In addition to the previous comments, I have very few friends. I don't like to injure other peoples' feeling. I don't enjoy relating with extroverts as many of them are pushful, cheaty and seems heartless in my relationship with them. I enjoy being indoor watching movies and interacting with people of the same personality. A lot of the extroverts takes advantage of my being merciful/compassionate. I like to listen to other peoples' view points. It takes time before I take decision but when I decide, it is only God that can change it.

Inanna:
My boyfriend/husband must be an extrovert. I Can't continue living in a shell. I need to explore the world and see it in all dimensions and perspectives. Introverts tend to view the world from only one point of view- loud, scary, discomforting and unnerving when in actual fact there's more to it. There's the good, exciting, dynamic and interesting part of it. I want to see life and people this way.
Although I can't help but just think of how amazing it would be if I end up with someone that's just like me. Where we don't need to have conversations, there'd be comfort in our silences, we'd spend long hours indoors doing introvert things. where we could spend long hours together without saying a word but understanding each other's thought perfectly well, where we'd decline every invitation to attend whatever event because we'd rather stay home and read a good book or just enjoy the comfort of being secluded . Where we'd not really have any friends because we are more than enough company for each other. Who else can relate?

if you can type all this then it seems you're walking your way out of being an introvert quicker than you thought

wen I visit a frends I quickly forget dat I av a house to go back to. na him go remind me say time don reach sef.... I fit talk throughout a day non stop that's if u no dey tired

Divay22:
Staying out for long makes me unhappy..
Going out can be so frustrating, annoying, let's just stay at home Eat popcorn and watch movies, wetin i wan use cinema do ....

But it has cost me alot, I have missed opportunities, words I'll rehearse :Din my head, but wouldn't be able to say it out, memories i couldn't gain....I wouldn't want any of my child to be one.....


Introverts don't mind staying in another planet where they can be aliens, the world seems too populated to them
But i love them because THEY CARE, THEY CARE MORE THAN THEY SHOULD.....i give them A1 When it comes to taking care of others, even if they don't like you.....


Tell an introvert your secret, it's save for life,they barely have time to gossip
Commonly used word :I DON'T KNOW

its funny how u&i have got along in common,same birthday month.
6th is mine,
guess we should try mingling sometime,where do u stay?

favorb:

In addition to the previous comments, I have very few friends. I don't like to injure other peoples' feeling. I don't enjoy relating with extroverts as many of them are pushful, cheaty and seems heartless in my relationship with them. I enjoy being indoor watching movies and interacting with people of the same personality. A lot of the extroverts takes advantage of my being merciful/compassionate. I like to listen to other peoples' view points. It takes time before I take decision but when I decide, it is only God that can change it.

I injure pples feeling purposely and it's fun.. I luv tackling pple.. as long as dey can handle it cos I can handle mine too

Rorachy:
I don't like hanging out with many people like crowd. I love my quiet time.

never knew u are one of our kind

Cleopatra4:
I find it difficult to make friends...
When I do I just snub them just like that.
People think say I get pride but Na lie I'm one of the most simple person on earth.
Just the introvert thing

And I just found my photocopy...... ..

hinky:
I believe if the right one comes, introveted or whatever u ll man up to talk to her...
Life is not too complex as it might seem...


As an introvet, i like being alone but when i dont want to be alone... I dont see anyone to be with cos i cant keep friends...
Sad story..hun..

I like you

What IF you are both an extrovert and introvert by nature?

hinky:


No, they may appear desperate thats what i mean

Men also appear desperate when they are chasing after gals. Don't you think so?

jclassiq:


you want to fix her?!!

Yea

never knw my kind was much like dis.I always thought am d only one with dis personality.Being an introvert is d only thing I hate abt my sef.Lost a lot of opportunity, I even wonder if I would ever gt a gf :'

Cleopatra4:

Yeah...
I feel we attract d opposite of us.
Don't like crowd.
Can't stand a noisy environment likewise lousy people..
Just prefer staying at home when I'm not busy..
Sometimes I wonder if na like this I go take see husband

don't worry, i'm also introverted... can i be your husband already! melikey what i see!

hinky:
I believe if the right one comes, introveted or whatever u ll man up to talk to her...
Life is not too complex as it might seem...


As an introvet, i like being alone but when i dont want to be alone... I dont see anyone to be with cos i cant keep friends...
Sad story..hun..

why are the pretty girls always the introverted ones!?

Divay22:
Staying out for long makes me unhappy..
Going out can be so frustrating, annoying, let's just stay at home Eat popcorn and watch movies, wetin i wan use cinema do ....

But it has cost me alot, I have missed opportunities, words I'll rehearse :Din my head, but wouldn't be able to say it out, memories i couldn't gain....I wouldn't want any of my child to be one.....


Introverts don't mind staying in another planet where they can be aliens, the world seems too populated to them
But i love them because THEY CARE, THEY CARE MORE THAN THEY SHOULD.....i give them A1 When it comes to taking care of others, even if they don't like you.....


Tell an introvert your secret, it's save for life,they barely have time to gossip
Commonly used word :I DON'T KNOW

i think the best thing to do is to have a cinema setup at home! ...exactly what i did! but sometimes, it is good to go to an actual one because of the ambience though... once in a while!! oya come let's eat popcorn!!

wins18:
lol, we are just being programmed differently by our creator, we are nice people to be with though, just that people don't understand us, sometimes they mistake our silence mood to keeping malice or...something. some people say we are weird, maybe they are right though.

Actually, more like, we are proud and probably full of ourselves. That's what most people would think simply because we don't exactly like associating. Weird life though!

I'm easily embarrassed
I havent dated ever though nearing 21
meeting people scares d crap out of me

Can't possibly call myself an introvert.

I'm simply comfy with my own company. I spend lots of time either surfing the net or reading, sometimes re-reading books..

Talking to the opposite sex, striking convo is somehow seasonal (whatever that means) .

sometimes I'll be super cool when starting a convo, some other times I'll think "who needs these girls anyway" (maybe it's just my excuse for being spinelessly helpless to talk to a real hottie)

But come to think of it... Na every hottie I go strike convo with
keeping to myself has brought more hotties than going for them. (my recent gf is one) A beauty I pretended not to notice until she started speaking with me first.

Enuf. As dem say make we no marry, na to dey parry with Dem remains.

#Love _my_me_time

People easily think of me as proud, i also hate lengthy conversations with most people with a few people as exceptions

Couldn't get into the Army.
However fit and smart I was.
Only the loud ones were chosen.
Apparently they were 'stronger '
This country is sick towards us.

I hate hugs...hate been in a very populated place...thou i'm always in a populated place..buh i get distracted by my camera,taking pix of an event and all dat...
And den there is dis girl...oh my...cant ask her out.

Yeah right, I have 3000 naira airtel bonus that last for a week or so with nobody to call

Elkay3:
[/b]I talk a little less than necessary[b]. But laugh alot.
I have few friends whom I cherish. I stand in for my friends.
I avoid crowd because I just can't raise my voice like a tout.
I adore my quiet moments. It's for self-recharging.
I trust easily. This could be my weakness.

People say I'm an introvert. Others sighted pride. But for me, it's neither. It's just the way I chose to be. I could chose to be otherwise.

All the things you wrote here didn't quite look like you talk less than necessary

What a nice topic here - It is always a double-challenge, I don't mind staying inside all day long, I don't have friends except my childhood friends, And they are just 2, first one is from my neighbourhood (over14years together) and the second one is my secondary school mate (Over 12 years together).

Ever since I was born, I can count how many parties I have attended (I really don't like it).

I have the ambition to be a musician but lacking the courage.

If a party is hold in our own Family, All the visitors always look for me I don't look for them not that I hate them but you know... at the end of the day I barely show up in the Video covered in that occasion.

I haven't been into a real relationship (No courage to that)... Except one Internet crush, and that one too I don't use to call her, she complains a lot.

I don't use to have credit card on my phone not that I don't have the money but why do I need it? Who am I calling, if u see me buy card that means I need to subscribe.

I don't feel convenient if someone come checking for me especially who I don't really relate with and have to come inside and sit down(Omo I be like ..Comman be going jare ).

The List Is Just Too Numerous to Mention.

I need to practice to be an extrovert if I don't want to be single my entire life and also be able to chase my Music career, those are my concern)

Thanks.

Singapore1 = Comman see confession o.

The last time asked to take a picture with you, I was so reluctant to ask, well that is me for you

Best relationships has been with introverts like me. I just can't stand the life style of extreme extrovert, they are usually too loud. Most of them aint thoughtful or good listeners. As someone with Cancer zodiac sign 70% or 80% introverted I know who I gel with better.

lol

wins18:
Being an introvert comes with some down sides, as an introvert I have my own challenges or should I call it excesses lol.
I miss my chances on getting that pretty crush of mine, I fear rejection and I am yet to device a means of handling such when it occurs, even though when the green light is at its peak.
Another one is that I find it hard to maintain closer relationship with people, they complain I don't call them, truth is I prefer texting instead.
Share yours too lets know ourselves better.

am a guy and I hate making friends especially with guys,
I won't talk much to anyone if I've not known you for at
least 6months.
I love my privacy a lot and I fear being rejected by people.

AnonyNymous:
lol

What's funny

I don't do anything social, no Facebook, no WhatsApp, no twitter no shite like that, I don't have peoples contact, if u give me I forget to save it, or even if I do I would delete of as soon as I am done with u, I hide my number when calling people excluding guys.

My c zone is my house, my room on the left side of my bed, lie there to dish out simple replies on NL, NL is the only social stuff I do. Other than that I am playing game or watching a movie, and yeah my house is highly classified, only 2 of my friends know my house, they are guys again. They are also august visitors.

As for relationship, yeah it like a complicated stuff to me, I would prefer to also date an introvert to. I enjoy peace.

Staying out for too long takes its toll on my mind, it is often bad.

I'm happy being one.

chidelacreme:

What's funny

That I can relate to a lot of the posts on here.

wins18:
Being an introvert comes with some down sides, as an introvert I have my own challenges or should I call it excesses lol.
I miss my chances on getting that pretty crush of mine, I fear rejection and I am yet to device a means of handling such when it occurs, even though when the green light is at its peak.
Another one is that I find it hard to maintain closer relationship with people, they complain I don't call them, truth is I prefer texting instead.
Share yours too lets know ourselves better.

I don't know if I should say I'm tired of being introverted... I suck at virtually everything, not because I'm dumb but because I quickly lose interest... I love being alone, even among people, I'd rather play with my phone... I hate gatherings and I can't make friends because Most aren't what I seek for... loud, lousy, nosy, self centered... I really want to change right now... I Will be in my finals soon and I don't want it to be horrible
I don't party because I feel I will look awkward...
I often always spend a day outside without saying a word to anyone. though I want to but something keeps holding back...
I've turned out to be an online freak always surfing for info and the rest...

Inanna:
I don't like people

Hmmmmm i thought as much