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people of Nairaland, please I need advice on this ish.

we planned getting married soon but don't intend making children until after one year of our marriage.
which family planning method is the best. I don't want any chemical my body for now

Get married first!

Not a good idea to start delaying having children when you don't have any at all for now.

You no want chemical for body?
Well your best bet might be to use a condom but if you can't have the discipline,then you should go on the pills.

Condom na or withdrawal method if bros is skilled in that area but withdrawal is at your own risk sha.


If you use patch or pills it might disrupt your hormones.

Happy married life in advance

okirewaju:
Condom na or withdrawal method if bros is skilled in that area but withdrawal is at your own risk sha.


If you use patch or pills it might disrupt your hormones.

Happy married life in advance

bros withdrawal no be here o , before you know, you Don faint, tell me how you go take withdraw!

Get married first, then use CopoerT. No hormones

iucd is d best.... it's also known as Copper T.... it's 99% effective nd it's reversible (u can take in once it's removed...u dnt need to wait for some months for it to wear off coz pregnancy occurs once it's removed)...it's easy to use and doesn't require day to day maintenance

Go and get an iud inserted and stop making noise

Evaberry:
Go and get an iud inserted and stop making noise

I don't think she's making noise pretty, she just asked an important question which many others can learn from, just like me.

ikemesit4477:
bros withdrawal no be here o , before you know, you Don faint, tell me how you go take withdraw!

Bros be disciplined.

okirewaju:
Bros be disciplined.

Rett0:
Get married first, then use CopoerT. No hormones

Pls never try this method except you are ready to risk waiting many more years before getting pregnant.

Condom is still the best...you risk getting PID after the removal and some women get to bleed during Sex plus the wahala of checking if its till intact after every action.

I hope u are not looking for how to have unprotected sex and not get pregnant




anyway if u are sincere with ur post I will advice u to reconsider your decisions. it may sound like a wise idea, but I pray u dnt regret it.

darlenese:
I hope u are not looking for how to have unprotected sex and not get pregnant




anyway if u are sincere with ur post I will advice u to reconsider your decisions. it may sound like a wise idea, but I pray u dnt regret it.

That's what I mean.. unprotected sex and not get pregnant. There are things we have to settle before making children .

Good topic, poor response rate - public hospitals should provide family planning advice and services I assume.
If more people paused to plan before having kids, Naija would be such a prosperous nation.
Please plan so that when the kids come and see how much you prepped, you sef will have mouth to train them properly.
It is much harder to bring up straight forward kids when you bring them them into penury.

Just continue the way both of you have been doing it. I know both of you have been banging the living daylights outta yourselves, and you have not taken in just yet. So continue.

YabaLeftist:


Just continue the way both of you have been doing it. I know both of you have been banging the living daylights outta yourselves, and you have not taken in just yet. So continue.

you have a poor judgement mentality. Don't think relationship is all about sex..

Kkposky:
you have a poor judgement mentality. Don't think relationship is all about sex..

You know I'm saying the truth. But let's pretend it's a lie. Issokay.

YabaLeftist:
You know I'm saying the truth. But let's pretend it's a lie. Issokay.

Am not like you. You don't explanations anyway...