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bigpin:
I dnt nid sorry, I need advice plz matured mind frnds

HelenBee:
I can't read your writeup well. What's 'xo'? it's not every time you shorten words please.

Prevho:
Brother, did you help someone to do the NYSC?

because, I am in doubt if you really went to school oh.

About that girl, she is tired and planning to move ahead.

My advice to you is to go get a job or repeat school.

bigpin:
I dnt nid sorry, I need advice plz matured mind frnds

Benita27:
Your written English is terrible for a graduate. Anyway, what advice would you like us to give?. I know it's always hard for people to move on when it's clear what they're in isn't the kind of relationship they desire. You've got to move on, else she'll help you do that with a shocker.

Lalas247:
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bigpin:
hello dear nairalanders gud afternoon, pls a frnd needs ur kind audience, am here to ask for ur kind advise and words of encouragement to a frnd who needs it urgently, plz permit me to see a matured mind and advice. I will make it Xo brief Bkos I dnt wana talk much.
it all started wen I met dis babe during my NYSC camping, we talked and things worked out as normal, along d line we dated and we enjoyed being as one, to cut d story shorter, we re almost 2yrs in our relationship, I intend working out things for her to me mine as my wife, Xo after the service we parted to our different homes nt after like 4month we still met and see after service, while I was at my base. Xo as time goes on d relationship became distanced, and u all know relationship are bound to have issues, Xo Smtimes we had issues and settled bt, for some month nw Das babe hardly calls me on phone, and wen I called d way she respond to d call, her tone she use in answering me, and sometimes wen she comes across my missed calls she won't even flash of call back, wen I call and asked y, she will say she wasn't with her phone and didn't have airtime, I kept mute, and like some wks nw if I call she sounds harsh and Smtimes hang my call saying I disturb alot with calls, dat am insecured on my side, I will Jux smiled over it, knowing well even if I annoy her I will be on the peaceful side, no matter ow d issue is, I wont hesitate to make peace Bkos I loved her, all she tells me is Dat I was d one who changed her, I will like OK if am d one but not to the xtent u hang my call, u sound harsh on me, to the xtent she said to me that am now included in line of her toasters I will Smtimes ask for a wassup video call she will say Nop even in d day time, I will even ask her not to talk dat I Jux wana see her face alone, she still refuse plz frnds I nid a good counseling on what to do next. plz am really in pain and a good natured advice will go well for me.
Tnx my fellow frndz....

iamdynamite:
Guy, make it clear to your friend that the relationship is dead already, or tell him to hold a showdown talk with the babe, ask her if she still want the relationship or not