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He says a relationship is supposed to have the financial, emotional and psychological support from both parties.

He also says men like to be spoiled too and not just the ladies…
“The reason I would not date a typical Nigerian girl, it is because most of y’all been taught that it Is okay not to support your partner at all, all you are there for is to give him sex and cook for him..then he provides everything and you don’t do nothing.

If you’re in a relationship with someone it is supposed to be like a partnership where y’all support yourselves financially emotionally and psychologically, but no you just want him to pay for every thing ..when it is valentine you don’t buy nothing for him but you except heaven and earth.

We do appreciate gift too, we like to be treated to a dinner date, we like ice cream too, everyone wants rich man but would not help any get rich. Am not saying spend all your money on a man but the thoughts count.”

Evaberry:
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Same way Nigerian men have been taught that house chores belongs to a woman

child rearing, cooking and making the marriage work is a woman's job


They've been taught that a woman's life belongs to them once they marry her and as such can treat her however they want. Good or bad.

They've been taught to see women as objects.

so mister shut up and don't come here complaining about women and their financial obligations.

IamKashyBaby:


I agree with him...

We ladies shud exert some efforts too..But the question here is: WHO TAUGHT YOUR NIGERIAN WOMEN TO HAVE THIS KIND OF MENTALITY

I believe this goes on and on in generation sha..Nigerian men spoiling their babes with expensive gifts and dickz without teaching them how to value simple things..

thepussyhunter:
evaberry taught them to have this shallow reasoning and mentality

Rukkydelta:
And if she supports her man financially. The man will still want to be a supreme god that won't help with house chores and will want to control the wife
Still expecting total submission, it's even written in the Bible that the man is to provide for the family and the woman is to take care of the home(in terms of house chores and co)
Future hubby just know that I'm ready to provide 30% financial input to our home but I will only be 70% submissive and not 100% or we can do it 50-50, then nobody is the head we will be equal
I promise to respect you and you should also respect me too. Don't yell at me cos I hate it when people yell at me instead talk to me if you are displease by what I'm doing then I will listen but when you yell I will show you my other side

Rukkydelta:
And if she supports her man financially. The man will still want to be a supreme god that won't help with house chores and will want to control the wife
Still expecting total submission, it's even written in the Bible that the man is to provide for the family and the woman is to take care of the home(in terms of house chores and co)
Future hubby just know that I'm ready to provide 30% financial input to our home but I will only be 70% submissive and not 100% or we can do it 50-50, then nobody is the head we will be equal
I promise to respect you and you should also respect me too. Don't yell at me cos I hate it when people yell at me instead talk to me if you are displease by what I'm doing then I will listen but when you yell I will show you my other side

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Rukkydelta:
Good morning

Evaberry:
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Same way Nigerian men have been taught that house chores belongs to a woman

child rearing, cooking and making the marriage work is a woman's job


They've been taught that a woman's life belongs to them once they marry her and as such can treat her however they want. Good or bad.

They've been taught to see women as objects.

so mister shut up and don't come here complaining about women and their financial obligations.