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| Re: A Lady I tried To Give A Job Of N393,000 Blocked Me On Facebook by Kondomatic(m): 2:02pm On Aug 08, 2017 |
slendxy:That's if you're hundred sure that it is the person. I was skeptical initially because she was online while her phone was with me. |
| Re: A Lady I tried To Give A Job Of N393,000 Blocked Me On Facebook by Nobody: 2:05pm On Aug 08, 2017 |
Flaghouse1:Let me gist you mine bro...i like the way we gist, a man contacted me to do audio visuals, billboard, graphics, web site for his school, his church, web store for his business, on the way to his place, the pressure of the huge job, i was hasty, i ruined my neatly ironed clothes with sweat, so i tarried a while on the road, bought a white handkerchief to clean the sweat off my face, do you believe i lost the job because the guy kept starring at my handkerchief? He technically was looking at me cleaning the sweat and assumed i was trying to charm him for the job...funny enough when i discussed with his wife, she liked me, turned out we both attended the same church through teenage and we were both actively involved.. What am i trying to say Sir, the man despite how i handled the presentation flawlessly evaluated me based on the white handkerchief and not on performance....i learnt from that experience.. now this is the moral of my story, when people have things, toys, benefits, they tend to play superior and disconnect other people.. the facebook lady has maybe her comfort and swag, the guy has his believes and his perspectives and everybody is playing their own cards and thinking life would fit into their own ideologies and belief system, but compromise is key in life, marriage, ministry,business.... Fast-forward 18 months, i now have my business, the man who chose not to hire me may hire someone else better or equal or lesser than my skillset, but, it's best to be open to people to me, to tolerate people, and not be spontaneous in cutting people off, because while our benefits remain with us when we refuse to let ourselves out, for other people that stretch out, they tend to have a yield, or a loss in a bad experience..Life isn't black and white.. Finally, the lady didn't open up a bit.. the guy flipped like I would have, not being a better man, that man didn't give me the project, but life moves on..however opportunity doesn't come everyday, there are things we need to seize my brother..hence i stand with the op 100%...and you are right at not being patient thesedays with people, stupiidtty is the newest endemic |
| Re: A Lady I tried To Give A Job Of N393,000 Blocked Me On Facebook by multicolored(f): 2:11pm On Aug 08, 2017 |
And who told you she needs the job? |
| Re: A Lady I tried To Give A Job Of N393,000 Blocked Me On Facebook by samdoh(m): 2:12pm On Aug 08, 2017 |
BLoomfrancs:You should have just post the vacancy on your Facebook page, someone you know in school apart from that lady would still have the opportunity to benefit from it. |
| Re: A Lady I tried To Give A Job Of N393,000 Blocked Me On Facebook by imitateMe(m): 2:14pm On Aug 08, 2017 |
ibkkk:Now you're talking. She probably didn't allow messages from non-friends. |
| Re: A Lady I tried To Give A Job Of N393,000 Blocked Me On Facebook by goldedprince: 2:17pm On Aug 08, 2017 |
even if na me i go block you. next time as you add someone, send a message explaining your reason for adding her. is she a witch to a babalawo to know that you are adding her to offer her a job. i think you must be one of those -1 students in school that is why she did that |
| Re: A Lady I tried To Give A Job Of N393,000 Blocked Me On Facebook by dingbang(m): 2:22pm On Aug 08, 2017 |
ibkkk:all these trash won't feed a hungry girl.. Pride goes before a fall |
| Re: A Lady I tried To Give A Job Of N393,000 Blocked Me On Facebook by Jterry(m): 2:23pm On Aug 08, 2017 |
BLoomfrancs:The job is not for her, Look around for a better person. |
| Re: A Lady I tried To Give A Job Of N393,000 Blocked Me On Facebook by dingbang(m): 2:25pm On Aug 08, 2017 |
NwaAmaikpe:sometimes I don't know if you have a functional brain.. |
| Re: A Lady I tried To Give A Job Of N393,000 Blocked Me On Facebook by Flaghouse1: 2:26pm On Aug 08, 2017 |
supersystemsng:Our reasoning in this part of continent is so warped, imagine somebody believing you will charm him with handkerchief-people like that sorry to say may be Christians but inside of them believe more of native stuff than hope in God to make thins flow. Back to the issue we cannot be 100% correct as humans ,but I wanted the Op to reason and learn from all the criticism he is getting from the forum, there are people in this country today may not have 500 k in their account but if they give you note refer you, thier names open doors,so the Op feels he has arrived life itself is not does not revolve around him, my first job was gotten from somebody I least expected , the man was married ,jobless money was tight to feed was a problem ,once he talks about it whatever I have I split into two folds as little as N500.00 those days .one day he just told me that do you know you saved lives yesterday there was nothing in the house to eat, By providence he got a job after 2years , as soon as opportunities came up he just told me give me your Cv and the rest was story ,the was excellent back in the days. That is why I say who will help will help you-all he needed to do with all sincerity is to call her or see her physically to tell her of the job opportunity |
| Re: A Lady I tried To Give A Job Of N393,000 Blocked Me On Facebook by Nobody: 2:35pm On Aug 08, 2017 |
Flaghouse1:Fantastic, i love your story... Very nice one...which is why i tell people it's important we cultivate and propagate healthy relationships..truth be told every relationship has a value that can come out to be different things down the line.. Can you see why i suggested both of us reduce cutting relationships short? forget our current income and all, relationships are priceless, and though why this generation is funny, we all should learn to find meaningful relationships and cultivate them, not giving up on people that entirely mess up...You dig? |
| Re: A Lady I tried To Give A Job Of N393,000 Blocked Me On Facebook by kinibigdeal(m): 2:47pm On Aug 08, 2017 |
Evaberry:Are you the girl in question? |
| Re: A Lady I tried To Give A Job Of N393,000 Blocked Me On Facebook by calebfm(m): 2:52pm On Aug 08, 2017 |
BLoomfrancs:I have a friend she studied linguistics at uni ibadan , very fluent in French if d job is still available pls tell me and u will let you know on how to get her thanks |
| Re: A Lady I tried To Give A Job Of N393,000 Blocked Me On Facebook by Nobody: 2:53pm On Aug 08, 2017 |
Evaberry:Ladies can back each others up ehn.. see the way you're defending the lady, so nice and sweet but we know the trick.. you're trying to make the oP feel guilty so he'll go back and call the chick.. back we have decoded you.. e no go work Eva... ![]() |
| Re: A Lady I tried To Give A Job Of N393,000 Blocked Me On Facebook by Nobody: 3:00pm On Aug 08, 2017 |
ibkkk:Wronged fire, says who? I don't know if this story is actually true, but what I do know is that ladies are so superficial, maybe he doesn't have frosh pics, with champagne and discotheque backgrounds, or he's not her level because he must still be struggling, after all they graduated same time. |
| Re: A Lady I tried To Give A Job Of N393,000 Blocked Me On Facebook by Flaghouse1: 3:01pm On Aug 08, 2017 |
supersystemsng:Right, the society today is not in congruence with what we observed when growing up,youths of today are on the fast lane make money by all means. Yesterday a young chap I mentored called me for a business transaction, I hot to the place met him and his friend.We saw the contact man interested in buying off land I intend disposing in an estate,after our meeting the contact person just told me to hang around that he will contact the real buyer within an hour to fix appointment to firm up the deal. To my suprise ,the guy called my mentee to tell him that the gain he is going to make is really not much from my deal,that he has been told of another offer within same locale which seems profitable, my guy just told him why not open up to the man and he will accede to your increase in gain from the deal, he then told my mentee not to inform me about latest development. Surprisingly,upon investigation I found out that the chap standing with my mentee when I got to the place ,has gone to the guy to present a farce that a land is available ,when I told my mentee that it's that your friend that did this thing he was shocked ,he too later confirmed it,see the extent people go for money. Bros, that's why I like American if you know what I mean -Niggers don't take bullshitt |
| Re: A Lady I tried To Give A Job Of N393,000 Blocked Me On Facebook by BLoomfrancs(op): 3:14pm On Aug 08, 2017 |
alexialin:I wonder how una dey take understand something. The job needs a bilingual officer; ie someone who can speak at least two foreign languages. It mustn't be only French and English. And the offer has a limited time before someonelse snatches it. So lf I start a French lesson now and maybe two months later I'm called for interview, how do you think I'm gonna be successful in it when it was made clear that the job seeker should be fluent in these languages. So how will you look when they tell you to be an interpreter in French or do you think a course of three months in French will make you become a very efficient interpreter. This thing you are saying I said it to the woman and she said it won't be possible as they can't be waiting for me to learn the language because the level of language proficiency they need is not beginner level, neither is it intermediate level but a professional level of proficiency. The woman is always busy herself. Do you think someone like her who, most at times is travelling from this African country to that African country will have time to wait for me while I take my French lesson. |
| Re: A Lady I tried To Give A Job Of N393,000 Blocked Me On Facebook by efavour: 3:17pm On Aug 08, 2017 |
BLoomfrancs:find a way to reach her. Sometimes you don't let people in your life cos you were not in a good place at that moment. What if she is ashamed of one thing or the other in her life and don't want to make contact with you at the moment. I had been calling a friend who I had known for a long time but she would not pick my calls no matter how long I call. I was one of the bridesmaid at her wedding oh. We didn't quarrel nor fight,no ego issue as she and myself were down to earth. I keep asking my self why was avoiding me and couldn't find any reason. I let her be and then one day, I ran into her sister and she downloaded everything that has happened to me. She was even coding it a bit but from everything I got from her, my friend needed sometime alone to accept some situation life threw at her ,she needed to make peace with it before she can socialize with friends or even tell them about it. Stop rushing to judge people. |
| Re: A Lady I tried To Give A Job Of N393,000 Blocked Me On Facebook by Donswatter(m): 3:26pm On Aug 08, 2017 |
NwaAmaikpe:you need a touch of the holy ghost seriously... |
| Re: A Lady I tried To Give A Job Of N393,000 Blocked Me On Facebook by BLoomfrancs(op): 3:30pm On Aug 08, 2017 |
emmyid:No I wasn't trying to test her. If I remembered about the message button I could have sent her the message right away. |
| Re: A Lady I tried To Give A Job Of N393,000 Blocked Me On Facebook by shadyberry(f): 3:32pm On Aug 08, 2017 |
Lol slay Queen....Abeg i need the job |
| Re: A Lady I tried To Give A Job Of N393,000 Blocked Me On Facebook by BLoomfrancs(op): 3:36pm On Aug 08, 2017 |
pocohantas:Someone who went to the same school wif me. Someone who knows my name off by heart. And knows where I live. So how doesn't my name ring a bell when I have a profile pic. I am sure you have a very big problem wif comprehension mumu. |
| Re: A Lady I tried To Give A Job Of N393,000 Blocked Me On Facebook by wedeonline(m): 3:39pm On Aug 08, 2017 |
Kondomatic:Lol you are mean bro!!! |
| Re: A Lady I tried To Give A Job Of N393,000 Blocked Me On Facebook by calebokey45(m): 3:41pm On Aug 08, 2017 |
BLoomfrancs:Op she did not block you, if she did, you won't see her profile at all. She has probably reached the friends limit, that's why Facebook took away the add friend button |
| Re: A Lady I tried To Give A Job Of N393,000 Blocked Me On Facebook by BLoomfrancs(op): 3:44pm On Aug 08, 2017 |
FakoMaybach1:The woman works wif ECOWAS. I assume she was told to bring someone as her own slot(you know all this quota stuff). It is just one position. I am sorry that I didn't mention it here on nairaland. Buh wah if you were my friend and I knew quite well you would be perfect for the job; do you think you would be happy wif me If I decided to come in a public forum to announce it without telling you first. Check am nah my guy. |
| Re: A Lady I tried To Give A Job Of N393,000 Blocked Me On Facebook by ibkkk(f): 3:49pm On Aug 08, 2017 |
SnowJay92:Oh,well... |
| Re: A Lady I tried To Give A Job Of N393,000 Blocked Me On Facebook by BLoomfrancs(op): 3:52pm On Aug 08, 2017 |
God some people's comment for here just tire me. So nah sin to inform someone about something that will help them. So I should have kept quiet abi? Well everybody is entitled to their opinion. |
| Re: A Lady I tried To Give A Job Of N393,000 Blocked Me On Facebook by BLoomfrancs(op): 4:01pm On Aug 08, 2017 |
pocohantas:They are no longer living there. I have tried to get her number from her friends buh to no avail. You can say whatever you like about me being proud buh I don't gaf. |
| Re: A Lady I tried To Give A Job Of N393,000 Blocked Me On Facebook by BLoomfrancs(op): 4:05pm On Aug 08, 2017 |
Flaghouse1:So why would I waste my time going to Facebook if I had her number. Eh papa oo? Smh. |
| Re: A Lady I tried To Give A Job Of N393,000 Blocked Me On Facebook by n1ky(f): 4:18pm On Aug 08, 2017 |
As for me, I don't accept friend request from a person I did not know, Even if you are my private school mate, people changes a lot over a long time. I will have to check your profile, Mutual friends and if I am not convinced, I will not accept you. |
| Re: A Lady I tried To Give A Job Of N393,000 Blocked Me On Facebook by BLoomfrancs(op): 4:25pm On Aug 08, 2017 |
calebokey45:Didn't you read where I said that I checked my ‘sent request’ and saw nothing there. Apart from that, If she hadn't accepted me, a button showing that I sent her a request would have still been on her profile. |
| Re: A Lady I tried To Give A Job Of N393,000 Blocked Me On Facebook by Nobody: 4:26pm On Aug 08, 2017 |
Flaghouse1:Brother no loyalty anymore o..Sheybi you saw Neymar too yaself... ![]() |
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