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Here are some secrets that your wife will never tell you.

1. Do not talk about the past love
The boyfriends you had before falling in love with your husband should be a secret, especially if you keep in touch with some of them as friends, for example through social networks. The point is that if your husband is jealous, he will do his best to see your profile on social networks or search your cell phone. This is a way to promote conflict when it should not exist.

If your intention is to show your husband that you had thousands of choices before you choose him, you are making a mistake because the only thing he will understand is that you have been an insecure and unconscious person.

2. Not feeling able to achieve anything
One issue that must be kept silent is their insecurity. Marital life is full of new challenges and experiences, so be prepared to face whatever comes. Work on your confidence and security, do not be afraid to make decisions and express your feelings and emotions.

Most men fall in love with confident women who are not afraid of overcoming obstacles, reaching their goals, and fulfilling their purposes.7-secrets-that-no-woman-should-ever-reveal-to-her-husband

3. Problems of intimacy
For some women, it is taboo to talk about any problems that may arise in intimate relationships with your husband, and prefer to be quiet with the intention not to hurt the partner’s feelings or for fear of creating a conflict. However, intimate problems should not be hidden, on the contrary, it is necessary to talk about them to find solutions.

Now, when it comes to keeping your intimate fantasies, desires, and dreams secret, you are within your rights, it depends on each couple and yourself.

4. When you gain weight
Most women keep a secret of getting a little fat, even if in some situations your husband noticed and did not mention anything so as not to make her sad. It is something that can not be avoided and we prefer to leave it a secret. Getting to talk about it means demanding more of yourself and what you can achieve.

5. Other men
All women are attracted to other men, even if they do not express it or are obvious when they see them, but that does not mean that they will be unfaithful. It is advisable not to talk about it.


6. Make extra money
Some women prefer to keep a secret when they make money they were not expecting, and often use that money to take care of themselves or buy something they feel like. After all, it is an income that does not harm the well-being of the family.

7. A link or message from an ex
Many women are unforgettable. Although they are already married and have children, sometimes the ex-boyfriend continues to follow his every move. Of course, you just like him as a friend, or maybe not even that! But to avoid an attack of jealousy of your husband or a monumental anger, you prefer to keep secret. It was he who sought it, not you!

There are situations in which it is best to keep to yourself rather than creating confusion and misunderstanding, otherwise, you may have serious problems that will irreparably damage the relationship.


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Stuffs like these that you managed to hide will one day manage to find its way to his knowing...
When that happens... *mercy aigbe happens.

By the time one or two of them come back to haunt you, then you will blame your village people.
Better to live a good life in order to prevent hiding ugly secrets.

ok

It's not good to keep secrets from your man. The problem is, men claim to want the truth, but very few of them can handle it. Their mind isn't programmed for such...

Majority of your points are bothered on intimacy and other men. Tell him you had 1 ex, he will conclude it's 4. Tell him someone is hitting on you, he'll think you've accepted and trying to throw him off your tail. Tell him you enjoy sex, he'll start calculating how the hypothetical 4 ex drilled you, it might even affect how he relates with you. Okay, say you don't like sex, he'll say you're a pretender.

If men want to hear more truth, they have to start being more open-minded and less judgemental.

Being in a relationship with an average Nigerian man is a skill, add it to your CV.

7. never tell him the numbers of ABORTIONS you did before marrying him

pocohantas:
It's not good to keep secrets from your man. The problem is, men claim to want the truth, but very few of them can handle it. Their mind isn't programmed for such...

Majority of your points are bothered on intimacy and other men. Tell him you had 1 ex, he will conclude it's 4. Tell him someone is hitting on you, he'll think you've accepted and trying to throw him off your tail. Tell him you enjoy sex, he'll start calculating how the hypothetical 4 ex drilled you, it might even affect how he relates with you. Okay, say you don't like sex, he'll say you're a pretender.

If men want to hear more truth, they have to start being more open-minded and less judgemental.

Being in a relationship with an average Nigerian man is a skill, add it to your CV.

you are very wrong. and I can expantiate on that

Gourdoinc:
you are very wrong. and I can expantiate on that

Speak for yourself alone.

pocohantas:
Speak for yourself alone.

yet you opened ur buccal and spoke xtensively about men you know nothing about. you need evaluation

Gourdoinc:
yet you opened ur buccal and spoke xtensively about men you know nothing about. you need evaluation

Okay

Gourdoinc:
yet you opened ur buccal and spoke xtensively about men you know nothing about. you need evaluation

ignore her.. She is accusing men of been judgemental while still commiting the same sin

Keep hiding things,when the man finds out and dump ur lying ass,you will open a new account on nairaland and lament!!!!

pocohantas:
Speak for yourself alone.

Y not speak for your boyfriend alone, how many men have you experienced?