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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Chanbaby: 12:16pm On Aug 03, 2017
Sansa143:
How is u peoples?Please,has anyone dealt wit excessive sweating before?I haf tire to d clean sweat evry second,even if weda dey cold,he still sweats alottttttttt!
Sabi mamas help my ministry pls!

My dear same here oh. His dad always pity him the way he sweats and put on ac for him. he even quarrels with me when I dress him up to prevent cold. When light goes off at midnight his cry wakes us up to change over to inverter. This children no come suffer at all na Ajebo dem be
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Nobody: 12:36pm On Aug 03, 2017
Tnks dear,guess I will have to c d doc 4 further assessment!He sure sweats while sleeping,eating,playing or even wen not playing!Now d weda is cold,but d boy is sweating!
dunasy:


@luscioustrish :- damp wash cloth did it for me as DS teeth started coming out @ 14 months thereabout . Enjoy the mouth cleaning now ooo as when you want to start using brush as more comes out...na fight ooo.

Sabi mamas, how do you brush your toddlers teeth in peace without struggle?

@sansa143

Some babies sweat profusely during the deepest part of their nightly sleep cycle and end up soaking wet. Because babies spend much more time in this deepest stage of sleep, they're more likely to sweat during the night than adults or even older children.

Possible cause for concern: Sweating is very common, but excessive sweating could mean that something isn't right. For example, excessive sweating – especially when eating – can be a sign of congenital heart disease as well as various infections and sleep apnea. Overheating is also a risk factor for sudden infant death syndrome (SIDS) .

What to do about it: The room your baby sleeps in should be warm but not hot. Set the room temperature to a range that feels comfortable to a lightly clothed adult. Dress your baby in the amount of clothing that you'd be comfortable sleeping in without covers. Resist the urge to bundle her up and keep blankets, quilts, and comforters out of her crib.

As a rule of thumb, remember that if you're too hot, your baby probably is too. If the house is cool and your baby is dressed lightly and still sweating, talk with her doctor.

read more here :- https://www.babycenter.com/0_baby-sleep-habits-snoring-sweating-head-banging-and-more_1467374.bc?page=2
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by dunasy(f): 12:41pm On Aug 03, 2017
Sansa143:
Tnks dear,guess I will have to c d doc 4 further assessment!He sure sweats while sleeping,eating,playing or even wen not playing!Now d weda is cold,but d boy is sweating!


same as my son but my Mum says babies are never hot in the sense that don't be tricked to thinking they need so much air but, I dress him per weather ( never overdress or under dress) Just see your paed to confirm any issues.
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by enque(f): 12:50pm On Aug 03, 2017
mrslander:

pls what is the name of d diaper

Baby hugg
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by hunniesuzie: 1:19pm On Aug 03, 2017
Manage this one. A+ is for lecturer grin

You're welcome Damisinto

enque:


No jor, This is A+ material... wink

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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Nobody: 1:47pm On Aug 03, 2017
jazzyjazz:


Did you allow the oil to get hot?
Even when you fry on low heat, let it not be too low so that it does not soak

I sent you a pm
Yes I did. Could it be because I put a lot of sugar.

Can't access my mail o.
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by enque(f): 2:05pm On Aug 03, 2017
hunniesuzie:
Manage this one. A+ is for lecturer grin

You're welcome Damisinto


stingy lecturer... askor!!!

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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by mrslander: 2:09pm On Aug 03, 2017
[quote author=hunniesuzie post=59101264]Thanks Mama, just got the August Secrets plan too so I'll work with this guide
Enque I'm still waiting for your arrangement

[/quote
pls mama, where and how did u get the August secret meal plan,and how much did u get it
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by jazzyjazz: 2:17pm On Aug 03, 2017
faithisallihave:

Yes I did. Could it be because I put a lot of sugar.

Can't access my mail o.

No it's not the sugar

What's the email address? I don't want to derail the thread
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Abiagirl777(f): 2:18pm On Aug 03, 2017
Chanbaby:
Mamas I got tempted by all this sumptuous purees u people are talking about here. I decided to give my 5mths+ exclusively breastfeed baby banana puree and apple puree separately and he took it very well but I noticed he had to push so hard poop he cried so hard when he pooped and when I checked his diaper and I could pick the poop off the diaper to tell u how hard it was. Hubby had to force him to drink water cos he doesn't like it.
I tot fruit helps people to poop easily? Pls what didn't I do right?


banana causes constipation.If you must give let him take a llot of water or ditch it for now till when he starts walking.

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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by mrslander: 2:19pm On Aug 03, 2017
enque:


Hallos, i don show cool cool
eheeen, so here is what we do...

fruits - Banana puree, apple puree, avocado puree

cereals - Gerber oatmeal, Nutribom rice, nutribom multigrain, Cerelac (any of their combos), nutribom maize

Home made foods - Plaintain+titus fish puree, Sweet potato+titus fish puree, any other new meal we have tried and she likes.

August secrets nuttymeal, August secrets mixagrain,

Her daily meal is a combination of one or 2 foods food from each of the above groups and then milk (formula) feeds as well.

Example, for today I packed - 2 milk feeds + August secrets Mixagrain + Plantain fish puree + Cerelac.
She had breastmilk very early in the morning B4 we left the house(5.30/6am ish) and then around 8am she will have her mixagrain. Later in the day her nanny rotates the formula feed and other solids for her.
Most days she finishes all her food, but there are days when we have mostly 1 milk feed left, In such a case we take the milk for dinner and then breastfeed all night till the following morning.

I just try to vary her food so she isn't eating the same thing every day.

On the days when we have exhausted our home-made foods, we just do august secrets + cereals + formula feeds.

For cereals I also mix; Cerelac + nutribom or Gerber+cerelac or Gerber+Nutribom

* We try new meals on weekends, so I can see her reaction and how well she takes it. If she likes it, then I incorporate it into her weekday schedule.
*She likes boiled egg yolk, so I give her at nights when we are home (not everyday o), cos i feel it may get spoilt if i have to pack it in the morning and they wait till later to feed it to her.
*Fruit Purees are for snacking, more like an in-between meals kinda thing, cos e no de belleful her again. We also take fruit purees as dinner and then use bre.astmilk to support
*August secret veggie beans is for weekends too. She isn't a fan of it jare so I didnt include it in her weekday schedule.
* I add formula to her August secrets food except veggie beans

Chai! I can't believe all I just typed, e b like project defence speech grin grin

biko, if i remember more tips...i'll let u know jare
pls mama dis August secret meal how much is it, u mean u bought all dis food all at ones?
pls how much does ur baby spends on food per month because my baby will soon clock 6 month
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by enque(f): 2:21pm On Aug 03, 2017
[quote author=mrslander post=59111341][/quote]

I order via their whatsapp number. U can send me a PM, and i'll send u their whatsapp number or if u r on instagram u can follow her @augustsecrets_toyin
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by enque(f): 2:39pm On Aug 03, 2017
mrslander:

pls mama dis August secret meal how much is it, u mean u bought all dis food all at ones?
pls how much does ur baby spends on food per month because my baby will soon clock 6 month

I cannot categorically say how much I spend on baby food per month o grin grin
if i start to dey think that one, na heart attack i go get smiley

see my previous response to u about the august secrets food
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Nobody: 4:34pm On Aug 03, 2017
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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by AlphaHandMaiden(f): 4:40pm On Aug 03, 2017
Damisinto:
Its not an easy one and you need to honestly analyse a few things before you decide to resign or not. Brokeness is a BASTARD!. In any location! It is not a funny thing!

Does your office have a branch in the town or one closer to where your husband lives? You could ask for a transfer if so. Bear in mind you may have to take a paycut as the regional offices may likely not pay the same salaries as lagos or other major cities and sometimes these transfers take a while to be occur. So you also need a workable interim plan.

If you are keeping 2 homes, who's salary takes care of what? Are you solely responsible for your own upkeep, rent etc in lagos, or does your hubby chip in to your upkeep as well as his own place where he lives? If he does then perhaps the extra income saved from you all being in the same location will make a difference.

It is not impossible to leave your son with your hubby, as long as you both have an understanding of the circumstances.... the boy is his son as well and him being a man does not mean your son will lack any care. If this is a viable option then he needs to have a plan in place, will he be getting extra help? Or can he manage by himself, with the baby in a creche.

Other things to factor is how much are you actually earning in Lagos? Assess if it is worth it? Will you have any savings at the end of the month? Will you be eating into your savings every month to make ends meet? If so how long before you burn the savings and start borrowing?

When you resume, since no constant electricity, introducing formular (at least during the day) will be your best bet, have you factored this in your financial out goings?

Also what are the child care costs in the area where you live? Have you calculated these? Are you able to afford this on your current salary, (remove any family donations for now) especially if you are unable to get a close family member to come stay with you since you stay in a self-contained studio.

If you are going to be spending more than you are bringing in..... then you are in no better position in lagos with a "job" than in another state jobless.


I know of a person who had to quit her job due to the finances not making sense with her going back to work after mat.leave. and she became a child minder working from her own home taking care of 2 -3 other children and that brought in more than she would have made going to her "office job".

I am not saying that you should do the same as childcare is not for everyone, but the moral is that you may need to think and look out of the box. What are the services you could provide in the town that your hubby stays and get paid for it.

It only needs to be something that will tide you over till you get the job you are looking for? And you could also continue it as a side hustle even when you get employed.

The usual crafty things like sewing, beadmaking, baking / catering etc may be ok, but i find many towns are over-saturated with these so it may be hard ton stand out.

But also think of teaching..... are you very good at any subjects? You could be a home/ private tutor teaching maths or english or science during term time. Working around your own hours.

If you are crafty, you could organise summer schools for art and crafty things, even field trips to local attractions if there are any near you.

The main issue is that with the current state of the economy, what you offer will need to be seen as a somewhat essential service and not a luxury as most people can do away with luxuries when push comes to shove.


Sorry there is no clear" this is what you should do answer" because what worked for A will not work for B. As even though both scenarios may have similarities, something as small as the flexibilities your place of employment may offer you just because your boss favours you may make all the difference.

You and your hubby need to sit down, bring out then calculator, paper and biro and explore ALL foresable scenarios before you make any decisions.

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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by helovesme(f): 4:59pm On Aug 03, 2017
BellaElla:


Welcome back. i have missed you grin

Thanks dear. Missed you too. kiss
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by helovesme(f): 4:59pm On Aug 03, 2017
comtem2011:
Welcome back ma! thanks for the other day.

Thanks dear. To God be the Glory.
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by helovesme(f): 5:00pm On Aug 03, 2017
babythug:


Welcome home honey! This your travel tey this time oh wink

Thanks love. kiss
No be small travel. grin

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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by helovesme(f): 5:04pm On Aug 03, 2017
Jaygrl:
Hey mamas,I am thinking of just resigning from work to take care of my LO. I resumed back to work last week just as he turned 3months old. Before I resumed I introduced Nan because the breast milk I express won't be enough for him till I come back(we have not had power supply for like 1month 2weeks). I leave on the mainland and work on the island,I leave home say 5:40am with hubby so we have a nanny that takes care of my DS. I breastfeed him very well before leaving,some mornings he feels to sleepy to suck very well.

So to the issue now,I introduced feeding bottle to him like 1month before I resumed and he was taking it very well,just before I resumed he just stopped taking it. He doesn't take even the breast milk from spoon or bottles but he sucks breast very very well . So we resorted to forcing him even when he is crying to take the expressed milk/Nan via spoon. When he is very hungry,he takes say 60mls(then he starts crying,coughing so loud and sometimes ends up throwing up). This is what happens every single day since I started work,he seems to have lost so much weight. I come back say past 6pm as I close by 4pm for now.

So i came back earlier than normal yesterday,I opened the door with my key. The state I saw my son just made me breakdown,his clothes and bib was very wet,his eyes were red and teary. He just finished his milk of not even up to 60mls,for his cloth to be wet most likely he was pouring out the milk as he was been fed.

So I am wondering,for how long will we continue force feeding my 3months plus son when all he just wants is breastmilk directly from the breast itself at least for now. I actually plan quitting my job say October while I try to get a place close home,maybe I should resign by the end of this month and come take care of my DS before I lose him(he cries every time he is being fed till I come back home in the evening).

Sorry for the epistle,I am a first time mum and I am so confused at the moment. I love my son sooo much and I feel so guilty seeing him pass through this. Mum and mum in law thinks he will adjust but this is almost 2weeks now and he is even getting worse as he gets so angry at been fed with spoon. Mamas advice me oooooo

Try a different bottle/teat.

Boil the new teat in water for about five minutes to further soften it.

If that doesn't work, it's possible he's tired of NAN. try another milk brand like aptamil or any other reputable brand.

Why not have him stay in a reputable crèche ? I won't really trust a maid/housegirl with a child that young.

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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by helovesme(f): 5:12pm On Aug 03, 2017
jazzyjazz:
Abeg make Una no vex o
My ds has 2 teeth now
When do I start cleaning or brushing it for him?
Do I need to buy baby toothpaste?
Do I need to buy baby toothbrush.

Yes. Use toothbrush and toothpaste right from when the first tooth springs out.

Please stop cleaning your baby's ears. It's just too risky. Q-tips/cotton buds should NEVER be inserted into a child's ear. The risk to damaging or rupturing the ear drum is high. There is also the risk of an ear infection

A baby's ear is self cleansing. No paediatrician (I'm not talking doctors/general practitioners masking as paediatrician) will tell you it's okay to clean inside a baby's ear. It's a complete NO-NO.

All you need is to clean the outer ear. This can easily be done using a fannel at bath time.

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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by jazzyjazz: 5:28pm On Aug 03, 2017
Notes. Thanks ma'am
helovesme:


Yes. Use toothbrush and toothpaste right from when the first tooth springs out.

Please stop cleaning your baby's ears. It's just too risky. Q-tips/cotton buds should NEVER be inserted into a child's ear. The risk to damaging or rupturing the ear drum is high. There is also the risk of an ear infection

A baby's ear is self cleansing. No paediatrician (I'm not talking doctors/general practitioners masking as paediatrician) will tell you it's okay to clean inside a baby's ear. It's a complete NO-NO.

All you need is to clean the outer ear. This can easily be done using a fannel at bath time.
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Hyphee(f): 6:00pm On Aug 03, 2017
Mamas, pls come to my aid, my baby will be going for her 14 weeks immunization next week and I'm already scared cos our experience during the 6 & 10 weeks is not pleasing at all. Her thigh got swollen at both occasions and it took weeks, not days before the swollen part goes down and it has make that part of her thigh to be black maybe cos of the ice I'm putting, I don't understand, the two injections for her 10 weeks was even given to her on one thigh cos the other thigh was still swollen and painful at that time. I always use ice on the spot immediately I discover it's swollen but it doesn't go down on time, the next day it becomes red and more swollen and she cries so much if I mistakenly touch it. Pls mamas what can I do to avoid this same occurrence next week cos presently the thigh she took the injections for 10 weeks is still paining her. Do I need to press very well after injection or what? Pls sabi mamas, come to my aid, don't jump and pass pls
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Akorkor(f): 6:02pm On Aug 03, 2017
helovesme:


Yes. Use toothbrush and toothpaste right from when the first tooth springs out.

Please stop cleaning your baby's ears. It's just too risky. Q-tips/cotton buds should NEVER be inserted into a child's ear. The risk to damaging or rupturing the ear drum is high. There is also the risk of an ear infection

A baby's ear is self cleansing. No paediatrician (I'm not talking doctors/general practitioners masking as paediatrician) will tell you it's okay to clean inside a baby's ear. It's a complete NO-NO.

All you need is to clean the outer ear. This can easily be done using a fannel at bath time.

I have been hearing Don't clean their ear for sometimes now but if you obviously see a big dirt , what should we do? Leave it? Clean it? Or allow it to block the ear. Please shed more light because am not understanding
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by oamronnie(f): 6:45pm On Aug 03, 2017
Me likey! How much ma?

jazzyjazz:
Abeg who want buy shoes?
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by sassyangel1(f): 7:00pm On Aug 03, 2017
Jaygrl:
Hey mamas,I am thinking of just resigning from work to take care of my LO. I resumed back to work last week just as he turned 3months old. Before I resumed I introduced Nan because the breast milk I express won't be enough for him till I come back(we have not had power supply for like 1month 2weeks). I leave on the mainland and work on the island,I leave home say 5:40am with hubby so we have a nanny that takes care of my DS. I breastfeed him very well before leaving,some mornings he feels to sleepy to suck very well.

So to the issue now,I introduced feeding bottle to him like 1month before I resumed and he was taking it very well,just before I resumed he just stopped taking it. He doesn't take even the breast milk from spoon or bottles but he sucks breast very very well . So we resorted to forcing him even when he is crying to take the expressed milk/Nan via spoon. When he is very hungry,he takes say 60mls(then he starts crying,coughing so loud and sometimes ends up throwing up). This is what happens every single day since I started work,he seems to have lost so much weight. I come back say past 6pm as I close by 4pm for now.

So i came back earlier than normal yesterday,I opened the door with my key. The state I saw my son just made me breakdown,his clothes and bib was very wet,his eyes were red and teary. He just finished his milk of not even up to 60mls,for his cloth to be wet most likely he was pouring out the milk as he was been fed.

So I am wondering,for how long will we continue force feeding my 3months plus son when all he just wants is breastmilk directly from the breast itself at least for now. I actually plan quitting my job say October while I try to get a place close home,maybe I should resign by the end of this month and come take care of my DS before I lose him(he cries every time he is being fed till I come back home in the evening).

Sorry for the epistle,I am a first time mum and I am so confused at the moment. I love my son sooo much and I feel so guilty seeing him pass through this. Mum and mum in law thinks he will adjust but this is almost 2weeks now and he is even getting worse as he gets so angry at been fed with spoon. Mamas advice me oooooo

Awwwww...really feeling ur pain. 1 of d reasons I resigned tho wth my hubby's consent cos I don't wnt him giving me attitude later cos I don't v a pd job. Before u resign, seriously sit wth ur husband and hear from his side, check 4 any crèche close to ur office and take ur nanny wth ur lo to the crèche close to ur office b4 u finally decide whether u wana resign or nt. it may nt b easy esp in the financial aspect depending only 4rm one source esp if u r used 2 a kind of lifestyle and if such lifestyle cannot b continued it could bring attitude, grumbling or quarrel. Just think it thoroughly b4 u decide and will u be able to cope especially in this buharicession?

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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by sassyangel1(f): 7:04pm On Aug 03, 2017
Jaygrl:
We try to sing,dance for him while he eats. I have tried the syringe thing too,when he is crying and struggling it just keeps hitting his gum. The creches in VI where I work are quite pricey,the distance from where I work to where I live is quite far,I won't want to put him through that stress everyday,I don't have my personal car I use a bus....Thanks for replying promptly

Jst reading this. Hmmmm... This is a tough one. Jst sit down and think if only 1 source can pay the bills. It's well wth u..

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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by oamronnie(f): 7:05pm On Aug 03, 2017
cry

jazzyjazz:
Hunniesuzie the shoe is size 38
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by jazzyjazz: 7:11pm On Aug 03, 2017
oamronnie:
Me likey! How much ma?


4k only grin
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by sassyangel1(f): 7:13pm On Aug 03, 2017
Akorkor:


YES YES AND YES!!! YOU CAN, YOU CAN , YOU CAN!!!. People leaving abroad with no family around do it so you can do it. A quote from a favorite novel says " YOU CAN IF YOU THINK YOU CAN". Please dont leave your job because there is no job outside and your family needs it.
My question to you is: Do you have a younger sister that can help or from your husband family? If yes, please let her help out and if NO, look for a creche closer to your office and pop in at your free period. If your HR is the friendly ones let them know what you are going through am sure they will be glad to give you some little bit freedom to pop in and check your lo.
I stay alone in another country and this is what i do and God has been helping me so far. Earlier my sister was with me but let me tell you the fact, she doesn't really do much for me apart from carrying my baby. I bath my LO, even cook for her when i come back from work but all these make me a stronger lady because immediately she left i didnt even miss her for once. SO AM VERY SURE YOU CAN. Please don't leave your work. God will help you.

Don't even compare abroad wth our naija wer most private employers or ogas don't v the fear of God. A country(Nigeria) wer married women esp mothers r nt given a chance or chances 2 get a well paid job except u gat d job wen u wer single. I gat friends who r also mothers working abroad and they said dt they r entitled to 6 months maternity leave. Whereas, in this naija d most u can get is 3 months maternity leave. Abeg, this our country is jst stressful .

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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by sassyangel1(f): 7:17pm On Aug 03, 2017
hunniesuzie:
Let me share my perspective. My husband is also not based in Lagos. This is the reason why I had to get a help (Not nanny) She helps with house chores, errands, carrying baby sometimes when I need to bathe etc. My baby goes to a creche in my estate so drop off and pick up is convenient (I'd have considered near my office but cos I work quite far and the traffic has Oyo tribal marks). For you a creche near the office may work if you want to pop in during your break, there's no option to pop in where I work. But what helped me:

1. A good breast pump if you want to continue exclusive. Also regular light. If these aren't options forget it. You'll have to combi-feed (breast when you can and formula other times). My baby is combi-fed and very healthy
2. You need to start your LO on bottle feeding at least a month before you resume so he gets used to it
3. Get the creche before you resume if possible and start dropping him for a few hours every day just to ease the separation anxiety
4. Keep applying for a job in your husband's location, by God's grace it will work out


I also made mention of the crèche till I read later wer she said crèches close to her place of work is very expensive. Kai, to be a mother in this country no b beans nt to talk of working and keeping ur baby wth a nanny dts nt ur mother wth all the evils in this world nw.

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Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by oamronnie(f): 7:22pm On Aug 03, 2017
Love it soooooo much but it's not my size cry
jazzyjazz:


4k only grin
Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by sassyangel1(f): 7:33pm On Aug 03, 2017
luscioustrish:
Nobody even cared to answer me sef angry
Na so una dey do?
I asked what I can use to clean my baby's mouth



I used Milton to wash my children's tongue. Jst dip a tiny little drop in a small cup of warm water, use ur lo's small mouth towel(always wash it after each use) then u use ur first finger (covered wth d towel) and gently clean ur lo's gums n tongue(don't dip ur finger deep in ur lo's mouth).

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