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I met this girl through my friend recently. She's my friend's cousin. She's calm, cool and beautiful. She finished her secondary school education this year and she's awaiting her admission in to the university. I told my friend that I like her. My friend without informing me told her mum about my interest in her. The mum was glad about the news. She however called and asked me if I really like her as I claim. I replied yes I do. Her mum however gave me the go ahead to ask her out. Now the problem is that... I am in my final year in the medical school. And I'll be considering marriage as soon as I am done. I'm thinking I could meet another girl later who probably would be done with her studies and marry. I love this girl so much that I don't want to lose her in the end. Should I tell the girl about my love her or not? I need your advice nairalanders...

Dokita!!!!!

Elders d king need yr advice

You are not inlove with her it's your d*ck that's inlove

You want to marry an undergraduate girl
....thought you said you studied medicine, unfortunately you don't sound like a literate

ADVICE IS WHAT PEOPLE ASK FOR WHEN THEY ALREADY KNOW WHAT THEY REALLY WISH TO DO....

If you truly needed advice you would not have met the mum or allowed your friend go ahead to tell the mother..... YOU plan to marry after school? THAT'S FUNNY COS U WILL END UP BROKE if you do not solidify a financial future and stop day dreaming.

Whats wrong with marrying her while she is in school and waiting for her to finish before having kids... WELL the simple truth is YOU ARE INFATUATED and not really IN LOVE. true love thinks CLEARLY before voicing it out. YOU and the GIRL have a great bright future but you are about to make a mistake if you go ahead to date her.

LADIES NEED SECURITY not BIG CHEST... I mean BIG ACCOUNT. so build your financial life first and get to know her... cos no matter how NAIVE she may look now... when she enters university... some stupid guy may disvirgin her and she may fall in love with all the wrong boys... SO DO NOT PUT ALL YOUR GOLDEN EGGS in her basket o. I wish you well.

Kayus4real:
I met this girl through my friend recently. She's my friend's cousin. She's calm, cool and beautiful. She finished her secondary school education this year and she's awaiting her admission in to the university. I told my friend that I like her. My friend without informing me told her mum about my interest in her. The mum was glad about the news. She however called and ask me if I really like her as I claim. I replied yes I do. Her mum however gave me the go ahead to ask her out. Now the problem is that... I am in my final year in the medical school. And I'll be considering marriage as soon as I am done. I'm thinking I could meet another girl later who probably would be done with her studies and marry. I love this girl so much that I don't want to lose her in the end. Should I tell the girl about my love her or not? I need your advice nairalanders...

You are a Medical Doctor. A scientist.
And you can't decide whether to get engaged to a girl or not.
I wouldn't like to come to your clinic.

D mother sha

Her mother is happy because she heard "Doctor", she want a dokinta as son in law, to me,nothing is wrong but avoid any sexual encounter in the relationship, I know why I am telling you, when you leave the medical school,you can marry her if she is up to 20yrs, no pregnancy until she rounds up her university education!

My brother dis sisi ^^^^^ here did not give me a dime but listen to her advice

My bro just try and think very well, cos when she enters the school it may not be as you plan o, you will do lot of payment hope you know what i mean. next thing is can you wait for her? will she later cook up stories like "you are too old for me" when she is through.

Kayus4real:
I met this girl through my friend recently. She's my friend's cousin. She's calm, cool and beautiful. She finished her secondary school education this year and she's awaiting her admission in to the university. I told my friend that I like her. My friend without informing me told her mum about my interest in her. The mum was glad about the news. She however called and asked me if I really like her as I claim. I replied yes I do. Her mum however gave me the go ahead to ask her out. Now the problem is that... I am in my final year in the medical school. And I'll be considering marriage as soon as I am done. I'm thinking I could meet another girl later who probably would be done with her studies and marry. I love this girl so much that I don't want to lose her in the end. Should I tell the girl about my love her or not? I need your advice nairalanders...

Trust me, She already knows about your interest. Well, Since her mama already knows and approve of it, Go ahead and start FVCKING her anyhow. Na God do am for you.

This story reminds me of a guy that refused to ask me out because he was in 100l and i was in sss1.Now, I'm outta school and he's still in 500L(LAUTECH) ,he wants me now but kolewerk.Mi o r'aye.Though if he asked me out then,i would not accept because i was scared of the opposite sex.

Ponder over it very well bfore u go ahead. Make sure u are ready for a lifetime committment before committing into it

Did I read the mother gave her consent
Wtf
Bia, let this girl be
You can play a role in her life that sets you apart.

Kayus4real:
I met this girl through my friend recently. She's my friend's cousin. She's calm, cool and beautiful. She finished her secondary school education this year and she's awaiting her admission in to the university. I told my friend that I like her. My friend without informing me told her mum about my interest in her. The mum was glad about the news. She however called and asked me if I really like her as I claim. I replied yes I do. Her mum however gave me the go ahead to ask her out. Now the problem is that... I am in my final year in the medical school. And I'll be considering marriage as soon as I am done. I'm thinking I could meet another girl later who probably would be done with her studies and marry. I love this girl so much that I don't want to lose her in the end. Should I tell the girl about my love her or not? I need your advice nairalanders...

have you ever thought of 1st figure out whether that child even like you?! or wanna have anything with you?

i wont dwell on the age thing here, since her mum has already approved this very sick (imho) thought.

Kayus4real:
I met this girl through my friend recently. She's my friend's cousin. She's calm, cool and beautiful. She finished her secondary school education this year and she's awaiting her admission in to the university. I told my friend that I like her. My friend without informing me told her mum about my interest in her. The mum was glad about the news. She however called and asked me if I really like her as I claim. I replied yes I do. Her mum however gave me the go ahead to ask her out. Now the problem is that... I am in my final year in the medical school. And I'll be considering marriage as soon as I am done. I'm thinking I could meet another girl later who probably would be done with her studies and marry. I love this girl so much that I don't want to lose her in the end. Should I tell the girl about my love her or not? I need your advice nairalanders...

you are not in love with her, you're actually in lust with her...



Leave the poor gurl alone buddy.

lol!!!! the mother is a very sharp woman unlike our Nigerian mothers that will warn you to stay away.. the mother likes you already because you are about to be a medical doctor and she has already picture of having a doctor as a son in law!!! congrats bro!!

sexybbstar:
This story reminds me of a guy that refused to ask me out because he was in 100l and i was in sss1.Now, I'm outta school and he's still in 500L(LAUTECH) ,he wants me now but kolewerk.Mi o r'aye.Though if he asked me out then,i would not accept because i was scared of the opposite sex.

So you want him to ask you out@ SSS 1 right? I wonda how the size of the boobs will be then, like boil I guess.
But thank God for your life, cos the school wey the nigga go na error.
LAUTECH: An institution wia you spend 8-9yrs for just 5yrs course/programme.
Even that guy@500L can neva still tell when he go graduate.
I'll rather go Unimaid than lautech.
Cos lautech and strike are 5&6

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tosyne2much:
As an intending graduate, I will never advise you to even date a girl in 200l let alone a girl that is still in the league of seeking admission into the university. And since you're considering settling down shortly after you're done with school, pleasure endeavour to look for a lady with similar ideology..

Never consider marrying a lady that just got admitted into the university or the one aspiring to get admission, they are easily swayed and are susceptible to little temptations.

The truth is better they say

tosyne2much:
As an intending graduate, I will never advise you to even date a girl in 200l let alone a girl that is still in the league of seeking admission into the university. And since you're considering settling down shortly after you're done with school, pleasure endeavour to look for a lady with similar ideology..

Never consider marrying a lady that just got admitted into the university or the one aspiring to get admission, they are easily swayed and are susceptible to little temptations.

The truth is better they say

LalasticSeun:
[s]You want to marry an undergraduate girl
....thought you said you studied medicine, unfortunately you don't sound like a literate[/s]

senseless post

@op there is nothing wrong with that as long as you will allow her to continue her studies in Uni

FoolishBoy419:
senseless post

@op there is nothing wrong with that as long as you will allow her to continue her studies in Uni

foolish boy

olad99:
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Why were you surprised bro?

LalasticSeun:
foolish boy

another senseless post

Nedfed:
So you want him to ask you out@ SSS 1 right? I wonda how the size of the boobs will be then, like boil I guess.
But thank God for your life, cos the school wey the nigga go na error.
LAUTECH: An institution wia you spend 8-9yrs for just 5yrs course/programme.
Even that guy@500L can neva still tell when he go graduate.
I'll rather go Unimaid than lautech.
Cos lautech and strike are 5&6

Lol...this is so funny.

FoolishBoy419:
another senseless post

foolish boy

FoolishBoy419:
senseless post

@op there is nothing wrong with that as long as you will allow her to continue her studies in Uni

My brother, things don't easily work the way you picture it.

the funny thing is that alot of people ave different definition of love. i dont seems to understand it anymore

Sure you graduated before Lie Mohammed.

sexybbstar:
This story reminds me of a guy that refused to ask me out because he was in 100l and i was in sss1.Now, I'm outta school and he's still in 500L(LAUTECH) ,he wants me now but kolewerk.Mi o r'aye.Though if he asked me out then,i would not accept because i was scared of the opposite sex.