,there are things he did I can't even say here, but i had self therapy, and realised he wasn't even worth it,its just this year that i decided to make my self scarce, i used to call him once in a while even though he has never called me since I was born,I even doubt he has my number stored in his phone, so why should I even allow such a person ruin my joy,its just so unfortunate that one doesn't choose their parents ,I will never choose my father,and I pray I never get to marry a man like him 1 Like |
Re: My Daddy Abandoned Responsibility All Because He Is 50year Waiting To Die.. by costal(m): 10:24pm On May 25, 2017 |
SalamRushdie:what where u doing boss,buying a car @ age 25 |
Re: My Daddy Abandoned Responsibility All Because He Is 50year Waiting To Die.. by NevetsIbot(m): 10:27pm On May 25, 2017 |
frenzyduchess:Really sorry dear. Glad you're moving on now. The goal in life now is to be happy. I hope it didnlt affect you socially? |
Re: My Daddy Abandoned Responsibility All Because He Is 50year Waiting To Die.. by Nina4u(f): 10:30pm On May 25, 2017 |
bencarson007:so you mean that if he don't got a job at 45 years of age its your responsibility to have him live in your house eat your food and by clothes for him..and give him an allowens.. Pay for transport and everything else? Is your head correct? |
Re: My Daddy Abandoned Responsibility All Because He Is 50year Waiting To Die.. by chibuzorAbia: 10:32pm On May 25, 2017 |
lollarj: You are the COMEDIAN! So you want to sit your ass down watching Nollywood while your father provides roof, food, fees, pocket money etc etc God punish you with poverty! |
Re: My Daddy Abandoned Responsibility All Because He Is 50year Waiting To Die.. by Nobody: 10:32pm On May 25, 2017 |
stagger: it is people like yhu and davido, that are responsible for some of the Ill intent that youth today nurse, yhu want him to be desperate, do yhu think the term hustling is a good term, do think every bodies time and destiny is the same. yhu just told him yhur time frame not what yhu do or did, for all we know yhu fit b ritualist. remember the rabbit and the tortures are both in the same forest, yet one ends up in the pot of soup faster than the other, after all the speed and hooping, yhu might just speed yhur way into yhur pot of soup. point is 20's is where people discover themselves and life purpose, if yhur lucky to discover it early, do not be responsible for another mans desperation. 4 Likes |
Re: My Daddy Abandoned Responsibility All Because He Is 50year Waiting To Die.. by chibuzorAbia: 10:35pm On May 25, 2017 |
bencarson007: Sorry to be rude but you are talking like an idiot! Go and hustle for yourself else hunger and poverty will hammer your life. Olodo! Your mates are already out there doing for themselves. |
Re: My Daddy Abandoned Responsibility All Because He Is 50year Waiting To Die.. by Nobody: 10:37pm On May 25, 2017 |
NevetsIbot: 1 Like |
Re: My Daddy Abandoned Responsibility All Because He Is 50year Waiting To Die.. by padi94(m): 10:37pm On May 25, 2017 |
dingbang: Lol... To me that's shortsighted a man.. my guess is the father was not a successful man |
Re: My Daddy Abandoned Responsibility All Because He Is 50year Waiting To Die.. by bencarson007(m): 10:43pm On May 25, 2017 |
Nina4u:. You are an idiot... Who mentioned age... If you can't make ur kids stand by 30, then you have failed... And for insulting me, is ur brain paining you or is ur sense finished... Did I insult u or do I know u from somewhere b4? We get beef b4 or ur brain don wash ? I merely stated what I will do as a father... E no concern you so make u just shut up there b4 thunder fire you... 1 Like |
Re: My Daddy Abandoned Responsibility All Because He Is 50year Waiting To Die.. by Nobody: 10:45pm On May 25, 2017 |
Na real Baba for the girls.
Daddy Show. |
Re: My Daddy Abandoned Responsibility All Because He Is 50year Waiting To Die.. by NevetsIbot(m): 10:47pm On May 25, 2017 |
frenzyduchess:That's sad. Well.. Ion wanna put too much of my personal life on social media.... I've got a lot to share with ya buh..... Let's just leave it at that and move past this sad topic. The night's cold here. I bet it is there. |
Re: My Daddy Abandoned Responsibility All Because He Is 50year Waiting To Die.. by Nobody: 10:51pm On May 25, 2017 |
NevetsIbot:the rains are here, cold nights will be frequent, but i have seen colder nights I thought I will freeze thanks to jos |
Re: My Daddy Abandoned Responsibility All Because He Is 50year Waiting To Die.. by Nina4u(f): 10:52pm On May 25, 2017 |
bencarson007:hahahahahaha thunder abi? You are funny and no I did not insult you so if you took it that way I apologize.. I was asking if there was an age bracket how far and much ur suppose to support your kids.. |
Re: My Daddy Abandoned Responsibility All Because He Is 50year Waiting To Die.. by mzhorlah(f): 10:57pm On May 25, 2017 |
sorry to say. your Dad is a shallow thinker. who thinks about death at that age |
Re: My Daddy Abandoned Responsibility All Because He Is 50year Waiting To Die.. by bencarson007(m): 11:03pm On May 25, 2017 |
chibuzorAbia: What's the essence of apologizing when you still went ahead to abuse me ? Well its my opinion and I am entitled to it... If as a father, I am not able to set my kids on the success path b4 26, I have then failed... So I am not waiting for them to get to 45 years first... Help them succeed young... And please don't insult me again... I won't go easy on you... Thanks 1 Like |
Re: My Daddy Abandoned Responsibility All Because He Is 50year Waiting To Die.. by Nobody: 11:05pm On May 25, 2017 |
Abi your hands and legs are functioning properly? |
Re: My Daddy Abandoned Responsibility All Because He Is 50year Waiting To Die.. by NevetsIbot(m): 11:07pm On May 25, 2017 |
frenzyduchess:lol.. Don't tell me Jos is cold.... Always thought the north was all sun and no rain. Lol |
Re: My Daddy Abandoned Responsibility All Because He Is 50year Waiting To Die.. by bencarson007(m): 11:09pm On May 25, 2017 |
Nina4u:. I respect ur maturity for apologising... Truce ?... I am also sorry about the way I responded...can we be friends? What I was trying to say is that I as a father should be there all the way for them to succeed... For instance, I can't just abandon my kids cos I am 50 and from what the op said, they are still very young and not even thru with school... So that's why I said the parents are delusional... As a father, I should have helped my kids stand firm by 26... That's why u r a dad... 2 Likes |
Re: My Daddy Abandoned Responsibility All Because He Is 50year Waiting To Die.. by Nobody: 11:10pm On May 25, 2017 |
NevetsIbot:stayed there for a while, its not north o,Part of middle belt ,its one of the coldest cities in Nigeria, just google 1 Like |
Re: My Daddy Abandoned Responsibility All Because He Is 50year Waiting To Die.. by nkemdi89(f): 11:13pm On May 25, 2017 |
Efewestern:Don't mind them it's only gullible minds that falls for all these social media sugar tongued scammers, even the rich sponsors their children till they are more than 30. You know what talk is cheap, since everyone are now forming analysts what do you expect. 2 Likes |
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