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Blueberrie:
Nice one! I think a man being the head of the family shouldnt be understood in such a deragotary way though. I believe it means every institution needs a leader and a guide, just like perhaps a school or country has. And a hubby should play that role well. I tend to be a feminist but in the family setting, I would prefer to have a leader and guide for my family..

AlmiqhteeAllah:
Lol....... I'm currently in the Seventh Heaven feasting with my subjects. I'm inviting you to the party.

Alright. Good night. Sleep tight, and chase away invading bedbugs with your snore.

AlmiqhteeAllah:
Well, the husband is not always right. There are times when the wife might have more reasonable solutions to problems, and if he thinks he's the "head" and the final decision maker, the same way "CHRIST IS THE HEAD OF THE CHURCH", then he wouldn't tolerate you questioning his "authority". Afterall, which Christian dares questions the words of Christ and find faults with them? THIS is why I'm attacking that orientation and structure.

Your husband is a human and not infallible. You both reason together and come to an agreement on what to do, since being a man doesn't make him instrinsically superior. Making him the head makes his opinions more compulsory and important than yours. And I do not see that as ideal.

GrandFinale2017:
will you shut up. Women are minorities and their opinion is like sheep to lion. A husband alone has the power of decision. Both The man and the wife's money belong to the man's control. Women are still slaves.
Thunder fire y'all feminists.
Cc goingape goingape1 goingape2 goingape3 misogynist2014

Blueberrie:
Too long to explain haha. If you have time watch Chimamanda's videos on feminism, or read her book on "we should all be feminists" or her excerpt on "How to raise your daughter a feminist". She explains it so well and only someone suffering fron weird issues would disagree with her points.

makydebbie:
Lol I doubt it.

Daeylar:
I don't snore and not a bed bug in sight . Seems like you have bedbugs and that's your solution for them

How was the party?

makydebbie:
That'll be cheating. His money is our money same with mine as our money too. If we start holding our money because we worked for it individually, then the oneness in our marriage evaporates.

KingTom:

makydebbie:
Good morning.

Daeylar:
You guys can't accuse some feminists of wanting to eat their cake and have it yet turn around and do the exact same thing,

If you want a 50/50 or whatever ratio where the wife joins her husband in providing for the family then you must also accept a 50/50 (or whatever agreed ratio) where the man joins in cooking, taking of the kids and doing of house chores, and I don't mean only when the woman is ill or when she is not available to do the chores. I mean even if the woman is around, the man still has to hold up his 50% or whatever ratio.

Or you stick to the traditional way where the man is the provider and the woman is the home maker.

50% everywhere or nothing.

Cc AlmiqhteeAllah what do you think?

KingTom:
Morning ma, what color should I tell my tailor, ahead of the wedding?

TEEBLUE88:
You got the hammer right on the head of the nail.

AlmiqhteeAllah:
Hahahaha....... Do I snore? I wouldn't know. You're unconscious while asleep.

Ah. The party. Salome was there to perform her magic. I got to see her dance of the seven veils. But Eris (Goddess of discord) felt scorned for being left out and came to create turmoil and spoiled the party. Discord came BECAUSE I didn't invite Discord. The paradox.

Good morning. Enjoyed your sleep?

IamLEGEND1:
Wrong. My money is mine. Her money is mine as well.

makydebbie:

Black and white with white gele.
BTW I hate white weddings and traditional, I prefer court. Very simple and less expensive.

Blueberrie:
Well you are right, and I agree with you. Thats why the Bible also says "and God saw that it wasnt good for a man to be alone so he formed a helper for him". The wife is there to help her husband make the right decisions as well, because of course sometimes he's gonna want to make the wrong choices.

AlmiqhteeAllah:
Hahahaha. Fine by me. I already do this with my girlfriend. The lazy man in me notwithstanding, I always get this urge to help out whenever I see her doing stuff - whatever kind of stuff.

I practice what I preach.

Daeylar:
Don't try and dodge, I hope you're not the kind of person that if your sleeping, someone can hear you snore from another room in the house LMAO

That's what you get when you don't invite everyone next time you won't leave people out

Goodmorning. I did, how was the night?

Daeylar:
Lol,

Yeah but I hope you will do it with your wife, even if your wife isn't doing anything you will cook and clean + house chores, not just helping when you see her doing it. after all, 50-50, lol,

Seems like some men seem to think that 50-50 means financial responsibility is shared but taking care of the home and kids + cooking is 100% the job of the wife, and that's not how 50-50 works.

KingTom:
So Na black Robe and wig things

makydebbie:
And koinkoin shoe.

Daeylar:
You guys can't accuse some feminists of wanting to eat their cake and have it yet turn around and do the exact same thing,

If you want a 50/50 or whatever ratio where the wife joins her husband in providing for the family then you must also accept a 50/50 (or whatever agreed ratio) where the man joins in cooking, taking of the kids and doing of house chores, and I don't mean only when the woman is ill or when she is not available to do the chores. I mean even if the woman is around, the man still has to hold up his 50% or whatever ratio.

Or you stick to the traditional way where the man is the provider and the woman is the home maker.

50% everywhere or nothing.

Cc AlmiqhteeAllah what do you think?

AlmiqhteeAllah:
Lol...... I don't see myself marrying anyone but her, so I don't expect that to change after marriage.

I have no problem with being in the Kitchen.

KingTom:
you are just in fact you're simply chai I no know wetin to talk again

deybholar:
My money is ours, his money is ours. We are partners. I can't help him squander his money while I save mine. where is the love?

AlmiqhteeAllah:
Well, the husband is not always right. There are times when the wife might have more reasonable solutions to problems, and if he thinks he's the "head" and the final decision maker, the same way "CHRIST IS THE HEAD OF THE CHURCH", then he wouldn't tolerate you questioning his "authority". Afterall, which Christian dares questions the words of Christ and find faults with them? THIS is why I'm attacking that orientation and structure.

Your husband is a human and not infallible. You both reason together and come to an agreement on what to do, since being a man doesn't make him instrinsically superior. Making him the head makes his opinions more compulsory and important than yours. And I do not see that as ideal.