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There is this lady I just met not up to a month,just two weeks ago I over heard her boasting to her friend that she 'll keep me for one year or even make me propose,without getting intimate with her,to be honest this is greatest shock I have ever received from a lady I intend to settle with,even if that is what she has in mind for me,must she boast about it,the way she did to her friend, but on the contrary from my own point of view I think she has been taken advantage of in the past, due to this act of hers I have not contacted her for the past one week.So Guys/ladies in the house do u think is possible for a lady to keep a guy in a relationship or even making him go to the lenght of proposing to her without intimacy, knowing fully well that intimacy is an integral part of a relationship.

I need to see the lady for evaluation before I know if u should continue or not

What you posted

1234IKECHhukwu:
...So Guys/ladies in the house do u think I should continue with this relationship,....

What I see

1234IKECHhukwu:
...So Guys/ladies in the house do u think I should I allow myself to be friendZoned....

Modified.

This is a charming post OP.
I don't think you are worried about the sex as much as you think.
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The real issue here is that your EGO is bruised.
You feel played.
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You who is supposed to be the player has been played and it hurts not your heart but your EGO.
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I mean you are the man!
You can't take it easy thinking and knowing you aren't the boss as you are used to feeling.
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So you prefer to leave the relationship than lose your EGO.
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Well your sauce, your spicy liking.
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Enjoy.