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Lalas247:
And what’s the value of virginity an educated man talking like an illiterate ...


Making ladies feel that’s all they have to offer a man VIRGINITY
And after the whole passa you guys still cheat
So if what value is it ?
Value to the man ?

If ladies want to keep virginity should be personal choice or religious one , they are keeping it to please men .... really

Asianguy:
Let we the male oloshos marry our female oloshos Let the pure virgins marry themselves

cerowo:
Well said

Finestbae1:
Oponu, is what you are!

Pataricatering:
How is he right, pls ? Having premarital sex is definitely not a mistake as long as you stay safe .

Luckygurl:
Lmao!!
Implicitly

You're absolutely right cos we already have conflicting views on a very important issue.

TimeMod3:
Can you tame a beast?. If you can, let's have a date.

Luckygurl:
Question is , is the beast willing to be tamed
We can start from there first...

TimeMod3:
It's a tall order giving up what gives one a mental relief, but on the other hand, what can the tamer do?

majekdom2:
not all ladies get disvirgined by "preeks"

Chukwudi4naija:
I hope you realize that some things appreciate even when used and some that depreciate with constant use. That is the difference between your thing and his. Besides, you cannot tell if a man is a virgin or not, but one can tell if a woman's thing has been dug and can even detect the depth and breath of the hole. Wisdom demands that one should avoid entangling oneself with what puts him/her at a disadvantage. This can only be resolved if our culture also gives the women folks the right to marry a man they choose at their most favourable time of their life. Till then, pls remain brand new if you can, though I douth you're, in order to command a high bargaining power. No man wants his something to be measured with others because his thing cannot be expanded or reduced even with constant use. It is just the bitter truth.

Blackfyre:
At least you said some guys.

Btw, it's not a crime or bad thing, we all make mistakes and no one is perfect but to continue with the attitude of one stupid mantra of sexual liberality by talking about length of dicks, fat dicks or how natural ot is for there to be comparisons among partners when such a man hasn't shown to be deficient or not willinging to put in his best to satisfy you sexually is unacceptable.

It is an insult upon the man who wishes to make you his personal treasure. Haba, you Bleep them finish, you are now telling me the tale of their length or how there will be comparisons? The issue is the attitude and how much you respected your body.

A woman may have had ten sexual partners, question is how did it get to ten and particularly how do you see those experiences.

PierreDeFermath:
if they bring out stories of some white zoophiles fucking dogs,horses and saying they feel its cool,you would be the first to insult them because you don't practise it,but because you practise this,that's when you know that everybody is entitled to their opinion. hypocrite!!

STILESGANG:
You girls comparing yourselves to men should start sleeping with any dick that comes your way and let's see who would lose..No man wants a public property.

lindabon:
worry about yourself and your virgin bride. don't worry about other women who choose to be disvirgined by "preeks" . Its their bodies and their life. NOT YOURS.

majekdom2:
I can help restore. , FB

Koolking:
"A master key can open many doors, but a door that can be opened by many keys is useless".

...so they say. I believe it to be true

Luckygurl:
Mental relief??
For real?
Tell me more..

The tamer can love deeply and gives it her all, though she can be stubborn. She'll spur you to greater heights and will leave you a better person than you were. That's it in a nutshell

lindabon:
Loose or restore your virginity if you choose to. A man with dignity and self-respect is a must for me. I don't have the time or patience for sex-obsessed men.. Take your STD elsewhere.

majekdom2:
you don't have to take that personal.. do you?

PierreDeFermath:
Even according to Islam,a non-virgin man should marry non virgin girls, strippers,porn artists,way ward girls,ex-prostitutes,etc but decent virgin girls should marry a pure virgin guy with no blemish of sexual dirtiness. But the society we find ourselves is a society of inequality,we celebrate mediocre in our society,that's why Africa is backwards. there are many proverbs in Yorubaland for example that are so misleading and one would wonder the type of ancestors that made such proverbs. I'm a guy myself o but I will always say the truth no matter what

pocohantas:
Thanks jare. I don't know why your fellow men are shifting goal post because of my comment. How are you?

TimeMod3:
I won't tell you more. I rather leave it to you as an academic exercise.

Quite impressive what the tamer can do, however, such things can still be achieved with or without intimacy.
If you would tame a beast, you ease him off it, not take him off it completely.

lindabon:
If extra-marital sex is forbidden for both men and women, according to those who claim that Islam/Christianity/other religions treat the two sexes equally, then why not “seal” or “restrain” men too? The answer is that the illusory chastity belt serves no purpose but to deepen discrimination between the sexes and prevent the sexual maturity of young women while unleashing the sexuality of males. Thanks to patriarchy. And all these despite the fact that plenty of women don't even bleed the first time they have sex? !

So much fuss over a little flap of skin right! I mean, really. It's no wonder that, with these kinds of stakes, there have been as many ways to fake one's virginity throughout history as there have been ways to prove it. Like taking the bladder of a fish, filling it with pig's blood and pop it in your vagina before the big night so that it would burst when you had sex. And today, there are doctors who will actually reconstruct a girl's hymen. The practice is called hymenorrhaphy and, in some cultures, it is done using sheep's membrane while others use catgut to stretch across a young woman's vagina. Occasionally, they will pop in a gelatin capsule full of blood-like liquid that is meant to burst when the girl has intercourse.

Please, worry about yourselves and your virgin bride. Don't worry about other women who choose to be disvirgined by "preeks" . They are doing just fine with their boyfriends, husbands, partners or one night stands. It's their bodies NOT YOURS. Stop obsessing over women that don't belong to you; VIRGIN OR NOT. Virginity is an outdated standard that has been used more to shame than mark sexual initiation. Please keep living in the past and allow others to move on.

Luckygurl:
Lol!!
Academic exercise?
This is more practical than theoritical jare

You're right though
All those can be achieved with or without intimacy.

Ease him off it??
Are you sure the tamer can handle that?

TimeMod3:
You asked that I tell you more about "mental relief" but I insisted you should go read it up (academic exercise)


To your question, I don't really know if it's directed to me or it's rhetorical (can't stop laughing at that. Lol )

MarieSucre:
Your belief does not make it true.

MarieSucre:
Your belief does not make it true.

okoyeokoye:
u better change ur way of thinking

Koolking:
It does not matter what you believe. It's the natural order of thing.

Seen a woman who lives with 4 husbands in one house? But it's not strange when a man lives with 4 or more wives under the same room.

Is my believe still disputable?

Blackfyre:
What does bleeding hav to do with it? The thing enter or ot did not enter? This is very irrelevant.



Na them sabi, it is none of my business what someone does to deceive another person. You will reap what you sow.



I don't see why you quoted me though or allude to being sex obsessed. plus i did not call out any woman i was just making a simple post in contribution to the topic which is; females as well as males should understand the importance of virginity and/or chastity/celibacy.

If you paid careful attention to my post it was the attitude towards it rather than any sort of condemnation.

okoyeokoye:
so what u are trying to say is that it's only da men that can sleep around and then marry virgin to boost them spiritually and physically abi? GOSH the mentality of africans

Luckygurl:
You're now hoarding information ooo
You don't wanna tell me how it provides mental relief to you in particular

Hehehe!!
I was been truthful though
I'm not sure I can handle that, how am I even supposed to start without

I've seen Time.Mod1 and I think Time.Mod2 (the usernames I mean).
Are you one and same person or just pure coincidence?

lindabon:
It's strange for me and a million other people in the world today. But for you, it is not strange because admittedly, we still live in a male-dominated society, so men still make the rules and it's their selfish interest first before anyone else.

Stop shielding your fragile ego with numerous women.


Fact is:
A strong man will rise up to the pain in his relationship, face it, and not run into the arms of other women. He will slowly learn that when he is triggered by his wife, he has inner work to do in himself not use many wives as a form of defense.

A weak man will defend himself and blame his girlfriend or wife, marry more wives and keeps blaming everyone and everything. He also thinks that the world owes him something, or that “it” should be easy, and uses any form of oppression to bring other people down while lifting himself up, including marrying numerous women. He wants what he cannot give. He has no respect for himself so makes every effort to disrespect or demean others

There is a reason why weak men can't handle strong women. That’s because weak men lack everything it takes to be a supportive, adoring partner to a woman who knows her worth and her potential

Are you a strong or a weak man? The choice is yours

lindabon:
It's strange for me and a million other people in the world today. But for you, it is not strange because admittedly, we still live in a male-dominated society, so men still make the rules and it's their selfish interest first before anyone else.

Stop shielding your fragile ego with numerous women.


Fact is:
A strong man will rise up to the pain in his relationship, face it, and not run into the arms of other women. He will slowly learn that when he is triggered by his wife, he has inner work to do in himself not use many wives as a form of defense.

A weak man will defend himself and blame his girlfriend or wife, marry more wives and keeps blaming everyone and everything. He also thinks that the world owes him something, or that “it” should be easy, and uses any form of oppression to bring other people down while lifting himself up, including marrying numerous women. He wants what he cannot give. He has no respect for himself so makes every effort to disrespect or demean others

There is a reason why weak men can't handle strong women. That’s because weak men lack everything it takes to be a supportive, adoring partner to a woman who knows her worth and her potential

Are you a strong or a weak man? The choice is yours

TimeMod3:
I doubt if you can handle that, I'll be shocked if you do. . If you wanna try, my life is an open book.

The other monikers?