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Re: Should I Tell My Neighbour To Go & Do DNA Test On His Kids? by tundeotunba(m): 8:11pm On Jul 22, 2017
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Re: Should I Tell My Neighbour To Go & Do DNA Test On His Kids? by dfrost: 8:11pm On Jul 22, 2017
#2017 - Year of Minding your business
Re: Should I Tell My Neighbour To Go & Do DNA Test On His Kids? by merits(m): 8:11pm On Jul 22, 2017
Benita27:
Mind your business. Them no dey put mouth for husband and wife matter. He may or may not be the father of the kids but it's not your call to tell him what to do. BTW, I thought you said he's fairly educated?, why won't he know what paternity test is?.
may God bless you Jaree.
Re: Should I Tell My Neighbour To Go & Do DNA Test On His Kids? by Nikbaebrown(f): 8:11pm On Jul 22, 2017
I Hope He Also Does DNA Tests For The Other Kids He Has Outside.
Re: Should I Tell My Neighbour To Go & Do DNA Test On His Kids? by chuksjuve(m): 8:11pm On Jul 22, 2017
Trouble will be sleeping jejely.. some people will out of sheer oversabi go and wake it...
op op op how many times did i call you?
meanwhile check my signature
Re: Should I Tell My Neighbour To Go & Do DNA Test On His Kids? by adewumiopeyemi(m): 8:12pm On Jul 22, 2017
This is a critical... issue...
Re: Should I Tell My Neighbour To Go & Do DNA Test On His Kids? by Nobody: 8:13pm On Jul 22, 2017
Leonbonapart:
Aproko.... also give him the money to conduct the test

If you marry a lady like lovelygurl that's the result cheesy grin
Don't be bitter grin
Re: Should I Tell My Neighbour To Go & Do DNA Test On His Kids? by Sleekydee(m): 8:13pm On Jul 22, 2017
Greenbullet:
I live in a house with three flats and in one flat I have this couple who are my friends, the man is fairly educated and his wife is an illiterate. The both of them quarrel regularly and since I am not a busybody , I do not interfere , all I do is listen but something has got me worried when listening to their quarrel, the woman always use the child's paternity to insult the man, some of the insults go like this
"Idiot man"
"Lazy man"
"Okobo"
"Leave my children, nor be you get them, I go carry them go meet who born them"
"Nor touch my children ooo,leave them for their papa"
Surely this insults infuriate the man and his sometimes beat his wife, I myself who is more reasonable think his three children are not really his, The wife is a trader and comes home at irregular times which also lead to quarrels , the children also do not have some facial characteristics of the said man.

I want to advise the man to do a DNA test ( only God knows if he knows what it means), but do you guys think this man is really the father or the wife is saying these things to spite him ?
Op u want to go from mind ur biz @ 100% to not minding it @ -1000%. that gonna b dangerous. atleast stat small small
Re: Should I Tell My Neighbour To Go & Do DNA Test On His Kids? by Ronie24(f): 8:13pm On Jul 22, 2017
Emzyme:
Dnt advice him directly ooo
Just tell him a man dat used to be in his shoes did so so nd so thing
Finish oo
Re: Should I Tell My Neighbour To Go & Do DNA Test On His Kids? by Nobody: 8:13pm On Jul 22, 2017
Op claims to mind his busines but listens to their quarrels and knows a lot about the woman's movements. wehdonsir.

I am sure you also know how often they do this

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Re: Should I Tell My Neighbour To Go & Do DNA Test On His Kids? by Bintmusty(f): 8:15pm On Jul 22, 2017
grin grin grin I thought you said you are not a "busybody" grin you better mind your business. Won ja ni ile keji...let me keep quiet sha wink
Re: Should I Tell My Neighbour To Go & Do DNA Test On His Kids? by zubydave(m): 8:15pm On Jul 22, 2017
Baba leave those people matter o
Re: Should I Tell My Neighbour To Go & Do DNA Test On His Kids? by larrymoore(m): 8:15pm On Jul 22, 2017
eke ni e
Re: Should I Tell My Neighbour To Go & Do DNA Test On His Kids? by MisterGrace: 8:16pm On Jul 22, 2017
Benita27:
Mind your business. Them no dey put mouth for husband and wife matter. He may or may not be the father of the kids but it's not your call to tell him what to do. BTW, I thought you said he's fairly educated?, why won't he know what paternity test is?.
Oh! Shut it already... What kind of heart do you have?
This trend of "mind your business" stup1d.

Maybe you can keep such from your husband, I don't know.

Op! Go ahead and advise the man to do the needful. Don't let him die a miserable man.

He may start afresh again and have his own God given children.
Re: Should I Tell My Neighbour To Go & Do DNA Test On His Kids? by Callmedondee(m): 8:16pm On Jul 22, 2017
Greenbullet:
I live in a house with three flats and in one flat I have this couple who are my friends, the man is fairly educated and his wife is an illiterate. The both of them quarrel regularly and since I am not a busybody , I do not interfere , all I do is listen but something has got me worried when listening to their quarrel, the woman always use the child's paternity to insult the man, some of the insults go like this
"Idiot man"
"Lazy man"
"Okobo"
"Leave my children, nor be you get them, I go carry them go meet who born them"
"Nor touch my children ooo,leave them for their papa"
Surely this insults infuriate the man and his sometimes beat his wife, I myself who is more reasonable think his three children are not really his, The wife is a trader and comes home at irregular times which also lead to quarrels , the children also do not have some facial characteristics of the said man.

I want to advise the man to do a DNA test ( only God knows if he knows what it means), but do you guys think this man is really the father or the wife is saying these things to spite him ?

Re: Should I Tell My Neighbour To Go & Do DNA Test On His Kids? by thestevens: 8:18pm On Jul 22, 2017
wetin concern you for people matter, you better mind your damn business before you cause a catastrophy.
Re: Should I Tell My Neighbour To Go & Do DNA Test On His Kids? by robosky02(m): 8:18pm On Jul 22, 2017
she has already told her husband

except he does not have ears
Re: Should I Tell My Neighbour To Go & Do DNA Test On His Kids? by rukysexy: 8:19pm On Jul 22, 2017
Amebo tatafo!!!!! Hisssss who send U? Na u give am belle? Better face your front and mind your own house. Nosy neighbour that's what you are. Can't stand people like you. So if he does DNA test and them commits suicide on finding out that they aren't he's how will that make you sleep at night. God have mercy I can't even believe people like you.
Re: Should I Tell My Neighbour To Go & Do DNA Test On His Kids? by Nobody: 8:19pm On Jul 22, 2017
I think the man already knows but first some reason he is still hanging on to his wife
Anyways mind your business
Re: Should I Tell My Neighbour To Go & Do DNA Test On His Kids? by Leonbonapart(m): 8:20pm On Jul 22, 2017
lovelygurl:
Don't be bitter grin
truth is bitter undecided
Re: Should I Tell My Neighbour To Go & Do DNA Test On His Kids? by DRPAIT123(m): 8:20pm On Jul 22, 2017
Psquare in the building....busybody ehh,you go soji ehh,busybody eh@OP
Re: Should I Tell My Neighbour To Go & Do DNA Test On His Kids? by Alariwo2: 8:21pm On Jul 22, 2017
Married women and infidelity.. smh!

There are a few good, faithful ones tho, but the larger percentage engage in extra marital affairs.

@OP better stay on your lane and mind your business..
One has to be careful with cases involving couples so you don't end up regretting. Let her keep calling him okobo, who knows the agreement they both had.

Stay your lane
Re: Should I Tell My Neighbour To Go & Do DNA Test On His Kids? by Nobody: 8:22pm On Jul 22, 2017
Leonbonapart:
truth is bitter undecided
Unless it's not true and you are just desperately trying to get my attention grin
Re: Should I Tell My Neighbour To Go & Do DNA Test On His Kids? by Originalsly: 8:26pm On Jul 22, 2017
Since you are not a busy body.....but only let us know what's going on in your neighbour's marital affairs because you want advice on how to advise your neighbor on managing his wife and kids. I advise you visit and sit down both of them.... explain how DNA works before telling him husband why you feel ghe must take did test Don't worry. ..if you go missng...we'll explain.
Re: Should I Tell My Neighbour To Go & Do DNA Test On His Kids? by policy12: 8:27pm On Jul 22, 2017
Amebo...

Re: Should I Tell My Neighbour To Go & Do DNA Test On His Kids? by 0b100100111: 8:27pm On Jul 22, 2017
Re u jobless and idle? If yes, you can go ahead.

I don't know what concerns you in there conflict! Can't you just stay on your lane and stop having plans of interfering in everything you witness.
Re: Should I Tell My Neighbour To Go & Do DNA Test On His Kids? by MrMcJay(m): 8:28pm On Jul 22, 2017
OP, don't try it. You're about making a decision you'll regret.
Re: Should I Tell My Neighbour To Go & Do DNA Test On His Kids? by cumbak60: 8:30pm On Jul 22, 2017
Sometimes women can be funny when angry. An angry woman can say shiit to hurt your feelings.
Re: Should I Tell My Neighbour To Go & Do DNA Test On His Kids? by vivvyo(m): 8:31pm On Jul 22, 2017
My grand fada, lived very long and died at an advanced age

him burial be like party, it was a celebration of life

I was amazed at the turnout, and had to ask how he won the admiration of many
guess wat I was told...
he minded his business


Husband and wife get issue, u want to carry your body and put for their mata..I laff u, dem go use u settle..

Honestly OP, i dont think suggesting to the man to run a paternity test is appropriate given the situation
Re: Should I Tell My Neighbour To Go & Do DNA Test On His Kids? by lincs25(m): 8:34pm On Jul 22, 2017
lolz, guy better mind your business. The man is educated he should know that. There are some people thar are impotent, their own is marry a woman and the society work on the woman so that they will have kids. Don't let them label you enemy of progress.
Re: Should I Tell My Neighbour To Go & Do DNA Test On His Kids? by Nobody: 8:37pm On Jul 22, 2017
MisterGrace:
Oh! Shut it already... What kind of heart do you have?
This trend of "mind your business" stup1d.

Maybe you can keep such from your husband, I don't know.

Op! Go ahead and advise the man to do the needful. Don't let him die a miserable man.

He may start afresh again and have his own God given children.
You're stupid but you've not realised that yet.

Help him tell the man. Good samaritan.
Re: Should I Tell My Neighbour To Go & Do DNA Test On His Kids? by lovingyouhun: 8:43pm On Jul 22, 2017
Greenbullet:
I live in a house with three flats and in one flat I have this couple who are my friends, the man is fairly educated and his wife is an illiterate. The both of them quarrel regularly and since I am not a busybody , I do not interfere , all I do is listen but something has got me worried when listening to their quarrel, the woman always use the child's paternity to insult the man, some of the insults go like this
"Idiot man"
"Lazy man"
"Okobo"
"Leave my children, nor be you get them, I go carry them go meet who born them"
"Nor touch my children ooo,leave them for their papa"
Surely this insults infuriate the man and his sometimes beat his wife, I myself who is more reasonable think his three children are not really his, The wife is a trader and comes home at irregular times which also lead to quarrels , the children also do not have some facial characteristics of the said man.

I want to advise the man to do a DNA test ( only God knows if he knows what it means), but do you guys think this man is really the father or the wife is saying these things to spite him ?
Amebo tongue
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