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Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by femi4: 8:29am On Aug 21, 2017
Lalas247:

Come n see it for ur seff grin .. one strand of thread na 20k grin
I don arrive to see the pant

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Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by GMBuhari: 8:32am On Aug 21, 2017
Lalas247:
Lefulefu can you imagine
Even my pant cost more grin but nice sha for ppl with low funds

I doubt you wear pants ,

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Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by timmyagwu(m): 8:33am On Aug 21, 2017
So Npower salary can do it ?
Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by GMBuhari: 8:34am On Aug 21, 2017
HMZi:
WORKABLE but most of these girls na slay queens now,they dont believe in building up,i just pity them cos soon they will be 30 and desperate


Exactly they all want to be with made man most irritatingly when they are they still look for another made man, no woman is ever satisfied with one man and if you investigate these slay Queens are the ones whose parents are on pension their pocket money from home is 3k after food stuffs but they want to live the life


And further more they don't like to work for money
Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by zeenaman: 8:35am On Aug 21, 2017
shame on poverty
Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by sunnyside16(m): 8:35am On Aug 21, 2017
Good enough. If you earn more than 20k, just use this as a template. But avoid slaying queens that can't slay economically. Thank you

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Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by GMBuhari: 8:35am On Aug 21, 2017
lefulefu:

wich type of car e go buy wit 40k? grin

KekeNapep grin
Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by Marshall008: 8:38am On Aug 21, 2017
May God help Nigeria, lot of people living on that.

Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by modsfucker: 8:42am On Aug 21, 2017
folakemigeh:
U are a wicked someborry..


20K per month haaaaaa!!!!!!!!! shocked shocked


The minimum wage is still 18k and a lot of people live on it.
Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by holusormi(m): 8:44am On Aug 21, 2017
askseunoladele:
HOW TO GET MARRIED ON A 20K SALARY!

If age is no longer on your side, you have found the woman you want to marry but your salary is the barrier between you and your marital promised land, you earn 20k or a little more per month, your sexual urge is getting uncontrollable, you are over 30 and your fiancee wouldn't mind settling down with you, here is the practical way to survive on a 20k salary!

1. Pay your tithe 10%

2. Save 10%

3. Get a room apartment where you will not be paying more than 2k per month.

4. With neighbours, your NEPA bill should not be more than #500:00.

5. Feeding for both you and wife not more than 10k. Always buy your foodstuff in bulk every month, you will save lots of money.

6. Keep 10% for emergencies, that is 2k.

7. The remaining #1,500 will be shared between you and your wife as pocket money. You 1k, wife, #500.

Now listen: you can only do this on the conditions given below:

1. Your wife will get a job to assist you financially so that both of you will put money together to start a business, look for a higher paying job or run your vision that will yield profits, enlarge you and move to a higher level of comfort and wealth. Discuss this thoroughly in courtship and ensures she agrees. That is what courtship is about: to discuss your future and see if you can walk together (Amos 3:3).

2. No baby for the first 2 years while you both work harder and get something better or extra doing to cater for the baby. Discuss this thoroughly. Visit a family planning clinic and get an advise on which family planning method will work for you. Withdrawal sometimes fail and calculating the ovulation period is not completely reliable but if she is very diligent, can consistently monitor her ovulation, you may take the risk but combining with CD is better (I'm talking to mature adults here).

3. There will be pressure from your family especially your mother for her to get pregnant. Stand up for her, shield her, be a man and let your mum know that for personal reasons, it's your decision for her to delay pregnancy. Marriage is for mature men and women, not for boys and girls. You should be responsible and have the final say in your marriage. Your decisions are between you and your wife, whatever anyone else says is secondary! Protect her from your family, stand up for her!

4. Pray diligently and consistently for God to enlarge you.

5. Map out practical plans for you to achieve your dreams.

6. Have the faith that can move mountains! The Bishop Oyedepo and Fela Durotoye's type of faith: These men had almost nothing when they started but their wives were working and assisted them till they broke through.

You can make it before you get married. You don't have to get married on a salary of 20k. The Lord can surprise you with a better job, profitable business or great contracts before you marry, if not yet then don't wait till you are in your 50s before you settle down.

"Two are better than one..." is what the Holy Book says. With your wife's full support and strong faith in you, you will break through the ceiling of limitation and emerge into your glorious destiny. FEEL FREE TO SHARE. God bless you, cheers!
© Seun Oladele, 2017.
www.askseunoladele..com

Lmao, you joking right

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Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by Nobody: 8:44am On Aug 21, 2017
This is laughable... 20k per month marry.. people are desperate for fame sha

20k

minus 2k tithe 18k left

then you pay back the debt you borrowed for transport and feeding and still owe 30k left montlhy....what a joke..keep on misleading people you hear...20k indeed
Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by LordBaelish: 8:44am On Aug 21, 2017
Lalas247:
Lefulefu can you imagine Even my pant cost more grin but nice sha for ppl with low funds
Really.. SMH
Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by LordBaelish: 8:45am On Aug 21, 2017
Lalas247:
Lefulefu can you imagine Even my pant cost more grin but nice sha for ppl with low funds
Really.. SMH
Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by Crazytrump(m): 8:45am On Aug 21, 2017
If I'm earning that amount, I would prefer to remain single...no be by force to marry... who marriage don epp?

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Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by Nobody: 8:46am On Aug 21, 2017
Lalas247:
Lefulefu can you imagine
Even my pant cost more grin but nice sha for ppl with low funds

You wear a 21k pants... here we go again...Na wa

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Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by MrPolitics: 8:47am On Aug 21, 2017
Abeg. If you're making 20k monthly,

MARRIAGE IS NOT MEANT FOR YOU

Don't let anyone deceive you.

You can't marry or start a family with 20k income in this economy. That's just over $50

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Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by Nobody: 8:47am On Aug 21, 2017
Maxi112:
2k for house rent? na rabbit hole? grin



grin grin hilarious

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Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by Nobody: 8:48am On Aug 21, 2017
undecided
Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by Nobody: 8:48am On Aug 21, 2017
Hahaha, this is so funny and unrealistic, now the Op said he will hold 1k for up keep and 500 to his wife, but the op forgot that he will need to transport himself to and from work, and lunch too, plus Mr will need to subscribe and buy recharge card, he will also need to cut his hair, and who gives a woman 500 for monthly up keep , only sanitary pad and that money is gone, not to talk of making her hair etc,i won't be materialistic if I say this is suffer head undecided

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Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by Habeyy(m): 8:51am On Aug 21, 2017
Davidgrey:
What now! undecided

You clowns spend more time promoting mediocrity instead of investing that mental power into taking progressive actions.
grin everyone just dey form grin
Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by Nobody: 8:52am On Aug 21, 2017
Word of advise. If you can't do back to back 150k minimum per month, please don't try getting married. When the kid comes and starts gulping like 4 of those baby foods that tastes like paradise, so sweet they can't resist and each cost say 4k, you'll know taking care of a kid alone weekly can gulp 25k for manage..Yeye

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Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by fk001(m): 8:52am On Aug 21, 2017
[quote author=Lalas247 post=59608377] Hmm @ holder you might want to correct yourself .... leave Buhari let him enjoy his holiday grin

Do you mind correcting yourself too.
Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by newoffer: 8:52am On Aug 21, 2017
I am married and I don't even get salary at all. All I do is go out there and create the wealth I need. I zero my mind from salary cos it is fixed. Salary will never be enough. I trade on any profitable business

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Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by jericco1(m): 8:54am On Aug 21, 2017
folakemigeh:
U are a wicked someborry..

20K per month haaaaaa!!!!!!!!! shocked shocked
don't mind that guy
Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by dangotesmummy: 8:55am On Aug 21, 2017
HMZi:
WORKABLE but most of these girls na slay queens now,they dont believe in building up,i just pity them cos soon they will be 30 and desperate
bros cut the crap.that is veryyyy veryyyy unrealistic


Broke ass men are the horniest.because they don't have money they rely on only sex to still prove they're men and in the course of sex the wife will most definetly take in unexpectedly except if she's on birth control pills and even that birth control pills are not reliable. How about if she forgets to take it?

There are so many circumstances that will come up.bros no try am o you're toying with poverty and even if your wife is working to support you there's a limit to her endurance. The day one man flash change for her eye,off she goes with your children and if you resist she will remind you you're poor and broke and can't take care of her needs,she's tired of struggling

Now let's go to food.who told you 10k is enough to feed you for a month? who deceived you? When making life changing plans you need to be realistic about it

A big basket size of tomatoes is 13k.the tomato and pepper that will cater for a couple for like a week or 2 is 5k.I've not added meat or fish.moreover 1 big Titus fish is 500 naira and by the time you cut it there are just 5pieces

Meat is more expensive. If you want to buy cow meat the minimum you can see is 300 naira and with begging sef and that 300 Will be tinko of 5 pieces. Groundnut oil to Cook the soup nko. The ragolis bottle medium size is 500 naira. The bigger bottle is 1500 naira. Food in Nigeria is one of the most expensive commodities

1derica cup of beans is 300 naira so Mr man op if you don't plan to wallow in poverty and disrespect stay off marriage till you earn AT LEAST 100K for starters.marriage shouldn't be your priority now,establishing yourself should be.wives of broke men despise their husband's and if she has some kind of friends they'll be the one that Will arrange a sugar daddy for her

Forget the and co they wear outside and deceive people that they're happy even though they're poor, inside their house is anger,hunger and animosity

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Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by Maxvasia(m): 8:55am On Aug 21, 2017
Just Negodu. Marriage na by force? Many people take marriage more seriously than they take their Creator. cry

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Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by shege45: 8:55am On Aug 21, 2017
Stellie:
hmmm comments above me tho...
Thumbs up op.. D bitter truth is most people who earn dis amount and even less, already hav a family... Som r even dying to hav dis almount of salary..
Hmm lyf isnt a bed of roses.. Somtyms we need to visit ghetto and see hard lyf... Hmm nice write up op.. To dat oga sayin nice piece of bullshit hmmm i cn only smh....
no one wld confidently walk into such situation in ds modern age.
Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by seunakin231(m): 8:55am On Aug 21, 2017
You are high on koko......
Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by Lanretoye(m): 8:59am On Aug 21, 2017
all these unrealistic ideas...so I if you have a 20k job at ikeja,then you rent a 2k apartment at ifo ogun state,what's the sense when another 10k will go on transportation?
you and your neighbor be paying 500h as bill,are you phcn or na recharge card you wan buy?.

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Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by Maxvasia(m): 8:59am On Aug 21, 2017
Stellie:
hmmm comments above me tho...
Thumbs up op.. D bitter truth is most people who earn dis amount and even less, already hav a family... Som r even dying to hav dis almount of salary..
Hmm lyf isnt a bed of roses.. Somtyms we need to visit ghetto and see hard lyf... Hmm nice write up op.. To dat oga sayin nice piece of bullshit hmmm i cn only smh....
Very well said. But u see, hardship in Nigeria and Africa is a well known fact. But complicating it with Marriage and/or child bearing by one's self is called abysmal stupidity. Na u suffer pass? Must u suffer cos of ignorance, false and base values and subjectivity to societal expectations and norms?

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Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by dangotesmummy: 9:01am On Aug 21, 2017
holusormi:


Lmao, you joking right
he is o.he can't be serious. You know talk is cheap.it's the doing that is the work.when reality slaps him with that poverty plan I doubt he will have money for data subscription to log into nl

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