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fpeter:
I already feel sad for your family, especially the kids you're raising. With a "perfectionist" like you, who needs a sadist? I see how you are passing on the good traits to your kids by reading your "competent" replies to all those who opposed your style of parenting. Good luck with your bitter self and as for the insults, they don't bother me.

And that sadness will not depart from your household. Say amen! People look at me and my son play and relate and get jealous. Very sharp, happy young man with an ecstatic father.

The problem with you plebs is you cannot fathom having well-behaved children without first killing them with cane and koboko while garnishing it with curses. I have a superior way of raising children. If you like believe, if you like don't believe. Na you sabi. I done talk my own.

There is a reason why "good children belong to their fathers, while bad ones are their mom's". You women generally don't know how to raise children. You approach the task emotionally while children need to be dealt with with spine.

Instead of you to marry a man that knows what he's doing, you went and married a fucck boy that knows nothing aboutvhiw to raise good children. You better carry your incompetent self away from my mentions.

Timbuktuo:
And that sadness will not depart from your household. Say amen! People look at me and my son play and relate and get jealous. Very sharp, happy young man with an ecstatic father.

The problem with you plebs is you cannot fathom having well-behaved children without first killing them with cane and koboko while garnishing it with curses. I have a superior way of raising children. If you like believe, if you like don't believe. Na you sabi. I done talk my own.

There is a reason why "good children belong to their fathers, while bad ones are their mom's". You women generally don't know how to raise children. You approach the task emotionally while children need to be dealt with with spine.

Instead of you to marry a man that knows what he's doing, you went and married a fucck boy that knows nothing aboutvhiw to raise good children. You better carry your incompetent self away from my mentions.

wow I love your parenting method, because too much beating and lashing the kids only makes them more stubborn.
I could remembered what my first daughter told me she said mummy stop beating us and talk to us we are not animals. I was shocked and ashamed of myself, I told her you guys made me to repeat one particular instruction severally. it is irritating and gives me headache.
she replied me that, I should buy whistle and blow it loudly they will all stop and listen. Funny but it has been working for us, so bashing, beating, flogging etc sometimes don't work but dialogue.

successnwa:
wow I love your parenting method, because too much beating and lashing the kids only makes them more stubborn.
I could remembered what my first daughter told me she said mummy stop beating us and talk to us we are not animals. I was shocked and ashamed of myself, I told her you guys made me to repeat one particular instruction severally. it is irritating and gives me headache.
she replied me that, I should buy whistle and blow it loudly they will all stop and listen. Funny but it has been working for us, so bashing, beating, flogging etc sometimes don't work but dialogue.

Thank you, madam. Your daughter sounds intelligent, that whistle put a smile on my face. I also noticed the dynamic between you and her, she seems free to talk to you, and I am glad you considered her point of view.

The thing with children is that they have to play, that is how they learn. That is how they understand life and relationships. However, in their adventure they have to understand that there are some things you don't just do. Nobody watches their children stick their hands in fire or electricity, that's the same way you stop them from doing things that must not be done; constantly repeating till they get the message.

I was at Shoprite on sunday and it was packed full with different families. Some with well-behaved children, some with unruly children. It was interesting to watch as both sets of children were happy. According to fpeter and concept65, the ones who weren't running around and scattering products from shelves are unhappy children with psychological problems. But that's far from the truth. Children are innocent and they act out what they have been taught. Teach them to play responsibly and they I'll, teach them they can do as they please and they will take up the offer.

Regards to your family.

Timbuktuo:
And that sadness will not depart from your household. Say amen! People look at me and my son play and relate and get jealous. Very sharp, happy young man with an ecstatic father.

The problem with you plebs is you cannot fathom having well-behaved children without first killing them with cane and koboko while garnishing it with curses. I have a superior way of raising children. If you like believe, if you like don't believe. Na you sabi. I done talk my own.

There is a reason why "good children belong to their fathers, while bad ones are their mom's". You women generally don't know how to raise children. You approach the task emotionally while children need to be dealt with with spine.

Instead of you to marry a man that knows what he's doing, you went and married a fucck boy that knows nothing aboutvhiw to raise good children. You better carry your incompetent self away from my mentions.

Why do you feel you have to insult people to pass you message across? It doesn't speak well of your person one bit. Im also bothered as to how your mother will feel reading what you wrote up there about mother's? Ask yourself are you like your father? And would you be happy if your son grows to think and act like you? Or your daughter bringing home a man that is YOU in character?

Grow up mister! you sound young and pubescent a very far contrast from the macho man great dad no nonsense daddy you want us to believe.

Liftedhands:
Why do you feel you have to insult people to pass you message across? It doesn't speak well of your person one bit. Im also bothered as to how your mother will feel reading what you wrote up there about mother's? Ask yourself are you like your father? And would you be happy if your son grows to think and act like you? Or your daughter bringing home a man that is YOU in character?

Grow up mister! you sound young and pubescent a very far contrast from the macho man great dad no nonsense daddy you want us to believe.

I'm sure your father was the absentee type, otherwise you wouldn't feel so free invoking my own father into your brainless rant. Which also speaks about your mother's lack of discerning in marrying and bearing children for a man like him.

If you are not blind, you would see where I responded to people on this thread without one insult. But of course, you choose to see what you want to see. Fortunately for you, that's not really my business. I would advise you to stay off my mentions and rather seek out ways to correct the character defects of your wayward children.

I am not here to impress you or make you like me. I am perfectly indifferent to how my post makes you feel.

Timbuktuo:
I'm sure my father was the absentee type, otherwise you wouldn't feel so free invoking my own father into your brainless rant. Which also speaks about your mother's lack of discerning in marrying and bearing children for a man like him.

If you are not blind, you would see where I responded to people on this thread without one insult. But of course, you choose to see what you want to see. Fortunately for you, that's not really my business. I would advise you to stay off my mentions and rather seek out ways to correct the character defects of your wayward children.

I am not here to impress you or make you like me. I am perfectly indifferent to how my post makes you feel.

Good for you boy.

Guys easy.... You all should know that children differs, a child who is naturally adventurous there is little or nothing you can do tame him or her. If you have more than 5 children you will relate with this easily, plus stubbornness has its good side also... no child is bad, parents have to be good managers also.

Timbuktuo:
Did it ever occur to you that I dont spank him frequently because I employ other means of correction? Do you even know what a spank means? I don't have to whip him like he's Kunta Kinte before passing my message across. I punish him and talk to him. We actually have discussions about why he's been punished. He actualky understands what i talk about, at least, he pretends to. . And this has been going on since he showed he could inderstand what was being said. That is how to raise a well-adjusted child, not barbaric, impulse-induced lashings like most of you are wont to indulge in.

I am happy to let you know that he has a very healthy appetite for play and adventure. He's very intelligent and not afraid to ask questions and test boundaries. We relate as pals but he knows I can fucck him up if he steps out of line. I'm sure he'll grow to be a fine young man.

Per getting excited in public places, I once spanked him at a mall because he assumed I wouldn't because we were in public. That is the last time I've had to do that, and that was about three years ago. Now, at malls, if he wants to explore, he drags me and tries to cajole me to do so with him. Sometimes I do, sometimes I don't, and he knows better than to leave my side in public. Children are inquisitive but their curiosity can be controlled and properly channelled.

Again, I speak from experience. Just because other children are running around like headless chickens doesn't mean my son has to do so.

Sir, I think you shld stop replying these people..I get you..in fact you are absolutely correct..I was in a church programme & the guest Evangelist narrated how he disciplined his few minutes old baby, yes few minutes/new born baby.. & he went on on how his children know better not to misbehave anywhere (home or public places)
now bringing it home, my baby brother behaves himself whenever I am home, in fact our parents even get him to behave by threatening to report him to me...I despise unruly behaviour, I hate to see children misbehaving in public, but what I hate most is when the parent has absolute no control over that child .the worst is when u try to caution the child & they tell you "leave him/her, he/she is just a child"..you catch them young, & as you said, when you delay,you make your job harder.. yes I don't have a child yet, but heaven knows I won't 'spare the rod & spoil the child',God forbid..

mzjaney:
What are you saying?


kids will always be kids.. especially wen they are less than 6years old.

Just wait until you start having ur own children.

yes oo

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