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| Signs Of An Abusive Relationship by damjane(op): 4:41pm On Aug 18, 2017 |
An abusive relationship can take any form, it can be physical or verbal abuse. Many at times we are being abused by our partners but we fail to see the signs, so nothing is done about it until it is too late. Here are signs of abuse to watch out for in your relationship. 1. Controlling An abusive partner is generally controlling, he tells you what to do, when to do, and how to do things. If your partner is always telling you what to do, it is a warning sign. 2. Jealousy These us another warning sign of abuse. When your partner is constantly jealous of your every move he becomes distrustful and constantly question your every move. 3. Isolation A relationship where you are being restricted fro mixing with the rest of the world is not a healthy one. 4. Verbal abuse When your partner never has anything good to say to you, he is abusing you emotionally. A relationship is suppose to be about two people supporting each other, giving peace and happiness to each other, and not the opposite. 5. History of physical abuse OK, so everybody knows him as a woman beater, he has been in and out of relationships, he has even admitted to having temper issues, what are you still waiting for. It might not be any of the signs I've listed here, it might be something else. The truth is that we all can tell when something is not right, if you ever fell like you are being abused, please come out of that relationship and be happy. https://bluelizzblog..co.ke/2017/08/signs-of-abusive-relationship.html?m=1
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| Re: Signs Of An Abusive Relationship by LifeIsGuhd(f): 4:42pm On Aug 18, 2017 |
Spot on... Drug/alcohol overdose should be there |
| Re: Signs Of An Abusive Relationship by Nobody: 4:43pm On Aug 18, 2017 |
will be back to read and say my mind, let me eat first |
| Re: Signs Of An Abusive Relationship by Tapout(m): 4:45pm On Aug 18, 2017 |
controlling ke??  What if your partner is so dumb that you have to tell him/her what to do at every point in time... Would u call that "controlling"?? BTW, i noticed ur post is all about the male gender @op..  R u in an abusive relationship?? |
| Re: Signs Of An Abusive Relationship by Nobody: 4:52pm On Aug 18, 2017 |
How are jealousy and controlling signs of an abusive relationship? "even our GOD is a jealous GOD, as the other half in a relationship, it is your duty to know what your partner likes and dont like, when you dont understand your partner, you constantly do things that makes him jealous, even if you aint aware. "For example, i dont like my girlfriend to hug another guy in my presence, i dont care whatever the circumstance, my ex girlfriends knows this and they honoured and respect my emotion. that do not mean i was abusive or controlling over them. |
| Re: Signs Of An Abusive Relationship by damjane(op): 5:07pm On Aug 18, 2017 |
Tapout:Am not in an abusive relationship, I write mainly for women. |
| Re: Signs Of An Abusive Relationship by Tapout(m): 5:13pm On Aug 18, 2017*. Modified: 6:32pm On Aug 18, 2017 |
damjane:or really so u think women are always the victim in an abusive relationship?? |
| Re: Signs Of An Abusive Relationship by damjane(op): 5:59pm On Aug 18, 2017 |
Tapout:off course not. All am saying is that u write from a woman's point of view. |
| Re: Signs Of An Abusive Relationship by BlackDBagba: 6:08pm On Aug 18, 2017 |
Is that all??  |
| Re: Signs Of An Abusive Relationship by Tapout(m): 6:33pm On Aug 18, 2017 |
damjane:Oh I see |
| Re: Signs Of An Abusive Relationship by Davidgrey: 8:47pm On Aug 18, 2017 |
[color=#000050] Sexist conclusion So many variables(personalities....etc) may lead to the emergence of certain practices "commonly connoted as bad elements" in a relationship Stating that a man exhibiting any of your points is indicative that he is abusive to his partner is social ignorance People are very different especially when it has to do with relationship, Some are naturally weak and want to be treated as such That is why most "social theories" aren't practical. | What works for Cain wouldn't work for Abel Having said that "obviously" if he exhibits "MOST not one or two" of the behavioral patterns you indicated, It's fair to conclude that the said relationship is abusive.[/color] 2 Likes |
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