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A friend just called in that while he was about entering back into his room he saw his mum putting back the the pack of condoms she found in his bag....

he's a 23years old undergraduate and has always been seen as the only good boy in the house among his siblings,his mum didn't know he saw her but she has been acting strange towards him since morning which so so uncomfortable.

Guys what do you advice??
Apologise to mum or pretend you don't know anything??

Apologise to his mum for what exactly?

Condom na Gun??

If his mum asked he should just say they were given in school during HIV awareness

u all should keep posting for a friend




God is watching

CLIQBOY:
Apologise to his mum for what exactly?

Condom na Gun??

If his mum asked he should just say they were given in school during HIV awareness

Abi bawo

Does she expect a grown man not to be sexually active?

I wonder Wat the world is turning into. the mum must be an educated wise woman. Imagine storing condoms for any unlucky immoral girl to fall in. Immorality everywhere. If am a parent to such a foolish guy I will so condition his life in a manner that he will be scared of seeing girls talk less of having sex.

Your friend or your own self? You don't deserved any response from me if you are not sincere enough.
Tell your friend to make his own post.
Abi wetin be ur own for another man headache?

Stevebamdex:
Your friend or your own self? You don't deserved any response from me if you are not sincere enough.
Tell your friend to make his own post.
Abi wetin be ur own for another man headache?

Everybody is not a registered member of nairaland

She should buy him a present for protecting himself from Karishikas and their STIs

zionmade1:
I wonder Wat the world is turning into. the mum must be an educated wise woman. Imagine storing condoms for any unlucky immoral girl to fall in. Immorality everywhere. If am a parent to such a foolish guy I will so condition his life in a manner that he will be scared of seeing girls talk less of having sex.

Haba now....if he's knacking raw nko

Passy089:
Haba now....if he's knacking raw nko

Raw or with condom, it is called FORNICATION, immorality at its peak. To even carry a packet of condom home, hmmmm thank God it's not my kid though

At that age he is grown but in as much as he still stays under the care Nd protection of his parents,he is not a man yet therefore when next he gets a pack of condom he should at least show them some respect Nd hide it very well. He can only loiter it anyhow when he is living on his own.

zionmade1:
Raw or with condom, it is called FORNICATION, immorality at its peak. To even carry a packet of condom home, hmmmm thank God it's not my kid though

would you rather he masturbate and self-service himself to stupor? he's a sexually active youth.

Passy089:
would you rather he masturbate and self-service himself to stupor? he's a sexually active youth.

. Bn sexually active or bringing condom home is not the issue,he should at least ve the decency Nd respect to hide properly

JONNYSPUTE:
. Bn sexually active or bringing condom home is not the issue,he should at least ve the decency Nd respect to hide properly

inside his bag is hidden

Ignore her like nothing happened.

Passy089:
inside his bag is hidden

. For a mum to start searching his sons bag means the child is not trust worthy.So the story is not complete. Why did she search his bag? Let him tell u the full gist.

This is ridiculous the guy is a grown man, his mom should be happy that he's smart enough to protect himself.

The problem with we children is that we see our parents as saints who can do no wrong not realizing that they are simply human who were once young and went through the same situations/problems as we do.

zionmade1:
I wonder Wat the world is turning into. the mum must be an educated wise woman. Imagine storing condoms for any unlucky immoral girl to fall in. Immorality everywhere. If am a parent to such a foolish guy I will so condition his life in a manner that he will be scared of seeing girls talk less of having sex.

Hypocrite!!! Did you save your virginity for your wife?

JONNYSPUTE:
. For a mum to start searching his sons bag means the child is not trust worthy.So the story is not complete. Why did she search his bag? Let him tell u the full gist.

Wrong!! It doesn't mean that a child is untrustworthy, the problem could be the parent and not the child. You have to understand that some parents will judge their own children by their own behavior when they were young. If they were untrustworthy they tend to think that their children could be just like them.
Besides this is a grown man the op is talking about and as long as he isn't disrespecting his parents home there isn't a need for the guy to apologize to his mom.

She should be happy he's cautious.

khiaa:
Wrong!! It doesn't mean that a child is untrustworthy, the problem could be the parent and not the child. You have to understand that some parents will judge their own children by their own behavior when they were young, if they were untrustworthy they tend to think that their children could be just like them.

. Yea bro,u might be right.but see ehee,at times all this very quiet Nd innocent looking niggars can be dangerous. Am not disputing cause ve a point

khiaa:
Wrong!! It doesn't mean that a child is untrustworthy, the problem could be the parent and not the child. You have to understand that some parents will judge their own children by their own behavior when they were young, if they were untrustworthy they tend to think that their children could be just like them, besides this is a grown man the op is talking about and as long as he isn't disrespecting his parents home there isn't a need for the guy to apologize to his mom.

. Sorry sister u re right some parents can be difficult

JONNYSPUTE:
. Yea bro,u might be right.but see ehee,at times all this very quiet Nd innocent looking niggars can be dangerous. Am not disputing cause ve a point

I'm not a bro and where is the danger if he's taking precautions?

khiaa:
I'm not a bro and where is the danger if he's taking precautions?

. Sis u didn't get me. I said so because the op said he is seen as the only gud person among all his siblings. Their is no danger in taking precaution like wise i will not say he did bad by having a condom. U can agree with me that for him to be worried shows he has this guilt in him already that he has disappointed his mum. That was y I said he might not be exactly what he made them to believe. All am saying is he has to hide it somewhere to avoid embarrassing situation like this next time.

JONNYSPUTE:
. Sis u didn't get me. I said so because the op said he is seen as the only gud person among all his siblings. Their is no danger in taking precaution like wise i will not say he did bad by having a condom. U can agree with me that for him to be worried shows he has this guilt in him already that he has disappointed his mum. That was y I said he might not be exactly what he made them to believe. All am saying is he has to hide it somewhere to avoid embarrassing situation like this next time.

I think that its all based on religion. . When will people understand that the Bible is a guide to how we should live our lives and not a religion, which is man made.

lol...me wey my mama dey advice say mke i use cd...she go put two meat for me if she c am

khiaa:
I think that its all based on religion. . When will people understand that the Bible is a guide to how we should live our lives and not a religion, which is man made.

You nailed it sister !!

khiaa:
Hypocrite!!! Did you save your virginity for your wife?

u re so myopic to think every guy u see is like u. Some guys understand the life beyond premarital sex.

Passy089:
would you rather he masturbate and self-service himself to stupor? he's a sexually active youth.

Masturbation is bad, fornication is bad too. I support non. I wonder wen people will start seeing that life is not all about sex