jennyluv090:
Can somebody tell me where I have gone wrong. We have been married for 3 years and have a lovely son. We both want another child but my husband hardly touches me. He asked me to move to my room because the cry of the baby disturbs him at night. Now when I need sex badly i have to go to his room start initiate sex. No pre-intimacy. Most times, he tells me he s tired. On the other times he would penetrate me and even before i become wet in 3o seconds, he has released. I really dont know how to handle this. I love my husband. Im sure he s battling on how to solve his problem but he keeps blaming me infront of his family that i am the reason we dont have a second child. I have been tempted on one or 2 occasions to tell them about his bedroom problems, but i choose to save his ego.

Please help out!!

madam, please learn how to seduce your husband.. it is possible that your husband is seeing another woman outside. But you can turn him around by using your feminine power. It's in every woman. Talk to your mother about it. She will gladly teach you how to use your girl power.. I know this because my girlfriend is a pro.. that girl can make any man stumble when she needs the D.

jennyluv090:
Can somebody tell me where I have gone wrong. We have been married for 3 years and have a lovely son. We both want another child but my husband hardly touches me. He asked me to move to my room because the cry of the baby disturbs him at night. Now when I need sex badly i have to go to his room start initiate sex. No pre-intimacy. Most times, he tells me he s tired. On the other times he would penetrate me and even before i become wet in 3o seconds, he has released. I really dont know how to handle this. I love my husband. Im sure he s battling on how to solve his problem but he keeps blaming me infront of his family that i am the reason we dont have a second child. I have been tempted on one or 2 occasions to tell them about his bedroom problems, but i choose to save his ego.

Please help out!!

Whether he release in 30 seconds or 30 days sperm na sperm. It is now OVER TO YOU. Is it pikin you want or onoda tin??

30 what??

U prolly mn 30hours in a month ry??

thesuave10:


Cucumber crew spotted

Well, its far better than adultery and we know many married women go outside because of shii like this.

Josh44s:


Sometimes I wonder why a married woman with experience will drop her marital problem in a public site. Seeking advice from single inexperienced young girls and Hot young Boiz. Woman go see your pastor or Ima or seek advice from elderly people you know are decent and will gladly give you positive advice. Don't bring your marital challenges to Nairaland else you will leave your marriage the next day.

That's my advice to you. I just got married recently and I am still learning. Every problem has a solution, but solution is definitely not in Nairaland. Be wise

Angel alert !

Nawa oo. Lemme come n be going

lol

@OP what does he release? water or spe.rm

This one weak me big time

Ma! It is very simple. You need to work on your clealiness, take your bath morning and night, wear body spray eapecially those sekzy body fantacies, wear bump short in the house, your ministry will move and the fire will catch again and you will be pregnant for another baby boy. PRAIZ THAA LODD!

@OP - if your hubby is releasing inside you and during your ovulation period, you should get pregnant regardless if the love making lasts 10 seconds or 10 minutes.

Adaumunocha:
Well, its far better than adultery and we know many married women go outside because of shii like this.

Agreed. At least the OP is making efforts to stay committed.

This forum is full of sex starved niggaz roaming around the internet looking for sex.
Do you even know whether the woman you're prepositioning weighs 300lbs?
But that doesnt matter....you just wanna fucc, right?

#Sad


O pari

Ninethmare:
You don't need my advice you actually need my address
Am home alone
When am through with you, you husband will call to thank me...

OP I REPEAT WORK ON YOURSELF. HE IS TIRED OF YOUR

SAME OLD BORING SEX STYLE PLUS I'M SURE YOUR NOW FATTER AND IT DISGUSTS HIM SO

STEP 1 : HIT THE GYM

STEP 2: START DRESSING SEXY

STEP 3: SPICE UP YOUR BEDROOM GAME

STEP 4: THIS IS MY PERSONAL SECRET I WON'T TELL

BUT DO THE REST AND YOU'LL BE GREAT

bullabong:
Angel alert !

Lmfao. Guy am not an angel. But you and I know that's the truth. Anyone who brings their marital problem to Nairaland for a solution is only adding fuel to an already existing fire. Who wan advice you? All these irresponsible Ashawos wey full Nairaland or horni small rats

jennyluv090:
Can somebody tell me where I have gone wrong. We have been married for 3 years and have a lovely son. We both want another child but my husband hardly touches me. He asked me to move to my room because the cry of the baby disturbs him at night. Now when I need sex badly i have to go to his room start initiate sex. No pre-intimacy. Most times, he tells me he s tired. On the other times he would penetrate me and even before i become wet in 3o seconds, he has released. I really dont know how to handle this. I love my husband. Im sure he s battling on how to solve his problem but he keeps blaming me infront of his family that i am the reason we dont have a second child. I have been tempted on one or 2 occasions to tell them about his bedroom problems, but i choose to save his ego.

Please help out!!

. Sorry here isn't the best place to seeks such advice or solution to challenge ,b,cos a lot of underage contributions will discouraged. however seeks pastoral counsel and physicians with your husband, all will b well with your family.

PaperLace:


OP, please follow this advice.

[b]I don't know what's wrong with men and their ego _especially on child bearing issues. [/b]Be calm and ignore his public utterances. Seek professional advice first.

are u speaking from ur personal experience?

akinvest:
. Sorry here isn't the best place to seeks such advice or solution to challenge ,b,cos a lot of underage contributions will discouraged. however seeks pastoral counsel and physicians with your husband, all will b well with your family.

Exactly my advice to her.

Tell him to use ginger and honey mix daily by the time he pick up after fourth day of continuous usage, I bet you, you will cry and beg him to have mercy on you. In fact you will not be begging him before he lobby to lick you pot anytime he charge.

Also if you want him to use drug that will last him for hours, just get him 50mg or 100mg trammador tab depends on his body capacity. By the time he finish with you, you will think that an horse has dig your well.

Kimkardashain:
your husband is seeing another woman.
dip deeper ma'am

Not true.

How wide is her puna.


Som puna are so wide dat u get tired of d � b4 time.

Ninethmare:
You don't need my advice you actually need my address
Am home alone
When am through with you, you husband will call to thank me...

bad guy

jennyluv090:
Can somebody tell me where I have gone wrong. We have been married for 3 years and have a lovely son. We both want another child but my husband hardly touches me. He asked me to move to my room because the cry of the baby disturbs him at night. Now when I need sex badly i have to go to his room start initiate sex. No pre-intimacy. Most times, he tells me he s tired. On the other times he would penetrate me and even before i become wet in 3o seconds, he has released. I really dont know how to handle this. I love my husband. Im sure he s battling on how to solve his problem but he keeps blaming me infront of his family that i am the reason we dont have a second child. I have been tempted on one or 2 occasions to tell them about his bedroom problems, but i choose to save his ego.

Please help out!!

DOES HE DRINK. N DOES HE INDULGE IN PORN

The truth is, a lot of men will not last long if they haven't had sex in 3 months.

So, the husband's lack of interest in sex, rather that the premature ejaculation, appears to be the main issue.


Also:

1. People should stop asking those suffering from premature ejaculation to see a Doctor. There's no evidence that a Doctor can fix this problem, as there's no medication for it. I suspect Doctors suffer proportionally as much from premature ejaculation as the rest of the adult male population. Information about approaches that appear to have worked for some sufferers are readily available on the internet.

2. Why would a spouse seriously consider discussing such an intensely private matter with a family member? You'll end up humiliating your husband [b]and yourself[/b: to what end? Some things must remain private between husband and wife. Whoever you inform is unlikely to be able to find a solution, so what's the point? Also, humiliating a man that's already in a pitiable situation will only make the problem worse.

3. People should not assume that a husband always desires sex with his wife or vice versa. At times, the desire may not be there, for whatever reason. That's why maturity and keeping the lines of communication between the couple on the topic becomes essential, so they can get to the bottom of the matter.

This is a complex matter. The guy may not even know why he has gone off sex with his wife or just gone off sex full stop.

Part of the problem is that, society expects and indeed demand that husband and wife must frequently and absolutely want to tear the clothes off each other for regular steamy sex. For many, I suspect this is simply not the reality.

thesuave10:
OP I REPEAT WORK ON YOURSELF. HE IS TIRED OF YOUR

SAME OLD BORING SEX STYLE PLUS I'M SURE YOUR NOW FATTER AND IT DISGUSTS HIM SO

STEP 1 : HIT THE GYM

STEP 2: START DRESSING SEXY

STEP 3: SPICE UP YOUR BEDROOM GAME

STEP 4: THIS IS MY PERSONAL SECRET I WON'T TELL

BUT DO THE REST AND YOU'LL BE GREAT

op read this. This is the problem

iluvpomo:
@OP - if your hubby is releasing inside you and during your ovulation period, you should get pregnant regardless if the love making lasts 10 seconds or 10 minutes.

They say someone can't last for 30seconds, you're here preaching... how sure are you that his spermat.ozoa can swim (if atal he produces any)

Even the first child sef might be from OP's Ex.

Why dem sef dey marry okobo.. Later they'll be disturbing the cyberspace with their smelly married selves looking for illicit sex.
Nonsense

akinvest:
. Sorry here isn't the best place to seeks such advice or solution to challenge ,b,cos a lot of underage contributions will discouraged. however seeks pastoral counsel and physicians with your husband, all will b well with your family.

u blessed bro. 4 her to bring such a private issue here speaks volumes

Jesu!

muller101:
Look for a way and rape him

two bottles of doctor igegus koko cleanser is what he needs

Josh44s:


Worst advice. Mere looking at your face one can tell your puzsy is as wide as third mainland bridge. Biiitch you need Jesus.

Hahahahhahhahahahhahabahhahahaha, na otedola bridge or carter bridge. Anumpama. Why don't you give your own advice? Wicked soul.

Kindly give him boiled unripe plantain with vegetables regularly. Also make sure he take fruits like banana and water melon alot. Try this for a week and make sure he avoid sugary food and drink. I am telling you from experience.
May the Lord keep and protect your marriage.

jennyluv090:
Can somebody tell me where I have gone wrong. We have been married for 3 years and have a lovely son. We both want another child but my husband hardly touches me. He asked me to move to my room because the cry of the baby disturbs him at night. Now when I need sex badly i have to go to his room start initiate sex. No pre-intimacy. Most times, he tells me he s tired. On the other times he would penetrate me and even before i become wet in 3o seconds, he has released. I really dont know how to handle this. I love my husband. Im sure he s battling on how to solve his problem but he keeps blaming me infront of his family that i am the reason we dont have a second child. I have been tempted on one or 2 occasions to tell them about his bedroom problems, but i choose to save his ego.

Please help out!!

I can't be this kind of man, my wife must enjoy me. Back to the topic, my dear just talk to him about it. It might be a medical condition.....consult ur doctor

Alariwo2:


They say someone can't last for 30seconds, you're here preaching... how sure are you that his spermat.ozoa can swim (if atal he produces any)

Even the first child sef might be from OP's Ex.

Why dem sef dey marry okobo.. Later they'll be disturbing the cyberspace with their smelly married selves looking for illicit sex.
Nonsense

chai chai, why you de finish OP like this oh