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The three girls have been with in my life left because I wasn't ready to give them a hundred percent attention.

I always tell them, if u are getting all the attention u need from me, then something is wrong with me. It can never be possible that a guy who's trying to make his life meaningful, will be at ur beck and call everytime u wish.

My first gf started complaining when I told her it's not possible for her to spend more than 5 days with me, then she started nagging and accusing me of hiding something from her. And ever since then the relationship Never recovered. We still stayed together for aN additional one year, making it 5, but eventually we separated.

My second girlfriend, we could only date for 2months, her own complain was that I didn't show up for her B-Day party in lagos, knowingfullywell that I have a very important meeting the previous day in Benin.

Then the most recent one wanted to come and visit me in Ibadan, I told her not to come yet because she will have to stay everyday alone from morning till night, because I wont be available for her . Then she started ranting about the attention Issue again.

Please u girls shouod know that before a guy can host a girl, he has to be ememotionally, psychologically, financially, mentally and physically stable to do so.

We have a lot of hidden battles we face, u dont have to make yourself AnOther Battle we need to win

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It depends on how u define ur Own attention ...
A sensible girl should understand that her guy cannot be all around her all the time.

Unless the guy wants to use her to make money(aka Money ritual.

Xway:
It depends on how u define ur Own attention ...
A sensible girl should understand that her guy cannot be all around her all the time.

Unless the guy wants to use her to make money(aka Money ritual.

U go scul