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| Please Help Me..... My In-laws Did Not Show Concern by plentyme(op): 9:19pm On Jul 08, 2017 |
Good evening Nairalander. There is something bothering my mind and giving me sleepless night which I will like you to help me out................ I have been married for a year and half now without any issue, though my hubby did not give me any problem or complained about it. But the problem is that......my in-laws has never asked me anything about it or even call to give me any advice concerning it. My question is...................Is it normal or proper for them not to ask me or is it too early for them to show concern? 1 Like |
| Re: Please Help Me..... My In-laws Did Not Show Concern by swiz123(m): 9:21pm On Jul 08, 2017 |
It's normal probably cos it's too early.if you are certain that you are healthy,then wait for God's time. |
| Re: Please Help Me..... My In-laws Did Not Show Concern by smartty68(m): 9:22pm On Jul 08, 2017 |
Are the blank spaces for guess work  |
| Re: Please Help Me..... My In-laws Did Not Show Concern by joiful(f): 9:28pm On Jul 08, 2017 |
Well, it depends on the kind of relationship you have with me, they may want to ask you and maybe thinking of how you will feel draws them back. Also, maybe they think it is too early. If you are comfortable with your MIL, you can talk to her. All the best and may God bless you with your own children. 4 Likes |
| Re: Please Help Me..... My In-laws Did Not Show Concern by bigtt76(f): 9:30pm On Jul 08, 2017 |
If your in-laws decide de on top your matter (Wizkid accent) now, na you go begin complain. I guess they're learned and civilized to know better than interfere. plentyme: 13 Likes |
| Re: Please Help Me..... My In-laws Did Not Show Concern by mrssho: 9:31pm On Jul 08, 2017 |
I'm not sure what the issue is? If they start asking you will say they are putting you under pressure. They are probably trying to reach sensitive and patient. I've been married 5 years and my inlaws have never asked me either all the do is pray about it. Madam don't go looking for issues where there are no issues. If my brothers wife were in the same position I won't ask anything either 13 Likes |
| Re: Please Help Me..... My In-laws Did Not Show Concern by dollytino4real(f): 9:37pm On Jul 08, 2017 |
dont drink a.p.c for headache u dont have. u still ve time, wen it is 20yrs b4 u worry so enjoy. |
| Re: Please Help Me..... My In-laws Did Not Show Concern by Davidgrey: 9:40pm On Jul 08, 2017 |
plentyme:[color=#000050] @Highlighted Stop clowning yourself, Your husband is unhappy, The fact that he doesn't talk about it doesn't negate the fact that the situation bothers him| Hopefully you would become a mother some-day and "See" that there is noise in their silence, Before ranting always try to empathize. Your in-laws having no business with you should be the "least" of your worries right now! [/color] 2 Likes |
| Re: Please Help Me..... My In-laws Did Not Show Concern by lekjons(m): 9:53pm On Jul 08, 2017 |
what's the problem exactly |
| Re: Please Help Me..... My In-laws Did Not Show Concern by Nutase: 9:56pm On Jul 08, 2017 |
Maybe they know their son is firing blanks. 1 Like |
| Re: Please Help Me..... My In-laws Did Not Show Concern by Nobody: 6:44am On Jul 09, 2017 |
plentyme:Tell them to show you concern 1 Like |
| Re: Please Help Me..... My In-laws Did Not Show Concern by 2dice01: 8:14am On Jul 09, 2017 |
Pidgin2:hey where have you been ma'am |
| Re: Please Help Me..... My In-laws Did Not Show Concern by Agbaletu: 9:08am On Jul 09, 2017 |
plentyme:The day your in-laws start showing concern just know that that is the day you will start feeling the heat. |
| Re: Please Help Me..... My In-laws Did Not Show Concern by cococandy(f): 10:02am On Jul 09, 2017 |
Keep looking for problems where there are none. I swear some people can't live without drama in their lives. You know you can call them to find out why they aren't disturbing you about it.  3 Likes |
| Re: Please Help Me..... My In-laws Did Not Show Concern by Nobody: 12:48pm On Jul 09, 2017 |
if they start talking now u would say they're disturbing u because u don't yet have a child, but they're leaving u be and u are complaining. |
| Re: Please Help Me..... My In-laws Did Not Show Concern by jnrbayano(m): 12:57pm On Jul 09, 2017 |
Op, Are you okay? It doesn't seem to me you are. I didn't mean to be rude though. |
| Re: Please Help Me..... My In-laws Did Not Show Concern by Nobody: 2:21pm On Jul 09, 2017 |
2dice01:Did you miss me?  |
| Re: Please Help Me..... My In-laws Did Not Show Concern by 2dice01: 3:24pm On Jul 09, 2017 |
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