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redcurry:
@number 2 .how abt families that stays in a room apartment,in as much as privacy is good,but there are families that can't afford bigger apartments.they can't be asking their 3,4,5 or 6 yrs old to leave d room all d time.nice post btw.

oyienootieno:
This is not for slay queens, this post is for parents. If you don't have solution for that simply pass over it, it's not a must you comment.

Daeylar:
Nice post but I feel like I've read this list of things before from elsewhere

Modified, this list is all over the net
It was even posted as far back as 2012 on nairaland,

Op quote your source

uzoclinton:
permission to post this on my blog

redcurry:
@number 2 .how abt families that stays in a room apartment,in as much as privacy is good,but there are families that can't afford bigger apartments.they can't be asking their 3,4,5 or 6 yrs old to leave d room all d time.nice post btw.

Sapiosexuality:
So my niece can't sit on my lap? Why? That line is trash. Not every human being is a manimal.

Baloselly:
With the way things are going you'll need to teach your child all three major Nigerian languages

cyborg123:
You may be right. The only problem is that the perverts don't usually have a label on their foreheads so a general caution to minimize the chances of accidentally sitting on a pervert's laps is still on track.

brandydaniells:
Here is a list of things you need to teach your Child(ren) at early age:

1: Warn your Girl Child Never to sit on anyone's laps no matter the situation including uncles.

2: Avoid Getting Dressed in front of your child once he/she is 2 years old. Learn to excuse them or yourself.

3. Never allow any adult refer to your child as 'my wife' or 'my husband'

4. Whenever your child goes out to play with friends make sure you look for a way to find out what kind of play they do, because young people now sexually abuse themselves.

5. Never force your child to visit any adult he or she is not comfortable with and also be observant if your child becomes too fond of a particular adult.

6. Once a very lively child suddenly becomes withdrawn you may need to patiently ask lots of questions from your child.

7. Carefully educate your grown ups about the right values of sex . If you don't, the society will teach them the wrong values.

8: It is always advisable you go through any new Material like cartoons you just bought for them before they start seeing it themselves.

9. Ensure you activate parental controls on your cable networks and advice your friends especially those your child(ren) visit(s) often.

10. Teach your 3 year olds how to wash their private parts properly and warn them never to allow anyone touch those areas and that includes you (remember, charity begins from home and with you).

11: Blacklist some materials/associates you think could threaten the sanity of your child (this includes music, movies and even friends and families).

12. Let your child(ren) understand the value of standing out of the crowd.

13: Once your child complains about a particular person, don't keep quiet about it. Take up the case and show them you can defend them. Remember, we are either parents or parents-to-be. And must share to all friends who have children's.

brandydaniells:
Here is a list of things you need to teach your Child(ren) at early age:

1: Warn your Girl Child Never to sit on anyone's laps no matter the situation including uncles.

2: Avoid Getting Dressed in front of your child once he/she is 2 years old. Learn to excuse them or yourself.

3. Never allow any adult refer to your child as 'my wife' or 'my husband'

4. Whenever your child goes out to play with friends make sure you look for a way to find out what kind of play they do, because young people now sexually abuse themselves.

5. Never force your child to visit any adult he or she is not comfortable with and also be observant if your child becomes too fond of a particular adult.

6. Once a very lively child suddenly becomes withdrawn you may need to patiently ask lots of questions from your child.

7. Carefully educate your grown ups about the right values of sex . If you don't, the society will teach them the wrong values.

8: It is always advisable you go through any new Material like cartoons you just bought for them before they start seeing it themselves.

9. Ensure you activate parental controls on your cable networks and advice your friends especially those your child(ren) visit(s) often.

10. Teach your 3 year olds how to wash their private parts properly and warn them never to allow anyone touch those areas and that includes you (remember, charity begins from home and with you).

11: Blacklist some materials/associates you think could threaten the sanity of your child (this includes music, movies and even friends and families).

12. Let your child(ren) understand the value of standing out of the crowd.

13: Once your child complains about a particular person, don't keep quiet about it. Take up the case and show them you can defend them. Remember, we are either parents or parents-to-be. And must share to all friends who have children's.

brandydaniells:
granted

don4real18:
Well, about the sitting on laps, it depends on the kind of man oo

brandydaniells:
Here is a list of things you need to teach your Child(ren) at early age:

1: Warn your Girl Child Never to sit on anyone's laps no matter the situation including uncles.

2: Avoid Getting Dressed in front of your child once he/she is 2 years old. Learn to excuse them or yourself.

3. Never allow any adult refer to your child as 'my wife' or 'my husband'

4. Whenever your child goes out to play with friends make sure you look for a way to find out what kind of play they do, because young people now sexually abuse themselves.

5. Never force your child to visit any adult he or she is not comfortable with and also be observant if your child becomes too fond of a particular adult.

6. Once a very lively child suddenly becomes withdrawn you may need to patiently ask lots of questions from your child.

7. Carefully educate your grown ups about the right values of sex . If you don't, the society will teach them the wrong values.

8: It is always advisable you go through any new Material like cartoons you just bought for them before they start seeing it themselves.

9. Ensure you activate parental controls on your cable networks and advice your friends especially those your child(ren) visit(s) often.

10. Teach your 3 year olds how to wash their private parts properly and warn them never to allow anyone touch those areas and that includes you (remember, charity begins from home and with you).

11: Blacklist some materials/associates you think could threaten the sanity of your child (this includes music, movies and even friends and families).

12. Let your child(ren) understand the value of standing out of the crowd.

13: Once your child complains about a particular person, don't keep quiet about it. Take up the case and show them you can defend them. Remember, we are either parents or parents-to-be. And must share to all friends who have children's.

brandydaniells:
Here is a list of things you need to teach your Child(ren) at early age:

1: Warn your Girl Child Never to sit on anyone's laps no matter the situation including uncles.

2: Avoid Getting Dressed in front of your child once he/she is 2 years old. Learn to excuse them or yourself.

3. Never allow any adult refer to your child as 'my wife' or 'my husband'

4. Whenever your child goes out to play with friends make sure you look for a way to find out what kind of play they do, because young people now sexually abuse themselves.

5. Never force your child to visit any adult he or she is not comfortable with and also be observant if your child becomes too fond of a particular adult.

6. Once a very lively child suddenly becomes withdrawn you may need to patiently ask lots of questions from your child.

7. Carefully educate your grown ups about the right values of sex . If you don't, the society will teach them the wrong values.

8: It is always advisable you go through any new Material like cartoons you just bought for them before they start seeing it themselves.

9. Ensure you activate parental controls on your cable networks and advice your friends especially those your child(ren) visit(s) often.

10. Teach your 3 year olds how to wash their private parts properly and warn them never to allow anyone touch those areas and that includes you (remember, charity begins from home and with you).

11: Blacklist some materials/associates you think could threaten the sanity of your child (this includes music, movies and even friends and families).

12. Let your child(ren) understand the value of standing out of the crowd.

13: Once your child complains about a particular person, don't keep quiet about it. Take up the case and show them you can defend them. Remember, we are either parents or parents-to-be. And must share to all friends who have children's.

Bolustical:
Teach them the history of Nigeria so that they will not believe any scammer who claims to be a Messiah.

abdulhosni619:
Muhammad Adamu Penis is Penis, not bombom Vagina is vagina , not bombom Nipple is nipple. , not chest or dundi Let your kids know the real names of their sexual organs. No pet names. Your female child needs to know she has three holes in her body... One for urinating, one for sex and reproduction and one for passing waste. The one for sex should not be touched by anybody except mummy, when she wants to clean you up. "If anyone touches your vanguard let mummy and daddy know." If you don't teach your children all these things, someone else will do it for you... they will learn it from other people, sometimes the wrong people. Be the first person to talk to your daughter(s) about it so she has the right information. The world as a whole is filled with toxic minds roaming the streets. Grown men taking advantage of babies, molesting them, innocent children....some of these kids don't even have the courage to tell mummy and daddy because mummy and daddy are too strict. Mummy and daddy don't want to hear the word "sex, penis or vagina"... Mummy and daddy are too religious because they think telling their kids about sexuality is unholy. If you don't teach your child, someone else will do it for you. Even schools are not going to be doing the right thing as you would. Tell your child/Ren that no-one should touch them and let no-one say "let me help you wear your pant". If you can tell her "don't take sweets from someone you don't know" then you should be able to tell her "if Baba Emeka or anybody sends you a message and says you should bring it to his room, don't go". Kids need to be taught what they need to know, we got to do what we got to do to protect them no matter how uncomfortable. And talking to them about sexuality doesn't mean they will be curious to want to try it. You should also tell them about the dangers in doing it. Vagina is vagina Penis is Penis.... Saying it as it is is not a sin. Penis is an English word for a male sexual organ, and vagina is an English word for a female sexual organ.

abdulhosni619:
Muhammad Adamu
Penis is Penis, not bombom
Vagina is vagina , not bombom
Nipple is nipple. , not chest or dundi
Let your kids know the real names of their sexual
organs. No pet names. Your female child needs to
know she has three holes in her body... One for
urinating, one for sex and reproduction and one
for passing waste.
The one for sex should not be touched by
anybody except mummy, when she wants to
clean you up. "If anyone touches your vanguard
let mummy and daddy know."
If you don't teach your children all these things,
someone else will do it for you... they will learn it
from other people, sometimes the wrong people.
Be the first person to talk to your daughter(s)
about it so she has the right information.
The world as a whole is filled with toxic minds
roaming the streets. Grown men taking advantage
of babies, molesting them, innocent
children....some of these kids don't even have the
courage to tell mummy and daddy because
mummy and daddy are too strict. Mummy and
daddy don't want to hear the word "sex, penis or
vagina"... Mummy and daddy are too religious
because they think telling their kids about
sexuality is unholy. If you don't teach your child,
someone else will do it for you. Even schools are
not going to be doing the right thing as you
would.
Tell your child/Ren that no-one should touch
them and let no-one say "let me help you wear
your pant".
If you can tell her "don't take sweets from
someone you don't know" then you should be
able to tell her "if Baba Emeka or anybody sends
you a message and says you should bring it to
his room, don't go".
Kids need to be taught what they need to know,
we got to do what we got to do to protect them
no matter how uncomfortable. And talking to
them about sexuality doesn't mean they will be
curious to want to try it. You should also tell
them about the dangers in doing it.
Vagina is vagina
Penis is Penis....
Saying it as it is is not a sin. Penis is an English
word for a male sexual organ, and vagina is an
English word for a female sexual organ.

correctguy0900:
Please, the post is not for one room occupants.

redcurry:
na so.since all ur fingers are equal.

Bolustical:
Teach them the history of Nigeria so that they will not believe any scammer who claims to be a Messiah.

correctguy0900:
Am being realistic. All the advice there are not practicable in a room apartment.

brandydaniells:
Here is a list of things you need to teach your Child(ren) at early age:

1: Warn your Girl Child Never to sit on anyone's laps no matter the situation including uncles.

2: Avoid Getting Dressed in front of your child once he/she is 2 years old. Learn to excuse them or yourself.

3. Never allow any adult refer to your child as 'my wife' or 'my husband'

4. Whenever your child goes out to play with friends make sure you look for a way to find out what kind of play they do, because young people now sexually abuse themselves.

5. Never force your child to visit any adult he or she is not comfortable with and also be observant if your child becomes too fond of a particular adult.

6. Once a very lively child suddenly becomes withdrawn you may need to patiently ask lots of questions from your child.

7. Carefully educate your grown ups about the right values of sex . If you don't, the society will teach them the wrong values.

8: It is always advisable you go through any new Material like cartoons you just bought for them before they start seeing it themselves.

9. Ensure you activate parental controls on your cable networks and advice your friends especially those your child(ren) visit(s) often.

10. Teach your 3 year olds how to wash their private parts properly and warn them never to allow anyone touch those areas and that includes you (remember, charity begins from home and with you).

11: Blacklist some materials/associates you think could threaten the sanity of your child (this includes music, movies and even friends and families).

12. Let your child(ren) understand the value of standing out of the crowd.

13: Once your child complains about a particular person, don't keep quiet about it. Take up the case and show them you can defend them. Remember, we are either parents or parents-to-be. And must share to all friends who have children's.