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Re: My Girlfriend Versus Her Bestfriend Versus Me: Please Advice Me by Nobody: 10:06am On Jun 18, 2017
IamKashyBaby:
Well, u cant blame them..u gave them ur A-GAME wink u let them feel the "turbulence" in bed tongue
grin my kashybaby, always comforting me. So I should rather ignore their threats?
Re: My Girlfriend Versus Her Bestfriend Versus Me: Please Advice Me by justiniyke29:
Call them both nd ask for a threes0me or avoid them totally. personally i prefer the first advise
Re: My Girlfriend Versus Her Bestfriend Versus Me: Please Advice Me by FromZeroToHero(m): 11:45am On Jun 18, 2017
Lol. Are you saying they are now monitoring spirits? If thats the case you have to relocate to another city.
SingleDad1:
Bro, I am doing that, but it seems they are spying on me. They are everywhere this days.
Re: My Girlfriend Versus Her Bestfriend Versus Me: Please Advice Me by Nobody: 11:57am On Jun 18, 2017
justiniyke29:
Call them both nd ask for a party or avoid them totally. personally i prefer the first advise
Asking for a threes0me is more like asking for a deliberate murder grin , don't you think so?
Re: My Girlfriend Versus Her Bestfriend Versus Me: Please Advice Me by Nobody: 12:00pm On Jun 18, 2017
FromZeroToHero:
Lol. Are you saying they are now monitoring spirits? If thats the case you have to relocate to another city.
Bro grin , the matter tire me pass motor tyres . They are everywhere I go embarassed
Re: My Girlfriend Versus Her Bestfriend Versus Me: Please Advice Me by justiniyke29: 12:32pm On Jun 18, 2017
SingleDad1:
Asking for a threes0me is more like asking for a deliberate murder grin , don't you think so?
Nope u will be lyk(when i was young my mum always say be generous 2 d less previlege.) bt seriously dude talk 2 both of them,bt stay @ a safe distance,let it nt be said dat justiniyke has led u 2 be killed
Re: My Girlfriend Versus Her Bestfriend Versus Me: Please Advice Me by djgrafiti(m): 12:48pm On Jun 18, 2017
SingleDad1:
grin Okay, I started dating this girl, and we really got to love each other. Before we started, I sincerely told her we ain't going to get married. She accepted the deal, so it all started. 5months later, she was indirectly talking about marriage and how so many suitors are dying for her, my brothers and sisters, I sat her down and simply told her accept the proposal because in the next 15yrs I won't even be ready for marriage. You won't believe that she stopped picking my calls grin . I called her continuously for four weeks, its either she busy my calls or she would totally ignore the call.

So, I decided to move on, me and her friend started dating, although the dating wasn't serious, but the problem now is that, she is keeping malice with her friend, she's even threatening her friend to stay 1000miles away from her man sad .


It's so funny and at the same time mind bugging, although I felt sorry for her, but i already moved on, because right now, she's just threatening me up and down. If she call me, and I didn't pick up, a threat text message would follow immediately cheesy .


Her best friend has gone nuts, just last three weeks, she came visiting, and she started acting like a demon, I almost brought out my Bible in preparation for a serious demonic deliverance cry , she undressed her self and things got heated up, after the whole drama and sh!t, she got moody and started talking about us taking our relationship more serious shocked , immediately my heart stopped beating, because i know deep down inside me that I wasn't ready for any serious relationship with her. She gazed at me in disbelieve, she stood up, got herself all packaged up and left. And that was it.

Now the main problems is that, the two of them have ganged up against me, please mature people, what should I do next. Remember before we start anything, I told them, it won't go beyond dating.

Those who produce their own drama,should be left alone to bear their own karma.

Please advice me cool . Forgive my errors please.
Re: My Girlfriend Versus Her Bestfriend Versus Me: Please Advice Me by Nobody: 2:30pm On Jun 18, 2017
justiniyke29:
Nope u will be lyk(when i was young my mum always say be generous 2 d less previlege.) bt seriously dude talk 2 both of them,bt stay @ a safe distance,let it nt be said dat justiniyke has led u 2 be killed
grin bro , I ain't going close to any of them. And by the way, they are threatening my new catch
Re: My Girlfriend Versus Her Bestfriend Versus Me: Please Advice Me by justiniyke29: 2:42pm On Jun 18, 2017
SingleDad1:
grin bro , I ain't going close to any of them. And by the way, they are threatening my new catch
Hmm it seem's u people stay close 2 each other. tell ur new catch dat dey have a hard tym letting go
Re: My Girlfriend Versus Her Bestfriend Versus Me: Please Advice Me by Nobody: 2:45pm On Jun 18, 2017
justiniyke29:
Hmm it seem's u people stay close 2 each other. tell ur new catch dat dey have a hard tym letting go
they are far from me, but I wonder how they get to track my life. Bible said, Fear God , bro Fear women grin too
Re: My Girlfriend Versus Her Bestfriend Versus Me: Please Advice Me by bigcp(m): 3:26pm On Jun 18, 2017
My guy go relax urself....which 2 girls....they are just just being ladies...nothing more...wetin dem fit do...they can threaten for all i care...bt don't come near me....
my guy...that's what i normally do oo...i go 1st inform dem say i de emotionally unavailable b4 we start anything...that i don't wnt anything serious...but i go tk giod care of u like my gf..bt that's it...i cab leave at anytime..mostly after d 2nd sex..bt that no jst de work ooo...because after all these dem go still fall inlove with their eyes wide open....well, that's women 4 u....they work wuth their emotions more....i guess u should ignore them...but 1st try to apologize to them both....u sef u no try...why would u 4k 2 frnds...that's one shit I'll never do...my guy be carful...some 9ja girls r evil ...expecially d desperate ones...bye
Re: My Girlfriend Versus Her Bestfriend Versus Me: Please Advice Me by lammylam(f): 4:00pm On Jun 18, 2017
after viewing this topic and reading the comments!!! all i did was laugh laugh amd laugh again!

seriously desperate ladies can be very dangerous. your first mistake was having sex with the best friend (but girls self)

well whatever u do just be careful and i think u need to talk to them if u need to apologize do so (not cause u weak or scared but just to let sleeping dogs lie)

God help u
Re: My Girlfriend Versus Her Bestfriend Versus Me: Please Advice Me by Nobody: 5:19pm On Jun 18, 2017
bigcp:
My guy go relax urself....which 2 girls....they are just just being ladies...nothing more...wetin dem fit do...they can threaten for all i care...bt don't come near me....
my guy...that's what i normally do oo...i go 1st inform dem say i de emotionally unavailable b4 we start anything...that i don't wnt anything serious...but i go tk giod care of u like my gf..bt that's it...i cab leave at anytime..mostly after d 2nd sex..bt that no jst de work ooo...because after all these dem go still fall inlove with their eyes wide open....well, that's women 4 u....they work wuth their emotions more....i guess u should ignore them...but 1st try to apologize to them both....u sef u no try...why would u 4k 2 frnds...that's one shit I'll never do...my guy be carful...some 9ja girls r evil ...expecially d desperate ones...bye
thanks bro. I appreciate you A-words. But apologizing to them undecided , I did not offend anyone to my best knowledge.
Re: My Girlfriend Versus Her Bestfriend Versus Me: Please Advice Me by Nobody: 5:23pm On Jun 18, 2017
lammylam:
after viewing this topic and reading the comments!!! all i did was laugh laugh amd laugh again!

seriously desperate ladies can be very dangerous. your first mistake was having sex with the best friend (but girls self)

well whatever u do just be careful and i think u need to talk to them if u need to apologize do so (not cause u weak or scared but just to let sleeping dogs lie)

God help u
Thanks babe for your A-words, but why is everyone telling me to apologize to them?. I did not offend any of them.

U re beautiful.
Re: My Girlfriend Versus Her Bestfriend Versus Me: Please Advice Me by ifewise(m): 5:24pm On Jun 18, 2017
Apologize to ur Babe,After be careful & move on.
Re: My Girlfriend Versus Her Bestfriend Versus Me: Please Advice Me by justiniyke29: 5:41pm On Jun 18, 2017
SingleDad1:
they are far from me, but I wonder how they get to track my life. Bible said, Fear God , bro Fear women grin too
HELL hath no fury like a scorned woman
Re: My Girlfriend Versus Her Bestfriend Versus Me: Please Advice Me by Nobody: 5:47pm On Jun 18, 2017
justiniyke29:
HELL hath no fury like a scorned woman
grin
Re: My Girlfriend Versus Her Bestfriend Versus Me: Please Advice Me by Nobody: 5:48pm On Jun 18, 2017
ifewise:
Apologize to ur Babe,After be careful & move on.
why should i apologize?, please tell me
Re: My Girlfriend Versus Her Bestfriend Versus Me: Please Advice Me by Sanemind(m): 8:13pm On Jun 18, 2017
SUPERPACK:
Fuckgratulation.
grin
Re: My Girlfriend Versus Her Bestfriend Versus Me: Please Advice Me by ifewise(m): 8:16pm On Jun 18, 2017
SingleDad1:
why should i apologize?, please tell me
I understand but It doesnt cost u anything to say u sorry even though u hvnt wrong her.Just to soften her heart.
Re: My Girlfriend Versus Her Bestfriend Versus Me: Please Advice Me by bigcp(m): 9:50pm On Jun 18, 2017
SingleDad1:
thanks bro. I appreciate you A-words. But apologizing to them undecided , I did not offend anyone to my best knowledge.
well to the best of my knowledge...u are the one being threatened....if u value your life...do d right thing...even if a girl agree to de bang u regularly without commitment...that spiritual bond go ever over cloud her sense of reasoning...then she go start de develop feelings 4 u...na so God wire dem....unless she be professional Okpo....or she do have multiple sex partners...but if its just u....she'll definitely start developing feelings 4u....that's why i try as much as possible not to go more than 3 times....
pray mk u no meet ogbanje...because you'll definitely pay with ur life...if u decide 2 dump her....b wise. ..
Re: My Girlfriend Versus Her Bestfriend Versus Me: Please Advice Me by Nobody: 10:45pm On Jun 18, 2017
bigcp:
well to the best of my knowledge...u are the one being threatened....if u value your life...do d right thing...even if a girl agree to de bang u regularly without commitment...that spiritual bond go ever over cloud her sense of reasoning...then she go start de develop feelings 4 u...na so God wire dem....unless she be professional Okpo....or she do have multiple sex partners...but if its just u....she'll definitely start developing feelings 4u....that's why i try as much as possible not to go more than 3 times....
pray mk u no meet ogbanje...because you'll definitely pay with ur life...if u decide 2 dump her....b wise. ..
Damn embarassed . you are sending a cold chill down my spine. I will call her midnight and apologize.
Re: My Girlfriend Versus Her Bestfriend Versus Me: Please Advice Me by Nobody: 10:46pm On Jun 18, 2017
ifewise:
I understand but It doesnt cost u anything to say u sorry even though u hvnt wrong her.Just to soften her heart.
bro, thanks a lot. Would apologize to her. Am going to call her this midnight and apologize, then talk some sense into her.
Re: My Girlfriend Versus Her Bestfriend Versus Me: Please Advice Me by lammylam(f): 12:10pm On Jun 19, 2017
SingleDad1:
Thanks babe for your A-words, but why is everyone telling me to apologize to them?. I did not offend any of them.

U re beautiful.
true u didn't offend any of them but girls will always be girls those ladies feel cheated

its easy for guys to laugh it off and make jokes out of it but it ain't that way with ladies

u told them u aiint ready for commitment but a lady would still go ahead thinking she would be able to change ur mind

like i sd b4 u apologising to them is to let sleeping dogs lie. try to make amends.


n thanks for d compliment
Re: My Girlfriend Versus Her Bestfriend Versus Me: Please Advice Me by Nobody: 12:38pm On Jun 19, 2017
lammylam:
true u didn't offend any of them but girls will always be girls those ladies feel cheated

its easy for guys to laugh it off and make jokes out of it but it ain't that way with ladies

u told them u aiint ready for commitment but a lady would still go ahead thinking she would be able to change ur mind

like i sd b4 u apologising to them is to let sleeping dogs lie. try to make amends.


n thanks for d compliment
Thanks. I called both of them yesterday, they ain't willing to hear me out. embarassed , am i still suppose to keep begging them?
Re: My Girlfriend Versus Her Bestfriend Versus Me: Please Advice Me by lammylam(f): 1:04pm On Jun 19, 2017
SingleDad1:
Thanks. I called both of them yesterday, they ain't willing to hear me out. embarassed , am i still suppose to keep begging them?
smile they wouldn't wanna give in that cheap give them time , give them space and call again.

it might not be an immediate forgiveness but atleast its worth it believe me its for ur own good.

by Gods grace it wont be long.
Re: My Girlfriend Versus Her Bestfriend Versus Me: Please Advice Me by Nobody: 1:12pm On Jun 19, 2017
lammylam:
smile they wouldn't wanna give in that cheap give them time , give them space and call again.

it might not be an immediate forgiveness but atleast its worth it believe me its for ur own good.

by Gods grace it wont be long.
okay babe. Thanks for sharing your time with me. U re a sweetheart. Would give them time. I would also create a thread to tell people the final story...
Re: My Girlfriend Versus Her Bestfriend Versus Me: Please Advice Me by drnoel:
goodmorning40:
U dey craze
Where are they let me help them with ak47 to finish u sharp sharp

U left a girl and u went for her friend how did u think she will not want to u poison
Please if u are not ready for relationship proceeds stay away from relationship
Allow those little boys that are praising the fool. What a very stuwpid stuwpid move. U left a girl and went to her friend and left her too. Devil will punish u for ur misendeavour. U should remember the saying "hell knows no furious like that of a woman scorned", that was for just one woman. When u bring two women in the equation na spiritual attack. Now u will have to live ur days always wondering who is behind ur back and if those movement in the shadow are real. Let me congratulate u for being able to achieve what most men who are not very smart happen to achieve in a short time and say in addition "a moment silent for ur soul"
Re: My Girlfriend Versus Her Bestfriend Versus Me: Please Advice Me by Nobody: 2:48pm On Jun 19, 2017
drnoel:
Allow those little boys that a praising the fool. What a very stuwpid stuwpid move. U left a girl and went to her friend and left her too. Devil will punish u for ur misendeavour. U should remember the saying "hell knows no furious like that of a woman scorned", that was for just one woman. When u bring two women in the equation na spiritual attack. Now u will have to live ur days always wondering who is behind ur back and if those movement in the shadow are real. Let me congratulate u for being able to achieve what most men who are not very smart happen to achieve in a short time and say in addition "a moment silent for ur soul"
you are a mad boy. You could have stay off my thread rather you decided to come here and show me how foolish you are. That's why i seek for mature advice, not some kid who is feeding under his parents. Congratulations

Re: My Girlfriend Versus Her Bestfriend Versus Me: Please Advice Me by drnoel: 2:56pm On Jun 19, 2017
SingleDad1:
you are a mad boy. You could have stay off my thread rather you decided to come here and show me how foolish you are. That's why i seek for mature advice, not some kid who is feeding under his parents. Congratulations
I am so sorry I had to talk in that way, but that thing u did was very stuwpid. I didn't insult ur person if u notice, just ur stuwpid action. If that doesn't agree with u, then go to hell. U really should be flogged. Anyways, congratulations for that stuwpid action. God, all these small boys will never learn. If u look beyond all the rhetorics, u will thank me later.
Re: My Girlfriend Versus Her Bestfriend Versus Me: Please Advice Me by moorevic(m): 2:58pm On Jun 19, 2017
They are yet to swear for you.
Re: My Girlfriend Versus Her Bestfriend Versus Me: Please Advice Me by Nobody: 3:17pm On Jun 19, 2017
drnoel:
I am so sorry I had to talk in that way, but that thing u did was very stuwpid. I didn't insult ur person if u notice, just ur stuwpid action. If that doesn't agree with u, then go to hell. U really should be flogged. Anyways, congratulations for that stuwpid action. God, all these small boys will never learn. If u look beyond all the rhetorics, u will thank me later.
Don't have your time kid. I had rather argue with a matured kid than a matured fool. Bye
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