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Haba @ op you just disappointed the man God use to bless you. Common the least you would have done is to ignore his comment. And by doing that does not make you a fool. Trust me is not every words will must reply.
To be honest with you, the moment you said you have gotten the mattress the next I was expecting is for you to upload pic , because that was the promise you made at the early stage . But even if certain circumstance beyond your control prevented you from uploading, that does not mean you should go this far.

Do have a wonderful and glorious new week.

Godchild2015:
Haba @ op you just disappointed the man God use to bless you. Common the least you would have done is to ignore his comment. And by doing that does not make you a fool. Trust me is not every words will must reply.
To be honest with you, the moment you said you have gotten the mattress the next I was expecting is for you to upload pic , because that was the promise you made at the early stage . But even if certain circumstance beyond your control prevented you from uploading, that does not mean you should go this far.

Do have a wonderful and glorious new week.

I'm sorry ma'am, just that some senseless people are filled with hatred here. I was about uploading the pictures until I came online and saw some foolish comments here and I changed my mind. It was my decision to upload the pix and it's also my decision not to upload it any longer. How should this be someone's headache? No be like na she dash me d moni o

Smh

BentiBenti:
I'm sorry ma'am, just that some senseless people are filled with hatred here. I was about uploading the pictures until I came online and saw some foolish comments here and I changed my mind. It was my decision to upload the pix and it's also my decision not to upload it any longer. How should this be someone's headache? No be like na she dash me d moni o

Smh

this is rubbish to be honest. The onus lies on you to proof you are not a scam. Your excuses don't hold water.

I expect to see the receipt within 24 hours or will go the extra mile.

Number one red flag is yiu creating a new account to ask for help, why not use your old account

Second is that, you don't run mouths like an idiot, yes she might have sounded bitter, she may have questioned your genuine claims, good intentions can be misunderstood to be bad sometimes, but does that give you licence to run your mouth.

abescom:
this is rubbish to be honest. The onus lies on you to proof you are not a scam. Your excuses don't hold water.

I expect to see the receipt within 24 hours or will go the extra mile.

alright boss, I'm sending it to your email today.

BentiBenti:
alright boss, I'm sending it to your email today.

You sent me a mail at 6:51am saying "

Good morning boss, I'm sorry for what's going on on nairaland. It will
surprise you to know that I'm done tidying my house and ready to pack
in tomorrow. I will be sending you a picture of the mattress I bought
with the receipt today. I would've done it there, but I was so busy to
come online, just when I thought of uploading it there, the comments
changed my mind. I'm sorry, I can't disappoint you. Go back and view
the first picture there so that you will believe me when I send you
the next pictures. God bless u

where is the picture? Mind you, I can just with a simple affidavit done by my friend have your bank accounts blocked.

I out of goodwill helped but your behaviour so far shows I misjudged. Losing my patience now.

abescom:
You sent me a mail at 6:51am saying " where is the picture? Mind you, I can just with a simple affidavit done by my friend have your bank accounts blocked.

I out of goodwill helped but your behaviour so far shows I misjudged. Losing my patience now.

are you threatening me or what? I told you I'm packing in tomorrow and whenever am chanced today that I'll go over to the place, take some shots and send it to you. Has 24hrs passed already? Or did I in anyway forced you to send me the money that you want to get my account blocked? Smh

BentiBenti:
are you threatening me or what? I told you I'm packing in tomorrow and whenever am chanced today that I'll go over to the place, take some shots and send it to you. Has 24hrs passed already? Or did I in anyway forced you to send me the money that you want to get my account blocked? Smh

Dis is bad,see how u are pleading b4 he gave u d money u shouldnt talk/write like dis it only confirm dat does against u are correct

I'm so disappointed in you OP. When you were begging for help, you never spoke in this manner, as soon as you got what you were looking for, you started insulting every tom dick and harry. It's quite a shame and disheartening seeing this useless attitude on display.

If actually you are fake, karma will surely visit you and if you are not, you need to apologise to the person that helped you.

I can't believe what I just read....what a world

Hmmm..Speechless

kylie01:
I'm so disappointed in you OP. When you were begging for help, you never spoke in this manner, as soon as you got what you were looking for, you started insulting every tom dick and harry. It's quite a shame and disheartening seeing this useless attitude on display.

If actually you are fake, karma will surely visit you and if you are not, you need to apologise to the person that helped you.

thanks for the advice.. Just that I hate when people criticize me for the wrong reason(s). From the inbox that my helper leaked, you saw when I told him that I'll go to my new apartment today and take some shots. He even said that he gave me just 24hrs to do that which half of it has not even gone. But jst when I came online, he already leaked our chat and started threatening me as if I stole his money. Well, to be sincere with you guys, I bought the foam, but from a friend for the sum of N24,500 and I'm still waiting for him to find the receipt and send to me. I made a better choice to buy from him instead of the new one for 19k because his own is very big. I later went to my apartment today to set things up and below is the picture of my new room. You can compare it with the first picture I posted here. This is to show my sincerity. I hereby apologized to everybody here that I offended and I beg my helper not to look into my bad side and forgive me. He promised to send me some money this week. If it still pleases him to send, I'll still be thankful.
So here's the pic

Cc: Abescom

BentiBenti:
are you threatening me or what? I told you I'm packing in tomorrow and whenever am chanced today that I'll go over to the place, take some shots and send it to you. Has 24hrs passed already? Or did I in anyway forced you to send me the money that you want to get my account blocked? Smh

Stop Contradicting yourself. In your previous post, you said you already took some shots and wanted to upload pics before you changed your mind.

Question 1. Did you delete the previous shots you took waiting to take another?

Question 2. You never said you were going to buy a second hand mattress is it because the issue of receipt came up that you produced a used mattress?

Not my business anyway. I`m outta here

BentiBenti:
you must be a fool. Ma come snap receipt and mattress shw u say na u give me money. When I dey beg 4 here 4 person to dash me mattress u bin dey slp. Enemy of progress like u.. Dz is why we will never be on d same level with the whites. U can't 4 once be happy abt other people's success. Person dash me mattress, instead of u 2 thank him n encourage hz movement.. U dey come here come display ur hate n jealousness calling me a scammer as if u sabi me. The person that even sent d moni is not even concern abt d pix because he knws he has done hz part.. How d pix go help u? How does it make me a scammer? That I begged 4 a mattress n someone offered to give me money instead now makes me a scammer. Quote me again n rot in hell.. Idiot of a monkey u are. Naso dat one dey enter every thread dey beg person to dash am car wey dem no dey too too use again.. But came here n criticize me 4 begging 4 a common mattress.. Hypocrites everywhere. God punish u if u've neva seek for someone's help in ur life b4. Iwang!!

Hey,where are you running to Come back here You"yaff finished today Shay you kno the op, is so..bad-mouthed

MissIndependent:
Stop Contradicting yourself. In your previous post, you said you already took some shots and wanted to upload pics before you changed your mind.

Question 1. Did you delete the previous shots you took waiting to take another?

Question 2. You never said you were going to buy a second hand mattress is it because the issue of receipt came up that you produced a used mattress?

Not my business anyway. I`m outta here

so what is bad in buying a second hand? Or u think I can't get a fake receipt for you guys? I'm above all that pls. If u can't bliv me, then forget.. Don't want anybody here to vex me any longer.. Na poverty cause all dz nonsense sha

BentiBenti:
so what is bad in buying a second hand? Or u think I can't get a fake receipt for you guys? I'm above all that pls. If u can't bliv me, then forget.. Don't want anybody here to vex me any longer.. Na poverty cause all dz nonsense sha

Its like you have comprehension issues. Where in my post did i say anything was bad in buying a second hand mattress? Mr man you dint need to prove anything for me but to the person that sent you the money. Dassall...ciao

BentiBenti:
thanks for the advice.. Just that I hate when people criticize me for the wrong reason(s). From the inbox that my helper leaked, you saw when I told him that I'll go to my new apartment today and take some shots. He even said that he gave me just 24hrs to do that which half of it has not even gone. But jst when I came online, he already leaked our chat and started threatening me as if I stole his money. Well, to be sincere with you guys, I bought the foam, but from a friend for the sum of N24,500 and I'm still waiting for him to find the receipt and send to me. I made a better choice to buy from him instead of the new one for 19k because his own is very big. I later went to my apartment today to set things up and below is the picture of my new room. You can compare it with the first picture I posted here. This is to show my sincerity. I hereby apologized to everybody here that I offended and I beg my helper not to look into my bad side and forgive me. He promised to send me some money this week. If it still pleases him to send, I'll still be thankful.
So here's the pic

Cc: Abescom

Listen man, if my wife had her way, she will send you more than x5 of the amount you asked for but I can't take the risk. We felt if someone could be so desperate for a mattress ( when we have 3 rooms with each having it own mattress and can only sleep on one, not trying to be arrogant but return the glory to the GOOD LORD) such a person should be helped to be dependent but you have shown yourself.

I am of the believe that we are custodians of everything we are given by the GOOD LORD and everything we are given should be spread to others but your behaviour to me and the other commenters/commentors on this thread is SHOCKING.

It is appalling, honestly. The 19k I sent you is not even close to being the problem but your pathetic behaviour.

What were you expecting? That people should not question your claim? I guess you don't expect to be interviewed when you apply for a job because it is YOU and no one should interview you.

I am disgusted.

Mr Abescom,

Thank you for helping. Admin please bring down the post. OP's attitude is so irritating.

kylie01:
Mr Abescom,

Thank you for helping. Admin please bring down the post. OP's attitude is so irritating.

Never seen such a behaviour in my 31 years on earth. Even if people put him on the front burner, he should have known that is expected considering the behaviour of many.

I wonder if he ever attends interviews or expect to be given a job.

BentiBenti u must be joking if u think abescom will help u again with those words of urs,u know how Nl is so ur not suppose to type those insulting words.Peace

I've been following this thread since the op created it, though silently and I'm really disappointed and shocked at the op's sarcastic and foolish replies to comments. All I can say is THE GOOD LORD bless you @abescom for your help and support to the op.

abescom:
Listen man, if my wife had her way, she will send you more than x5 of the amount you asked for but I can't take the risk. We felt if someone could be so desperate for a mattress ( when we have 3 rooms with each having it own mattress and can only sleep on one, not trying to be arrogant but return the glory to the GOOD LORD) such a person should be helped to be dependent but you have shown yourself.

I am of the believe that we are custodians of everything we are given by the GOOD LORD and everything we are given should be spread to others but your behaviour to me and the other commenters/commentors on this thread is SHOCKING.

It is appalling, honestly. The 19k I sent you is not even close to being the problem but your pathetic behaviour.

What were you expecting? That people should not question your claim? I guess you don't expect to be interviewed when you apply for a job because it is YOU and no one should interview you.

I am disgusted.

I'm very sorry sir, I felt so bad seeing people calling me a scammer. Not like they questioned my claims like you wrote up there, but they abused and insulted me by calling me a scammer. A reasonable person would've just simply remind me of the promise I made earlier rather than jumping to start accusing me of robbing you in disguise. Go back to the comments that followed my own after I thanked you and you'll see where my anger rose from. I didn't have anything to hide from you, just that I was very busy trying to tidy up my things and my work was not even helping matters. That was why I delayed, not like I forgot. The truth is, I was just angry and I'm sorry I couldn't control my anger. That is the worst thing I hate in my life, for someone to accuse me of what I've not done.. Even my mum knows the kind of anger I normally exhibit. But apart from that, I'm a very respectful & a jovial person you'll ever come across in your life. Accept my apology sir, you've done so much for you to dislike me. I know I don't deserve anything from you, but just forgive me on this one. So many things on my mind now.. It's not easy to be an orphan and I'm fighting in every possible means to succeed in life. I apologize once again to each an everyone here I had problems with, forgive and forget.. And also be always reasonable enough before you jump to conclude on matters you know notin of

I'm sorry

Preetiex:
BentiBenti u must be joking if u think abescom will help u again with those words of urs,u know how Nl is so ur not suppose to type those insulting words.Peace

I'm sorry.. I was just angry

BentiBenti:
I'm sorry.. I was just angry

u should apologize to abescom,he helped u wen pple were doubting u

i think abescom is a nick for abbey, right? abeg forgive d guy,miss independent & co. pls let us bury d hatchet ejoo,biko forgive & forget

Preetiex:
u should apologize to abescom,he helped u wen pple were doubting u

I think he has done that already. Abescom should just forgive the dude. I feel his frustration

Foxyn:
I think he has done that already. Abescom should just forgive the dude. I feel his frustration

u know how Nl is, scammers are much but we are not all scammers we should take it easy with our comment wen pple ask for help

Preetiex:
u know how Nl is, scammers are much but we are not all scammers we should take it easy with our comment wen pple ask for help

that is why the ones that are not scammers get angry easily when they're called or seen as one like in the Case of the Op. I was thinking his helper will understand and overlook since he didn't do it to gain anything from him.

Jesus what did I just read? No @ op why na ? Why? this should not be you. Pls let forget and forgive whatever he had said. @op , I have never seen or contacted you by any means.But I will advice you never reply when angried, no matter what.

@abescom, pls let go of his short coming . Heaven had rewarded you for the assistant you gave to the ungrateful soul. This is one of the reason people refused to help when the need come. Imagine how arrogant he was immediately he got what he needed from you. This show the kind of person he his in real life.

What a shame.

Godchild2015:
Jesus what did I just read? No @ op why na ? Why? this should not be you. Pls let forget and forgive whatever he had said. @op , I have never seen or contacted you by any means.But I will advice you never reply when angried, no matter what.

@absecom, pls let go of his short coming . Heaven had rewarded you for the assistant you gave to the ungrateful soul. This is one of the reason people refused to help when the need come. Imagine how arrogant he was immediately he got what he needed from you. This show the kind of person he his in real life.

What a shame.

IMO, I don't think the Op was ungrateful. Glance through the whole comments again. He appreciated what his helper did.

Preetiex:
i think abescom is a nick for abbey, right? abeg forgive d guy,miss independent & co. pls let us bury d hatchet ejoo,biko forgive & forget

yes, my name is Abiodun. Hence Abbey.