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Lexusgs430:
Do you watch porn?

No

samx4real:
Seize the stupid phone from him for a year plus

what of all the music videos he can watch anywhere else na prayer fit solve d pro

Yeligray:
Spare the rod and spoil the child

What do you think is the rod?

Ups01:

It doesn't work. TEENS ARE VERY CREATIVE!

Explain better please, let me learn incase I start having kids.

jejemanito:
No

Seize all his gadgets and buy him a Nokia 3510i..
Make him realise why you are taking such actions....

johnreh:


my BIBLE still works!

Sorry I need pragmatic ways

NobleAngell:
It's a terrible addiction. A spiritually-inclined addiction, you gotta pray him/her out of it. There are also effective physical approaches too, like bringing the child in the midst of people more cos they tend to keep to themselves a lot and they want to always be alone. Socializing with the right company can help them a lot.



If the above tips don't work, drag him to the nearest olumba olumba church for correct flogging.

spiritual? Nigerians!!!!!!

End time kids everywhere

Encourage him.
Buy him lube and tell him to spank the monkey.
For his birthday hire a stripper or even better a hooker!

His Testosterone level are bubbling what do you expect?

The best thing you can do is Engage him in Creative work.

And what's wrong with watching po*n ? We, or rather, most of us did that as a kid and it didn't hinder us from becoming whatever we have become today.

NobleAngell:
It's a terrible addiction. A spiritually-inclined addiction, you gotta pray him/her out of it. There are also effective physical approaches too, like bringing the child in the midst of people more cos they tend to keep to themselves a lot and they want to always be alone. Socializing with the right company can help them a lot.



If the above tips don't work, drag him to the nearest olumba olumba church for correct flogging.

Olumba Olumba? Lol...

aint:
what of all the music videos he can watch anywhere else na prayer fit solve d pro

Forget any where else... His not totally addicted so don't border yourself about that as far as he doesn't bring them home!

Leave him alone he is a growing teen stuffs like this are almost as natural as breathing air. At his age he is most likely just curious

Handle with care

Fucck him once and for all

jejemanito:
Experience. I was once a p*rn addict.

I need a psychologically smarter way to reconfigure his focus.

Just find a way to block his phone from accessing x rated site. There is a feature on Apple that blocks any site that has even remotely suggestive picture or video, it also allows you to block individual porn site if you can list that many or just allow Apple to block everything "explicit"

jejemanito:
My 14 year old cousin stays with me and I just found out he has an assembly line of X videos dot com clips hidden in his phone.

Going by the way I was raised will mean the melodrama of confrontation which will only lead to him - after deleting the current ones - finding out better ways to hide the next batch he will download.

I know because I've been there

So I need a smarter way mostly bordering on a "psychological" approach

Any suggestions please

Cc: onegai ifyalways

This is why I love USA, stop invading into his privacy. Every body must fu ck one way or the other. Give the dude a space. May be its because he normal hear you guys screaming when you and your partner are fuc king. You no dey fu ck?

jejemanito:
I collected the phone - an android phone - and told him it is for less distraction purposes. But he needed a means to communicate with his parents so I gave him an old Techno java phone plagued with memory card issues

Guess what? He figured out a way to still use it to download UCbrowser first then a batch of P*rn

Na for there I weak.

That cracked me up. Yoruba adage will say aja to ba ma sonu ko ni gbo fere ode Lailai. A dog that will get lost, will never hear the whistle of the Hunter. I'm not shy to say this, pray for him.

Vivipop:
Educate him on the beauty of sex.

Yeah, this looks like a fantastic plan. i'm sure nothing can go wrong.

Hmmm.Fourteen years, boys hit puberty and are discovering new horizons, delete the contents, educate him and give him back his phone.

Before the coming of mobile phones boys were distributing cut out pictures of naked women during my secondary school days, let's not pretend its not happening..

Ask him where he bought them, go there in person and ask if they have Part 2 of the same porn movies.

Thank me later.

jejemanito:
My 14 year old cousin stays with me and I just found out he has an assembly line of X videos dot com clips hidden in his phone.

Going by the way I was raised will mean the melodrama of confrontation which will only lead to him - after deleting the current ones - finding out better ways to hide the next batch he will download.

I know because I've been there

So I need a smarter way mostly bordering on a "psychological" approach

Any suggestions please

Cc: onegai ifyalways

hanassholesolo:


Just find a way to block his phone from accessing x rated site. There is a feature on Apple that blocks any site that has even remotely suggestive picture or video, it also allows you to block individual porn site if you can list that many or just allow Apple to block everything "explicit"

okay you have an iPhone.
we done see you.

If you like take all the gadgets from him, he go still dey watch am outside with his friends.

Flogging him? You go flog tire. That one will even make him a big time hypocrite, which is the worst. He will tighten his game (simple psychology).

Talk to him and free him. His dick is already getting erect. Or do you want him to turn gay?

Op read this http://www.penmyemotions.com/2017/04/pornography7-negative-effect-of-porn.html and http://www.penmyemotions.com/2017/04/quit-watching-porn10-ways-to-stop-porn.html to help him quit porn

Deep Op just give the young man sex education and tell him the implications of having sex at that age. The belle he cant take care of, possibility of STis and STDs and general basic education. Let him gain ur trust by telling him you were also once a porn addict and how distracting it can be. Just give him general advice and let him be. Live ur life and allow him to live his own life for himself
The young man is at that stage of curiousity and would naturally out grow it...or not. lol.

Be grateful that he isn't looking at homosexual pr0n and leave him be.

He's supposed to be interested in the opposite sex at is age.

hanassholesolo:


Just find a way to block his phone from accessing x rated site. There is a feature on Apple that blocks any site that has even remotely suggestive picture or video, it also allows you to block individual porn site if you can list that many or just allow Apple to block everything "explicit"

in this age of internet all these blocking stuff you're talking won't work. a simple VPN or Proxy will unlock everything.

@jeje as a wise parent just discuss with him don't push him farther away from you!

sexybbstar:


Give him a "torchlight" head phone that has no SD card slot. Since it's just for him to make calls.

Its not about temporarily stopping him from watching it because he had no access to it but permanently getting it out of his mind that he will never want to watch even when he has unlimited access to it

jejemanito:
My 14 year old cousin stays with me and I just found out he has an assembly line of X videos dot com clips hidden in his phone.

Going by the way I was raised will mean the melodrama of confrontation which will only lead to him - after deleting the current ones - finding out better ways to hide the next batch he will download.

I know because I've been there

So I need a smarter way mostly bordering on a "psychological" approach

Any suggestions please

Cc: onegai ifyalways

I started watching porn at 14 and I didn't need any parent or uncle to descipline me before I outgrew it. He's become a teenager, give him time and he'll outgrow it like everyone else