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Re: I Beat My Wife. What Would You Have Done Differently In My Situation? by skedman(m): 6:05am On Oct 24, 2017 |
jerryunit48:i am very sure you are not married and that is why you told him to walk away .sooner or later you will become the best of friends which you were, even animals does that .bro she needs your attention more than before. 2 Likes |
Re: I Beat My Wife. What Would You Have Done Differently In My Situation? by sinistermind(m): 6:08am On Oct 24, 2017 |
This was one of the reasons i broke up with my ex. An unforgiven heart and getting angry at trivial issues. Happy another man has carried that burden. I can't even risk it biko and have an unhappy marriage 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Beat My Wife. What Would You Have Done Differently In My Situation? by Kamsichime(m): 6:11am On Oct 24, 2017 |
Bros I don't envy u but in marriage dis is what d pastors will call trusting d "UNKNOWN about ur partener". My advise see ur pastor 4 further guidance. |
Re: I Beat My Wife. What Would You Have Done Differently In My Situation? by luminouz(m): 6:17am On Oct 24, 2017 |
biacan:Lmaoooo U went to all this trouble cuz of his face He is a man!!! Some of us don't give hoots about pimples!!!! |
Re: I Beat My Wife. What Would You Have Done Differently In My Situation? by luminouz(m): 6:18am On Oct 24, 2017 |
biacan:Lmaoooo Ur English is already giving me pimples!! 2 Likes |
Re: I Beat My Wife. What Would You Have Done Differently In My Situation? by maamisco(f): 6:18am On Oct 24, 2017 |
dingbang:. SHAARAAP Ehen! if na u wetin u go do? |
Re: I Beat My Wife. What Would You Have Done Differently In My Situation? by Donkalio: 6:20am On Oct 24, 2017 |
If all that you have said is true, just walk out of the marriage, don't lay your hands on a woman. God forbid, what if in the process she passd out...the law court & the people will be deaf to hear your own story. |
Re: I Beat My Wife. What Would You Have Done Differently In My Situation? by biacan(f): 6:20am On Oct 24, 2017 |
luminouz:hahaha funny man |
Re: I Beat My Wife. What Would You Have Done Differently In My Situation? by biacan(f): 6:22am On Oct 24, 2017 |
luminouz:But you do take good care of yourself can't you see how fresh you look...... so you don't want him to look fresh |
Re: I Beat My Wife. What Would You Have Done Differently In My Situation? by AlanSugar(m): 6:23am On Oct 24, 2017 |
abescom: Ah see. I didn't know satanic and other spiritual battles are no battle. As long as she's fighting a *battle*,then it's all good. Thanks for the correction. |
Re: I Beat My Wife. What Would You Have Done Differently In My Situation? by mysticwarrior(m): 6:24am On Oct 24, 2017 |
NwaIgboBoy:and what has domestic violence got to do with your hate for Nigeria? 1 Like |
Re: I Beat My Wife. What Would You Have Done Differently In My Situation? by khalhokage(m): 6:24am On Oct 24, 2017 |
OP, what are you waiting for, why have you not started divorce proceedings? Or do you want to wait until either of you starts visiting the hospital regularly? Divorce her and send her out of your house before she kills you. 1 Like |
Re: I Beat My Wife. What Would You Have Done Differently In My Situation? by cedeki(m): 6:26am On Oct 24, 2017 |
Like my Boss will always say, a broken engagement is better that a broken marriage, I was once in your shoes but luckily I discovered on time that she was the devil in a sheep clothing's,. Mine actually started unfolding her demonic attitude after the intro and I was worried sick till my white boss observed and called me to counsel, that was when I knew that I had to let go, then wedding were already fixed, cards has printed, venues and cake paid for, wedding clothes already bought but deep down something kept telling to run for my life undermining how much has been spent. one day I just took a decision and called her one morning before I went to work that it's over, that I cant go through with the marriage as proposed, she immediately came over and was crying and begging that I should forgive her for whatever she has done and the way she treated me, but all fell on deaf ears because I know there is no going back, the Dad later called that day, that he wants to see me, I went but told him all I have suffered in the hands of his daughter he begged me to have a rethink and that I should not shame him before his people but I told him that he will not always be there to caution his daughter hence I had to let go. she eventually got married before me and I got married a year after to a very peaceful woman. yesterday was our another marriage anniversary 7 years and still counting. I learnt from friends that she has been giving the guy issues as well. irony of the whole story is that once you sense danger run for your life do not wait to be told, many people do not care to know the reason you beat your wife, all they know is that you are woman beater and not worthy to be called a man 12 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: I Beat My Wife. What Would You Have Done Differently In My Situation? by surveycash(m): 6:29am On Oct 24, 2017 |
selflessmaya:You broke my 1 year observe mode to drop this - God bless you. This is the most matured, educative and insightful post I have read. You are really selflessmaya Thank you. 5 Likes |
Re: I Beat My Wife. What Would You Have Done Differently In My Situation? by Mskrisx(f): 6:29am On Oct 24, 2017 |
Newboss: U verrrry crazy |
Re: I Beat My Wife. What Would You Have Done Differently In My Situation? by luminouz(m): 6:30am On Oct 24, 2017 |
biacan:I look fresh? Oya dash me a like..... ....stress n a lotta things make u get pimples...not only groundnuts!! Cc dingbang......ur needed here bro 1 Like |
Re: I Beat My Wife. What Would You Have Done Differently In My Situation? by holushollah(m): 6:30am On Oct 24, 2017 |
Marriage is not a bed of rose. Nobody has it all. You try to be nice and not complaining, you are a fool. You try to put your partner check, you are in for the unimaginable. I choose the fool aspect because i don't have to talk too much. Bros it is only God that will fight your battle. If you can, pls run � away instead of hitting a lady because our society won't ask what happened. Na e be woman beater them go dey shout up and down. Come dey advocate kakiri |
Re: I Beat My Wife. What Would You Have Done Differently In My Situation? by emmancecute(m): 6:32am On Oct 24, 2017 |
Op, my kind advice to you is to quietly walk out of the union. If your wife can pull a knife at you, then she capable of killing you. Bro, pls don't be a victim, I have a close relative that was stabbed to death by the wife. Pls run for your life bro. |
Re: I Beat My Wife. What Would You Have Done Differently In My Situation? by jedyjedy(m): 6:33am On Oct 24, 2017 |
She's going to kill you @ OP. 2 Likes |
Re: I Beat My Wife. What Would You Have Done Differently In My Situation? by Pearl05(f): 6:38am On Oct 24, 2017 |
I shed tears reading your story because this woman can easily kill you one day in your sleep. She is not mentally stable. She needs to be sent to a psychiatrist. Meet her family and ask about her life story, they might not want to disclose but find a way to get it. Maybe from cousins, aunt etc. As you do these invite the Person of the Holy Spirit in your family to penetrate her. Pray for her always. Show her extra love and care to swallow the bitterness and hate in her. May the Lord heal your home. 1 Like |
Re: I Beat My Wife. What Would You Have Done Differently In My Situation? by Nobody: 6:39am On Oct 24, 2017 |
dingbang:My dad warned me against using this phrase "if na me" ... if na u wetin u go do? |
Re: I Beat My Wife. What Would You Have Done Differently In My Situation? by aduje(m): 6:39am On Oct 24, 2017 |
wrongchoice: ...The best way to deal with a hustle spouse (male or female) is to walk away. It will be easier to walk away if you have not started having children. When a marriage breaks up, people ask questions (relations, church members, neighbourhood people etc) on hearing things like "instead of a monster of a husband or wife to kill me, i better give him/her gap" people will reason with you; even marriage counsellors. Most men who beat their wives never intended to do it...bros, sometimes, a woman can push a man to the wall and even compress him into the wall. If you raise your hand in defense or to prove some authority sign, you are 95% likely to mis-understood. 1 Like |
Re: I Beat My Wife. What Would You Have Done Differently In My Situation? by dingbang(m): 6:47am On Oct 24, 2017 |
luminouz:I just tire for that girl matter... |
Re: I Beat My Wife. What Would You Have Done Differently In My Situation? by lazygal: 6:51am On Oct 24, 2017 |
dingbang: I really dunno why he chooses to stay married to that beast... |
Re: I Beat My Wife. What Would You Have Done Differently In My Situation? by Mrkumareze(m): 6:53am On Oct 24, 2017 |
I rather be a divorcee than a murderer . Please avoid the impending calamity. For clear conscience, talk with her peacefully on how to amend the family and also try to find out your doings which angers her after this let the past off your mind and see how it goes. If no positive changes bro pilot your way! |
Re: I Beat My Wife. What Would You Have Done Differently In My Situation? by japansco(m): 6:53am On Oct 24, 2017 |
Pray over it |
Re: I Beat My Wife. What Would You Have Done Differently In My Situation? by Marvel1206: 6:54am On Oct 24, 2017 |
Selflessmaya your comment was lit. I don't usually read long comments but I did and you really unearthed the truth. Wrongchoice , please follow her/his advice 1 Like |
Re: I Beat My Wife. What Would You Have Done Differently In My Situation? by Myde4naija(m): 6:55am On Oct 24, 2017 |
I am even in worst senario, the difference is you follow all the oyinbo rules, 6years of friendship, 2years of courtship, 6month between engagement and marriage. If truely all the oyinbo rules they work for marriage you shouldn't have any problem at all. I engage mine 6month after we met, yet............... |
Re: I Beat My Wife. What Would You Have Done Differently In My Situation? by emmanuel26: 6:57am On Oct 24, 2017 |
I am surprised why you are not ashamed to tell us why you have to beat your wife. There is no justifiable reason to beat your wife. I am disappointed bro. You duty is to protect her not to beat her. Ask God to forgive you. |
Re: I Beat My Wife. What Would You Have Done Differently In My Situation? by Nobody: 6:58am On Oct 24, 2017 |
[quote author=anishoff post=61695159]Do not beat her. Two wrongs don't make a right. Sit her down and talk to her about the issue intensively and also go for series of counselling and finally pray about d issue fervently and i can assure u the problem will stop because there is nothing God cannot do. I pray for God to give u the grace to hold and control urself completely. It is well[/quote Do not beat a wowan no matter what she did to u' even if u catch her with another man do not torch her' No matter how long u talk to a woman that is quick to anger she will never change,, no matter the type of counselling she receives she will even get worst' only miracle can save her' u have two option' get use to her character or walk away' |
Re: I Beat My Wife. What Would You Have Done Differently In My Situation? by lazygal: 7:00am On Oct 24, 2017 |
wrongchoice: No human deserves,this... Am deeply sorry for what you are going through |
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