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Re: When A Man Is Richer Vs When A Woman Is Richer by HaneefahRN(f): 2:51pm On Jun 15, 2017
Silly thread.

Men don't handle riches any better.
You know a man's true character when there is money.
And what of the songs we hear everyday, ' the woman I paid on', the woman I did this', ' the woman I did that', always talking about how they provide, even those who don't sef will talk rubbish. They expect to be worshipped. They are proud.
But let the woman have just a little more everything she does will be seen as pride. Not necessarily cos she is proud but the man's ego can't handle a more successful woman.

Hypocrites

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Re: When A Man Is Richer Vs When A Woman Is Richer by eph12(m): 2:51pm On Jun 15, 2017
ivolt:


grin grin
This is laughable, you might as well ask me for examples of blue cloud.
Lol
If you talking about violence in homes then it doesn't have to be money related.

I don't want to assume I know where you're driving at and that was​ why I asked for​ examples.
Re: When A Man Is Richer Vs When A Woman Is Richer by Nobody: 2:52pm On Jun 15, 2017
I find it disgusting that the feeling to be with a woman won't let me be. If there are choices, I would just switch off that instinct, and live my cherished lonely life in peace.

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Re: When A Man Is Richer Vs When A Woman Is Richer by Lexusgs430: 2:54pm On Jun 15, 2017
able20:

You go...... try marry rich woman naa, you go become senior houseboy.

At least no be Junior houseboy...... I would rather be a financially and otherwise satisfied houseboy, than a hungry pretending poor incapable husband......

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Re: When A Man Is Richer Vs When A Woman Is Richer by GoodFaith: 2:55pm On Jun 15, 2017
SalamRushdie:
A friend of mine confided in me recently that his once loving wife just became rude over night and he doesn't know why and so I asked him if his wife just did aby major payment at home and he said yes she just paid thier daughters school fees for the the first time because he was having some financial difficulties, I told him when he pays her back she will change back to the loving wife she was but till then she will remain rude

Pay her back?
why
The daughter is only the man's daughter
Tell her to go marry her money
Re: When A Man Is Richer Vs When A Woman Is Richer by Nobody: 2:55pm On Jun 15, 2017
HaneefahRN:
Silly thread.

Men don't handle riches any better.
You know a man's true character when there is money.
And what of the songs we hear everyday, ' the woman I paid on', the woman I did this', ' the woman I did that', always talking about how they provide, even those who don't sef will talk rubbish. They expect to be worshipped. They are proud.
But let the woman have just a little more everything she does will be seen as pride. Not necessarily cos she is proud but the man's ego can't handle a more successful woman.

Hypocrites

God bless you for this!

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Re: When A Man Is Richer Vs When A Woman Is Richer by Lexusgs430: 2:55pm On Jun 15, 2017
Osanebi007:

If I open company with the money wey madam dey give me, you go work for me or not ?
Re: When A Man Is Richer Vs When A Woman Is Richer by Nobody: 2:56pm On Jun 15, 2017
Don't really care if shes richer dan dangote as long as she fufills all her wifely responsibilities & not nag in my ears for about how she bought d new plasma TV cause the one i bought was too local.

I will just pretend she is a smelly shyt

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Re: When A Man Is Richer Vs When A Woman Is Richer by TroubleMaker47(m): 2:57pm On Jun 15, 2017
PaperLace:

And men are the one that can handle success?
Where do you think the saying, a man's real character would be seen when he is rich, came from?
It's no use arguing a known fact!
Most women simply can't handle sucess and if that irks you that's entirely your business!

Even daily mail has something to say about female bosses

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1302096/Men-best-bosses-Women-just-moody.html

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Re: When A Man Is Richer Vs When A Woman Is Richer by GoodFaith: 3:01pm On Jun 15, 2017
Marriage is not all about money
It is two people working together for the betterment of the family
You are a team
Honestly men making the most money it is not a big deal 80%
20% of men will act foolish
But when women have more money it is 105% bigger deal
99% of women will act foolish

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Re: When A Man Is Richer Vs When A Woman Is Richer by Cinderella5(f): 3:02pm On Jun 15, 2017
DeadPresident:

I remember a lady i dated few years ago, she's​ the general manager of a multi million dollar company

She's 300 times richer than me

This stupid ass lady always bugs to give her money, take her on vacations, buy gifts for her

I've never see $1 from this idiot

Women are naturally dumb

All of them don't know what they want
she is dumb becauae she refused to give you her money? Are you a begger? Have you no shame? Gold digger.

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Re: When A Man Is Richer Vs When A Woman Is Richer by BiafraBushBoy(m): 3:04pm On Jun 15, 2017
damseyl:
This is very wrong. All ladies don't have same attitude

But you will say "All men are the same shebi?"
Re: When A Man Is Richer Vs When A Woman Is Richer by SalamRushdie: 3:04pm On Jun 15, 2017
GoodFaith:


Pay her back?
why
The daughter is only the man's daughter
Tell her to go marry her money

They had an agreement that he will pay her back once he gets some money ..he was even suprised his wife had that kind of money because she only provided it after he had exhausted all the available channels you get a loan from others
Re: When A Man Is Richer Vs When A Woman Is Richer by Cinderella5(f): 3:05pm On Jun 15, 2017
Lexusgs430:
Regardless, I go still marry woman wey rich pass me ......
it's easy to spot lazy men with no future ambition, you are a disgrace to men.
Re: When A Man Is Richer Vs When A Woman Is Richer by dominique(f): 3:06pm On Jun 15, 2017
PaperLace:
How do men handle being richer? tyranny?
Was it not on this same NL a thread was created asking people if they'll like to marry men like their fathers, and most people said no?
Citing how their father bossed everyone around because he is the sole provider? When a man is richer, he immediately crowns himself god, everyone falls into place. Isn't it this providing you men keep using to disturb someone's ear, why can't the woman feel important when she's assumes same role?

When a woman is richer, you expect her to belittle her achievements to please the man, she'll buy a car and has to tell people it's the husband that bought it _ that's the only way to look humble.

As far as I am concerned, the problem of most Nigerian men is ego. Aside their manhood and money, they feel useless. They have been brought up to feel they must provide and earn more. The moment they are not living up to that, insecurity sets in. Even the wife's footstep will be likened to pride.

I don't blame women that go for richer men at all!!!!
Work on your fecking insecurities and stop looking for a woman to control with money.

Couldn't have said it better. Nigerian men are the worst sets of hypocrites known to mankind

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Re: When A Man Is Richer Vs When A Woman Is Richer by Memories12411: 3:07pm On Jun 15, 2017
........ Yet nobody wants to marry a poor woman and make her rich. No mother inlaw wants a poor daughter inlaw.
Re: When A Man Is Richer Vs When A Woman Is Richer by TheRealestGuy(m): 3:07pm On Jun 15, 2017
ivolt:


How do the men handle being richer ?
They rule iron fist and you see nothing wrong with
it, so why being hypocritical when the table is turned ?

Even though it's basically individual differences I can boldly tell you that most women in authority tend to abuse power and privileges that come with authority. I've worked long enough to know this...

I think it's a complex much akin to the Napoleon's complex; they hastily misinterpret any opposition as one trying to undermine them cos they're female, then they wanna react to "show" such opposition that they're tough and they end up bungling up the whole situation.

How many CEOs of top companies are women? How many company owners would want a female in charge? Just a handful I bet you, cos of my aforementioned theory...

I think men are mostly endowed with the gift of EI to an extent while women have the gift of instinct and sixth Zena in abundance...

Just saying, no hard feelings smiley

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Re: When A Man Is Richer Vs When A Woman Is Richer by Praktikals(m): 3:08pm On Jun 15, 2017
fineboynl:
When a man is richer (by statics 80% of men) he don't make a big deal out it to take take of the family/relationship. However he sees it as his responsibility. He only gets reacted if the woman/wife is not respecting him or the woman/wife was forced on him.

But when a woman is richer (by statics 80 women) its hell for everybody in the family. Most especially the man. The woman sees it like she is doing him a favor. So with this she gets rude at any slight provocation. It always leads to disunity to every one in the house.



You are right from the point of view of the husband, but it pays the children when the mother is richer.

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Re: When A Man Is Richer Vs When A Woman Is Richer by Minemrys: 3:08pm On Jun 15, 2017
desreek9:
well, i dnt see any big deal with d woman being richer, communication and understanding shud be key between couples
in the m0vies, lady. Only in m0vies...

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Re: When A Man Is Richer Vs When A Woman Is Richer by ivolt: 3:10pm On Jun 15, 2017
eph12:

Lol
If you talking about violence in homes then it doesn't have to be money related.

I don't want to assume I know where you're driving at and that was​ why I asked for​ examples.

I am not talking about violence in homes, I am talking about who runs the home
and decides on critical issues.
The partner who wears the trousers.

Even if you have no experience of an African home setting, I don't expect you
to hold such stereotypes of richer women because you cannot experience one
without the other.

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Re: When A Man Is Richer Vs When A Woman Is Richer by dingbang(m): 3:10pm On Jun 15, 2017
When a thread about a woman who was earning 250k and her husband was earning just 70k was on frontpage, all hell was let loose.. I tell you that until I see a humble woman, I will not marry

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Re: When A Man Is Richer Vs When A Woman Is Richer by Sterope(f): 3:11pm On Jun 15, 2017
When a man is rich, rude, controlling and abusive...It is her money that is causing it. God forbid a human with financial power acts arrogantly...She can't possibly be arrogant because of small money. She is simply not human!

When a man is rich, rude, controlling and abusive.....He is being a man and a human being. No big deal. He is just rude, controlling and abusive, it has nothing to do with his gender at all.



When a woman is rich, she must not say ‘pim' about anything for fear that her husband may interpret it as arrogance.

When a woman is rich, her husband can easily muzzle her and treat her and her properties the way he likes because at the end of the day, she would be blamed for everything.



All hail the gender that is not allowed to act like a human being!!
!

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Re: When A Man Is Richer Vs When A Woman Is Richer by Minemrys: 3:12pm On Jun 15, 2017
PaperLace:
How do men handle being richer? tyranny?
Was it not on this same NL a thread was created asking people if they'll like to marry men like their fathers, and most people said no?
Citing how their father bossed everyone around because he is the sole provider? When a man is richer, he immediately crowns himself god, everyone falls into place. Isn't it this providing you men keep using to disturb someone's ear, why can't the woman feel important when she's assumes same role?

When a woman is richer, you expect her to belittle her achievements to please the man, she'll buy a car and has to tell people it's the husband that bought it _ that's the only way to look humble.

As far as I am concerned, the problem of most Nigerian men is ego. Aside their manhood and money, they feel useless. They have been brought up to feel they must provide and earn more. The moment they are not living up to that, insecurity sets in. Even the wife's footstep will be likened to pride.

I don't blame women that go for richer men at all!!!!
Work on your fecking insecurities and stop looking for a woman to control with money.
but i thought w0men love the authoritative/bossy men? Why the c0mplaint?

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Re: When A Man Is Richer Vs When A Woman Is Richer by Sterope(f): 3:14pm On Jun 15, 2017
Most women in authorityshocked

Can you please analyse that statement using Nigeria as an example?
TheRealestGuy:


Even though it's basically individual differences I can boldly tell you that most women in authority tend to abuse power and privileges that come with authority. I've worked long enough to know this...

I think it's a complex much akin to the Napoleon's complex; they hastily misinterpret any opposition as one trying to undermine them cos they're female, then they wanna react to "show" such opposition that they're tough and they end up bungling up the whole situation.

How many CEOs of top companies are women? How many company owners would want a female in charge? Just a handful I bet you, cos of my aforementioned theory...

I think men are mostly endowed with the gift of EI to an extent while women have the gift of instinct and sixth Zena in abundance...

Just saying, no hard feelings smiley
Re: When A Man Is Richer Vs When A Woman Is Richer by Cinderella5(f): 3:15pm On Jun 15, 2017
DeadPresident:


You see why i said that women are naturally dumb, you just proved to me that your brain is dead

Because she refused to give me her money ?? I was already a millionaire then, i can buy mansions for my mother

I never wanted her money because i have mine and can buy anything for myself

My problem is her asking me for money, now, you dumb feminist biitch, defend her actions

Go suck off your father
millionaire my arsee. She can ask you for money, nothing wrong with that, it gives a kind of feeling of satisfaction eating from your man, she will feel loved. Why should you be pained by that? Stingy thing.

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Re: When A Man Is Richer Vs When A Woman Is Richer by Sterope(f): 3:16pm On Jun 15, 2017
Talking about your mama, aren't you?
eph12:
99% of women cannot handle greater success than their husbands. It would cause chaos in that home.

Most Mothers are always quick to​ remind their children how useless their father is when he has problem providing for​ the home or when she's more successful
Re: When A Man Is Richer Vs When A Woman Is Richer by GoodFaith: 3:19pm On Jun 15, 2017
dingbang:
When a thread about a woman who was earning 250k and her husband was earning just 70k was on frontpage, all hell was let loose.. I tell you that until I see a humble woman, I will not marry

Good Luck
humble for real
women humble?
Have you heard the word
"Money miss road" when 90% of women have it
Re: When A Man Is Richer Vs When A Woman Is Richer by Nobody: 3:19pm On Jun 15, 2017
HaneefahRN:
Silly thread.

Men don't handle riches any better.
You know a man's true character when there is money.
And what of the songs we hear everyday, ' the woman I paid on', the woman I did this', ' the woman I did that', always talking about how they provide, even those who don't sef will talk rubbish. They expect to be worshipped. They are proud.
But let the woman have just a little more everything she does will be seen as pride. Not necessarily cos she is proud but the man's ego can't handle a more successful woman.

Hypocrites
You forgot "my house" and the plenty threats to throw her out and back to her father's house. They don't know that there are women also praying their husband doesn't get rich...hehe.

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Re: When A Man Is Richer Vs When A Woman Is Richer by Sterope(f): 3:23pm On Jun 15, 2017
Wow! You must be young to take statistics and opnion-ed at face value.


Look at this scenarios:

If a male boss should slap you now, you will not send the gender.

If a female boss should slap you now, you definitely will see the gender.

If a male boss ask you to do something or is being a piano in the as because he wants perfection, he is being an ass of a boss

If a female boss asks you to something or is being a perfectionist, how dare she? A mere woman like me (or lie my wife). She is acting like an asshole because she is a female boss

It is called gender bias. It is very much alive in the Western world and everywhere else. It is the same raosn stu.pid men and women would say women should be in corridor of power because of the likes of Diezani, conveniently forgetting about Saraki and co.

Well, you can keep worrying your head about gender while we keep soaring high..

TroubleMaker47:

It's no use arguing a known fact!
Most women simply can't handle sucess and if that irks you that's entirely your business!

Even daily mail has something to say about female bosses

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1302096/Men-best-bosses-Women-just-moody.html

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