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I greet everyone here!

There's this lady, a friend of mine, though not that close.
We use to call each other and stuffs like that.
It got to a point that I had it in mind to date her.
Though, I never told her plainly but I believe she knew my intentions.

During one of our discussions, she told me she's in a relationship. As a result of that I had to distance my self from her so as not to distract her so she could focus on her relationship.

I stopped calling her and stuffs like that.
After a month and some weeks she called me and started complaining that I abandoned her making her feel lonely.

I told her my reason but she refused taking it, that she expected me to truely find out if she's in a relationship or not and that she was trying my persistence if I truly love her etc... that she just called to tell me her mind.

But, me na guy wey no dey waste time to move on when am reasoning a lady and she's dulling.

I plainly told her gone are the days ladies play hard to get.

My people, how do I handle this matter?

I need advice!

Thanks

Gat no reasonable comment tho.

Let's wait for the elders

Cc tosyne2much

While we await their arrival, kindly Take her to amadioha shrine for cleansing

Moral lesson

Kindly waiting for the arrival of love doctors

ADEPETER2027 I sight you oo

tosyne2much:
Kindly waiting for the arrival of love doctors


ADEPETER2027 I sight you oo

So you pass the baton to LOVE DOCTORS abi

Kwantinue

BTW, me sef dey troway salute from this angle oo

She was actually in a relationship during those periods she didn't call you. Apparently she became an ex to someone and then she remembered you.

If she wasn't in a relationship and was interested in you, she would be calling periodically 'just to check on you'. This will make make you remember and toast her more so that she can agree and not look so cheap

Mr. Backup, that's what she took you as

adepeter2027:
So you pass the baton to LOVE DOCTORS abi

Kwantinue

BTW, me sef dey troway salute from this angle oo

The matter pass me ooo

tosyne2much:
The matter pass me ooo

Tor
Make we Dae wait for the pros....

SKYZZZ:
I greet everyone here!

There's this lady, a friend of mine, though not that close.
We use to call each other and stuffs like that.
It got to a point that I had it in mind to date her.
Though, I never told her plainly but I believe she knew my intentions.

During one of our discussions, she told me she's in a relationship. As a result of that I had to distance my self from her so as not to distract her so she could focus on her relationship.

I stopped calling her and stuffs like that.
After a month and some weeks she called me and started complaining that I abandoned her making her feel lonely.

I told her my reason but she refused taking it, that she expected me to truely find out if she's in a relationship or not and that she was trying my persistence if I truly love her etc... that she just called to tell me her mind.

But, me na guy wey no dey waste time to move on when am reasoning a lady and she's dulling.

I plainly told her gone are the days ladies play hard to get.

My people, how do I handle this matter?

I need advice!

Thanks

Lol, you gave her the green light like they usually tell guys but she was seriously in a relationship and didn't need you then but now her relationship has gone bad she wants you back.
Bro, you did very well. Don't waste your precious time with such girl. Move on

sometimes, ladies drop dat talk jst 2 test d guy or play hard 2 get bt 2 me, it's nt necessary, it's possible she wsnt in a relationship. Ntin bad in rolling wt her, besides, even if she is sumones ex, d new bae u wl hook up wt has bin wt sumone b4. If u must roll wt her, make sure u find out if she is presently in a relationship, bt if u dnt hv time to verify, Tel her u ar no longer interested 2 avoid "frndzone"

SKYZZZ:
I greet everyone here!

There's this lady, a friend of mine, though not that close.
We use to call each other and stuffs like that.
It got to a point that I had it in mind to date her.
Though, I never told her plainly but I believe she knew my intentions.

During one of our discussions, she told me she's in a relationship. As a result of that I had to distance my self from her so as not to distract her so she could focus on her relationship.

I stopped calling her and stuffs like that.
After a month and some weeks she called me and started complaining that I abandoned her making her feel lonely.

I told her my reason but she refused taking it, that she expected me to truely find out if she's in a relationship or not and that she was trying my persistence if I truly love her etc... that she just called to tell me her mind.

But, me na guy wey no dey waste time to move on when am reasoning a lady and she's dulling.

I plainly told her gone are the days ladies play hard to get.

My people, how do I handle this matter?

I need advice!

Thanks

I like how you played along but you disappointed me with the reply you gave her at last...



You don't expect her to fall cheaply, do you?

Even you go do shakara if woman toast you nah, haba.... Be gentle.

IamRaizo:
I like how you played along but you disappointed me with the reply you gave her at last...



You don't expect her to fall cheaply, do you?

Even you go do shakara if woman toast you nah, haba.... Be gentle.

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LOL! I gentle bro...

IAMSASHY:
sometimes, ladies drop dat talk jst 2 test d guy or play hard 2 get bt 2 me, it's nt necessary, it's possible she wsnt in a relationship. Ntin bad in rolling wt her, besides, even if she is sumones ex, d new bae u wl hook up wt has bin wt sumone b4. If u must roll wt her, make sure u find out if she is presently in a relationship, bt if u dnt hv time to verify, Tel her u ar no longer interested 2 avoid "frndzone"

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Thanks!