suremum:
BA BA
Alhamdulilah, i welcomed my prince charming to this world weighing like 4.2kg through emergency CS yday 10/8/17. Baby, mama and dad are doing great.
Cappo Phlakkeys how are u doing?
BS later

congratulations mama,such a cutie,he shall be a source of joy to you and your family and more blessings will come your way
cappo Phlakkeys the Lord be with you wherever you're

mydreams25:

Hian!!! Shuo!!! I can't deal with these pikin traits you people are sharing o. Me I beat well, my son of 2 and 7months have been receiving Cain from bad behaviour since before he was 2. You will just use his age to beat him or her & you will see changes. How can a child not fear his or her parents when scolding them? I can't deal& the worst part is that if you don't beat to correct them at home when you go out and they repeat the same thing in the presence of strangers there is nothing you will say that they will listen and strangers will now be like this woman cannot even correct and control her child. Me I beat ooo because them beat me too and the kind beating my parents gave me made me today. I beat when its obvious what he did is wrong and I praise when he does Right. Before anytime you collect something from him or correct him of something he will fall on the floor with his head and start crying, what rubbish? After I and dh dealt with him he doesn't do it again, of he wants to cry, stand straight & do your crying till you are okay. My dh will say its better for him to cry than for him to injure himself and cause another thing.
Anyways with each parents to their training but I beat cos my parents beat me and looking back now am happy for all.

Sometimes when she start rolling on the floor, I'll remove anything that will wound her and allow her to do the rolling well. When she notice I don't have her time, she'll stop look at me and start hitting her forehead on the ground, when she's tired she'll climb on my body, cuddle and start rubbing my face(that's how I cuddle her when she's crying). She is just a year and 3months.

winningbt:

congratulations mama,such a cutie,he shall be a source of joy to you and your family and more blessings will come your way
cappo Phlakkeys the Lord be with you wherever you're

Thank u mam

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Thank u mama.

mbula:
good evening beautiful mums.I just spoke with some medical doctors and my mum as well who is a retired midwife.spoke with a cousin of mine who have a pre school in Lagos about his attitude. what they all told me is that I should stop beating him that I will end up scaring him away from me which I agree because after beating him he avoids me for like 2-3hours before he will get close to me again and I also rant while the beating is in progress and he has this scared expression on his face when I'm in that mood.I hate myself after each beating episode.
the point is my son throws things when he is playing and also sees it as a means of inviting you to join him and play.he screams too at the top of his voice out of excitement when he sees the object fly.his throwing attitude has never been as a form of tantrum or anger.
I have talked to him telling him how mummy doesn't like this attitude and also scared of him injuring another person.I have even denied him his favourite being ribenna and biscuit and he will still move on to throw something and scream while running round the house.to be sincere to you all,I'm not trying to be emotional or take side,I have come to conclusion that he doesn't understand what my fears are and doesn't understand the meaning of that beating I usually give him.at the end,my doctor friends all said I should go and ready up on TERRIBLE TWOS and THREES.even my cousin said same.I just googled that and I saw that the character he exhibits is just normal for his age.so all I'm left with is just prayers for this phase to pass and also for God to help me with my quick action of spanking him.
sorry dear mums I didn't mean to bore you all with long Epistle but I just felt I should share my findings since we happen to be many on this boat.....lifted hands and other mamas cruising same boat with me.....THE LORD IS OUR MUSCLE...... kissess

That's just it! Beating a toddler isn't the way to curb such behaviour. I've asked and seen other moms going thru same with their wards I'm convinced it will pass.

It's our duty to make sure they don't injure them selves or other in this process! I keep remotes and other weighty objects out of his reached so even if he must throw it won't be anything injurious.

They can so get on your nerves most times but I try to chill and count to 10 before I correct him with a calm and stern voice. Beating from childhood made me distance myself from my mom emotionally that till date i find it difficult to confide in her! I don't remember the nights she stayed awake watching over my sick ass BUT vividly remember the canes and yell!

I dont want my child to grow up distancing his feelings from me due to repressed memory of beatings.

A little smack here and there isn't bad but it shouldn't be a constant way of correction! Ask those that beat if it did any good? Other than make the child afraid and withdrawn?
Please don't beat get him distracted immediately you see him raise something to throw.

Perfectcrown
Blessedmum
Prettyhurts
Beyedew
Abiagirl777
Etc

Na God go see us thru this phase.

suremum:
BA BA
Alhamdulilah, i welcomed my prince charming to this world weighing like 4.2kg through emergency CS yday 10/8/17. Baby, mama and dad are doing great.
Cappo Phlakkeys how are u doing?
BS later

Congratulations, he is just lovely. Look at that adorable little face. Speedy recovery ma'am.

suremum:
BA BA
Alhamdulilah, i welcomed my prince charming to this world weighing like 4.2kg through emergency CS yday 10/8/17. Baby, mama and dad are doing great.
Cappo Phlakkeys how are u doing?
BS later

He is soooo cute!! Congrats mama welcome handsome bobo kisses.

mydreams25:

Hian!!! Shuo!!! I can't deal with these pikin traits you people are sharing o. Me I beat well, my son of 2 and 7months have been receiving Cain from bad behaviour since before he was 2. You will just use his age to beat him or her & you will see changes. How can a child not fear his or her parents when scolding them? I can't deal& the worst part is that if you don't beat to correct them at home when you go out and they repeat the same thing in the presence of strangers there is nothing you will say that they will listen and strangers will now be like this woman cannot even correct and control her child. Me I beat ooo because them beat me too and the kind beating my parents gave me made me today. I beat when its obvious what he did is wrong and I praise when he does Right. Before anytime you collect something from him or correct him of something he will fall on the floor with his head and start crying, what rubbish? After I and dh dealt with him he doesn't do it again, of he wants to cry, stand straight & do your crying till you are okay. My dh will say its better for him to cry than for him to injure himself and cause another thing.
Anyways with each parents to their training but I beat cos my parents beat me and looking back now am happy for all.

My point exactly. I don't have a child but when I do, the child has no choice but to be disciplined, and the fear of cain is what puts them in check. How do you think these teachers cope and why do you think the kids coordinate when they are in school.

Katchycouture I see you peeping how are you?

Awww...... Wat a lovely baby suremum, God bless him big!

Hmmmm this children can stretch ones patience ehn? My boy of 1yr5mnts is really something....I've started tapping him small small but I don't think he understands Y yet..
When people come into my shop with children(even ones older than him) he will try bullying them, then when he sees the child is tryn to run from him,power don come! He will so pull n push till the child start cryn....(abeg make e now pursue customer for me o), but when he sees the one that can give him back, uncle will just gentle...... now he has started slapping people,,me, dad, grandma, uncle, sales girl, customer, nobody is exempted. I have this small phone that he just like to see in pieces on the floor.....one he sees m not holding it he picks it n throw it on the floor like this where it's supposed to be.....abeg.....let him grow out of it I b4 I start spanking

Liftedhands:
That's just it! Beating a toddler isn't the way to curb such behaviour. I've asked and seen other moms going thru same with their wards I'm convinced it will pass.

It's our duty to make sure they don't injure them selves or other in this process! I keep remotes and other weighty objects out of his reached so even if he must throw it won't be anything injurious.

They can so get on your nerves most times but I try to chill and count to 10 before I correct him with a calm and stern voice. Beating from childhood made me distance myself from my mom emotionally that till date i find it difficult to confide in her! I don't remember the nights she stayed awake watching over my sick ass BUT vividly remember the canes and yell!

I dont want my child to grow up distancing his feelings from me due to repressed memory of beatings.

A little smack here and there isn't bad but it shouldn't be a constant way of correction! Ask those that beat if it did any good? Other than make the child afraid and withdrawn?
Please don't beat get him distracted immediately you see him raise something to throw.

Perfectcrown
Blessedmum
Prettyhurts
Beyedew
Abiagirl777
Etc

Thanks mama. My son(1yr+11months) use to throw things at sm1bt weneva he does dat,i spank his hand(lightly though) snd say to him "no one threw this thing at you so dont throw at ppl,just hand it over". And he will js jejely give u. As for the yelling and shouting,aaaahhhh dat 1 na surebanka! Lastweek,i heared my neighbour shouting at het daughter and saying "i will kill u",am i smiling" and i wondered why should she say such words...

My son is hyper-hyper-active!!! The caning does not actually work for all bt one must let them kn dat they will be spanked IF dey do wrong. I usually cut d tiny part of the flower branch in my compound 4 my son and once he sees it,he will just "reverse" and shout "cane". I dont use it on him but it "curbs" him and then he will suddenly become lovey-dovey with me and starts saying "my baby"(dats what my hubby calls me)i.e "put d cane down and cuddle me. I just laugh.

What im trying to say is that,the caning/beating doesnt always work! It gets 2 a time where it doesnt mean anytin 2d child. The child will think(after s/he has done smtin wrong)shebi na cane/beat "odeshi" and dats y u see that the more u beat,the more d child gets stubborns...

Just akways PRAY and TALK to them and yes,THEY WILL OUTGROW THIS PHASE!

But Boys are full of IJOGBON(yoruba mothers can relate).

suremum:
BA BA
Alhamdulilah, i welcomed my prince charming to this world weighing like 4.2kg through emergency CS yday 10/8/17. Baby, mama and dad are doing great.
Cappo Phlakkeys how are u doing?
BS later

OMG!
I feel like hugging him for real.
Such a cute and big baby. God will protect him and make him a source of joy to d family......... Mamas take note, na so B.A's suppose dey come with pics. I heard it was so in d days of our fore-mothers

Good morning gbogbo ile

suremum:
BA BA
Alhamdulilah, i welcomed my prince charming to this world weighing like 4.2kg through emergency CS yday 10/8/17. Baby, mama and dad are doing great.
Cappo Phlakkeys how are u doing?
BS later

Such a cute prince, congrats suremum.

suremum:
BA BA
Alhamdulilah, i welcomed my prince charming to this world weighing like 4.2kg through emergency CS yday 10/8/17. Baby, mama and dad are doing great.
Cappo Phlakkeys how are u doing?
BS later

See freshness!!!
Congrats mama. Hes soooooo cute! God bless him

Liftedhands:
That's just it! Beating a toddler isn't the way to curb such behaviour. I've asked and seen other moms going thru same with their wards I'm convinced it will pass.


Prettyhurts
Etc

Na God go see us thru this phase.

I don't flog, I spank her bum bum with my middle finger or shout No! No! (shaking my head). You can imagine her shaking her head telling me mmmh mmh (no no) or ehh ehh with her eyes open(sometimes I laugh when she's doing it). Nwa 15months and a girl oo for that matter.

Yes so true! That's why today I hardly communicate with my dad. I still remember all the beatings sometimes, the flogging only make the child more stubborn because they have gotten used to the beatings. I won't bring up my children in such way.

Liftedhands:
That's just it! Beating a toddler isn't the way to curb such behaviour. I've asked and seen other moms going thru same with their wards I'm convinced it will pass.

It's our duty to make sure they don't injure them selves or other in this process! I keep remotes and other weighty objects out of his reached so even if he must throw it won't be anything injurious.

They can so get on your nerves most times but I try to chill and count to 10 before I correct him with a calm and stern voice. Beating from childhood made me distance myself from my mom emotionally that till date i find it difficult to confide in her! I don't remember the nights she stayed awake watching over my sick ass BUT vividly remember the canes and yell!

I dont want my child to grow up distancing his feelings from me due to repressed memory of beatings.

A little smack here and there isn't bad but it shouldn't be a constant way of correction! Ask those that beat if it did any good? Other than make the child afraid and withdrawn?
Please don't beat get him distracted immediately you see him raise something to throw.

Perfectcrown
Blessedmum
Prettyhurts
Beyedew
Abiagirl777
Etc

Na God go see us thru this phase.

Most private school do not allow flogging. Teachers are not allowed to flog students.

Dazzle86:

My point exactly. I don't have a child but when I do, the child has no choice but to be disciplined, and the fear of cain is what puts them in check. How do you think these teachers cope and why do you think the kids coordinate when they are in school.

suremum:
BA BA
Alhamdulilah, i welcomed my prince charming to this world weighing like 4.2kg through emergency CS yday 10/8/17. Baby, mama and dad are doing great.
Cappo Phlakkeys how are u doing?
BS later

See freshness overloaded. .

Mama please try and wait one more week. I had my baby at 36w5d and she is the healthiest baby I have seen. May God's grace be sufficient for you.

katchycouture:
Please who amongst us has had a baby at 35weeks...did the baby need an incubator??

Everyday new things keep comming up due to the high risk pregnancy, I've taken every drug many doctors have prescribed....almost every doctor in ikorodu knows me now and I'm afraid for my baby.....please i need to know what it wld look like having my baby at 35weeks so that I can just get a CS done this weekend

suremum:
BA BA
Alhamdulilah, i welcomed my prince charming to this world weighing like 4.2kg through emergency CS yday 10/8/17. Baby, mama and dad are doing great.
Cappo Phlakkeys how are u doing?
BS later

I CNT help but say wow... big and handsome.

Mama I'm interested. Can you please sign me up? I dont don't know how PM works but if you can drop your email, I will send my details to you. Thank you.

imurboss:


I can sign you up if you're interested at getting at a consultant price. you can pm me your full name, email,phone no, dob,home/office address and i will sign u up

suremum:
BA BA
Alhamdulilah, i welcomed my prince charming to this world weighing like 4.2kg through emergency CS yday 10/8/17. Baby, mama and dad are doing great.
Cappo Phlakkeys how are u doing?
BS later

I love peeping bt dis baby is too cute to ignore. Kai! Mama suremum, una do well oo.

E be like say dat obodo oyibo weather dey favour all dese babies wella. Fresh bobo, nnoo. May you always bring joy to your family and all who surround you.

*peeping continues *

Sure mom, cuteness overloaded.
God bless and keep him

Naomi14:
Most private school do not allow flogging. Teachers are not allowed to flog students.

Hehehe. I pray o. In the former private school where I taught, our proprietor kept drumming down our ears that we should not flog, only report the kids to the principal. For wetin na? Small pikin go offend for class, I go waka go begin report like cry baby? Na lie o
I still flog (when I feel the offense requires it o), and I punish well well. I was about the only female teacher who used to flog. Proprietor got tired of me sef.
One day, a parent came to report that her daughter was flogged on the eyes, and had swollen eyes! I was the one who took the girl to be flogged by another male teacher, but she was only flogged on her bum, so how come the eyes were swollen?

That day, proprietor tie wrapper for my matter. I was a little scared though, and the woman was breathing fire and brimstone. Proprietor couldn't handle her so he just pushed her to me, that that's the teacher who flogged your ward.

I prepared my speech very well before she came then I started explaining. I told her firstly, she was not flogged on the eyes as I can never flog a child on the eyes, and then I started enumerating the benefits of discipline for the betterment of the child. (Me wey never born pikin before dey teach mother how to discipline pikin ).
Believe it or not, by the time I was done, she was almost going down on her knees to thank me.

My proprietor was just shaking head for me.
I always got away with my floggings cos I did it with sense and where reasonable.

But I had a colleague whose salary was withheld cos she slapped a student, until she had to call the student's mum and beg for forgiveness.

I used to think my mum hated me when she disciplined me more than my siblings as her only female, but today? I'm closer to her than all my other siblings. It's now I appreciate her disciplines more, and atimes I feel like turning back the hands of time so I would change all I did to make her mad in the past. I can't forget how she once broke a rubber drum cover on my body in annoyance, but now I understand better. I appreciate her more today, and I'm truly happy she did not spare the rod on me.



Not trying to persuade you otherwise tho. Whatever works best for each of us is best.

spiceeamiee:
Mama I'm interested. Can you please sign me up? I dont don't know how PM works but if you can drop your email, I will send my details to you. Thank you.

Good morning mama,you can drop your details .Let me know when you get my email add so i can take it out.....Thanks.

suremum:
BA BA
Alhamdulilah, i welcomed my prince charming to this world weighing like 4.2kg through emergency CS yday 10/8/17. Baby, mama and dad are doing great.
Cappo Phlakkeys how are u doing?
BS later

Wow, early morning dose of cuteness. Such a big and handsome baby you got there. Congratulations mama, God's protection on him.

Katchycouture, how are u doing....

Good day mamas

Please does anyone have an idea about Igando maternal and child care center. ( General hospital). My questions are as follows.

1.Their days of registration as a first timer
2. What we need to take along ( cash and maybe other things) to register.
3.what to expect
4. Reviews (I have had people who delivered there and they gave excellent reviews but this was like 2 years ago) pls I would appreciate current info.
5. Costs
6.Any other information necessary.

Pls don't mind my plenty questions

Thanks.

Hmmmmm! Talking about being beating by parents as a child I went through hell in the hands of my dad as a military man.. Not only me o my siblings inclusive. It gotten to a point that me n my elder sis was praying that our dad should just die so that we can have peace . There was a day our mom went to visit her brother (we no know wether her husband no permit her to go) when our dad came back n asked of our mom n we told him that she has gone to badagry, holy moly d kind beating wey we receive ehn only God knows how we survived it we where beaten like criminals with army belt, tiny wire n even knife my elder sis was d one who suffer most, her skin practically peeled off when my dad hit her with the knife cos she's very fair in complexion oh lawd we weep for her dat faithful day. It was a very nasty day for us, no body to plead for us. And that was d last day we where beaten by our dad cos when he saw blood gushing out of my sis body he quickly threw d knife away n held my sis closed . But today he's my best friend. I love him so much for making me who I am today. ...


Ps. Who say beating dey make pikin stubborn? The pikin never see better beating wey go put him brain for auto reset be dat.

suremum congrats, may God provide everything you need for baby,he's blessed.
the one I hate most is hitting head on the floor while crying it scares the hell out of me and this is a daily occurrence.

Liftedhands:
That's just it! Beating a toddler isn't the way to curb such behaviour. I've asked and seen other moms going thru same with their wards I'm convinced it will pass.
It's our duty to make sure they don't injure them selves or other in this process! I keep remotes and other weighty objects out of his reached so even if he must throw it won't be anything injurious.
They can so get on your nerves most times but I try to chill and count to 10 before I correct him with a calm and stern voice. Beating from childhood made me distance myself from my mom emotionally that till date i find it difficult to confide in her! I don't remember the nights she stayed awake watching over my sick ass BUT vividly remember the canes and yell!
I dont want my child to grow up distancing his feelings from me due to repressed memory of beatings.
A little smack here and there isn't bad but it shouldn't be a constant way of correction! Ask those that beat if it did any good? Other than make the child afraid and withdrawn?
Please don't beat get him distracted immediately you see him raise something to throw.
Perfe.ctcrown
Bl.essedmum
Prett.yhurts
Bey.edew
Abi.agirl777
Etc
Na God go see us thru this phase.

That is one of the reasons why I draw back whenever I feel like pulling out his ears. I don't even want to remember how many lashes of cane I collected from my dad . God will help us cos truly, it isn't easy at all.

suremum:
BA BA
Alhamdulilah, i welcomed my prince charming to this world weighing like 4.2kg through emergency CS yday 10/8/17. Baby, mama and dad are doing great.
Cappo Phlakkeys how are u doing?
BS later

Congrats ma God bless ur lo