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A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage. Have you ever walked out on a relationship, why? Let's gist. Let the stories begin...

where's your story

My ex left cos he said he is broke and feels ashamed he can't care for me

Not that I complained

Dude shd av come out straight that he needs a new honey pot to bang

This is a true story.

He was 18, she was 15. He just rounded up his SSCE while she was in SS1. He began to feel like a man, as he has remained celebate even at 18. He loved her so much, showed her to her friends and family. She was his jewel of inestimanle value, his pride, the co-pilot of his Plane. Loving her made him learn her tribal language, which he began to speak effortlessly. He never forced her for for sex, he wanted not only his body but his love. She even called her Daddi'm and he called her Mummi'm.

They seemed inseperable, he would teach her accounts, english and mathematics. He wanted her jewel to pass her WAEC. in one sitting.

Fast forward to when she entered Imo State University, she started double dating. She wanted adventure, one of which was to explore her sexuality. But he was naive, timid, while she wanted a little bit of craziness.

His jewel has been disflowered, by a more experienced smooth operator who happened to be a Lawyer. She gave the ultimate price to a stranger, a price she was to give to him after her eighteenth birthday. He was angry, sad, but he loved her, he took her back.

There was no going back, she has been exposed, to the sweatness of the forbidden fruit. She began to double date and tripple date effortlessly, he could not take it. He tried to double date also, but told her she was pushing him, she didn't care.

He got depressed and refused to see any woman for 3 years, eventually finding solace in the hands of some other ladies, some who turned out to be Delilahs.

He thought valentine will bring their re-union hussled in 3 different places, just to be with her so as to re-ignite their passion, but she was still with the Lawyer, who have dazzed her with his swagger stick. He caught her red handed, in his car, while he was in a bike, somewhere on 5th avenue Festac Town, Lagos.

That broke the ice, he activated his Plan "B", who has been craving for attention, spent time with her, with no emotional attachment, that was how that day was spent.

2 years later, she realiesed she should have been with him. She wanted to settle down with him, but he could not trust her anylonger. She tried to make up with sex, but it was not enough to change his mind. He wanted a friend to marry, but the chord of trust was broken. Even though he still loves her, he was not sure why she really wanted in again...That is how he closed the door, and shut it forever.

Just if you are wondering, that guy was me...

[quote author=lala nicepost=60350510]where's your story [/quote]I just told my story...

Gentlebabs:
I just told my story...

superstory
too tragic to be false tho

Gentlebabs:
This is a true story.

He was 18, she was 15. He just rounded up his SSCE while she was in SS1. He began to feel like a man, as he has remained celebate even at 18. He loved her so much, showed her to her friends and family. She was his jewel of inestimanle value, his pride, the co-pilot of his Plane. Loving her made him learn her tribal language, which he began to speak effortlessly. He never forced her for for sex, he wanted not only his body but his love. She even called her Daddi'm and he called her Mummi'm.

They seemed inseperable, he would teach her accounts, english and mathematics. He wanted her jewel to pass her WAEC. in one sitting.

Fast forward to when she entered Imo State University, she started double dating. She wanted adventure, one of which was to explore her sexuality. But he was not naive, timid, while she wanted a little bit of craziness.

His jewel has been disflowered, by a more experienced smooth operator who happened to be a Lawyer. She gave the ultimate price to a stranger, a price she was to give to him after her eighteenth birthday. He was angry, sad, but he loved her, he took her back.

There was no going back, she has been exposed, to the sweatness of the forbidden fruit. She began to double date and tripple date effortlessly, he could not take it. He tried to double date also, but told her she was pushing him, she didn't care.

He got depressed and refused to see any woman for 3 days, finding solace in the hands of some other ladies, some who turned out to be Delilahs.

He thought valentine will bring their re-union hussled in 3 different places, just to be with her so as to re-ignite their passion, but she was still with the Lawyer, who have dazzed his swagger stick. He caught her red handed, in his car, while he was in a bike, somewhere on 5th avenue Festac Town, Lagos.

That broke the ice, he called his Plan "B", who has been craving for attention, spent time with her, with no emotional attachment, that was how that day was spent.

2 years later, she realiesed ahe should have been with him. She wanted to settle down with him, but he could not trust her again. She tried to make up with sex, but it was not enough to change his mind. He wanted a friend to marriage, but the bond of trust was broken. Even though he still loves her, he was not sure why she really wanted in again...That is how he closed the door, and shut it forever.

Just if you are wondering, that guy was me...

nice decision..... Don't let lobe cloud your decisions.. Love is not always enough....loyalty,honesty and dignity is

A very beautiful girl, few weeks after we started dating i discovered beards on her chin, it kinda reminded me of one wicked woman in my primary school. It just changed everything, i couldn't kiss her again, i couldn't go close as usual and then it just ended, but i haven't been able to replace her and neither has she replaced me. If I could overcome my fear, maybe, just maybe, we might come back together.

Gentlebabs:
This is a true story.

He was 18, she was 15. He just rounded up his SSCE while she was in SS1. He began to feel like a man, as he has remained celebate even at 18. He loved her so much, showed her to her friends and family. She was his jewel of inestimanle value, his pride, the co-pilot of his Plane. Loving her made him learn her tribal language, which he began to speak effortlessly. He never forced her for for sex, he wanted not only his body but his love. She even called her Daddi'm and he called her Mummi'm.

They seemed inseperable, he would teach her accounts, english and mathematics. He wanted her jewel to pass her WAEC. in one sitting.

Fast forward to when she entered Imo State University, she started double dating. She wanted adventure, one of which was to explore her sexuality. But he was not naive, timid, while she wanted a little bit of craziness.

His jewel has been disflowered, by a more experienced smooth operator who happened to be a Lawyer. She gave the ultimate price to a stranger, a price she was to give to him after her eighteenth birthday. He was angry, sad, but he loved her, he took her back.

There was no going back, she has been exposed, to the sweatness of the forbidden fruit. She began to double date and tripple date effortlessly, he could not take it. He tried to double date also, but told her she was pushing him, she didn't care.

He got depressed and refused to see any woman for 3 days, finding solace in the hands of some other ladies, some who turned out to be Delilahs.

He thought valentine will bring their re-union hussled in 3 different places, just to be with her so as to re-ignite their passion, but she was still with the Lawyer, who have dazzed his swagger stick. He caught her red handed, in his car, while he was in a bike, somewhere on 5th avenue Festac Town, Lagos.

That broke the ice, he called his Plan "B", who has been craving for attention, spent time with her, with no emotional attachment, that was how that day was spent.

2 years later, she realiesed ahe should have been with him. She wanted to settle down with him, but he could not trust her again. She tried to make up with sex, but it was not enough to change his mind. He wanted a friend to marriage, but the bond of trust was broken. Even though he still loves her, he was not sure why she really wanted in again...That is how he closed the door, and shut it forever.

Just if you are wondering, that guy was me...

You have a good narrating skill though. Well, you took the right decision, but from the look of things it seems you still love this girl in question, so if you could review your decision, it wouldn't be bad.

Marcelo290:
You have a good narrating skill though. Well, you took the right decision, but from the look of things it seems you still love this girl in question, so if you could review your decision, it wouldn't be bad.

Yeah, we still love ourselves, just like some women still have atoms of love for their first love. She is married, am not. Even as she still wanted in after her engagement, which she could call off for a "YES", i already shut the door. Truth is life is a school, aome memories will linger in our hearts till fade, especially memories of love. I would rather live with a not too physically beautiful Lady but tall, than a Damsel whom i cannot vouch for her credibility due to her antecedents.

selflessposhheart:
My ex left cos he said he is broke and feels ashamed he can't care for me

Not that I complained

Dude shd av come out straight that he needs a new honey pot to bang

U mean ur own pot can't cook testy food again?

So true! My ex left cos of family pressure of getting engaged wen she's aware am not ready for it. Initially, she always tell me to act fast before its "too late" bt still nothing changed. Naso she summon courage and said we shld end it, i took it in good faith, moved on and concluded she neva loved me for her to use d exit door wen she can contain d pressure. After few days she came bak begging swearing to wait till am ready even her pple still begging on her behalf till nw bt No! The one who loves u truely will neva leave u for a day and a broken relationship is better dan a broken marriage.

HayZee06:
So true! My ex left cos of family pressure of getting engaged wen she's aware am not ready for it. Initially, she always tell me to act fast before its "too late" bt still nothing changed. Naso she summon courage and said we shld end it, i took it in good faith, moved on and concluded she neva loved me for her to use d exit door wen she can contain d pressure. After few days she came bak begging swearing to wait till am ready even her pple still begging on her behalf till nw bt No! The one who loves u truely will neva leave u for a day and a broken relationship is better dan a broken marriage.

Like they say, "if you like it, put a ring on it". Maybe for most ladies, it is about their biological clock and the pressure from their family is usually pulsating.

akaahs:
U mean ur own pot can't cook testy food again?

Mine has too much juice too much sauce he can't deal

Gentlebabs:
Like they say, "if you like it, put a ring on it". Maybe for most ladies, it is about their biological clock and the pressure from their family is usually pulsating.

Exactly. Well, that begs the question 'if true and unconditional love ever existed' my opinion tho

ok

selflessposhheart:
Mine has too much juice too much sauce he can't deal

Like addictions?

Gentlebabs:
Like addictions?

Even more

Peejaycute:
my boyfriend broke up with me reason being they told him he can't marry a fair lady. I still don't believe him thou but he wouldn't hear from me anymore Atleast for me to make my own research and if possible find solution. it was a shock for me thou

He did not tell u the actual thing.
Probably you're one of those ladies that even bleached there senses along in the name of being fair.I will never have anything meaningful ,in term of real relationship,to do with those set of folks.I just hate them naturally !seriously.
But if you're naturally light skinned, and he told u he can't marry a fair skinned lady,then there's more to his decision.
For Godsake !,there's more to marriage or real relationship than skin colour.

Hmmm

selflessposhheart:
Mine has too much juice too much sauce he can't deal

hmmmmm, i see

Pls I need advice for a friend on this.
she feels she love her ex's friend. is it proper for her to go for him or not.

Peejaycute:
Pls I need advice for a friend on this.
she feels she love her ex's friend. is it proper for her to go for him or not.

Am coming...