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Time to move on bro. It's a difficult choice but then you need to protect your sanity.

op keep us updated on the latest

What most of you have failed to realize is this...

They started early and OP is her first.

The girl thinks she has been in a cage and now it is time to rest her wing to fly and explore.

Sorry OP, but you will be a casualty because that girl is oversea and I give you my two balls, she is already mingled with the wrong crowd or another guy is wearing your crown.

She needs space and now she is uncertain if you are the person when she can get even better.

It is not your fault, but you don't measure up again and she needs to get heartbroken and burnt. She needs to date others, she wants to explore.

I will advice that you pull out gradually, don't even mention leaving, just invest your effort in your job or career.

When she gets burnt enough, the only issue is will you take her back?

I feel for you but I had to be sincere.

GV HER SMTIME, BE A MAN N STOP CALLING HER, DNT DO ANYTHING TO CONTACT HER, TRUST ME SHE WILL START MISSING U, SHE WILL CALL U, WHN SHE DOES, B IN CONTROL

Schelube:
Take your mind off from the relationship & work on yourself more. Still communicate with her but bear in mind that she might not come around. Prepare for the worst. Your might have lost her but don't give up yet.

true talk...well I advice u to pray hard n develop ur self u will greater heights

Schelube:
Take your mind off from the relationship & work on yourself more.

How does one go about working on one's self exactly? Do you mean things like furthering one's education and getting a better job?

Royal155:
6 good solid years and you no chop kpekus
Nigga are u sh*tin me? :oo

See eeh mek I just tell you the truth, you are the cause of your own problem, I swear .

How can you date a girl for six donkey years without digging da hole . Are u a 'cuntless unsolid'?

If you had dugged da fuckin hole one or two times, she'll think twice before friend zoning ya sorry a$$. Now another nigga from a foreign land with a potent cunt has taken over the management of that company with all the benefits(even eaten a hot served kpekus :PP) attached to it.

Nigga quit crying and whinning like baby and look for another babe, but this time, don't be stupid and blinded enough not to chop that kpekus .

Ndo Nnamm

Nice comment!!!

franco3075q:
GV HER SMTIME, BE A MAN N STOP CALLING HER, DNT DO ANYTHING TO CONTACT HER, TRUST ME SHE WILL START MISSING U, SHE WILL CALL U, WHN SHE DOES, B IN CONTROL

Miss who?
Not when she is prolly fvcking anoda nigga!!!

tosyne2much:
Most often than not, when your girlfriend is leaving you for abroad, the chances that she's going to dump your ass is very high. It sounds funny but it's the bitter truth

From your write-up, we can easily jump into conclusion that the love this girl has for you has thwarted, and that's why she doesn't feel the need to communicate with your family members

OP, just forgot about having a girlfriend somewhere because you will only be causing yourself more depression and emotional trauma. If all you are waiting for her is for her to come out straight to you that she no longer wants you, believe me, if you push more forward, she will take the courage to tell you she's no longer interested in you, so it's better you buckle up your belt and move on with your life.

However, when a woman wants to discard you, she begins to nag and begins to give unending excuses for not communicating with you. The earlier for you to know this, the better

Some ladies are not just meant for us no matter how much we invest in them emotionally, financially and spiritually. I think this is your case

Alága ìbílè, women affairs commission.

Long time

She's seeing another guy already. Move on Bro, if she comes back, Bleep her hard and send her away unless you like leftovers.. There's a reason why Nigerian guys in the diaspora stay away from Nigerian girls. They become wild as soon as they enter the country, promiscuity becomes normal to them, and you'll be shocked at the amount of gang bangs Nigerian girls get into at Dagenham and other areas.

adepeter2027:
Alága ìbílè, women affairs commission.
Long time

Na me hail you pass egbon

When partners separate by means of traveling abroad, there can only be a certain sustained conviction to sustain that relationship.
My fiancé wanted to try such but i wasn't in support of it, this is someone who i have so much influence over, but if she travels it'll change a bit or alot.

I do think she's starting to get attention from another guy or probably other guys, not one. Just keep being prayerful and if she's yours things would be fine. But please pray this prayer, it worked for me for my ex, pray God sustains you both if you're meant for one another or separate you peacefully such that you'll be fine. You never can tell, she might even be the wrong person for you as the wonderful person you knew can become something else if you end up married.

tosinjay:
When partners separate by means of traveling abroad, there can only be a certain sustained conviction to sustain that relationship.
My fiancé wanted to try such but i wasn't in support of it, this is someone who i have so much influence over, but if she travels it'll change a bit or alot.

I do think she's starting to get attention from another guy or probably other guys, not one. Just keep being prayerful and if she's yours things would be fine. But please pray this prayer, it worked for me for my ex, pray God sustains you both if you're meant for one another or separate you peacefully such that you'll be fine. You never can tell, she might even be the wrong person for you as the wonderful person you knew can become something else if you end up married.

Thanks @tosin...I from all I gathered here and there as advice, I see I need to give her time and distance, thou check on her a while. While doing so I lld subcribe to your prayer point for her and us amongst others, while I learn to keep myself happy.....ThIS IS GONNA BE THE FIRST TIME I HAVE TO LEARN TO LIVE WITHOUT HER IN 6YRS.......The last thing on my mind at night,the first thing in the morning, I fight my thoughts to concentrate at work, atimes I ask myself is it really worh it...anyways av gat no choice.......I need Gods grace to handle this......

[quote author=Bidobado post=59961748]She's seeing another guy already. Move on Bro, if she comes back, Bleep her hard and send her away unless you like leftovers.. There's a reason why Nigerian guys in the diaspora stay away from Nigerian girls. They become wild as soon as they enter the country, promiscuity becomes normal to them, and you'll be shocked at the amount of gang bangs Nigerian girls get into at Dagenham and other areas. [/quote

I for one can place my money that shes seeing no one,she might be distracted fyn, but that shes already into a gy already bleepin her, mehn, give me some benefits nahhh!, she def would have made me realise I overestimated her...Shes a focused, intelligent, decent and Godfearing beautiful young lady. The attention , yes, She even brags about it to me sef sometimes when things were fyn, but that shes already ben bleeped, I can summarize that...]

luminouz:
Nice comment!!!

I for one can place my money that shes seeing no one,she might be distracted fyn, but that shes already into a gy already bleepin her, mehn, give me some benefits nahhh!, she def would have made me realise I overestimated her...Shes a focused, intelligent, decent and Godfearing beautiful young lady. The attention , yes, She even brags about it to me sef sometimes when things were fyn, but that shes already ben bleeped, I can summarize that.

franco3075q:
GV HER SMTIME, BE A MAN N STOP CALLING HER, DNT DO ANYTHING TO CONTACT HER, TRUST ME SHE WILL START MISSING U, SHE WILL CALL U, WHN SHE DOES, B IN CONTROL

Thanks....Illd surely have to learn to swallow this hard pill. Like truout ystday we didnt talk except a chat in the day that ended abruptly....I had a pretty long day so I didnt talk.She called , I ddidnt pik. Then getting home after the long traffic and stress of the day, she called and started ragging, y didnt you pick my call, this that, I was just calm suprisinly cos am getting familiar with that new aspect of her.... before I new it she bangged the calll....

She then came to chat, I was there, said no word ,then left....puposely didnt come back. I woke u midnight to check her displeasure and i wasnt disappointed.....She said so u left lke after 5mints of me leaving the chat,what she does without inpunity and after like an hour she came bak to say " and you still didnt come back" from this you can summarise her attitude and its bothering me....
well freinds and well wishers av suggested I keep up with the dstance therapy

What you are going through is sad and unfortunate but you are partly responsible for the situation you find yourself in. Love is sweet but we guys really need to be sensible when in a relationship. For six good years, you dated a girl and refused to make love to her. Guess what, someone is already hitting her sweetly wherever she is right now and she likes it. Despite what most relationship advisers usually say, sex is very important in a relationship. It changes a lot of things and even creates strong bond and commitment. As a guy, it also helps you not to lose out totally in case of outcomes like this.

I will advice you to take things cool with her and not nag her so much with your desire for attention. She's enjoying something new now and as most ladies always do, she now sees you as an unnecessary distraction that should go away. Stop giving her too much attention but don't break up the relationship completely, she may still come around when her eyes clear. Assure her of your love occasionally but not every time you call. Let her know through your behavior and actions that you also have options and your life doesn't revolve around her alone. Very importantly, keep your family members out of your affairs.

Also, get a plan B immediately. In fact, start dating like two ladies if you can handle it. Ladies are very emotional and irrational at times. You may think everything is going on smoothly in your relationship with them until one smooth talker comes in and win them over. They are unpredictable so, always protect yourself against unpredictability. Most importantly, start using that thing God gave you. There is absolutely no sin in bleeping your lover in as much as it is consensual. Most people talk about abstinence but don't practice it in reality so, don't be deceived. This life is too short to be following a lady around for 6 years without bleeping her. Like, wtf!

dna4ril:
Thanks @tosin...I from all I gathered here and there as advice, I see I need to give her time and distance, thou check on her a while. While doing so I lld subcribe to your prayer point for her and us amongst others, while I learn to keep myself happy.....ThIS IS GONNA BE THE FIRST TIME I HAVE TO LEARN TO LIVE WITHOUT HER IN 6YRS.......The last thing on my mind at night,the first thing in the morning, I fight my thoughts to concentrate at work, atimes I ask myself is it really worh it...anyways av gat no choice.......I need Gods grace to handle this......

As much as it could seem as if one is weak or not manly with this kind of issue, it's not easy when dealing with emotional stuffs. What you sure need is grace to handle it. Take that prayer serious. When mine was answered i found solace in knowing we were not for eachother after all. Although was alot younger then sha.

Traveling abroad for a partner is another thing entirely, you could be very handsome, wealthy etc but still face such, so it's not about you.

dna4ril:
hello gyz! I am in an emotionally demented state of mind now, due to a relationship of 6yrs and counting I have been in,such as I treasure so much and I foresee is about to crash. NEED UR PROFESSIONAL ADVICE.....Those who hav been in a similar relationship and have survived should pls share.Pls lets keep it professional.My heart is pounding as I type this, Make no joke of this. and If you ev got no chill , dont bother cos this is quite an epistle.

Kk 2011,we met in our 100 days, I was 21, she was 19. she was so amazing and still is, I fell in love immedaitely, with my swags and all she couldnt resist. we were best friends, she helped me severally in many ways, I did too. fast foward to final yr, I gave her my first kiss and all apart from sex. I loved her to want to marry her so even when i had the chances it wasnt much of a temptation to resist.
I had a first class , she made 2:1....
service yr came, I was posted to taraba, she worked her way to PH where she stays, lets I forget, we met in a private university and her parents are quite wealthy, this I didnt no until we had fallen in love, she said she delibrately hid that from me.Anyways orientation camp camp 2015, I was posted to TARABA state. I couldnt bare the feeling of life without her, I met no real friends, I was alwys calling her , we were tied together apparently. so she spoke t her mum to help in directing my posting...

I thought it was a joke, put in for redeployment and Ph I went. We finally had the chance to see each other again after school.I was lucky enough that the house I eventualy got to stay was just a minute distance to her house. We were really close that one yr, I went to her house like Kilode, her mum,siblings all saw me and i felt the warm rception.Just for those who ar thinkg that I eat her "pekkus", I didnt stil, all the "close toos" why cos I felt I sholdnt If really loved her, thats my opinio sha...I mean apart from this incidencs there wer times in school , when we went out, alot so thats just me.

Service yr gave me the chance to know this girl really well, so much so that when I was leaving her i said to her,dupe. lets assume thats her name. ''Dupe I can confidently leave you now" As against my inability during orietation. cos we had knitted together in several ways in those yrs, thought and planed our future, prayed together, disgreed and agreed etc, you gyz no all those things na....

Aiit,now late 2015 I left Ph back to the west, leaving her with her parents...I mean life has started in real sense. I started applying,dint get a job, lets I forget I took my professional exams while in ph with her so you dont think am an NFA, Ihave alwz been that ambituos gy, i mean one of the reasons I know she fell in love with me back den in sch. By early 2016,I took up a voluntary job, got some experience and rcommendation that led to my first job of about 80k.....She was happy for me an all, so i was but I knew within me, I hadnt found the right job that will sustain the life I need to leave if I will end up with her, so I pressed on more...
Meanwhile In the passage of time, now that the relatioship is now long distance, I made sure I visited her Once in 3mnths ..I go to Ph to pay her a visit of days, meet her , her parents, I didnt meet with her dad until after service yr..After meeting him in one of the occasions of my visit, he will hand me full cash as TP back, I felt rlunctant collecting it , but then, I thought to humble mysef.


Things went fyn as time passed asided the once a while minor issues that prop up due to distance and when I see tht its becoming an issue , I know its time to pay a visit. On my home front, I had told my parents about her, My mum seem receptive of her as an "OMOLUABI" but my dad ......hmmmn Undecisive, U no men and their ways ...She got to meet my parents and siblings On our convocation day and since then shes been checking once a while and all,just like I have very good rapor with her mum.


Genngeenn.....Then Late 2016 she mentioned travelling abroad for masters, she has been working a while. I liked the idea even thought there and then I felt waaoooo...its gonna be a diff ball game.Anywz , I encouraged her, supported her sef, remembering Closing my account to buy her a pair of White Nike Trainers.....such as I av not worn mysef....What men do for love and gave her on the night before her dparture .
She left may 2017 and I was with mixed feelings, but with the lady I had spent one yr fully with , sch life experience nothwithstandind ,i Felt all will be well.

So I got encourgaged mysef, picked up my cv and started applying, recently I got anther job , almost twice of my previous pay....I felt am begining to be in shape for this my girl....cos looking at her background, we are leagues apart though we met at a top rated private university, But then this girl has been like a queen, character, beauty, homely, she can cook for the middle east.....lol, godly, there were many times she helped my sexual moods and all, can go on and this is the reason why I treated her so highly, I built my life practically around her....


She relocated and almost immediately things changed....she kept a distance and we werent i comm, it took me a while to realize that I was been too greedy , I mean she just relocated for study, she will need time to settle, register, no her ways around and all. When I got this, I gave her time and really she came around. comm was alot better, we began chatting more, calling , even vedio....I then was able to assist her in some of her assignments.......


But lately , In the past One month, what used to be a source of joy to me, is begining to be a source of worry.......
We quarell now more often than not at lttle things
she abuses me by disrespecting me ,,the ladies mght not fully grasp this......She ignores
she determines when we talk and when she leaves....
she no longer conects , that chemistry is lacking , thou we talk, we dont communicate
she doesnt rely my sexual words like geting all dirty and all
there is alwz an excuse for anyting
she doesnt make explanatins except asked..
I gave my sis and mum her Uk no to call her and check up on her, she ignores my sis and mums call
She can shout at you, what sm ple can nagging,
So many , can go on and on



I tried talking to her once and telling her how I felt, she poured it out on me, not seeing any fault on her part....I have seen my self suffering so much and am wandering, is this the dead end or just another phase...I have thought a break up with her times over even though i still care , but am wandering may be Its me, misinterpreting, been quick to judge, or may be its me suffering with Low self esteem that , I think am not fit for her, I mean I live a responsible and simple life nd to God be the glory, I have a good job....I have also thought may be painfully its time to move on, our lifes have taken diff courses, but then i ask , is that a reason to just jettison 6 lovely yrs of being with her, maybe shes found a new attention ova dia, i HAVE PRAYED PRAYED PRAYED for those who will say go and pray, I have, there as even one night recently I thought to whine God, I said. " God if you can just speak to me in my dreams tonyt about who this girl really is before i take a decision , I will speak to -- no of persons about who Good a God you are" Am sure God was laughing at me , COs i woke up miserable feeling and hearing nothing, But i will still persist, I have an idea he rewards those who seek him diligently....If I can get that Info, then I know My problem is solved....but in the interim PROFESSIONAL ADVICE ON WHAT I SHOULD DO PLS.........
Thanks for those who read through.....

i feel ur pain..Thats the bad side of love bt one thing constant on earth is change.....she has changed but rather killing ur self or being under emetional Trauma,there are many fishes in the river...
Your number one mistake is sex.
If u had made love to her,the chemistry will be stronger..I belive in sex cos it ties 2 people stronger than ever...i dont been for u to be an addict but how can for a whole 6 Years,u never had sex...even if she is a virgin,for once she will ask u to take it.

coolcharm:
Op... I can relate with your narrative.
My girlfriend behaved that way for some time too.

It is difficult to tell you not to be worried. But now, you really need to be practical.

She is getting exposed to a whole new world, meeting people and discovering her own self too (beyond the walls of your love and security)

If you love her... You will need to be patient and give her some breathing space.

One thing you have to find out tho is.. If her decision to travel out is entirety hers, or if there is an influence of a 3rd party (you know what i mean).

If there is a 3rd party, then it is best you start rebuilding your own life and finding love again.

But it it was solely her decision, then you can hang on.

But this is what you must do.

1. Don't bug her with excessive long calls. Call her, but don't stay on the phone longer than there is anything meaningful to talk about. If you notice she is becoming uninterested, quickly sumarize the call in a gentle and firm manner, and letting her know you guys will talk again soon.

2. Keep your family out of it. The more your siblings and mum continue to call her, the more in demand she sees herself. And now that you guys aren't flowing well, it could be really irritating to her. To avoid the feeling that she is disrespecting you and your folks, keep them out.

3. Affirm your love to her. In the midst of all the uncertainties, see her for who you know her to be. Before you drop your calls with her, remind her that you love her still, and the distance is not a barrier.

4. Learn to be happy all by yourself. I know you guys have come a long way, but you need to learn the art of emotional independence. Emotions and love are two different things. She might still love you dearly, but he is learning to be emotionally independent. You too, dear op, need to tow that path.
If you detach your emotions and maintain communication, you give each other a 50:50 lifeline. If you do come back close again, you will know that you both choose each other. Else, to your tenth o Israel

Ask her what she intends to do after her program.
I wonder how you didn't plan and discuss this with her before she left. Is she coming back immediately? Will she stay back for a while?
You need to find out.
Then let her know how you are making progress with your own endeavors and what plans you have going forward when she returns..

Intact, Op I can go on but just manage this one.

ur own write p plenty oooo..U call am manage...pls can u help apostle paul write another version of the bible..lol

Egbon wait first.....you dated a girl for six whole years and for once, you no insert your letter "I" for her letter "O". Some guys de try sha. So wetin you go come use console yourself now. Babe you no see, common Ponmo you no chop. Anyway Pele ooo.

dna4ril:
I for one can place my money that shes seeing no one,she might be distracted fyn, but that shes already into a gy already bleepin her, mehn, give me some benefits nahhh!, she def would have made me realise I overestimated her...Shes a focused, intelligent, decent and Godfearing beautiful young lady. The attention , yes, She even brags about it to me sef sometimes when things were fyn, but that shes already ben bleeped, I can summarize that.

OK bro!!!!
I hope it works out for ur sake sha!!!

dna4ril:
hello gyz! I am in an emotionally demented state of mind now, due to a relationship of 6yrs and counting I have been in,such as I treasure so much and I foresee is about to crash. NEED UR PROFESSIONAL ADVICE.....Those who hav been in a similar relationship and have survived should pls share.Pls lets keep it professional.My heart is pounding as I type this, Make no joke of this. and If you ev got no chill , dont bother cos this is quite an epistle.

Kk 2011,we met in our 100 days, I was 21, she was 19. she was so amazing and still is, I fell in love immedaitely, with my swags and all she couldnt resist. we were best friends, she helped me severally in many ways, I did too. fast foward to final yr, I gave her my first kiss and all apart from sex. I loved her to want to marry her so even when i had the chances it wasnt much of a temptation to resist.
I had a first class , she made 2:1....
service yr came, I was posted to taraba, she worked her way to PH where she stays, lets I forget, we met in a private university and her parents are quite wealthy, this I didnt no until we had fallen in love, she said she delibrately hid that from me.Anyways orientation camp camp 2015, I was posted to TARABA state. I couldnt bare the feeling of life without her, I met no real friends, I was alwys calling her , we were tied together apparently. so she spoke t her mum to help in directing my posting...

I thought it was a joke, put in for redeployment and Ph I went. We finally had the chance to see each other again after school.I was lucky enough that the house I eventualy got to stay was just a minute distance to her house. We were really close that one yr, I went to her house like Kilode, her mum,siblings all saw me and i felt the warm rception.Just for those who ar thinkg that I eat her "pekkus", I didnt stil, all the "close toos" why cos I felt I sholdnt If really loved her, thats my opinio sha...I mean apart from this incidencs there wer times in school , when we went out, alot so thats just me.

Service yr gave me the chance to know this girl really well, so much so that when I was leaving her i said to her,dupe. lets assume thats her name. ''Dupe I can confidently leave you now" As against my inability during orietation. cos we had knitted together in several ways in those yrs, thought and planed our future, prayed together, disgreed and agreed etc, you gyz no all those things na....

Aiit,now late 2015 I left Ph back to the west, leaving her with her parents...I mean life has started in real sense. I started applying,dint get a job, lets I forget I took my professional exams while in ph with her so you dont think am an NFA, Ihave alwz been that ambituos gy, i mean one of the reasons I know she fell in love with me back den in sch. By early 2016,I took up a voluntary job, got some experience and rcommendation that led to my first job of about 80k.....She was happy for me an all, so i was but I knew within me, I hadnt found the right job that will sustain the life I need to leave if I will end up with her, so I pressed on more...
Meanwhile In the passage of time, now that the relatioship is now long distance, I made sure I visited her Once in 3mnths ..I go to Ph to pay her a visit of days, meet her , her parents, I didnt meet with her dad until after service yr..After meeting him in one of the occasions of my visit, he will hand me full cash as TP back, I felt rlunctant collecting it , but then, I thought to humble mysef.


Things went fyn as time passed asided the once a while minor issues that prop up due to distance and when I see tht its becoming an issue , I know its time to pay a visit. On my home front, I had told my parents about her, My mum seem receptive of her as an "OMOLUABI" but my dad ......hmmmn Undecisive, U no men and their ways ...She got to meet my parents and siblings On our convocation day and since then shes been checking once a while and all,just like I have very good rapor with her mum.


Genngeenn.....Then Late 2016 she mentioned travelling abroad for masters, she has been working a while. I liked the idea even thought there and then I felt waaoooo...its gonna be a diff ball game.Anywz , I encouraged her, supported her sef, remembering Closing my account to buy her a pair of White Nike Trainers.....such as I av not worn mysef....What men do for love and gave her on the night before her dparture .
She left may 2017 and I was with mixed feelings, but with the lady I had spent one yr fully with , sch life experience nothwithstandind ,i Felt all will be well.

So I got encourgaged mysef, picked up my cv and started applying, recently I got anther job , almost twice of my previous pay....I felt am begining to be in shape for this my girl....cos looking at her background, we are leagues apart though we met at a top rated private university, But then this girl has been like a queen, character, beauty, homely, she can cook for the middle east.....lol, godly, there were many times she helped my sexual moods and all, can go on and this is the reason why I treated her so highly, I built my life practically around her....


She relocated and almost immediately things changed....she kept a distance and we werent i comm, it took me a while to realize that I was been too greedy , I mean she just relocated for study, she will need time to settle, register, no her ways around and all. When I got this, I gave her time and really she came around. comm was alot better, we began chatting more, calling , even vedio....I then was able to assist her in some of her assignments.......


But lately , In the past One month, what used to be a source of joy to me, is begining to be a source of worry.......
We quarell now more often than not at lttle things
she abuses me by disrespecting me ,,the ladies mght not fully grasp this......She ignores
she determines when we talk and when she leaves....
she no longer conects , that chemistry is lacking , thou we talk, we dont communicate
she doesnt rely my sexual words like geting all dirty and all
there is alwz an excuse for anyting
she doesnt make explanatins except asked..
I gave my sis and mum her Uk no to call her and check up on her, she ignores my sis and mums call
She can shout at you, what sm ple can nagging,
So many , can go on and on



I tried talking to her once and telling her how I felt, she poured it out on me, not seeing any fault on her part....I have seen my self suffering so much and am wandering, is this the dead end or just another phase...I have thought a break up with her times over even though i still care , but am wandering may be Its me, misinterpreting, been quick to judge, or may be its me suffering with Low self esteem that , I think am not fit for her, I mean I live a responsible and simple life nd to God be the glory, I have a good job....I have also thought may be painfully its time to move on, our lifes have taken diff courses, but then i ask , is that a reason to just jettison 6 lovely yrs of being with her, maybe shes found a new attention ova dia, i HAVE PRAYED PRAYED PRAYED for those who will say go and pray, I have, there as even one night recently I thought to whine God, I said. " God if you can just speak to me in my dreams tonyt about who this girl really is before i take a decision , I will speak to -- no of persons about who Good a God you are" Am sure God was laughing at me , COs i woke up miserable feeling and hearing nothing, But i will still persist, I have an idea he rewards those who seek him diligently....If I can get that Info, then I know My problem is solved....but in the interim PROFESSIONAL ADVICE ON WHAT I SHOULD DO PLS.........
Thanks for those who read through.....

oh boy.... she must chnage ooo as u know dey Bleep am wella back when she was here
just kidding.... the truth is she's in a new world,seen new things n feels u not in her league and obviously fucking uk dicks... what more u think she would want from u she aint getting presently
well my advice move on
thank god u say u don pray taya
no b prayer matter b this
if u need pray, pray for d ability to forget her. shikena

Royal155:
6 good solid years and you no chop kpekus
Nigga are u sh*tin me? :oo

See eeh mek I just tell you the truth, you are the cause of your own problem, I swear .

How can you date a girl for six donkey years without digging da hole . Are u a 'cuntless unsolid'?

If you had dugged da fuckin hole one or two times, she'll think twice before friend zoning ya sorry a$$. Now another nigga from a foreign land with a potent cunt has taken over the management of that company with all the benefits(even eaten a hot served kpekus :PP) attached to it.

Nigga quit crying and whinning like baby and look for another babe, but this time, don't be stupid and blinded enough not to chop that kpekus .

Ndo Nnamm

plain truth , Dont ever make this mistake.

Seun:
How does one go about working on one's self exactly? Do you mean things like furthering one's education and getting a better job?

Mr Seun can't i delete my comment(s) on mobile on nairaland? if i can, how?

Greenbullet:
plain truth , Dont ever make this mistake.

:DD Omo I learnt the hard way.

[quote author=dna4ril post=59935701][/quote]Love only goes thus far at some stage judging from my experience I will advice you work on yourself and ensure that you are in a firm standing financially before her return to have any hope. This does not guarantee she'd be coming back to you but that will be an added advantage when she takes stock and weigh her option that is if she as not been snatched over there.

Best bet give her more than the space she needs if a girl wants you she will stay around. There's little you can do to make her stay especially when she is richer, more reason I do not have time for rich man pikin. Work hard make money and stop being excited about the girl father wealth you earn yourself no dignity until you are able to call the bluff of your wife daughter that buddie doesn't translate to being richer but being man enough to handle any exigencies seen/unforseen should it arise. My 2cent.

Wow dnt really know what to say but just give her time also reaffirm ur love for her once in a while and if she is urz with time she will come around bt take it or leave it ur chances with her is 50:50

Men can be lost sometimes when it comes to making their women feel right. But it's not rocket science, women are much more easy than men think. Every woman wants the same thing: To feel loved.

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6 years ! Unbelievable !

Seun:
How does one go about working on one's self exactly? Do you mean things like furthering one's education and getting a better job?

seun na u dey ask this kind question so. ?? Kuku kill me. lol