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I Need Your Help And Advise Please Seun by richardchuckwu: 6:01pm On Oct 11, 2017
Evening NAIRALANDers
I need your help.
I opened this account because you all know me so need to cover myself too. I am married and very soon my wife will put to bed. But my father is late an igbo man from Delta anyway. But since my father died my grandma gave me yoruba names because we are yorubas. I see it as a normal thing due to what my father went through in the hands of his families. But now am a man and a father soonest too. Now the thing is i dont want my late father's name to die just like that. Now what i plan doing is this: all my children will have my late father's name as their middle names all. Let me show you an example. Say i have 3 kids now named Seun, Mynd44 and miss89, i give them the names like these SEUN CHUKWUEBUKA Akeem and mynd44 CHUKWUEBUKA Akeem & miss89 CHUKWUEBUKA Akeem. Please is it ok or what do you all think? Please advise no insults.

SEUN, mynd44, Lalasticlala please help me out I don't want my father's name to die like that.
Re: I Need Your Help And Advise Please Seun by Nobody: 6:03pm On Oct 11, 2017
This your matter eh grin

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Re: I Need Your Help And Advise Please Seun by richardchuckwu: 6:05pm On Oct 11, 2017
Lawlahdey:
This your matter eh grin


Lalasticlala, seun, mynd44, abeg do something abi make i put snake. I need advice please push this to FP.

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Re: I Need Your Help And Advise Please Seun by kinibigdeal(m): 6:06pm On Oct 11, 2017
Lord have mercy! what on earth do you want Nairalanders to do? I believe you should have been a grown up man by now but your question is out of this world

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Re: I Need Your Help And Advise Please Seun by richardchuckwu: 6:07pm On Oct 11, 2017
kinibigdeal:
Lord have mercy! what on earth do you want Nairalanders to do? I believe you should have been a grown up man by now but your question is out of this world
Just advise if its ok to put my father's name as their middle names.
Re: I Need Your Help And Advise Please Seun by Nobody: 6:08pm On Oct 11, 2017
let me come and be going

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Re: I Need Your Help And Advise Please Seun by kinibigdeal(m): 6:10pm On Oct 11, 2017
richardchuckwu:

Just advise if its ok to put my father's name as their middle names.

How does the question sound to you and how will you decide the right opinion from many under-aged in here? Man! you know the right thing, go for it
Re: I Need Your Help And Advise Please Seun by richardchuckwu: 6:12pm On Oct 11, 2017
kinibigdeal:


How does the question sound to you and how will you decide the right opinion from many under-aged in here? Man! you know the right thing, go for it

Is it right to do dat?
Give all of dem my late father's name as their middle names
Re: I Need Your Help And Advise Please Seun by braimeddy: 6:25pm On Oct 11, 2017
The way u re caling the names of these mods is not making me to understand what u re trying to say clearly
richardchuckwu:
Evening NAIRALANDers
I need your help.
I opened this account because you all know me so need to cover myself too. I am married and very soon my wife will put to bed. But my father is late an igbo man from Delta anyway. But since my father died my grandma gave me yoruba names because we are yorubas. I see it as a normal thing due to what my father went through in the hands of his families. But now am a man and a father soonest too. Now the thing is i dont want my late father's name to die just like that. Now what i plan doing is this: all my children will have my late father's name as their middle names all. Let me show you an example. Say i have 3 kids now named Seun, Mynd44 and miss89, i give them the names like these SEUN CHUKWUEBUKA Akeem and mynd44 CHUKWUEBUKA Akeem & miss89 CHUKWUEBUKA Akeem. Please is it ok or what do you all think? Please advise no insults.

SEUN, mynd44, Lalasticlala please help me out I don't want my father's name to die like that.

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Re: I Need Your Help And Advise Please Seun by kinibigdeal(m): 6:29pm On Oct 11, 2017
richardchuckwu:

Is it right to do dat? Give all of dem my late father's name as their middle names
If that is your wish and your wish are not contrary to your self belief
Re: I Need Your Help And Advise Please Seun by Antina(f): 6:31pm On Oct 11, 2017
richardchuckwu:
Evening NAIRALANDers
I need your help.
I opened this account because you all know me so need to cover myself too. I am married and very soon my wife will put to bed. But my father is late an igbo man from Delta anyway. But since my father died my grandma gave me yoruba names because we are yorubas. I see it as a normal thing due to what my father went through in the hands of his families. But now am a man and a father soonest too. Now the thing is i dont want my late father's name to die just like that. Now what i plan doing is this: all my children will have my late father's name as their middle names all. Let me show you an example. Say i have 3 kids now named Seun, Mynd44 and miss89, i give them the names like these SEUN CHUKWUEBUKA Akeem and mynd44 CHUKWUEBUKA Akeem & miss89 CHUKWUEBUKA Akeem. Please is it ok or what do you all think? Please advise no insults.

SEUN, mynd44, Lalasticlala please help me out I don't want my father's name to die like that.

Why not give your first son your father's name(as middle name) and name others differently from that.

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Re: I Need Your Help And Advise Please Seun by richardchuckwu: 7:21pm On Oct 11, 2017
Antina:


Why not give your first son your father's name(as middle name) and name others differently from that.

Thank you
This will definitely b done
Chei i love this your idea.
Re: I Need Your Help And Advise Please Seun by richardchuckwu: 7:22pm On Oct 11, 2017
braimeddy:
The way u re caling the names of these mods is not making me to understand what u re trying to say clearly

As in advice as to if my children have my father's name as their middle names is not wrong. I mean the 3 of them having same middle names.
Re: I Need Your Help And Advise Please Seun by Diamond23(f): 7:50pm On Oct 11, 2017
[color=#770077][/color]Hw can u be Yoruba when ur father is from the East....am nt understanding....No offence thou!

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Re: I Need Your Help And Advise Please Seun by Zdoh(m): 8:56pm On Oct 11, 2017
grin cool Chai
Re: I Need Your Help And Advise Please Seun by OLUWAcypris1(f): 9:52pm On Oct 11, 2017
Diamond23:
[color=#770077][/color]Hw can u be Yoruba when ur father is from the East....am nt understanding....No offence thou!
I tink his grandma and mother are Yoruba people that's why they gave him Yoruba names and may be his father din't pay his mother's Bride price before he died that's why they gave him Yoruba names
Re: I Need Your Help And Advise Please Seun by presentley: 10:40pm On Oct 11, 2017
Which kind question be this?

Re: I Need Your Help And Advise Please Seun by richardchuckwu: 11:07pm On Oct 11, 2017
Diamond23:
[color=#770077][/color]Hw can u be Yoruba when ur father is from the East....am nt understanding....No offence thou!
Dey both met in LASU back den she yoruba n he is from Delta
Re: I Need Your Help And Advise Please Seun by richardchuckwu: 11:08pm On Oct 11, 2017
OLUWAcypris1:
I tink his grandma and mother are Yoruba people that's why they gave him Yoruba names and may be his father din't pay his mother's Bride price before he died that's why they gave him Yoruba names

U right ma'am. On point
Re: I Need Your Help And Advise Please Seun by eyinjuege: 11:11pm On Oct 11, 2017
richardchuckwu:

Just advise if its ok to put my father's name as their middle names.

It's unfair on your children to all have the same middle name, or a middle name not befitting e.g a girl bearing a boys name.
To solve this, just do a change of name officially, and start bearing your father's name as your surname.
Then your children can have your fathers name as their surname too.
Everyone will have the same surname.

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Re: I Need Your Help And Advise Please Seun by richardchuckwu: 11:16pm On Oct 11, 2017
eyinjuege:


It's unfair on your children to all have the same middle name, or a middle name not befitting e.g a girl bearing a boys name.
To solve this, just do a change of name officially, and start bearing your father's name as your surname.
Then your children can have your fathers name as their surname too.
Everyone will have the same surname.
Thank you madam/sir.
But where i work I can't do dat for now. Long process
Re: I Need Your Help And Advise Please Seun by Diamond23(f): 8:48am On Oct 12, 2017
[color=#770077][/color]
OLUWAcypris1:
I tink his grandma and mother are Yoruba people that's why they gave him Yoruba names and may be his father din't pay his mother's Bride price before he died that's why they gave him Yoruba names
Exactly ma thought cuz in Igbo land once the bride price of a lady is paid irrespective of her trib,her husband's surname becomes her surname and dat of her children
Re: I Need Your Help And Advise Please Seun by Diamond23(f): 9:16am On Oct 12, 2017
richardchuckwu:

Dey both met in LASU back den she yoruba n he is from Delta
[color=#770077][/color]Just wanted to know if he paid her bride price or if he z a love child
Re: I Need Your Help And Advise Please Seun by sisisioge: 11:50am On Oct 12, 2017
grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin


We love your daddy too...indeed God is bigger than the biggest. Chukwuebuka ee!!
Re: I Need Your Help And Advise Please Seun by ImaIma1(f): 2:10pm On Oct 12, 2017
Just try not to do anything that will complicate your children's lives. Your father's name doesn't have to reflect. You might do that and your daughters get married and change their names or your son decides to do a change of name when he is older. What then?

Talk to an elder or someone in authority for advice
Re: I Need Your Help And Advise Please Seun by Pearl05(f): 2:29pm On Oct 12, 2017
Do change of name, assuming you bears Yinka senu Kunle ( kunle as maternal surname). You can change to Yinka Nnamdi Chukwuma( Chukwuma being your father's name)

You give your children names like Emeka kola Chulwuma.
Re: I Need Your Help And Advise Please Seun by Nobody: 6:08pm On Oct 12, 2017
richardchuckwu:
Evening NAIRALANDers
I need your help.
I opened this account because you all know me so need to cover myself too. I am married and very soon my wife will put to bed. But my father is late an igbo man from Delta anyway. But since my father died my grandma gave me yoruba names because we are yorubas. I see it as a normal thing due to what my father went through in the hands of his families. But now am a man and a father soonest too. Now the thing is i dont want my late father's name to die just like that. Now what i plan doing is this: all my children will have my late father's name as their middle names all. Let me show you an example. Say i have 3 kids now named Seun, Mynd44 and miss89, i give them the names like these SEUN CHUKWUEBUKA Akeem and mynd44 CHUKWUEBUKA Akeem & miss89 CHUKWUEBUKA Akeem. Please is it ok or what do you all think? Please advise no insults.

SEUN, mynd44, Lalasticlala please help me out I don't want my father's name to die like that.


Op this shouldn't be an issue. you just have to change the surname you can give them another middle name for example Bright chinedu chukwuebuka-akeem.

your father name becomes their surname AnD their children(your grandchildren) will bear these names. instead of leaving it just as a middle name. just hyphenate both names. add an hyphen and everything is okay
Re: I Need Your Help And Advise Please Seun by coolcatty: 6:14pm On Oct 12, 2017
Please don't have kids yet... You are not mentally, emotionally and intellectually stable to procreate.


See someone's reasoning and thinking... Tufiakwa.
Re: I Need Your Help And Advise Please Seun by AmuDimpka: 6:52pm On Oct 12, 2017
No
richardchuckwu:
Evening NAIRALANDers
I need your help.
I opened this account because you all know me so need to cover myself too. I am married and very soon my wife will put to bed. But my father is late an igbo man from Delta anyway. But since my father died my grandma gave me yoruba names because we are yorubas. I see it as a normal thing due to what my father went through in the hands of his families. But now am a man and a father soonest too. Now the thing is i dont want my late father's name to die just like that. Now what i plan doing is this: all my children will have my late father's name as their middle names all. Let me show you an example. Say i have 3 kids now named Seun, Mynd44 and miss89, i give them the names like these SEUN CHUKWUEBUKA Akeem and mynd44 CHUKWUEBUKA Akeem & miss89 CHUKWUEBUKA Akeem. Please is it ok or what do you all think? Please advise no insults.

SEUN, mynd44, Lalasticlala please help me out I don't want my father's name to die like that.

First thing ..you don't mix up your origin...bearing a Yoruba name doesn't make you a Yoruba...hausa and Yoruba bear Arab names like Ibrahim , muhammed that didn't make them Arabs


Now to make it easier for you...you are from the area of your father...and you are an Igbo man. You can't and won't be a Yoruba man....now start speaking Igbo, identify with Igbo and above all try visit your family


This is one basic things I hate about inter tribal things.mmmit confuses the children


Don't be an efulefu
Re: I Need Your Help And Advise Please Seun by AmuDimpka: 6:53pm On Oct 12, 2017
Are you stupid....or retarded ....how can you out yoirvfayers name as middle name

May your kids put your surname as a middle name
richardchuckwu:

Just advise if its ok to put my father's name as their middle names.
Re: I Need Your Help And Advise Please Seun by AmuDimpka: 6:55pm On Oct 12, 2017
Just go to court swear the freaking affidavit and do a change of name simple

Are you retarded

richardchuckwu:

Thank you madam/sir.
But where i work I can't do dat for now. Long process
Re: I Need Your Help And Advise Please Seun by richardchuckwu: 3:39pm On Oct 13, 2017
AmuDimpka:
Are you stupid....or retarded ....how can you out yoirvfayers name as middle name

May your kids put your surname as a middle name
E neva reach na
Na advise o

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