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Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by Maxi112: 10:29am On Aug 21, 2017
lakesider:
10k feeding ?
How many derica of rice is DAT
How many fish is that
How many keg of kerosene is that

You just sit in front of your computer to type rubbish
A bag of rice is sold at 20k now.

the money never finish?
Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by successincentiv(m): 10:30am On Aug 21, 2017
20k Kwa

That money can't even be enough for a bride price
Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by PierreDeFermat(m): 10:31am On Aug 21, 2017
lefulefu:

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Hilary is such a beautiful lady. I like her smile too and way she looks when she laughs. but I think her type can never be a good president cos she seem like a pretender

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Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by tayorh(m): 10:31am On Aug 21, 2017
In Tecno's voice.. RARA O, RARA... GOD FORBID O

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Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by Nobody: 10:33am On Aug 21, 2017
Lalas247:
Lefulefu can you imagine
Even my pant cost more grin but nice sha for ppl with low funds
Why e no go cost?
Your size no dey market na
With that overpadded hips,ow ur size go dey
Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by PierreDeFermat(m): 10:35am On Aug 21, 2017
op na real comedian. werey boy.

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Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by Nobody: 10:36am On Aug 21, 2017
folakemigeh:
U are a wicked someborry..


20K per month haaaaaa!!!!!!!!! shocked shocked
Its too much or its too small
Talk ur own
Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by Nobody: 10:39am On Aug 21, 2017
not dz era when my life revolves round internet & mb. con see wher guy dey flush out up to 1k a day for calls & mbs. dont take dz one out of the menu for me cauz i cant live w/o it.
Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by cuteguy123(m): 10:42am On Aug 21, 2017
dangotesmummy:
the better for you.broke ass leading other gullible fools like you into penury

LOL weiten come happen naw.

When I saw this op thread I was like God forbid. I don't buy this idea at all. God forbid Poverty. Just that the lala girl just like commenting rubbish pointless comments.

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Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by Nobody: 10:43am On Aug 21, 2017
20k cn nat rent a mud house in 2day naija

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Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by Nnadi2020(m): 10:43am On Aug 21, 2017
For which regime? Buhari or who
Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by dangotesmummy: 10:44am On Aug 21, 2017
supersystemsng:


Maybe we'll both disagree on this part. I agree with your father and tag with him on this. We have become so in love with ourselves we can't bear each other. Check the comments on the romance section. Check the contents of our music and movies, guys don't trust ladies, ladies won't compromise. It takes compromise to live with a person for a lifetime , a skill modern teachers tell you not to do and the society says is maga. No marriage can ever last without some form of compromise at some point and our ladies these days have become somewhat cold, the guys are write-offs , under-developed and lack stability. I wished i could paint a good picture about marriage in Nigeria but sadly i can't...

I teamed up with some old friends in ministry and one dude i used to know as super-spiritual told me this, only three out of ten marriages in our generation will stand...

Press toothpaste from middle, war breaks out, come in after 7pm it's a war, say this statement, you're hurting me. Say it the other way, you're anti-women and a woman hater, we've become too knowledgeable its now wounding us, yet we go on hurting with being single, can't tolerate people and want to be married...


And that first statement of yours, many marriages are acting, or two hommies leaving together forgetting the essence aka substance of marriage, the soul is gone, the shell is only what's left...

May God help us
which kind of life is that? I cannot sit with a person I cannot stand for less than 15 minutes how much more living in the same house with the person

The last time I and someone (a roommate)stayed together I was 23,several years back.we couldn't stand each other because we saw things differently and did things differently

When I want to bath I will tell her to remove her bucket because the bathroom was quite small she won't answer me, she will use me and be watching film so I will bath and some of the water I use in bathing will splash into her bucket.

We pay for things together and we're still not best of friends.the only time we talk is when we have a visitor

Even despite the fact that we both contribute money to pay for gas and eat at at the same time, we both know we can't stand each other

Some other times I want to watch MTV,she wants to watch E! We also disagreed until she decided to buy hrt own TV and also connect it and we're paying for the same dstv o.


That's exactly how some marriages are.no one is ready to bend for the other and compromise for the other and that's me living with my own gender o

When she sweeps she sweeps only her own side and has her own bin she empties

Now we don't stay together though but we're still frenemies, we say hi to each other when we see.we're even friends on social media and attend owanmbes together but we both know how we feel about each other for the short time we lived together
Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by MansaHenry(m): 10:48am On Aug 21, 2017
Lalas247:
Lefulefu can you imagine
Even my pant cost more grin but nice sha for ppl with low funds
Gucci pants cry?just kidding o

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Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by cgniyi(m): 10:48am On Aug 21, 2017
In romance section? This should be the Jokes section
I dey vex since morning, you just made my day grin grin grin
Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by dangotesmummy: 10:52am On Aug 21, 2017
Benita27:
What's more worrisome about this write-up is the idiots who liked it?. WTF, even as a single girl. My TP to work and other expenses within a month is more than 20k.

#mediocres.
do you now know the funny thing about it.when they rush into marriage with the meagre income they have without proper planning, vision and foresight they'll start to envy the ones who didn't rush into marriage to plan and invest in their lives and then be stalking them about to give them money,if those ones refuse,enemity will start. That's when you'll hear,she's proud,he's selfish, he's full of himself
Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by Ashley86400: 10:55am On Aug 21, 2017
You must be joking. Did you add other necessary expenses. Transportation, Data subscription/Airtime, Kerosene/Gas per month.
20k per month, with a wife. In this current Nigeria.
Effing troll.

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Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by Nobody: 10:57am On Aug 21, 2017
dangotesmummy:
do you now know the funny thing about it.when they rush into marriage with the meagre income they have without proper planning, vision and foresight they'll start to envy the ones who didn't rush into marriage to plan and invest in their lives and then be stalking them about to give them money,if those ones refuse,enemity will start. That's when you'll hear,she's proud,he's selfish, he's full of himself
You're right, for those who expect others to fix their mess for them. Going into marriage with 20k salary, you'll definitely take loans in order to catch up with bills.

I'm not surprised people support this 'cause they think marriage is a walk in the park.

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Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by Nobody: 10:58am On Aug 21, 2017
dangotesmummy:
which kind of life is that? I cannot sit with a person I cannot stand for less than 15 minutes how much more living in the same house with the person

The last time I and someone (a roommate)stayed together I was 23,several years back.we couldn't stand each other because we saw things differently and did things differently

When I want to bath I will tell her to remove her bucket because the bathroom was quite small she won't answer me, she will use me and be watching film so I will bath and some of the water I use in bathing will splash into her bucket.

We pay for things together and we're still not best of friends.the only time we talk is when we have a visitor

Even despite the fact that we both contribute money to pay for gas and eat at at the same time, we both know we can't stand each other

Some other times I want to watch MTV,she wants to watch E! We also disagreed until she decided to buy hrt own TV and also connect it and we're paying for the same dstv o.


That's exactly how some marriages are.no one is ready to bend for the other and compromise for the other and that's me living with my own gender o

When she sweeps she sweeps only her own side and has her own bin she empties

Now we don't stay together though but we're still frenemies, we say hi to each other when we see.we're even friends on social media and attend owanmbes together but we both know how we feel about each other for the short time we lived together


In a society or generation where compromise is seen as weakness and is taught so, it's what is expected. Too many ladies are filled with ...can't find the word, it reaches to the heavens. Their ego is just way too much, bad enough when they start reaching 40, the voodoo now starts to clear from their eyes, alas, time is almost out... For me, i believe in compromise, i can't marry a lady that won't learn the act of compromise...
Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by Nobody: 11:00am On Aug 21, 2017
dangotesmummy:
do you now know the funny thing about it.when they rush into marriage with the meagre income they have without proper planning, vision and foresight they'll start to envy the ones who didn't rush into marriage to plan and invest in their lives and then be stalking them about to give them money,if those ones refuse,enemity will start. That's when you'll hear,she's proud,he's selfish, he's full of himself


Hahaha my childhood friends, you reminded me of them today! They go about life carelessly, when one plans his own life, they start going diabolic, baba he did me this, she did me that...looking for how to pull one down
Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by thunderbabs: 11:01am On Aug 21, 2017
gentle136:
Anty Alalas, ur pant na gold grin grin

No, na gucci pant she dey buy grin

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Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by dangotesmummy: 11:04am On Aug 21, 2017
HMZi:
all am saying is even rich folks have shitty marriages..money can neva guarantee marital bliss..20k salary uh!!! i av seen marriages that survive on less and bro they r happy...
every marriage has problems. The problems in rich people's marriages is usually infidelity or lack of time for the wife or kids

But poor man's woes in marriage is more than the rich

Pikin go sick,no money to take the child to the hospital, it's either the child's sickness degenerates till she dies or they live with the sickness for life

A poor man in marriage cannot eat what he likes,na management things.na that Kain marriage wey wife go buy egg on credit and then they will cut the egg into 4 parts for the wife and children

When your friends invite you for wedding or social function shame no go gree you go.there was one poor ma I. OUr neighborhood lamenting that his cousin did wedding and he wasn't invited.I asked the younger brother why he wasn't invited, he said he is a nobody, we don't want someone who will come an embarrass us,a poor man is an embarrassment. I got the message and when he asked me how far I didn't even know how to put it to him,I just said go and ask your brother

Bottomline is poor men aren't respected at home or outside

Your life is miserable and no one wants to be associated with you

The poverty extends to your children because anybody can bully rape or assault them and you cannot do anything about it because you don't have money and so your children are vulnerable to the wicked elements of this world

That's reality.com

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Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by Nobody: 11:06am On Aug 21, 2017
dangotesmummy:
every marriage has problems. The problems in rich people's marriages is usually infidelity or lack of time for the wife or kids

But poor man's woes in marriage is more than the rich

Pikin go sick,no money to take the child to the hospital, it's either the child's sickness degenerates till she dies or they live with the sickness for life

A poor man in marriage cannot eat what he likes,na management things.na that Kain marriage wey wife go buy egg on credit and then they will cut the egg into 4 parts for the wife and children

When your friends invite you for wedding or social function shame no go gree you go.there was one poor ma I. OUr neighborhood lamenting that his cousin did wedding and he wasn't invited.I asked the younger brother why he wasn't invited, he said he is a nobody, we don't want someone who will come an embarrass us,a poor man is an embarrassment. I got the message and when he asked me how far I didn't even know how to put it to him,I just said go and ask your brother

Bottomline is poor men aren't respected at home or outside

Your life is miserable and no one wants to be associated with you

The poverty extends to your children because anybody can bully rape or assault them and you cannot do anything about it because you don't have money and so your children are vulnerable to the wicked elements of this world

That's reality.com


Chai Chai Chai, you've finished Nigerians. Jesu

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Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by dangotesmummy: 11:08am On Aug 21, 2017
supersystemsng:



In a society or generation where compromise is seen as weakness and is taught so, it's what is expected. Too many ladies are filled with ...can't find the word, it reaches to the heavens. Their ego is just way too much, bad enough when they start reaching 40, the voodoo now starts to clear from their eyes, alas, time is almost out... For me, i believe in compromise, i can't marry a lady that won't learn the act of compromise...
no woman in this generation especially when She's well educated and well traveled is ready to compromise.. Once something isn't in their own pace time or convenience off they go

Like you don't know?

Don't even let me talk about pressure from see what Daniella wore to that party me too I want to wear it

Social media nko,TV and magazines nko?

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Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by bamisepeters(m): 11:08am On Aug 21, 2017
Please the wife should be working along, no matter how little her income should add. And don't invest in marriage ceremony. It will never be easy but time will heal.
Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by dangotesmummy: 11:12am On Aug 21, 2017
supersystemsng:



Chai Chai Chai, you've finished Nigerians. Jesu
its just the fact.if you're not careful sef they'll take your wife and kids away from you with money

There's a Yoruba proverb that says with money you can do anything on this earth, with money you can break the law,you can also sleep with a poor man's wife in his presence,impregnate her and dump money on his chest

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Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by Nobody: 11:13am On Aug 21, 2017
dangotesmummy:
no woman in this generation especially when She's well educated and well traveled is ready to compromise.. Once something isn't in their own pace time or convenience off they go

Like you don't know?

Don't even let me talk about pressure from see what Daniella wore to that party me too I want to wear it

Social media nko,TV and magazines nko?


I believe you, whereas marriage is compromise, a little here, a little there...i was gisting with my mum yesterday, i told her, only God knows how marriages in our generation will be. If one can't sit on a chair alone without jumping ere and then for ten minutes, such a person isn't fit for marriage, because all the contents will even in marriage and everything they do, kick them left, right and center...i feel sorry for my generation, i feel so sorry for us...All of mankind's problems is the inability to contain one'self, and with the constant media bombardment, people have lost themselves in the garbage they consume...

God help us...

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Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by Nobody: 11:14am On Aug 21, 2017
dangotesmummy:
its just the fact.if you're not careful sef they'll take your wife and kids away from you with money

There's a Yoruba proverb that says with money you can do anything on this earth, with money you can break the law,you can also sleep with a poor man's wife in his presence,impregnate her and dump money on his chest


Lol... Chai Chai Chai. you're cracking me up..I don't fall into that regimen sha...You reminded me of my friend's fiancee who asked me for sex a few times 6 months to her wedding, also telling me to propose to her and she would leave the guy.I got so mad, i quit the fellowship we both beloned so my brother would have peace of mind.. How can ladies be so...?
Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by jay7(m): 11:15am On Aug 21, 2017
My brother in as much as i support marrige of little beginning 20k is a know go area, instead of marrying with 20k you can set a time frame for yourself, save and open a side business that will boost your income preferably a business that will give you daily income then you can think of marriage. My 2cent though.
Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by dangotesmummy: 11:16am On Aug 21, 2017
supersystemsng:



Hahaha my childhood friends, you reminded me of them today! They go about life carelessly, when one plans his own life, they start going diabolic, baba he did me this, she did me that...looking for how to pull one down
na you go stay away from them.if they live in Kaduna,you live in lagos ,cut all access that they have to get to you.if they consider how much they'll spend to cone to your house,they'll hands off your matter and forget about you
Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by Nobody: 11:18am On Aug 21, 2017
dangotesmummy:
na you go stay away from them.if they live in Kaduna,you live in lagos ,cut all access that they have to get to you.if they consider how much they'll spend to cone to your house,they'll hands off your matter and forget about you

I learnt the hard way. They killed my biz and i almost died. Now no one knows where I stay, my number, my picture, my email, nothing....we don't have friends anymore, just leechers everywhere...funny enough if one still goes out of range, they employ local tactics... cheesy
Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by bfmconcepts: 11:19am On Aug 21, 2017
This cannot work in this Buhari era

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Re: How To Get Married On A 20k Salary! by shaybebaby(f): 11:22am On Aug 21, 2017
dangotesmummy:
na you go stay away from them.if they live in Kaduna,you live in lagos ,cut all access that they have to get to you.if they consider how much they'll spend to cone to your house,they'll hands off your matter and forget about you
I would have given my 2 cents but you are throwing down all the cents this topic requires. Any thing I say would be double post.

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