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stevecantrell:
Your story is by no means unique.

I even know cases where the girl took the guys names to the babalawo to know if it would work out.

Dont be surprised she took your name to a shrine and is just using pastor as a cover up

Count yourself fortunate, Shes has no brain or class at all.

Next time you go dating dont reveal too much about yourself in the early stages and dont let her get to know your mother's name until you know her better .

Ive heard about this too @bolded. Hahaha so its true... I think the gal is just trying to avoid getting into a marriage thatll she'll regret. Dont blame her. If it actually works me self go ask bout my gf.

D34lw4p:
she said the pastor said there's danger in the future if we become married.

Wow. Pls ask her why she thinks the pastors prediction will come to pass (why she believes him) and share the answer with us. Have you guys been quarreling? Was there a reason why she may have felt two of you do not belong together before the pastor came into the picture?

D34lw4p:
People of Nairaland, I need help biko! my girlfriend of 3 years just broke up with me after a pastor she has never seen before just came to her and told her the relationship can't work... pls this is a very serious case, what will you do if you were in her shoes or what do you advice me to do pls? the love is actually there but just yesterday everything has become sour, is it now normal to believe anything just like that? pls I need help.

Your gf broke up with you cause she wanted to break up with u

technicallyrich:
I know how you fell,because psychologically the person that fell the pain more of a broken relationship is the one that they dump why she would have been ready emotionally before quitting.
My advice is for you not to rush and start begging her that will kill the remaning fellings she has for you as nobody likes weak men but just tell her ok and give her time at best you send people to talk to her but not you.
Just. Console yourself with the fact that women are virtually. Everywhere looking for husband now.

Dear, thank you so much. I actually sent a friend to speak with her and we're back!

D34lw4p:
Dear, thank you so much. I actually sent a friend to speak with her and we're back!

Congrats!

Don't forget to invite us for the wedding.

ColtPython:
Congrats!

Don't forget to invite us for the wedding.

Sure, I will!

MY BROTHER MOST TIMES GOD REVEALS & DECIDE WHO YOU WILL YOU MARRY BUT THE SITUATION OF "FAKE PASTORS" IN OUR COUNTRY HAVE GIVEN BIRTH TO DOUBT OF THEIR MESSAGES I DON'T KNOW YOUR CAPABILITY IN THE CHURCH IF YOU EVEN ATTEND ONE I WOULD HAVE ADVICE YOU TO TAKE TO GOD IN PRAYER I BET YOU ANSWERS WILL BE GIVEN TO YOU!