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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Chanbaby: 12:16pm On Aug 03, 2017 |
Sansa143: My dear same here oh. His dad always pity him the way he sweats and put on ac for him. he even quarrels with me when I dress him up to prevent cold. When light goes off at midnight his cry wakes us up to change over to inverter. This children no come suffer at all na Ajebo dem be |
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Nobody: 12:36pm On Aug 03, 2017 |
Tnks dear,guess I will have to c d doc 4 further assessment!He sure sweats while sleeping,eating,playing or even wen not playing!Now d weda is cold,but d boy is sweating! dunasy: |
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by dunasy(f): 12:41pm On Aug 03, 2017 |
Sansa143: same as my son but my Mum says babies are never hot in the sense that don't be tricked to thinking they need so much air but, I dress him per weather ( never overdress or under dress) Just see your paed to confirm any issues. |
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by enque(f): 12:50pm On Aug 03, 2017 |
mrslander: Baby hugg |
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by hunniesuzie: 1:19pm On Aug 03, 2017 |
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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Nobody: 1:47pm On Aug 03, 2017 |
jazzyjazz:Yes I did. Could it be because I put a lot of sugar. Can't access my mail o. |
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by enque(f): 2:05pm On Aug 03, 2017 |
hunniesuzie: stingy lecturer... askor!!! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by mrslander: 2:09pm On Aug 03, 2017 |
[quote author=hunniesuzie post=59101264]Thanks Mama, just got the August Secrets plan too so I'll work with this guide Enque I'm still waiting for your arrangement [/quote pls mama, where and how did u get the August secret meal plan,and how much did u get it |
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by jazzyjazz: 2:17pm On Aug 03, 2017 |
faithisallihave: No it's not the sugar What's the email address? I don't want to derail the thread |
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Abiagirl777(f): 2:18pm On Aug 03, 2017 |
Chanbaby: banana causes constipation.If you must give let him take a llot of water or ditch it for now till when he starts walking. 1 Like |
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by mrslander: 2:19pm On Aug 03, 2017 |
enque:pls mama dis August secret meal how much is it, u mean u bought all dis food all at ones? pls how much does ur baby spends on food per month because my baby will soon clock 6 month |
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by enque(f): 2:21pm On Aug 03, 2017 |
[quote author=mrslander post=59111341][/quote] I order via their whatsapp number. U can send me a PM, and i'll send u their whatsapp number or if u r on instagram u can follow her @augustsecrets_toyin |
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by enque(f): 2:39pm On Aug 03, 2017 |
mrslander: I cannot categorically say how much I spend on baby food per month o if i start to dey think that one, na heart attack i go get see my previous response to u about the august secrets food |
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Nobody: 4:34pm On Aug 03, 2017 |
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by AlphaHandMaiden(f): 4:40pm On Aug 03, 2017 |
Damisinto: Its not an easy one and you need to honestly analyse a few things before you decide to resign or not. Brokeness is a BASTARD!. In any location! It is not a funny thing! Does your office have a branch in the town or one closer to where your husband lives? You could ask for a transfer if so. Bear in mind you may have to take a paycut as the regional offices may likely not pay the same salaries as lagos or other major cities and sometimes these transfers take a while to be occur. So you also need a workable interim plan. If you are keeping 2 homes, who's salary takes care of what? Are you solely responsible for your own upkeep, rent etc in lagos, or does your hubby chip in to your upkeep as well as his own place where he lives? If he does then perhaps the extra income saved from you all being in the same location will make a difference. It is not impossible to leave your son with your hubby, as long as you both have an understanding of the circumstances.... the boy is his son as well and him being a man does not mean your son will lack any care. If this is a viable option then he needs to have a plan in place, will he be getting extra help? Or can he manage by himself, with the baby in a creche. Other things to factor is how much are you actually earning in Lagos? Assess if it is worth it? Will you have any savings at the end of the month? Will you be eating into your savings every month to make ends meet? If so how long before you burn the savings and start borrowing? When you resume, since no constant electricity, introducing formular (at least during the day) will be your best bet, have you factored this in your financial out goings? Also what are the child care costs in the area where you live? Have you calculated these? Are you able to afford this on your current salary, (remove any family donations for now) especially if you are unable to get a close family member to come stay with you since you stay in a self-contained studio. If you are going to be spending more than you are bringing in..... then you are in no better position in lagos with a "job" than in another state jobless. I know of a person who had to quit her job due to the finances not making sense with her going back to work after mat.leave. and she became a child minder working from her own home taking care of 2 -3 other children and that brought in more than she would have made going to her "office job". I am not saying that you should do the same as childcare is not for everyone, but the moral is that you may need to think and look out of the box. What are the services you could provide in the town that your hubby stays and get paid for it. It only needs to be something that will tide you over till you get the job you are looking for? And you could also continue it as a side hustle even when you get employed. The usual crafty things like sewing, beadmaking, baking / catering etc may be ok, but i find many towns are over-saturated with these so it may be hard ton stand out. But also think of teaching..... are you very good at any subjects? You could be a home/ private tutor teaching maths or english or science during term time. Working around your own hours. If you are crafty, you could organise summer schools for art and crafty things, even field trips to local attractions if there are any near you. The main issue is that with the current state of the economy, what you offer will need to be seen as a somewhat essential service and not a luxury as most people can do away with luxuries when push comes to shove. Sorry there is no clear" this is what you should do answer" because what worked for A will not work for B. As even though both scenarios may have similarities, something as small as the flexibilities your place of employment may offer you just because your boss favours you may make all the difference. You and your hubby need to sit down, bring out then calculator, paper and biro and explore ALL foresable scenarios before you make any decisions. 17 Likes |
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by helovesme(f): 4:59pm On Aug 03, 2017 |
BellaElla: Thanks dear. Missed you too. |
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by helovesme(f): 4:59pm On Aug 03, 2017 |
comtem2011: Thanks dear. To God be the Glory. |
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by helovesme(f): 5:00pm On Aug 03, 2017 |
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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by helovesme(f): 5:04pm On Aug 03, 2017 |
Jaygrl: Try a different bottle/teat. Boil the new teat in water for about five minutes to further soften it. If that doesn't work, it's possible he's tired of NAN. try another milk brand like aptamil or any other reputable brand. Why not have him stay in a reputable crèche ? I won't really trust a maid/housegirl with a child that young. 1 Like |
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by helovesme(f): 5:12pm On Aug 03, 2017 |
jazzyjazz: Yes. Use toothbrush and toothpaste right from when the first tooth springs out. Please stop cleaning your baby's ears. It's just too risky. Q-tips/cotton buds should NEVER be inserted into a child's ear. The risk to damaging or rupturing the ear drum is high. There is also the risk of an ear infection A baby's ear is self cleansing. No paediatrician (I'm not talking doctors/general practitioners masking as paediatrician) will tell you it's okay to clean inside a baby's ear. It's a complete NO-NO. All you need is to clean the outer ear. This can easily be done using a fannel at bath time. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by jazzyjazz: 5:28pm On Aug 03, 2017 |
Notes. Thanks ma'am helovesme: |
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Hyphee(f): 6:00pm On Aug 03, 2017 |
Mamas, pls come to my aid, my baby will be going for her 14 weeks immunization next week and I'm already scared cos our experience during the 6 & 10 weeks is not pleasing at all. Her thigh got swollen at both occasions and it took weeks, not days before the swollen part goes down and it has make that part of her thigh to be black maybe cos of the ice I'm putting, I don't understand, the two injections for her 10 weeks was even given to her on one thigh cos the other thigh was still swollen and painful at that time. I always use ice on the spot immediately I discover it's swollen but it doesn't go down on time, the next day it becomes red and more swollen and she cries so much if I mistakenly touch it. Pls mamas what can I do to avoid this same occurrence next week cos presently the thigh she took the injections for 10 weeks is still paining her. Do I need to press very well after injection or what? Pls sabi mamas, come to my aid, don't jump and pass pls |
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Akorkor(f): 6:02pm On Aug 03, 2017 |
helovesme: I have been hearing Don't clean their ear for sometimes now but if you obviously see a big dirt , what should we do? Leave it? Clean it? Or allow it to block the ear. Please shed more light because am not understanding |
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by oamronnie(f): 6:45pm On Aug 03, 2017 |
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by sassyangel1(f): 7:00pm On Aug 03, 2017 |
Jaygrl: Awwwww...really feeling ur pain. 1 of d reasons I resigned tho wth my hubby's consent cos I don't wnt him giving me attitude later cos I don't v a pd job. Before u resign, seriously sit wth ur husband and hear from his side, check 4 any crèche close to ur office and take ur nanny wth ur lo to the crèche close to ur office b4 u finally decide whether u wana resign or nt. it may nt b easy esp in the financial aspect depending only 4rm one source esp if u r used 2 a kind of lifestyle and if such lifestyle cannot b continued it could bring attitude, grumbling or quarrel. Just think it thoroughly b4 u decide and will u be able to cope especially in this buharicession? 1 Like |
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by sassyangel1(f): 7:04pm On Aug 03, 2017 |
Jaygrl: Jst reading this. Hmmmm... This is a tough one. Jst sit down and think if only 1 source can pay the bills. It's well wth u.. 2 Likes |
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by oamronnie(f): 7:05pm On Aug 03, 2017 |
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by jazzyjazz: 7:11pm On Aug 03, 2017 |
oamronnie: 4k only |
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by sassyangel1(f): 7:13pm On Aug 03, 2017 |
Akorkor: Don't even compare abroad wth our naija wer most private employers or ogas don't v the fear of God. A country(Nigeria) wer married women esp mothers r nt given a chance or chances 2 get a well paid job except u gat d job wen u wer single. I gat friends who r also mothers working abroad and they said dt they r entitled to 6 months maternity leave. Whereas, in this naija d most u can get is 3 months maternity leave. Abeg, this our country is jst stressful . 1 Like |
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by sassyangel1(f): 7:17pm On Aug 03, 2017 |
hunniesuzie: I also made mention of the crèche till I read later wer she said crèches close to her place of work is very expensive. Kai, to be a mother in this country no b beans nt to talk of working and keeping ur baby wth a nanny dts nt ur mother wth all the evils in this world nw. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by oamronnie(f): 7:22pm On Aug 03, 2017 |
Love it soooooo much but it's not my size jazzyjazz: |
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by sassyangel1(f): 7:33pm On Aug 03, 2017 |
luscioustrish: I used Milton to wash my children's tongue. Jst dip a tiny little drop in a small cup of warm water, use ur lo's small mouth towel(always wash it after each use) then u use ur first finger (covered wth d towel) and gently clean ur lo's gums n tongue(don't dip ur finger deep in ur lo's mouth). |
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