Anaskie:
You made so much sense, especially @ the bolded.

It's refreshing to see such a reasonable comments like this, especially now where stupidity reigns on Nairaland.

eyinjuege:


Some of the men on here even pray to be raped till they pass out.
Its really sad how men don't seem to care.



Why don't you leave feminists out of this, and speak against the violation of men when raped?
Why not condemn female rapists?
Why not condemn those men who are advocating for their own rape and even pray to be violated by women?
Yet, its feminists who are minding their own business and advocating for what directly concerns them you chose to pour blames on here.
I feel you're looking in the wrong direction, misplaced priorities I would say. No woman has come on here so far to laugh about the rape of this man, or even trivialise it. But some men have, why not face them

uniqueogo:
it all depends on how ugly the women are

eyinjuege:


Everyone has their race and the charities/ beliefs/causes they hold dear.
Feminists have always been about women. Even the gender equality is about women in cases where women don't have the same advantages as men. (All from Google).
They have never lied about themselves or ever said they promote causes for men. So why are you expecting them to fill this thread when it's not a woman involved?
Do you really expect feminists to fight your cause?
Don't be lazy, and don't expect anything to be handed to you on a platter.
Speak out for what you believe in and don't expect anyone to do it for you.
If you have allies in feminists, perfect. If you don't, and you believe they can help your cause, then woo them to do so.
In the UK, we have men initiatives catering to men faced with domestic violence offering practical and emotional support for such men for example- refuge; mankind; men's adviceline etc.
Those are serious people not waiting for feminists to fight their causes/ battles.

asuustrike2009:

Am advocating for them to fight but they shouldn't be blind to see the truth. Their assumption is man can't be raped which is wrong

eyinjuege:


I've never heard of any feminist say men can't be raped.
I think you are the one that has assumed so.
The ones on this thread who have laughed, scorned and assumed that men can't be raped are sadly the men themselves. Maybe its youthful exuberance on their part, or maybe I'm just too serious to see the jokes.
Feminists are not anti-men as you have assumed, but rather pro- women.
That's the way I see them. Most of the ones I interact with on NL seem reasonable, and most importantly LOGICAL.
Now,in Nigeria, I know there's statutory rape of young boys by ladies(eg aunties, house helps), and even by some useless uncles somewhere ( sadly, male children are also being raped by men now). We should all speak against that.
This brazen act by the ladies in this particular story, is just shocking. This man wasn't just raped, he was kidnapped, drugged with God knows what, and then raped for days....

eyinjuege:


Everyone has their race and the charities/ beliefs/causes they hold dear.
Feminists have always been about women. Even the gender equality is about women in cases where women don't have the same advantages as men. (All from Google).
They have never lied about themselves or ever said they promote causes for men. So why are you expecting them to fill this thread when it's not a woman involved?
Do you really expect feminists to fight your cause?
Don't be lazy, and don't expect anything to be handed to you on a platter.
Speak out for what you believe in and don't expect anyone to do it for you.
If you have allies in feminists, perfect. If you don't, and you believe they can help your cause, then woo them to do so.
In the UK, we have men initiatives catering to men faced with domestic violence offering practical and emotional support for such men for example- refuge; mankind; men's adviceline etc.
Those are serious people not waiting for feminists to fight their causes/ battles.

Brunel:

Hello Eyinjuege, what part of the UK are you?

eyinjuege:


Better dey?

Somewhere in East of England..

All49ja:
Lol that's what they do when they have unfertile men like Jayceon, DictatorZAR1 etc that take allot of junks like 2litres of coke bottle at once.

I know My President would perform better in bed than an average Black S/African.

Whew!!

Jayceon:
yup,if he can rule 200 million brain-dead degenerates from his deathbed in London then I agree,he can perform better

Lol see you, why do your women protest for lack of fertile men?

South Africa is a leader in this alarming new trend, with an obesity rate nearly double the global average and, according to another report, becoming the world’s third-fattest nation. Approaching two-thirds of the population are overweight – and, unlike in the developed world, the problem affects more women than men. Incredibly, 69.3 per cent of South African women have unhealthy levels of body fat and more than four in ten are clinically obese.

You guys eat junks and your fertility reduces, but the whites amindst you stay a little healthier. They scam you to taking those junks so your fertility reduces as time passes.

My president has over 5 normal children, and still active in the other room. You sheeps are obesed, with diabetes. You have allot of problems to deal with in future if you keep this up.

ReubenE:
I'm surprised no one is saying cut their clitoris, or hang the vagina and club it.

Men now facing threats from everywhere but no one seem to care.
Like what someone once said, the whole world is campaigning for the rights of the girl child, from education, to gender, equal opportunities in governance etc.
The boy child will always grow up to be neglected, and will bomb us all for being so.