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Re: 'it's Irresponsible For Married Men To Stay Out Late By 11pm'' - Nigerian Lady by Bimpe29: 10:30am On Jun 05, 2017 |
Irresponsibility of the highest order. 1 Like |
Re: 'it's Irresponsible For Married Men To Stay Out Late By 11pm'' - Nigerian Lady by HarveySpecter1: 10:31am On Jun 05, 2017 |
These hoes want to judge the men but they hate to be judged on their waywardness, abortions and inability to get husbands. 1 Like |
Re: 'it's Irresponsible For Married Men To Stay Out Late By 11pm'' - Nigerian Lady by IamPragmatic(m): 10:35am On Jun 05, 2017 |
As a football lover, i go back home sometimes btw 10-11pm. Watching games @ home can never be compared to that of viewing centers and hotels. My dear, you never ready for the marriage if that's your take cos you will end up frustrating yourself at all times. Just try and be a loving caring wife and sometimes make him understand you need him buh not caging him. Hence he's not cheating on you, help him to unwind himself 4 Likes |
Re: 'it's Irresponsible For Married Men To Stay Out Late By 11pm'' - Nigerian Lady by pansophist(m): 10:38am On Jun 05, 2017 |
PaperLace: Oh, my post was written excluding the notion of "de-stressing with the boys", I skipped that part. But about staying late night outside, it's justifiable if it's about work. A bit of perspective, my mum run a restaurant for decades and usually reach home after 11pm. And so far, it has never been a source of conflict in the household. That's what I'm referring to. The part about been kidnapped has nothing to do with late night out, if kidnappers wants you, they will look for ways even if you don't do nights out. 4 Likes |
Re: 'it's Irresponsible For Married Men To Stay Out Late By 11pm'' - Nigerian Lady by Nobody: 10:42am On Jun 05, 2017 |
dingbang: |
Re: 'it's Irresponsible For Married Men To Stay Out Late By 11pm'' - Nigerian Lady by Nobody: 10:43am On Jun 05, 2017 |
pansophist:better... As for the kidnap, we all know most times they operate at night. |
Re: 'it's Irresponsible For Married Men To Stay Out Late By 11pm'' - Nigerian Lady by donqx: 11:10am On Jun 05, 2017 |
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Re: 'it's Irresponsible For Married Men To Stay Out Late By 11pm'' - Nigerian Lady by Greenbullet(m): 11:20am On Jun 05, 2017 |
I can boldly tell you that any man who stays out late when no need be has a wife with a bad attitude, a nagging machine. My uncles wife is a priceless gem, in fact my uncle loves coming home , imagine going to work and coming back to a very relaxing massage and good food . that's what my uncle enjoys but I know some Nigerian wife's , na to shout and disagree with their husband all day long ,no reasonable person will put his hand in fire that's why men come home late. |
Re: 'it's Irresponsible For Married Men To Stay Out Late By 11pm'' - Nigerian Lady by 99foxxy(f): 11:21am On Jun 05, 2017 |
Dear future husband, you can stay out late at night i won't bulge, but sleeping out is a no no. Men need to unwind and get the gist so i don't think i will have problem with him staying out late. 2 Likes |
Re: 'it's Irresponsible For Married Men To Stay Out Late By 11pm'' - Nigerian Lady by elda2303(m): 11:30am On Jun 05, 2017 |
Nne.. did u jst say "with ur permission" & "once in a while". This is serz, well since we r in the spirit of wishes.. I would also want the married woman 2be @home by 4pm (dat na if she get work) or sit quitely @home & make sure it's worth coming back 2 ( not spending it on Zee world or African magic) instead of spending all ur time in the saloon gossping. |
Re: 'it's Irresponsible For Married Men To Stay Out Late By 11pm'' - Nigerian Lady by shumuel(m): 12:03pm On Jun 05, 2017 |
dingbang: Do you now work with FBN or you just like that slogan ? |
Re: 'it's Irresponsible For Married Men To Stay Out Late By 11pm'' - Nigerian Lady by shumuel(m): 12:06pm On Jun 05, 2017 |
FlirtyKaren: She is totally right But lets joke about it a little; Make she come live for Lagos, even married women stay out late till 11:30pm at night, the Traffic jam is hell, especially in Ikorodu |
Re: 'it's Irresponsible For Married Men To Stay Out Late By 11pm'' - Nigerian Lady by ImaIma1(f): 12:09pm On Jun 05, 2017 |
FlirtyKaren: I don't think it is wrong for him to stay out till 11pm with his boys once in a while. I don't have a problem with it except it is a regular occurrence. Marriage is not a prison for both parties. It is a matter of understanding. Besides each marriage is peculiar...what works in mine might not work in yours. 1 Like |
Re: 'it's Irresponsible For Married Men To Stay Out Late By 11pm'' - Nigerian Lady by babapressy(m): 12:30pm On Jun 05, 2017 |
Not in a city called Lagos with heavy duty traffic |
Re: 'it's Irresponsible For Married Men To Stay Out Late By 11pm'' - Nigerian Lady by vivypretty(f): 12:53pm On Jun 05, 2017 |
Destined2win:I want that man too |
Re: 'it's Irresponsible For Married Men To Stay Out Late By 11pm'' - Nigerian Lady by abimic(m): 12:55pm On Jun 05, 2017 |
lalanice:.. Hilarious, if he's spending the day till that time of the night, it's best he spent the night there, very blunt! I know my baby could say same too. Married people are to spend enough time with their families because that was what they signed in for, no matter how eventualities took its toll, there is time for everything. One would wonder what a married man would be doing till that time of day only to be hanging out with friends, crap! when other days are there in the cool evening to hang out with friends. Night Night, I hate being out at those time... ... Make robbers, street urchins and police no go use person shine 1 Like |
Re: 'it's Irresponsible For Married Men To Stay Out Late By 11pm'' - Nigerian Lady by uwajeh(m): 1:02pm On Jun 05, 2017 |
It's also irresponsible for married women to gossip at every opportunity they have but then that's life. |
Re: 'it's Irresponsible For Married Men To Stay Out Late By 11pm'' - Nigerian Lady by lexy2014: 1:26pm On Jun 05, 2017 |
vargasvictory:a thousand reasons? Y get married in d first place if u have a thousand reasons 2 stay out late?if a mans wife can't cook didn't he no that b4 he married her? |
Re: 'it's Irresponsible For Married Men To Stay Out Late By 11pm'' - Nigerian Lady by lilyheaven: 2:10pm On Jun 05, 2017 |
Acidosis:—- 1 Like |
Re: 'it's Irresponsible For Married Men To Stay Out Late By 11pm'' - Nigerian Lady by Ngokafor(f): 2:13pm On Jun 05, 2017 |
verygudbadguy: |
Re: 'it's Irresponsible For Married Men To Stay Out Late By 11pm'' - Nigerian Lady by Nobody: 2:22pm On Jun 05, 2017 |
The Op is single... What does she know about marriage? I found that single women seem to have more wisdom about marriage...that is until they marry. I like to hang out with my guys, I also like to spend time with my woman. And I don't have to choose one above the others. My woman too gets to spend time with her friends. It is never healthy to cut-off friends because of relationship or marriage. By the way, a lot of hanging out happens on social media, after 11 pm. |
Re: 'it's Irresponsible For Married Men To Stay Out Late By 11pm'' - Nigerian Lady by chngebeginwthme: 2:26pm On Jun 05, 2017 |
Garrirevenge: Sorry you sound like the controlling type, You mean your man should choose you he met let's say 5yrs and get married to over his friends he had known for over 2 decades? I always tell my wife you can distance me from my new friends no wahala but the friends i have known decades before i even know about her existence? Kole werk.. 3 Likes |
Re: 'it's Irresponsible For Married Men To Stay Out Late By 11pm'' - Nigerian Lady by snowblaq(f): 3:09pm On Jun 05, 2017 |
fastgyal:So far as the man also stays with the kids at home once in a while too while his wife unwinds from all the stressful motherhood and wify duties.....no b only man dey stressed 2 Likes |
Re: 'it's Irresponsible For Married Men To Stay Out Late By 11pm'' - Nigerian Lady by jhudit(f): 3:42pm On Jun 05, 2017 |
chngebeginwthme:Marry your friends, let them born for you. That's how you people carry your friends matter for head, tomorrow you'll have issues and your friends home will be in peace. 1 Like |
Re: 'it's Irresponsible For Married Men To Stay Out Late By 11pm'' - Nigerian Lady by chngebeginwthme: 3:56pm On Jun 05, 2017 |
jhudit: LOL please remind me how many kids Davido have with his name now? Must i marry before i born pikin? hahah Baby mama sure pass jare who get time for woman nagging up and down.. 1 Like |
Re: 'it's Irresponsible For Married Men To Stay Out Late By 11pm'' - Nigerian Lady by XXCASH: 4:15pm On Jun 05, 2017 |
Rubbish. The white man came and taught us this rubbish (one man one wife) called monogamy which I challenge anyone to tell me where this was explicitly stated in the Bible. It didn't end there, now you ask that the man shouldn't go out again. Absolutely rubbish. |
Re: 'it's Irresponsible For Married Men To Stay Out Late By 11pm'' - Nigerian Lady by oribi(m): 4:21pm On Jun 05, 2017 |
jhudit: well great ladies understand there husband and also accommodate there friends...Some friends are blood they even do more than what family does.. |
Re: 'it's Irresponsible For Married Men To Stay Out Late By 11pm'' - Nigerian Lady by jhudit(f): 4:31pm On Jun 05, 2017 |
chngebeginwthme:Men will always be men, they'll put their sexual satisfaction before their kids. Why would someone that grew up in a stable home, want to subject his kids to a divided home. Well, maybe you are playing out the system you are used to. oribi:No problem, so far you understand that some of your wife friends are more important than you and allow her hang out with them at night. Be a great man too. |
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