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Help Me My Relationship Is Crashing!!! by Freecassavaforu(op): 8:29am On Jul 13, 2017
I DON'T KNOW WHAT IS WRONG WITH HER. WE HAD AN ARGUMENT LAST WEEK WHICH WE RESOLVED. JUST START NOTICING HER BEEN COLD TOWARDS ME I TRIED TO GET HER TALK WHAT'S IS WRONG BUT SHE KEPT MUTE..
GUYS PLS I NEED YOUR ADVISE ON WHAT TO DO...

MATURED MINDS PLS
THANKS!!!
Re: Help Me My Relationship Is Crashing!!! by VargasVee(m): 8:30am On Jul 13, 2017
Someone is shagging her brain senseless

undecided
Re: Help Me My Relationship Is Crashing!!! by lalanice(f): 8:53am On Jul 13, 2017
VargasVee:
Someone is shagging her brain senseless


undecided
everything with you guys is always about shagging.....Siick.


you don't even know the full story, there are so many reasons a woman could go cold and sleeping with someone else is not the first.
Re: Help Me My Relationship Is Crashing!!! by VargasVee(m): 8:56am On Jul 13, 2017
lalanice:
everything with you guys is always about shagging.....Siick.


you don't even know the full story, there are so many reasons a woman could go cold and sleeping with someone else is not the first.
Are you the woman in question?


Humor me undecided
Re: Help Me My Relationship Is Crashing!!! by professorfal: 8:57am On Jul 13, 2017
lalanice:
everything with you guys is always about shagging.....Siick.


you don't even know the full story, there are so many reasons a woman could go cold and sleeping with someone else is not the first.
It shouldn't be like that truth be told but history and personal experience changed our perception.
Re: Help Me My Relationship Is Crashing!!! by CROWNWEALTH019(m): 9:02am On Jul 13, 2017
Somebody is bursting her speakers grin
Re: Help Me My Relationship Is Crashing!!! by ItsPeeJayy(m): 9:02am On Jul 13, 2017
WTF.. nigga is her name Money just forget about her joor....The only things worth worrying over are things that get you paid.
Re: Help Me My Relationship Is Crashing!!! by thickminaj(f): 9:03am On Jul 13, 2017
Freecassavaforu:
I DON'T KNOW WHAT IS WRONG WITH HER. WE HAD AN ARGUMENT LAST WEEK WHICH WE RESOLVED. JUST START NOTICING HER BEEN COLD TOWARDS ME I TRIED TO GET HER TALK WHAT'S IS WRONG BUT SHE KEPT MUTE..
GUYS PLS I NEED YOUR ADVISE ON WHAT TO DO...

MATURED MINDS PLS
THANKS!!!
probably you said somethings she wasn't expecting ... Give her some time she'll come around.. But why did u jst put everything in caps undecided... Anyway my one kobo
Re: Help Me My Relationship Is Crashing!!! by Amarabae(f): 9:05am On Jul 13, 2017
Hmmm. Give her space and time! Ok. We all have our special way of getting over misunderstandings.
Re: Help Me My Relationship Is Crashing!!! by Amarabae(f): 9:05am On Jul 13, 2017
Hmmm. Give her space and time! Ok. We all have our special way of getting over misunderstandings.
Re: Help Me My Relationship Is Crashing!!! by Nobody: 9:16am On Jul 13, 2017
Freecassavaforu:
I DON'T KNOW WHAT IS WRONG WITH HER. WE HAD AN ARGUMENT LAST WEEK WHICH WE RESOLVED. JUST START NOTICING HER BEEN COLD TOWARDS ME I TRIED TO GET HER TALK WHAT'S IS WRONG BUT SHE KEPT MUTE..
GUYS PLS I NEED YOUR ADVISE ON WHAT TO DO...

MATURED MINDS PLS
THANKS!!!
Just Relax and keep mute too. Pls just assume you have lost her already. So you won't bothered much.

Women would give you so much worry, you'll begin to wonder !

Just keep playing her game & don't react Nor complain. It makes women crazy.
Re: Help Me My Relationship Is Crashing!!! by Ghosttt(m): 9:42am On Jul 13, 2017
Op sense fall on u right now. angry

How can u cm here and be asking for advice when all u gave us to start with are encoded preambles?

If u really want help, start by telling us what caused the argument lastweek, what u said to her during d course of the argument and how did u guys resolve it.

If u want help den u need to knw dat u dnt have to be lazy in explaining in details what had happened.
Re: Help Me My Relationship Is Crashing!!! by Nobody: 9:43am On Jul 13, 2017
Freecassavaforu:
I DON'T KNOW WHAT IS WRONG WITH HER. WE HAD AN ARGUMENT LAST WEEK WHICH WE RESOLVED. JUST START NOTICING HER BEEN COLD TOWARDS ME I TRIED TO GET HER TALK WHAT'S IS WRONG BUT SHE KEPT MUTE..
GUYS PLS I NEED YOUR ADVISE ON WHAT TO DO...

MATURED MINDS PLS
THANKS!!!
Just zone her out.. If she still loves you, she will come running. Give her that space
Re: Help Me My Relationship Is Crashing!!! by Nobody: 9:43am On Jul 13, 2017
women full market.go get another one.
Re: Help Me My Relationship Is Crashing!!! by Ghosttt(m): 9:46am On Jul 13, 2017
truthsayer009:
Just Relax and keep mute too. Pls just assume you have lost her already. So you won't bothered much.

Women would give you so much worry, you'll begin to wonder !

Just keep playing her game & don't react Nor complain. It makes women crazy.
shocked
Re: Help Me My Relationship Is Crashing!!! by Ghosttt(m): 9:47am On Jul 13, 2017
truthsayer009:
Just Relax and keep mute too. Pls just assume you have lost her already. So you won't bothered much.

Women would give you so much worry, you'll begin to wonder !

Just keep playing her game & don't react Nor complain. It makes women crazy.
Good advice, works well when u knw the whole story and u are sure the lady was at fault.
In this case it would be very lame to just give advice without knowing the full story

Besides u never knw, it could be dat the op was actually the the master mind of his misfortune
Re: Help Me My Relationship Is Crashing!!! by Nobody: 10:02am On Jul 13, 2017
Ghosttt:
Good advice, works well when u knw the whole story and u are sure the lady was at fault.
In this case it would be very lame to just give advice without knowing the full story

Besides u never knw, it could be dat the op was actually the the master mind of his misfortune
misfortune or not, he claimed he has resolved it with her after the argument.

So best thing is for Him to keep shut. And watch how things play out naturally.
Re: Help Me My Relationship Is Crashing!!! by Ghosttt(m): 10:10am On Jul 13, 2017
truthsayer009:
misfortune or not, he claimed he has resolved it with her after the argument.

So best thing is for Him to keep shut. And watch how things play out naturally.
Bro hapu dat tin!!!

He could have thought he has actually resolved it unknown to him that it has nt being totally resolved in the ladies heart.

U knw how the human emotions and mind works.
U can't go wrong and expect tins to go back to normal cos u've apologized. NO it doesn't work that way.

U hav to give it time to heal and Mayb forget if possible bt while waiting one needs to be extra carefull in other nt to make it worse.

Wit that being said, an explanation from the op will be of very good importance
Re: Help Me My Relationship Is Crashing!!! by Nobody: 12:46pm On Jul 13, 2017
Ghosttt:
Bro hapu dat tin!!!

He could have thought he has actually resolved it unknown to him that it has nt being totally resolved in the ladies heart.

U knw how the human emotions and mind works.
U can't go wrong and expect tins to go back to normal cos u've apologized. NO it doesn't work that way.

U hav to give it time to heal and Mayb forget if possible bt while waiting one needs to be extra carefull in other nt to make it worse.

Wit that being said, an explanation from the op will be of very good importance
No point arguing with you on this. When a woman has made up her mind on you, You think you can talk her out of it ?

The word "Cold" means. " lacking affection or warmth of feeling; unemotional ".

It is diff from Anger: " a strong feeling of annoyance, displeasure, or hostility ".

So there is no point at this stage. There are many ladies out there. Guys inclusive. Please let him move on.
Re: Help Me My Relationship Is Crashing!!! by PromiseUche(m): 1:33pm On Jul 13, 2017
She wants to go a step higher. She hz finally landed her drm guy, I pray d guy shld be a player, probably tell her lies and show her magic life.
Re: Help Me My Relationship Is Crashing!!! by Freecassavaforu(op): 12:56pm On Jul 14, 2017
truthsayer009:
Just Relax and keep mute too. Pls just assume you have lost her already. So you won't bothered much.

Women would give you so much worry, you'll begin to wonder !

Just keep playing her game & don't react Nor complain. It makes women crazy.
thanks you
Re: Help Me My Relationship Is Crashing!!! by Freecassavaforu(op): 1:00pm On Jul 14, 2017
THANKS GUYS FOR U ADVICE
Re: Help Me My Relationship Is Crashing!!! by 234GT(m): 5:44pm On Jul 14, 2017
She has someone else. Let her be.
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