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Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by thesuave10(m): 10:45pm On Sep 22, 2017
tooawesome:



op read this. This is the problem


My man. That's the truth o. Don't mind all these chicken head nairalanders that no absolutely nothing undecided grin
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by BabaO2: 10:45pm On Sep 22, 2017
jennyluv090:
Can somebody tell me where I have gone wrong. We have been married for 3 years and have a lovely son. We both want another child but my husband hardly touches me. He asked me to move to my room because the cry of the baby disturbs him at night. Now when I need sex badly i have to go to his room start initiate sex. No pre-intimacy. Most times, he tells me he s tired. On the other times he would penetrate me and even before i become wet in 3o seconds, he has released. I really dont know how to handle this. I love my husband. Im sure he s battling on how to solve his problem but he keeps blaming me infront of his family that i am the reason we dont have a second child. I have been tempted on one or 2 occasions to tell them about his bedroom problems, but i choose to save his ego.

Please help out!!
None of you has fertility issue., only issue is that both of you are not in the right frame of mind.

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Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by Nobody: 10:45pm On Sep 22, 2017
jennyluv090:
Can somebody tell me where I have gone wrong. We have been married for 3 years and have a lovely son. We both want another child but my husband hardly touches me. He asked me to move to my room because the cry of the baby disturbs him at night. Now when I need sex badly i have to go to his room start initiate sex. No pre-intimacy. Most times, he tells me he s tired. On the other times he would penetrate me and even before i become wet in 3o seconds, he has released. I really dont know how to handle this. I love my husband. Im sure he s battling on how to solve his problem but he keeps blaming me infront of his family that i am the reason we dont have a second child. I have been tempted on one or 2 occasions to tell them about his bedroom problems, but i choose to save his ego.

Please help out!!
I bang my girlfriend without a Durex & sex booster yet, i last upto 30mins in which she always end up complaining though she loves it. Now ur husband last for 30sec and you're still complaining. Hmm.. Would really love to have sex with u.. At least to help u recover all the days you've wasted with a 30sec man
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by iluvpomo(m): 10:46pm On Sep 22, 2017
rahman25:
Kindly give him boiled unripe plantain with vegetables regularly. Also make sure he take fruits like banana and water melon alot. Try this for a week and make sure he avoid sugary food and drink. I am telling you from experience.
May the Lord keep and protect your marriage.
OP is trying to treat low/poor sex drive and not digestive constipation oh grin
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by lexy2014: 10:47pm On Sep 22, 2017
Josh44s:


Sometimes I wonder why a married woman with experience will drop her marital problem in a public site. Seeking advice from single inexperienced young girls and Hot young Boiz. Woman go see your pastor or Ima or seek advice from elderly people you know are decent and will gladly give you positive advice. Don't bring your marital challenges to Nairaland else you will leave your marriage the next day.

That's my advice to you. I just got married recently and I am still learning. Every problem has a solution, but solution is definitely not in Nairaland. Be wise
I couldn't agree more.u are absolutely spot on. Its like asking Osama bin laden & ISIL d best way 2 save human lives or asking Madonna d best way 2b descent
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by iluvpomo(m): 10:48pm On Sep 22, 2017
Foxyn:
I bang my girlfriend without a Durex & sex booster yet, i last upto 30mins in which she always end up complaining though she loves it. Now ur husband last for 30sec and you're still complaining. Hmm.. Would really love to have sex with u.. At least to help u recover all the days you've wasted with a 30sec man
Chai .... this poor lady whey you de nack anyhow, I hope you go marry her and not hand her over with 'high mileage' to someone else? grin
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by Alariwo2: 10:50pm On Sep 22, 2017
iluvpomo:
chai chai, why you de finish OP like this oh grin

I lie?

We no dey see them for here? how they useless themselves online for cheap attention.. They are ready to sleep with any moniker with (m) in front.

Awon akoshibero grin
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by LadyOfgrace: 10:50pm On Sep 22, 2017
You husband is gay or seeing another woman, it's that simple.
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by princepp1(m): 10:50pm On Sep 22, 2017
Several factors can cause this. If he is anxious to have sex, it can lead to quick ejaculation. How is his emotional life..... This factor must not be over looked.

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There are alot of things he can do to improve his sexual life. We can help him....

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Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by Alariwo2: 10:53pm On Sep 22, 2017
iluvpomo:
Chai .... this poor lady whey you de nack anyhow, I hope you go marry her and not hand her over with 'high mileage' to someone else? grin

Na igbo guys dey end up with sh.its like that for wife.. they are soft targets for those hoes grin

Yoruba demons dey sharp naturally, so e hard to deceive us.
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by IMASTEX: 10:54pm On Sep 22, 2017
Hmm. This is why we say "men don't joke with your bed room time with madam".

Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by MTKbudapest(m): 10:55pm On Sep 22, 2017
This is a fuckin case.
I will like to see you and your fuckin husband to discuss the fuckin matter.
Did you say he hardly fuckks you? What d Bleep did he marry u for?
Bleep all the fuckkin women that doesnt like Bleep.
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by Nobody: 10:56pm On Sep 22, 2017
iluvpomo:
Chai .... this poor lady whey you de nack anyhow, I hope you go marry her and not hand her over with 'high mileage' to someone else? grin
I love her sha.. I fit marry am

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Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by jakandeola(m): 10:57pm On Sep 22, 2017
jennyluv090:
Can somebody tell me where I have gone wrong. We have been married for 3 years and have a lovely son. We both want another child but my husband hardly touches me. He asked me to move to my room because the cry of the baby disturbs him at night. Now when I need sex badly i have to go to his room start initiate sex. No pre-intimacy. Most times, he tells me he s tired. On the other times he would penetrate me and even before i become wet in 3o seconds, he has released. I really dont know how to handle this. I love my husband. Im sure he s battling on how to solve his problem but he keeps blaming me infront of his family that i am the reason we dont have a second child. I have been tempted on one or 2 occasions to tell them about his bedroom problems, but i choose to save his ego.

Please help out!!
u lack manners now to show dat women luv sex pass guys why did he stop. I know ur type u do shakara for ur hubby, den he got a girl outside now u regrert and feel pains u need to pray den beg him cos I think is angry wit u. beg him den try to dress nauthy dat u attracts him if not report him to his family I tihnk he has anoda girl

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Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by emerged01(m): 10:58pm On Sep 22, 2017
jennyluv090:
Can somebody tell me where I have gone wrong. We have been married for 3 years and have a lovely son. We both want another child but my husband hardly touches me. He asked me to move to my room because the cry of the baby disturbs him at night. Now when I need sex badly i have to go to his room start initiate sex. No pre-intimacy. Most times, he tells me he s tired. On the other times he would penetrate me and even before i become wet in 3o seconds, he has released. I really dont know how to handle this. I love my husband. Im sure he s battling on how to solve his problem but he keeps blaming me infront of his family that i am the reason we dont have a second child. I have been tempted on one or 2 occasions to tell them about his bedroom problems, but i choose to save his ego.

Please help out!!
If you read the comments you will realize they are not saying anything meaningful.
The problem is with your husband. He is have divided attention as it once happened to me. Suddenly,I realized I was not given my wife attention she needed but one thing was that she never gave up on me.with her caring attitude,I checked myself and I decided to focus on her needs,along the line I regained myself.
You need to help your husband regain himself. He is losing focus. Try to know what is going on in his life,maybe is job/business is giving him concern,study other areas of his life that maybe having effect on his sexual life. Be closer to him,show more love and give him words of encouragement,and most importantly always pray for him every morning when he is leaving for work. Gradually,he will change. Your home is your hands. No third party.

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Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by Nobody: 10:59pm On Sep 22, 2017
ikorodureporta:
cheesy u dey always make me laff with this yr fvcking comments


Same brother, de thing de funny me. He says it with seriousness
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by Nobody: 10:59pm On Sep 22, 2017
thesuave10:



My man. That's the truth o. Don't mind all these chicken head nairalanders that no absolutely nothing undecided grin
You "Liked" and "Shared" your own post with your alternates and still quote yourself to feel you made sense. cheesy grin

Guy, why two "Likes" and two "shares" on that crap you wrote and the intelligent comments haven't garnered much?. cheesy

Na wa!.

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Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by Diso60090(m): 10:59pm On Sep 22, 2017
Ninethmare:
You don't need my advice you actually need my address
Am home alone
When am through with you, you husband will call to thank me...
You are wanted by the EFCC report your self
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by thesuave10(m): 11:00pm On Sep 22, 2017
jakandeola:
u lack manners now to show dat women luv sex pass guys why did he stop. I know ur type u do shakara for ur hubby, den he got a girl outside now u regrert and feel pains u need to pray den beg him cos I think is angry wit u. beg him den try to dress nauthy dat u attracts him if not report him to his family I tihnk he has anoda girl

I don't Think he has another girl jare, the woman must have Los her physical emotional and sexual touch completely. Especially the physical part. As for the pregnancy thing, They should go and see a doctor.
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by rahman25: 11:00pm On Sep 22, 2017
iluvpomo:
OP is trying to treat low/poor sex drive and not digestive constipation oh grin

I have similar issue before but I overcome using the procedure I stated above. Sometime using drug poses a more adverse effect on an issue than solving it. Natural herbs, food and fruit are sometimes of good remedy if used in the appropriate manner. I know what I am saying.
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by kyaagbanairaland(m): 11:02pm On Sep 22, 2017
I'm here to read comments. If you are with me join me let's dance galala.

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Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by thesuave10(m): 11:02pm On Sep 22, 2017
kimbraa:
You "Liked" and "Shared" your own post with your alternates and still quote yourself to feel you made sense. cheesy grin

Guy, why two "Likes" and two "shares" on that crap you wrote and the intelligent comments haven't garnered much?. cheesy

Na wa!.

undecided OK. I have noticed you again. The fact you are daft is blinding you

Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by madgoat(m): 11:02pm On Sep 22, 2017
FvckShiT:
This is so fúçking Pathetic! sad


I would gladly fúçk you on his behalf

Me too. Fix a date with the OP and holler at me grin
A party will put her mind to rest grin
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by thesuave10(m): 11:05pm On Sep 22, 2017
FvckShiT:
This is so fúçking Pathetic! sad


I would gladly fúçk you on his behalf

Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by jakandeola(m): 11:05pm On Sep 22, 2017
thesuave10:


I don't Think he has another girl jare, the woman must have Los her physical emotional and sexual touch completely. Especially the physical part. As for the pregnancy thing, They should go and see a doctor.
is possible cos me too I hate fat girls maybe she let her body anyhow
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by recruit4real(m): 11:06pm On Sep 22, 2017
thorpido:
How old is the baby now?First thing first,I think you should move back to the same room.

You need to both have a long discussion about your sex life.There something wrong and you need to address it.You need to find out from him if there's anything about you that is not making him desire you.You might need to work on that aspect(I'm not saying you are the reason for his behaviour).
He obviously has premature ejaculation issues but his ego won't let him address it.Do you have a family doctor you think you can speak to?If you have one,both of you should visit and you address it.If there's an elderly confidant that you know can talk about it to,you should speak to the person.

Stress might be a big factor in your hubby's life now,so you need to eliminate that.If that is not a problem,you may need to know if his attention is somewhere else.

Three years of marriage is too short for you as a couple to start having intimacy conundrum
My guy, your head dey there. U will recieve more blessings for the your TIMELY advice.

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Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by IamaNigerianGuy(m): 11:08pm On Sep 22, 2017
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Resident relationship experts and sexologists are usually on hand to give their opinion.
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Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by abiola883: 11:08pm On Sep 22, 2017
Ninethmare:
You don't need my advice you actually need my address
Am home alone
When am through with you, you husband will call to thank me...
you should have sense to answer questions. Not a must if you're empty
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by thesuave10(m): 11:09pm On Sep 22, 2017
jakandeola:
is possible cos me too I hate fat girls maybe she let her body anyhow

It's either she got fatter and sex got boring or the man is stressed out with work and has DÎCK issues
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by Nobody: 11:10pm On Sep 22, 2017
tooawesome:



op read this. This is the problem
See...
thesuave10:



My man. That's the truth o. Don't mind all these chicken head nairalanders that no absolutely nothing undecided grin
It's more than obvious the first account is yours based on how you immediately mentioned yourself, and with the response. cheesy

You do this often so I know you live in self-agrandisement. You could as well login more accounts. grin
thesuave10:


undecided OK. I have noticed you again. The fact you are daft is blinding you
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by Mexicanlover: 11:11pm On Sep 22, 2017
Lol

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