Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / NewStats: 3,162,467 members, 7,850,624 topics. Date: Wednesday, 05 June 2024 at 06:10 AM |
Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Family / How To Convince Parents That Tribe Doesn't Matter In Marriage? (29291 Views)
How Do I Convince My Family To Allow Me Marry An Osu / Does Religious Differences Matter In Marriage? / My Pregnant Girlfriend Wants Abortion. How Do I Convince Her To Keep It? (2) (3) (4)
(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) (Reply) (Go Down)
Re: How To Convince Parents That Tribe Doesn't Matter In Marriage? by tommynico(m): 5:14pm On Oct 17, 2017 |
tossie101:No time abeg.....but still you've still got to change your mindset. |
Re: How To Convince Parents That Tribe Doesn't Matter In Marriage? by coluka: 5:14pm On Oct 17, 2017 |
tommynico: You are the one who is stupid. Did you read what your useless Yoruba sister said about Igbo women that made me respond in that manner? You guys cannot just come here and insult igbos and expect us to just swallow the bullshit and keep quiet. Go and condemn your Yoruba sister for her comments first. I was only responding to her provocation 5 Likes |
Re: How To Convince Parents That Tribe Doesn't Matter In Marriage? by coluka: 5:14pm On Oct 17, 2017 |
tommynico: You are the one who is stupid. Did you read what your useless Yoruba sister said about Igbo women that made me respond in that manner? You guys cannot just come here and insult igbos and expect us to just swallow the bullshit and keep quiet. Go and condemn your Yoruba sister for her comments first. I was only responding to her provocative remarks 4 Likes |
Re: How To Convince Parents That Tribe Doesn't Matter In Marriage? by Mikeal09: 5:14pm On Oct 17, 2017 |
sirxbit:You Think? |
Re: How To Convince Parents That Tribe Doesn't Matter In Marriage? by tommynico(m): 5:15pm On Oct 17, 2017 |
coluka:You are more stupid my dear, but what did she really say? |
Re: How To Convince Parents That Tribe Doesn't Matter In Marriage? by vicben27(m): 5:18pm On Oct 17, 2017 |
for me when it comes to marriage tribe matters, I can't afford to have children who have lost their heritage because of my marrying outside my tribe. soo I'll say fuccck that feeling called finding love out my tribe we chose who to Love! I've Love ! my advice the word of elders are words of wisdom. on the other hand follow your heart. in rihana's "we found love in a hopeless place." 3 Likes |
Re: How To Convince Parents That Tribe Doesn't Matter In Marriage? by tossie101(f): 5:20pm On Oct 17, 2017 |
Slymonster: u dont kno the story.... becoz the whole family gave the girl everything. We even sacrified our brothers love for her. Because he shifted most of his love for us to her and still we were not bothered. But her wicked mum later gave her bad advice for no good reason to call off the engagement. anyways i dnt wana go into that anymore..My brother is happily married now to a delta gal, with 2kids living abroad with his family. And im not sure the yoruba girl in question is married yet becoz i jam her on d road all d time. 2 Likes |
Re: How To Convince Parents That Tribe Doesn't Matter In Marriage? by tommynico(m): 5:20pm On Oct 17, 2017 |
vicben27:You might be right, but when love finds you, it might not be from your tribe. |
Re: How To Convince Parents That Tribe Doesn't Matter In Marriage? by coluka: 5:20pm On Oct 17, 2017 |
tommynico: You are more stupid for not knowing what she said before you jumped into the matter. Go and follow all the rubbish she has been writing about igbos from the front Page. I didn't want to respond to anything anyone writes here but that her particular comment I responded to annoyed me. I decided to give it back to her in kind. You're not the only ones who know how to insult other tribes. If you dish out the insults then you must be ready to receive insults back 6 Likes |
Re: How To Convince Parents That Tribe Doesn't Matter In Marriage? by tossie101(f): 5:21pm On Oct 17, 2017 |
tommynico: Ok thanks . |
Re: How To Convince Parents That Tribe Doesn't Matter In Marriage? by tossie101(f): 5:21pm On Oct 17, 2017 |
tommynico: Lol. Im in a relationship anyway i don think its necessary anymore. |
Re: How To Convince Parents That Tribe Doesn't Matter In Marriage? by Apina(m): 5:21pm On Oct 17, 2017 |
Olabestonic001:You are very stupid(bolded). Did u come across the words yoruba or igbo from my write-up? Or is it d case that u hv mental issues |
Re: How To Convince Parents That Tribe Doesn't Matter In Marriage? by tommynico(m): 5:22pm On Oct 17, 2017 |
tossie101:That is just one fu.cked up family amongst a million others which might have bn better. She wasn't actually meant for your brother, you just have to thank God for the success. |
Re: How To Convince Parents That Tribe Doesn't Matter In Marriage? by GoldenChiddy: 5:23pm On Oct 17, 2017 |
There's a lot of igbo culture being promoted within the igbo-British community. Have a look at the channel. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bPSSJKUIZ98 |
Re: How To Convince Parents That Tribe Doesn't Matter In Marriage? by tommynico(m): 5:23pm On Oct 17, 2017 |
Apina: |
Re: How To Convince Parents That Tribe Doesn't Matter In Marriage? by tommynico(m): 5:24pm On Oct 17, 2017 |
GoldenChiddy: Make we take ahm fry dodo? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How To Convince Parents That Tribe Doesn't Matter In Marriage? by prince123(m): 5:25pm On Oct 17, 2017 |
Reading post here i weep for our youths.With this mentality ours will be worst.I and my family will never ever discriminate against culture or religion.Whoever my daughter or son wants to marry.They are free.Have you ever thought what will make your son or daughter bring someone and say this is the one after all the people they have met.If you take a minute and think you will support them. 2 Likes |
Re: How To Convince Parents That Tribe Doesn't Matter In Marriage? by tommynico(m): 5:26pm On Oct 17, 2017 |
tossie101:It doesn't really matter because someone might need an advice from you on such matters like this one |
Re: How To Convince Parents That Tribe Doesn't Matter In Marriage? by tommynico(m): 5:27pm On Oct 17, 2017 |
prince123: Best comment so far. 1 Like |
Re: How To Convince Parents That Tribe Doesn't Matter In Marriage? by tossie101(f): 5:27pm On Oct 17, 2017 |
tommynico: Yea u are right. Have a nice day |
Re: How To Convince Parents That Tribe Doesn't Matter In Marriage? by tossie101(f): 5:28pm On Oct 17, 2017 |
tommynico: Lol.. Ok i got it |
Re: How To Convince Parents That Tribe Doesn't Matter In Marriage? by tommynico(m): 5:28pm On Oct 17, 2017 |
tossie101:You too, enjoy the rest of the day 1 Like |
Re: How To Convince Parents That Tribe Doesn't Matter In Marriage? by prince123(m): 5:30pm On Oct 17, 2017 |
You need a new God 2 Likes
|
Re: How To Convince Parents That Tribe Doesn't Matter In Marriage? by bigpicture001: 5:31pm On Oct 17, 2017 |
tommynico:...belive me when I say what I say..dou we don't know ourselfs...I hv lives as both a yoruba person and as an igbo person...when I was a yoruba person...we were taught to hate the igbos and the girls told not to marry them...when I became an igbo person..in the inner circles...I noticed a deep hate for the hausa from the igbo angle and a simple un seriousness about the yorubas..they will always hails the yorubas cuz of thier education,criticize them for allege dirtiness,criticised them for being too fearful,criticicise them for too much oil in thier soup, praise them for thier respect for elders, praise them for thier constant use of thier language..in all..they will tell you the yorubas are good ppl but they have to also respond to them insulting the igbos with equal insult..you are seeing peace and love across tribal line cuz your nu dad is igbo...he it were the other way round..you would hv left the family cuz of marginalization and insult...jumoke mä gf..a gal from lag..whom mum is igbo.. and dad yoruba would tell you better 7 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: How To Convince Parents That Tribe Doesn't Matter In Marriage? by Nobody: 5:31pm On Oct 17, 2017 |
Nazeren:The question is if we are interested in you, we are not dear. |
Re: How To Convince Parents That Tribe Doesn't Matter In Marriage? by makoota: 5:34pm On Oct 17, 2017 |
TRIBE MATTERS ABEG. |
Re: How To Convince Parents That Tribe Doesn't Matter In Marriage? by Paulosky1900: 5:36pm On Oct 17, 2017 |
tosyne2much: RESPECT YOUR ELDERS bend-down and listen to them they cum to dis world before u..they have seen tinz dat makes them to say dat..MARRIAGE is not just about LOVE alone,think of ur kids the type of human they will be..E.G fulani tribe are most pretty and handsome bt they have an unforgiving heart and a heart to kill imagin ur child havin a heart to kil,he might kill u one day...BOTH FAMILIES DOSNT SUPPORT THEY SHOULD END IT FOR FUTURE SAKE....IGBO&YORUBA TRIBE IS BIG ENOUGH TO SELECT ONE MAN OR WOMAN AS A LIFE PARTNER |
Re: How To Convince Parents That Tribe Doesn't Matter In Marriage? by tommynico(m): 5:38pm On Oct 17, 2017 |
bigpicture001: It's true what you say, but I hate it when people who should be more logical and reasonable say it's disgusting for them to marry from another tribe just because of some unfounded reasons. Let's marry who our hearts choose, not because of sentiments and if the marriage should fail, it shouldn't be blamed on the tribe or race because we humans accross all spectrum of races have thesame set of good and bad people living among us |
Re: How To Convince Parents That Tribe Doesn't Matter In Marriage? by livinbygrace: 5:43pm On Oct 17, 2017 |
tossie101: How old are you ? |
Re: How To Convince Parents That Tribe Doesn't Matter In Marriage? by tosyne2much(m): 5:46pm On Oct 17, 2017 |
Paulosky1900:Don't get me wrong. This has nothing to do with respecting your elders The bone of contention here is that, why should a matured man let some family members decide who he should marry? |
Re: How To Convince Parents That Tribe Doesn't Matter In Marriage? by tosyne2much(m): 5:48pm On Oct 17, 2017 |
prince123:I guess you read where I stated that he should keep pushing forward till the family would be convinced and reconsider |
Re: How To Convince Parents That Tribe Doesn't Matter In Marriage? by Chukazu: 5:49pm On Oct 17, 2017 |
TruePass:where did the Bible ",tell you to go to your tribe and marry?" |
(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) (Reply)
My Brother Or My Wife, Who Should I Pick? / Man Asks Wife To Pay Back His Money, Holds Her, Children Hostage At Lekki / My Brother's Wife Wants to Sleep With Me
(Go Up)
Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 55 |