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1. Praise And Approval
Men have infamously tender egos. Women should understand that men need frequent reassurance about themselves, their career paths, their efficacy as partners, their sexual prowess, and their attractiveness (among other things).
You will be cherished by your husband if you constantly praise him for those things he is doing right. While it may be true that men need relatively less frequent verbal praise than their female counterparts, this isn’t the kind of gesture that requires keeping score. Why not just have more of a good thing? So ladies, let your praise loose. Tell your man exactly what you find attractive about him. Let him know what physical features of his are your favourites. Tell him how attractive you find it when he says something a certain way, when he accomplishes something, or when he takes you on a date. Your praise won’t make him
cocky; it will help him feel loved. And (bonus) the more you praise his positives, the more you will see them.

2. Respect Him.
Men feel respect as love. If your husband feels like you disapprove of him, his career, or the things that he believes to be integral to who he is as a person, he will have a hard time trusting and loving you. The thought process behind that being “If she doesn’t respect who I am at my core, then how can she really want what is best for me?” If you the wife does not respect your husband's path or mission in life, then he will find it very difficult to feel other than an
anxious need to distance himself from you.

3. A Sense Of Sexual Connection
Both men and women connect through sex and communication, but generally, women connect better through communication and men connect better through sex. Does this mean that your husband need to have sex with you every day in order to feel connected?
Not necessarily. Your husband, more often than not, connect through indicators of sexual access just as much as they do through sex. Often, your husband will initiate sex just to make sure that you are still sexually available to him, if he reaches across the bed for you, even showing the willingness to embrace him, to kiss him deeply, and to romantically engage him could be enough to make him feel loved.

4. Give Your Man Space
By default men are lone rangers while women are intimate. Men are primarily drawn towards independence and the women toward dependence..
It is not for you to draw the balance point. This will always be a balancing act of closeness and separateness. But rest assured, suffocating a man (either by failing to allow him free time or with overly jealous behaviour) is the fastest way to end a relationship. Men need breathing room in a relationship. Your husband need time for his hobbies, time with his friends, and time to toil away on his projects to feel fulfilled.
When women needed to solve a problem, they will connecting with close friends and family and discuss their issues. Conversely, when men have a problem to solve, they would leave everyone to be alone with their thoughts.

So let your husband roam. Let him breathe. Leave your husband play to his devices, whether his car, phone or computer game. He will be man will be very happy for you to receive him when he returns, knowing that you trust both him and the strength of your bond enough to let him have his space.
Did you know that Jesus at age twelve left the company of his parent and family members to hang out with doctors of law in the synagogue for three whole days? Luke 2:42-46.

So if you find your husband or teenage son went and hanged out at a friend's place or at work all day without coming home for lunch just remember that men both young and old need space..


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Slayer2:
Cc: Pynkylypz

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Slayer2:
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Pynkylypz:
Lol.. I know right! Even more. My future husband go enjoy me wella i swear. Op nice write up.

@Pynklylypz that is the spirit. Men always want to enjoy their wives, as a matter of fact when a man can't enjoy his wife his life becomes frustrating and unbearable. It's a man's world but without women it is nothing and meaningless.

Powerhousemm:
@Pynklylypz that is the spirit. Men always want to enjoy their wives, as a matter of fact when a man can't enjoy his wife his life becomes frustrating and unbearable. It's a man's world but without women it is nothing and meaningless.

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Pynkylypz:
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