Growing up, was a bit strange for me, I had always had that special girl that will never see how much I love her. At first I kept hoping that my special girl will realise how much I care and love me in return with time but it never happened, now am 22. The first girl I really actually loved was my Primary One Classmate but at first it was all that Childhood crush stuff, she travelled out and I never saw her again until I was thirteen, She came back and ever since then she started stressing more on my Education and being great, when I saw her again in 2013 shes all grown and told me she is in a serious relationship and this year when we saw again she appologised for not informing me about her wedding, I was hurt but my real problem is that over all these years, it all had been wrong love, lots of other girls running after me but the one I truely desire and love for one reason or the other will never love or see me the way I do, now I am 22 and never really been in love, could there be something am not doing right. The worst part of it all is that those girls I truelly love will care the best but will never open their heart to me that is the most hurting, why be nice if they dont love. I am confused, needs help still praying to find love though.

na waoh. true love is a fabrication of the mind and brain...leave girls,acquire currency & hold on to ur bible true satisfaction lies in there ..

coursehybridrep:
na waoh. true love is a fabrication of the mind and brain...leave girls,acquire currency & hold on to ur bible true satisfaction lies in there ..

I am working, I am making my own level of Income but I am loosing concetration everyday without a woman I love by me, I becomes much less lively, I cant hang around guys much becuase the doctor told me not to take alchohol and I dont like being a fun killer so I dont want ruin a good time for my guys by being the odd guy, I am loosing my self my communication with God is becoming limited,

Have hope sir

Nigga, change your circle...
You gotta meet new people...

Alexanity:
Growing up, was a bit strange for me, I had always had that special girl that will never see how much I love her. At first I kept hoping that my special girl will realise how much I care and love me in return with time but it never happened, now am 22. The first girl I really actually loved was my Primary One Classmate but at first it was all that Childhood crush stuff, she travelled out and I never saw her again until I was thirteen, She came back and ever since then she started stressing more on my Education and being great, when I saw her again in 2013 shes all grown and told me she is in a serious relationship and this year when we saw again she appologised for not informing me about her wedding, I was hurt but my real problem is that over all these years, it all had been wrong love, lots of other girls running after me but the one I truely desire and love for one reason or the other will never love or see me the way I do, now I am 22 and never really been in love, could there be something am not doing right. The worst part of it all is that those girls I truelly love will care the best but will never open their heart to me that is the most hurting, why be nice if they dont love. I am confused, needs help still praying to find love though.

bro your matter tire me oo. all this tread on dating wey dey nl, you no dey follow them ni. oya go follow this moniker HARDON

2dice01:
Have hope sir

I think hope is the only thing left for me to have, but honestly, I never believed something as abstract as love can have such a damaging impact, but it got this far a ruin for me becuase most people in my crew dont even see a thing in love they encouraged me to work hard, now how do I even enjoy the product of the hard work, When no one see an emptyness and coldness of a serial loner,

Alexanity:

I think hope is the only thing left for me to have, but honestly, I never believed something as abstract as love can have such a damaging impact, but it got this far a ruin for me becuase most people in my crew dont even see a thing in love they encouraged me to work hard, now how do I even enjoy the product of the hard work, When no one see an emptyness and coldness of a serial loner,

you are only 22 diss love you are searching go tire you my friend...


So you mean all the girls you like don't like you even as a friend

oloyolo:


bro your matter tire me oo. all this tread on dating wey dey nl, you no dey follow them ni. oya go follow this moniker HARDON

I dey follow those threads Sir they are most of the time encouraging but the comments are always emphasizing hardwork and believe in love on your own

2dice01:
you are only 22 diss love you are searching go tire you my friend...


So you mean all the girls you like don't like you even as a friend

I do have friends who are girls and like me the problem is that those I dont have feelings for are those that always falling deeply in love with me but those I have feelings for will not, I had tried developing feelings for those that love me but it never worked.

Alexanity:

I do have friends who are girls and like me the problem is that those I dont have feelings for are those that always falling deeply in love with me but those I have feelings for will not, I had tried developing feelings for those that love me but it never worked.

its simple my friend...
You need to know how aťtraction works...

2dice01:
its simple my friend...
You need to know how aťtraction works...

Please dear, how does attraction work

Alexanity:

I do have friends who are girls and like me the problem is that those I dont have feelings for are those that always falling deeply in love with me but those I have feelings for will not, I had tried developing feelings for those that love me but it never worked.

My dear, don't keep sleepless nights cos of this issue.

The reality is the time and moment for u to enjoy relationships or having gf or a lover is not now.
No matter how hard u try.
Have been in your situation before, upon my beauty back then.
So forget babes for now and focus on building yourself and career.

Babes that you trip For and like will come your way at the right time. This is not the time, don't fret. Your stars or will I say God wants u to concentrate on more fruitful ventures like biz or career. So chill. Nothing is wrong with u.

It's not time for love in your life right now.


And when the right time comes, only you go taya with the numerous babes of your choice seeking for your love and attention.

You will come back to Maryland and ask with a topic : Please am. In love with three women, whom do you all think is the right one for a wife.

Alexanity:

Please dear, how does attraction work

https://www.nairaland.com/2893475/dating-drills-guys-only#42357507

That's my 2cent

alexialin:






My dear, don't keep sleepless nights cos of this issue.

The reality is the time and moment for u to enjoy relationships or having gf or a lover is not now.
No matter how hard u try.
Have been in your situation before, upon my beauty back then.
So forget babes for now and focus on building yourself and career.

Babes that you trip For and like will come your way at the right time. This is not the time, don't fret. Your stars or will I say God wants u to concentrate on more fruitful ventures like biz or career. So chill. Nothing is wrong with u.

It's not time for love in your life right now.


And when the right time comes, only you go taya with the numerous babes of your choice seeking for your love and attention.

You will come back to Maryland and ask with a topic : Please am. In love with three women, whom do you all think is the right one for a wife.

Oh thanks, nice piece, you made my night, let me go to sleep, see you some other time, thanks you guys for lending me your voice, Really appreciate you all

Alexanity:

Oh thanks, nice piece, you made my night, let me go to sleep, see you some other time, thanks you guys for lending me your voice, Really appreciate you all

You are welcome


Rest well.
Goodnight.

Since u hav those that luv u, all u need to do is to give one of them a chance. From there, u will learn one or two things. Particularly how to luv and be loved.

At 22, focus less on love and more on your life goals. Get a regular girlfriend to keep yourself on training for marriage but don't be carried away by it.