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7 Reasons Why Intelligent People Face Difficulties In Having A Relationship by Lordxonline(op): 9:18am On Sep 11, 2017
Intelligent people are usually the ones who have more trouble in finding love. It might sound weird, but cleverness can also be a disadvantage for someone who thinks a lot.

The following facts explain why sometimes it’s so hard for intelligent people to fall in love and be in a serious relationship:

1) INTELLIGENT PEOPLE ARE MORE INDEPENDENT.

It’s a fact that the more intelligent a person is the more they value independence as a trait. That’s why they have a secret fear of commitment since they are afraid that a relationship may change their independent way of living. Of course that’s not true. A serious, meaningful relationship will never damage your independence. If your partner truly loves you and respects you as well, then they will never try to control your life. Love is not like prison.

2) INTELLIGENT PEOPLE ARE MORE SUSPICIOUS.

When you think too much, there’s a possibility that you’ll start thinking bad things. Sometimes intelligent people fill their minds with insecurities. They can’t easily be fooled, but that’s exactly because they’re afraid of being fooled! They are too careful when they pick a partner or even a friend and that’s why they end up being alone for long periods of time. Of course, being too naive isn’t good either, but being too suspicious can only trouble you more.

3) INTELLIGENT PEOPLE FOCUS MORE ON THEIR CAREERS.

Smart people want to succeed in life and that’s completely respectable. However, the fact that they focus on their job sometimes leaves them with no time left for having a social life. That’s why smart people are the ones who are somewhat “late” to settle down. I don’t really see anything bad with that, since we all choose to make some little “sacrifices”.

Continue reading >>> https://wildnotice.com/7-reasons-intelligent-people-face-difficulties-relationship
Re: 7 Reasons Why Intelligent People Face Difficulties In Having A Relationship by Nobody: 9:23am On Sep 11, 2017
grin


Yaaaay!
Re: 7 Reasons Why Intelligent People Face Difficulties In Having A Relationship by Nobody: 9:30am On Sep 11, 2017
So we should date dullards abi

Re: 7 Reasons Why Intelligent People Face Difficulties In Having A Relationship by Atlantia(f): 9:31am On Sep 11, 2017
Hmmn...
Re: 7 Reasons Why Intelligent People Face Difficulties In Having A Relationship by Balistic4: 10:22am On Sep 11, 2017
so true! i feel mine is even an issue cause I read meaning into all her moves and she terms me trouble shooter. but its in my nature to be very observant.
Re: 7 Reasons Why Intelligent People Face Difficulties In Having A Relationship by HMZi: 12:40pm On Sep 11, 2017
EXCUSES...
Re: 7 Reasons Why Intelligent People Face Difficulties In Having A Relationship by Laveda(f): 12:42pm On Sep 11, 2017
If you're intelligent, look for a partner who is too.

Simple.
Re: 7 Reasons Why Intelligent People Face Difficulties In Having A Relationship by pryme(m): 1:50pm On Sep 11, 2017
Laveda:
If you're intelligent, look for a partner who is too.

Simple.
That will be sifting thru more than a 1000 ladies/gentlemen
Re: 7 Reasons Why Intelligent People Face Difficulties In Having A Relationship by Zhahovic(m): 1:52pm On Sep 11, 2017
IamKashyBaby:
grin


Yaaaay!
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kai!
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U ....evaberry.....and sexybstar...
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U are just everywhere
Re: 7 Reasons Why Intelligent People Face Difficulties In Having A Relationship by Nobody: 1:53pm On Sep 11, 2017
I guess this is why I'm still single
Re: 7 Reasons Why Intelligent People Face Difficulties In Having A Relationship by Nobody: 1:55pm On Sep 11, 2017
Zhahovic:
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kai!
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U ....evaberry.....and sexybstar...
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U are just everywhere
angry

And definitely U are everywhere too...We are the residents of Romance Section..if u wish not to see us, go to obituary section sha..
Re: 7 Reasons Why Intelligent People Face Difficulties In Having A Relationship by Evablizin(f): 2:03pm On Sep 11, 2017
sad
True but truth is bitter
Re: 7 Reasons Why Intelligent People Face Difficulties In Having A Relationship by Evablizin(f): 2:08pm On Sep 11, 2017
Evaberry:
I guess this is why I'm still single
cheesy

For your mind abi.

Re: 7 Reasons Why Intelligent People Face Difficulties In Having A Relationship by Nobody: 2:11pm On Sep 11, 2017
Intelligent women are very suspicious and they are FBI in finding out stuffs about their partner.

They mostly catch cheating partners through their FBI skills.

grin.
Re: 7 Reasons Why Intelligent People Face Difficulties In Having A Relationship by Dannidom(m): 2:12pm On Sep 11, 2017
Lai lai... Intelligent people know the game, play the game and go with the flow.


Heartache is real! Intelligent people knw that.
Re: 7 Reasons Why Intelligent People Face Difficulties In Having A Relationship by Tinie: 2:14pm On Sep 11, 2017
Thats why you should not just look for intelligence, passion is key! Even dumb people exhibit these tendencies

Its just that they wont be distracted by their careers but by IG, wenger, Baba Ijebu or Folake next door.

Dumb people are more suspicious, have too much free time and space in their brain.

A dependent dumb person is the worst thing ever, more like a parasite.

Only passion and compatibility can make a relationship worthwhile.
Re: 7 Reasons Why Intelligent People Face Difficulties In Having A Relationship by Nobody: 2:34pm On Sep 11, 2017
I see.
Re: 7 Reasons Why Intelligent People Face Difficulties In Having A Relationship by RexEmmyGee: 5:40pm On Sep 11, 2017
Lol. It simple: They are usually ugly and the only way to compensate that is to face their books.


Hence, no one to date
Re: 7 Reasons Why Intelligent People Face Difficulties In Having A Relationship by Zhahovic(m): 7:02pm On Sep 11, 2017
IamKashyBaby:
angry

And definitely U are everywhere too...We are the residents of Romance Section..if u wish not to see us, go to obituary section sha..
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Jesus.......as I read this..a mosquito just flew into my ear..
Re: 7 Reasons Why Intelligent People Face Difficulties In Having A Relationship by Daviestunech(m): 7:06pm On Sep 11, 2017
Lordxonline:
Intelligent people are usually the ones who have more trouble in finding love. It might sound weird, but cleverness can also be a disadvantage for someone who thinks a lot.

The following facts explain why sometimes it’s so hard for intelligent people to fall in love and be in a serious relationship:

1) INTELLIGENT PEOPLE ARE MORE INDEPENDENT.

It’s a fact that the more intelligent a person is the more they value independence as a trait. That’s why they have a secret fear of commitment since they are afraid that a relationship may change their independent way of living. Of course that’s not true. A serious, meaningful relationship will never damage your independence. If your partner truly loves you and respects you as well, then they will never try to control your life. Love is not like prison.

2) INTELLIGENT PEOPLE ARE MORE SUSPICIOUS.

When you think too much, there’s a possibility that you’ll start thinking bad things. Sometimes intelligent people fill their minds with insecurities. They can’t easily be fooled, but that’s exactly because they’re afraid of being fooled! They are too careful when they pick a partner or even a friend and that’s why they end up being alone for long periods of time. Of course, being too naive isn’t good either, but being too suspicious can only trouble you more.

3) INTELLIGENT PEOPLE FOCUS MORE ON THEIR CAREERS.

Smart people want to succeed in life and that’s completely respectable. However, the fact that they focus on their job sometimes leaves them with no time left for having a social life. That’s why smart people are the ones who are somewhat “late” to settle down. I don’t really see anything bad with that, since we all choose to make some little “sacrifices”.

Continue reading >>> https://wildnotice.com/7-reasons-intelligent-people-face-difficulties-relationship
Exactly!!!
Intelligent pple are also introvert sometimes though smiley
Re: 7 Reasons Why Intelligent People Face Difficulties In Having A Relationship by WrathOfHadez(m): 7:18pm On Sep 11, 2017
Lordxonline:
2) INTELLIGENT PEOPLE ARE MORE SUSPICIOUS.

When you think too much, there’s a possibility that you’ll start thinking bad things. Sometimes intelligent people fill their minds with insecurities. They can’t easily be fooled, but that’s exactly because they’re afraid of being fooled! They are too careful when they pick a partner or even a friend and that’s why they end up being alone for long periods of time. Of course, being too naive isn’t good either, but being too suspicious can only trouble you more.
Intelligent people actually know all the little signs of infidelity so they are always going to abandon a relationship before the cheating even begins.
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